Clash of Two Egos...Both are Wrong - Page 3

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Posted: 11 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: prettypri


Would like to add..

I haven't found Sahir overly egoistic... when dealing with people.. He isn't full of himself and doesn't go.. How can they talk to me like that.. Every time someone says something he doesn't agree with!

He has the arrogance that comes with the confidence of a man who has made something of himself and he likes to show his power and that he is is control.

However he doesn't do things to take revenge per se .. like he didn't react when Arzoo threw her phone! He listened to her rant and even looked understanding till she claimed talent was all it took to run the business! After that.. Wanting to show her the truth is not a bad thing!

Arzoo has also shown arrogance besides idealism which is good if accompanied by significant work! She is not thinking before acting.. She didn't realize he hadn't said a word about her not proving the design was hers. First of all he called her in the cabin.. And she didn't give him a chance to speak!
Being an intern and behaving like that would have had her thrown out if the boss was one who thought he was the world!

Definitely she needs a reality check and Sahir needs to know that the world can be beautiful again and innocence does exist still. So i hope that the track ahead is a balanced one that shows this!




Sahir is egoistic but not arrogent or vengeful ... He does not keep grudges or has this revenge mindset but he does challenge people to prove him wrong and if they fail then he says it with pride why he is the superior one which is his ego I feel and its not really wrong to hv a bit of ego especially when u r handling a business .. it just makes u confident ...


Aarzoo too has ego in the sense she always likes to believe she is the self righteous one and noone can prove her wrong .. again I wont call it arrogence but more of a kiddish thing to do especially when she is totally new to this fashion world and is just an intern ..

Both hv thier respective flaws and thats what makes both characters real ... but yes Aarzoo can tone down her lectures a bit 😆😆

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Posted: 11 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: -Ms.Wildcherry-

bahut hi egoistic baaz hain yeh SaAz🤣

wonderful and absolutely fantastic post and analysis😎

Mallu



true 😆 .. lets see how they become love-baaz from here on 😉😆😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: -vandy-

sahir lost his cool only after aarzoo brought in the comment abt saiyyara closing down🤣

now thats where she crossed the line!


frankly...these two are very very similar...in all aspects...similar yet different...
guess this is what makes them perfect pieces of the puzzle called "humsafars...wo jo tumahari zindagi mein tumhara saath dega...tumhare saath chalega



Sayyara closing down was a bit too much for sure 😆 /./ but they did show in the beginning that when she gets angry , she just cannot control herself .. I mean she is the same girl who throws the mobile and it hits his head 😆😆😆 .. so he should expect such mirchi wale comments too from her 😆

I agree they r quite similar yet very different 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: jyoti06



Sayyara closing down was a bit too much for sure 😆 /./ but they did show in the beginning that when she gets angry , she just cannot control herself .. I mean she is the same girl who throws the mobile and it hits his head 😆😆😆 .. so he should expect such mirchi wale comments too from her 😆

I agree they r quite similar yet very different 😳


yea...he can expect personal attacks on him...but saiyyara is his baby😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: butterfly15..

Agree with you, although Arzoo comes off as having a bigger ego to me.

Sahir is the owner of a very successful fashion business, so somewhere he must be doing something right, and a bit of ego makes sense.

I agree here ... Sahir's ego at times makes sense because he did achieve that kind of stardom to hv that ego .. Aarzoo is yet to achieve all that yet .. so yup she needs to tone down a bit here ..

Arzoo however having a go at Sahir didn't make much sense to me for two reasons. Firstly, Sahir personally didn't do anything wrong to Arzoo in this situation, in fact he even gave her two chances to prove the design was hers. This shows he is fair, and does care about creativity and a designers work. If it was all about his ego and he didn't care, he wouldn't have gone home to search for the design she gave him. She couldn't prove herself, but expected him to just accept anything she says, how does that make sense?

I think what Aarzoo did was more of venting out her inner frustration because she could not prove herself .. she dint care it was Sahir or XYZ .. she just had to vent out in front of someone and well Sahir was the one 😆😆... but yes she should hv kept thoda control on her tongue but again this blunt nature of hers might make Sahir fall for her in future 😛


Second point that bothered me was how she tried to insult his business and act like she doesn't need his company, well if that was true, why come to another city to become a big designer? Isn't she the one who said she needs to move and was so happy about being a part of Saiyaara as being part of a fashion house seems like such a success and the road to further success? She was clearly contradicting herself when she made out like she doesn't need his company. I find it funny that although she has done more wrong by him, and he gave her chances she still thinks he is wrong.🥱

she was definitley wrong there but then we should remember it was Alvira who brought her .. its not like she needed Sayyara .. but Alvira definitely needed her 😆 ... yes she wants to make it big but mayb she believes she can prove her talent in any fashion house and need not Sayyara only .. I m not saying she is right but I m just trying to understand why she did what she did .. its also a trait in such girls who r more or less the man of thier house to b self egoistic and think too high of themselves .. and reason why she feels so low of sayyara is probably because Sayyara did steal her designs

I personally liked Arzoo. She was innocent, strong, naive and yet intelligent. But Indian shows tend to always go overboard in trying to show that the small town girl is so much better than the successful businessman or woman. They don't need to.

I agree on this .. I too hope CVs tone her down and not make her those OTT boring female leads again

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Posted: 11 years ago
#26

Originally posted by: BHAVII

Jyoti the epi was good with Saaz sharing same screen and our hero using his vital organ. we got glimpses of a just employer who really appreciate talent.


More than ego I felt it was clash of principles. Arzoo crossed her line as she did not work hard ro get this job. It was more like a child like act who wants to prove her point at any cost else imagine someone telling all this to employer😲. She was Right amd she couldn't prove it. To make things worst her dad crossed her.

Sahir on other hand was like a bitter medicine. He was trying to be a mentor and was teaching his otherwise dramebaaz design baaz some tricks of business.

I have a feeling that she will work directly under him from now on. 😛
And ur Ishhh...Jyoti charas bo diya tune😆

PS whats wrong with the forum.After half a day I am Still on pg1


😲 Aap yahan ? phechana mujhe ?😛

@ bold I agree. Arzoo is overconfident , she speaks , speaks and speaks ... but does very little 😆 I would say she is most pampered or spoilt in Saiyara , thanks to her being favorite of Alvira. Otherwise , no intern will have the guts to say whatever she says to Sahir, he would have fired her !


@ Jyoti nice post 😊 will joint the discussion daily from now on, i was feeling kind of lost till now😆


Edited by -Rojaa- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post. Sahir was going to apologize but held back coz of Aarzoos outburst against Saiyaara. But we forgot that Aarzoo met Sarfaraz be4 meeting Saahir,so maybe tat anger she has removed on Saahir...anyways it wud be interesting to c how the story develops further...
M sure Anam will not be quiet specially if Sarfaraz says tat Aarzoo is his daughter...
Saahirs past...will it connect to their future...interesting to c how d story shapes up...
Harshad as always is doing a splendid job...love his array of emotions he has portrayed n Shivya hasn't disappointed yet...fingers crossed...

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Posted: 11 years ago
#28

Originally posted by: -Rojaa-


😲 Aap yahan ? phechana mujhe ?😛

@ bold I agree. Arzoo is overconfident , she speaks , speaks and speaks ... but does very little 😆 I would say she is most pampered or spoilt in Saiyara , thanks to her being favorite of Alvira. Otherwise , no intern will have the guts to say whatever she says to Sahir, he would have fired her !


@ Jyoti nice post 😊 will joint the discussion daily from now on, i was feeling kind of lost till now😆


Hey Rosh 🤗
i did wish you when you posted last time on Jyoti's post😃
Looks like we like similar dramas. Can i call you Doc now😕?

And she did not work hard to get this job so she is not valuing it what i get from her attitude and actions
Edited by BHAVII - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: BHAVII

Hey Rosh 🤗 Hey 🤗
i did wish you when you posted last time on Jyoti's post😃 oh i came back today only, so didn't see your post.
Looks like we like similar dramas. Can i call you Doc now😕?i lubh Harshad 😳 i wish you could 😆kya bhavi, 3 more years to go, 3rd year will be internship but one thing, i wish to get a senior like Sahir during my internship 😛 😆😆

And she did not work hard to get this job so she is not valuing it what i get from her attitude and actions
Anything that comes easily holds no value ! its kind of weird to see her bragging about her talent rather than putting efforts.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: pria4ever

Nice post. Sahir was going to apologize but held back coz of Aarzoos outburst against Saiyaara. But we forgot that Aarzoo met Sarfaraz be4 meeting Saahir,so maybe tat anger she has removed on Saahir...anyways it wud be interesting to c how the story develops further...

M sure Anam will not be quiet specially if Sarfaraz says tat Aarzoo is his daughter...
Saahirs past...will it connect to their future...interesting to c how d story shapes up...
Harshad as always is doing a splendid job...love his array of emotions he has portrayed n Shivya hasn't disappointed yet...fingers crossed...



I agree .. Aarzoo was already angry after meeting Sarfaraz outside .. so yeah she did vent out that frustration on Sahir too 😆😆 ... again common issue .. both their past somehow results in their mood swings and affects their present .. we know Aarzoo's past related to her father but we dunno about Sahir's past yet .. lets see whether its connected to their futuree 🤔

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