Clash of Two Egos...Both are Wrong

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think both Sahir and Aarzoo have some serious Ego issues 😆 .. Thats where both their personalities will often clash but will not admit their mistakes and thats what will eventually result in both falling in love with each other 😛😆


Today just when Sahir realised its Aarzoo's design after seeing the envelope and decides to not only give her credit but also apologise to her , Aarzoo made the blunder of blasting off Sahir for his business sense and being over confident about her talent ; Thats where Sahir lost his cool and counterattacked her about why she came to Mumbai instead of staying back in Lucknow and proving her talent there ; Sahir did have a point there about how talent will b of no use if one has no marketting sense 🤔 but then Aarzoo too hv a point that without talent or creative skills no amount of business or marketting will work either 🤔 ; Both r right in their respective POVs but both r not ready to accept their mistakes 😆 .. Sahir's ego stopped him from apologising to her about the designs when she questioned his business sense while Aarzoo's ego stopped her from accepting defeat assuming he was not ready to trust her creativity

I see over confidence in both 😆 .. Sahir is over confident that creativity and talent wont work minus branding or marketting while Aarzoo is overconfident that marketting or branding wont work without creaitivity and talent ... One simple question to both ... Madam Aarzoo , if your talent is so big, then why not prove it in Lucknow itself , why u need a big city like Mumbai 😉 ..And Sahir saheb , if your marketting and branding only is everything , then why u want original designs only , koi bhi copy/paste design utha lo from net and put your tag na because only Sayyara tag/brand sells according to u na 😉😛

If you have made a mistake then accept it 😃 ..Aarzoo need to accept that she failed to prove her innocence because of her overconfidence 😃 and Sahir need to accept that his own Sikka is khota here , that is Anam is the real thief here and not Aarzoo 😃... Galti maan lene se koi chota nahin ho jaata and someone need to tell this to both SaAz ...


Anyways its good that both hv such big egos and not ready to accept defeat in front of each other .. More they clash , more sparks will fly 😉 and that will b good for us only 😆


Last but not the least did Sahir really say " Iss Designbaaz mein kuch toh baat hai" ..ishhh ☺️ ... So he knows Aarzoo is special and talented too 😳 ... Mayb he will accept it in front of her too once she manages to sell all those designs minus the Sayyara tag tomorrow 😎

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bhavis thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Is this what happened today😲 Jet speed is it yet again?😕
Will respond later after i watch the episode tonight. But YES Talent without marketing skill is like a road without map. None can reach its destination easily
Edited by BHAVII - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: BHAVII

Is this what happened today😲 Jet speed is it yet again?😕

Will respond later after i watch the episode tonight. But YES Talent without marketing skill is like a road without map. None can reach its destination easily



not really jet speed but I thought it was a good pace minus all other unwanted characters 😆 .. though we did hv some melodrama of Aarzoo's family and also Kurti apa-Alvira face off over some papers that lawyer brings and Alvira warns Kurti apa about it or else she willl tell Sahir .. god knows what r those papers 😕

Apart from that it was all about Sahir-Aarzoo today 😳
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Can't agree more, very well written.. SaAz ego is bigger than anything for then at the moment..
These two have lot of things common in them, good heart, lots of talent but even more bigger is their ego. I didn't like the wu these two go on assume things on each other. Sahir assumes that she's a small town girl who has badi badi khwabein but doesn't have what it takes to make it big in the fashion world. But now it's been cleared, he himself has accepted that Kuch Toh baat hai iss designbaaz meh..!

And Arzoo, she seems to be scared of his curt nature, or even annoyed at his strict demeanour. So she feels that he can't appreciate her talent, and goes on to blame his business ethics. But she doesn't realise that she also haven't done anything to make others trust her claims. Inspite of that Sahir did believed her words and that's what made him to look for her envelope...

So both need to realise their faults and shortcomings and then only they can realise that they have something more than Employee and employer bond between them. But it's not gonna be easy, for them to realise that. I don't have complaints either, let then drag however long they can, as long as they give us our SaAz doses.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well put ! Both were wrong.
I guess this would be apt for both 😆..."If I only had a little humility, I would be perfect."






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Posted: 11 years ago
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awesome post dear..I agree both of them has ego issues 😆 ... and both of them are kinda bad losers 😆 arzoo didn't even realised that she is yelling at her BOSS in anger... I am sure when she will calm down then bolegi... "ye kia charas bo di hmne"...🤣 she is hurt that her design was stolen but more than that she is annoyed that she failed to prove herself... on the other hand we have sahir miyan gotta say that janaab ne duniya dekhi hy so he is a bit more mature 🤣 but we all saw that how difficult it was for him to say sorry 🤣 n then arzoo madam pressed his weak nerve...HIS SAIYYARA... n he was like oh yeah... you think that my brand my skills my name are of no value..lets have a taste of reality madam...try selling your awesome designs under your name...she was confident as if it's her baye hath ka khel and he was acting like some fortune teller who knows that she is going to fall flat..🤣 hayee and sahir is going to be there with her at mall... dunno but y shipper heart wants to believe in the hidden meaning in sahir's gesture that he is there to catch her if she falls...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jyoti the epi was good with Saaz sharing same screen and our hero using his vital organ. we got glimpses of a just employer who really appreciate talent.


More than ego I felt it was clash of principles. Arzoo crossed her line as she did not work hard ro get this job. It was more like a child like act who wants to prove her point at any cost else imagine someone telling all this to employer😲. She was Right amd she couldn't prove it. To make things worst her dad crossed her.

Sahir on other hand was like a bitter medicine. He was trying to be a mentor and was teaching his otherwise dramebaaz design baaz some tricks of business.

I have a feeling that she will work directly under him from now on. 😛
And ur Ishhh...Jyoti charas bo diya tune😆

PS whats wrong with the forum.After half a day I am Still on pg1
Edited by BHAVII - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Jyo nice post n for once I liked the epi..till now very few ones have been able to pls me here 😆

So basically sahir and ARZOO have their own notions abt the business eithcs ? nice
I think it was much needed...cos ARZOO needs to grow up over the innocence n see how the world is n sahir for once has to see tht goodness exists in the world

So ARZOO is ready to "Charas Bou " of marketing n selling l..😆..nice lets see how she does tht

Loved how Alvira got KA to shut up effectively n my god the woman has a secret which makes her stance so confident ...

Loved Anam being told off by KA too

Overall a decent epi ...👏
Edited by ecrivain - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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sahir is egoistic we all know from day one and none can deny that but yesterday he was not wrong ... Arzoo comes across as someone too full of herself and arrogant ... Sahir is also arogant but atleast he has acheived something in his life to be arrogant about ... Arzoo has done nothing and still is so over confident and arrogant ... If anam stole her design it wasnt sahir's fault, he did give her a chance to prove it, if towel came out how is that his fault? Despite that he did not judge her or scold her, even when he called her to office to apologize she acted as if entire thing was sahir's fault when it was not! And her saying sayara mey talent ki kadar nahi was so out of line, she is here to begin with because alvira saw her talent ... How she expects people to recognize her talent without them having seen it? Without her having proved it? She doesnt show up at work on time, reason may be whatever, doesnt want to explain the reason yet she expects to be trusted by her boss without any proof? Frankly it makes little sense ... They need to tone her down a notch, she is always blaming others but not realizing her own mistakes, she has been anything but professional and not just sahir or sayarra no organization will trust an employee who acts this way, realistically speaking.

Also from business POV what sahir said is right ... Talent alone is never enough ... Even if we have to buy plain lawn we ask ye kis company ki hai? Because there r certain brands we trust and know for their quality ... Yes without talent there will be no brand but without marketing and branding there would be no recognition of her talent. I feel what sahir wants to make her undersrand is precisely what we have been saying that to appreciate talent people first have to see and know that talent and that is not possible until u market it!

Sahir did let go of his ego once yesterday when he decided to apologize wven though it wasn't his fault ... Arzoo couldn't even that once, over confidence takes one no where i hope arzoo learns this. She has these big dreams that she wants fulfilled and its not possible till you know the right way ... No matter how much you scream you are a big designbaaz it leads you no where!!!

She is lucky sahir used his brain and figured its her design ... Now he will lead her to success ... Hopefully making her realize the things she needs to understand ... In return her love will bring light in his dark life ... May be that is why they are humsafars!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soaps1

sahir is egoistic we all know from day one and none can deny that but yesterday he was not wrong ... Arzoo comes across as someone too full of herself and arrogant ... Sahir is also arogant but atleast he has acheived something in his life to be arrogant about ... Arzoo has done nothing and still is so over confident and arrogant ... If anam stole her design it wasnt sahir's fault, he did give her a chance to prove it, if towel came out how is that his fault? Despite that he did not judge her or scold her, even when he called her to office to apologize she acted as if entire thing was sahir's fault when it was not! And her saying sayara mey talent ki kadar nahi was so out of line, she is here to begin with because alvira saw her talent ... How she expects people to recognize her talent without them having seen it? Without her having proved it? She doesnt show up at work on time, reason may be whatever, doesnt want to explain the reason yet she expects to be trusted by her boss without any proof? Frankly it makes little sense ... They need to tone her down a notch, she is always blaming others but not realizing her own mistakes, she has been anything but professional and not just sahir or sayarra no organization will trust an employee who acts this way, realistically speaking.

Also from business POV what sahir said is right ... Talent alone is never enough ... Even if we have to buy plain lawn we ask ye kis company ki hai? Because there r certain brands we trust and know for their quality ... Yes without talent there will be no brand but without marketing and branding there would be no recognition of her talent. I feel what sahir wants to make her undersrand is precisely what we have been saying that to appreciate talent people first have to see and know that talent and that is not possible until u market it!

Sahir did let go of his ego once yesterday when he decided to apologize wven though it wasn't his fault ... Arzoo couldn't even that once, over confidence takes one no where i hope arzoo learns this. She has these big dreams that she wants fulfilled and its not possible till you know the right way ... No matter how much you scream you are a big designbaaz it leads you no where!!!

She is lucky sahir used his brain and figured its her design ... Now he will lead her to success ... Hopefully making her realize the things she needs to understand ... In return her love will bring light in his dark life ... May be that is why they are humsafars!


100% echo this!👏
Last lines..

Would like to add..

I haven't found Sahir overly egoistic... when dealing with people.. He isn't full of himself and doesn't go.. How can they talk to me like that.. Every time someone says something he doesn't agree with!

He has the arrogance that comes with the confidence of a man who has made something of himself and he likes to show his power and that he is is control.

However he doesn't do things to take revenge per se .. like he didn't react when Arzoo threw her phone! He listened to her rant and even looked understanding till she claimed talent was all it took to run the business! After that.. Wanting to show her the truth is not a bad thing!

Arzoo has also shown arrogance besides idealism which is good if accompanied by significant work! She is not thinking before acting.. She didn't realize he hadn't said a word about her not proving the design was hers. First of all he called her in the cabin.. And she didn't give him a chance to speak!
Being an intern and behaving like that would have had her thrown out if the boss was one who thought he was the world!

Definitely she needs a reality check and Sahir needs to know that the world can be beautiful again and innocence does exist still. So i hope that the track ahead is a balanced one that shows this!


Edited by prettypri - 11 years ago

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