Kaisa yeh pyaar hai? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Walden

Yaha to bhari barkham discussion ho rahi hain...which (due to my lack of experience 😭), I don't think I can add to much.

But I will say this- Why is it okay to leave/separate from a spouse (if circumstances change/love changes whatever) but not okay to do the same with your family (whom you did not even chose). Why is sticking around the family and providing for your nikamma ungrateful parivar okay and applaudable but if its your spouse, then the same rules don't apply. Why can't a husband be a wife's zimmedari? 😆 I am surprised Indira supported the woman client- I thought she would chide her for washing her hands of her zimmedari 🤣 A bit hypocritical if you ask me 😆

I also couldn't help overlook the irony and hilarity in two nikamma, jobless "lawyers" and the nikamma janta in the audience (who apparently has nothing else to do than be a spectator at this fake adalat) chiding others and each other for being nikamma 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: ashne

You don't have to have experience to add ur thots, Dia😊

Another point i didn't get today was - this lady claimed that she went to court and filed for divorce, which was declined. So how does she expect Indira, who is not a lawyer, to grant her a divorce. Even if Indira wins (don't know what kind of a win that will be) this case, will the husband agree with Indira's verdict. What if RIshi wins, will the wife agree to pay alimony. Is there any legal validity to what is going on in SN. Solving the murga case was fine (i would say weird) but this! Or is this Ila's way of getting the couple (InShi) to talk by hurling abuse at each other😕

Yup, I don't quite get the purpose of this "hitler ki adalat" either. I suppose people of CC are just interested in debating, discussing, and pondering over important social, ethical, moral dilemnas- such intellectuals they are, especially Munna and Inder

Originally posted by: Walden

haha, well true, I could say a lot but I think most of it would be meaningless/inauthentic based on abstractions (even more so than my usual ramblings 😆).

Yup, I don't quite get the purpose of this "hitler ki adalat" either. I suppose people of CC are just interested in debating, discussing, and pondering over important social, ethical, moral dilemnas- such intellectuals they are, especially Munna and Inder 🤣

@bold 1- HD's track record tells me this will probably never happen- this is against the laws of physics in Illa bedi's universe 😆

@ bold 2- Don't know why this tamasha had to happen in a public space but besides that, I thought the content of what Inshi spoke today was just unadulterated truth (from their own perspectives obviously). I don't know if I would go as far as to call it abuse. But I think more than listenting to what the other was saying, they were mostly getting their point across. Not sure how that would help change anything for the better if neither heard what the other said.

Originally posted by: -dear10-

mujhe ye nahi samajh aa raha ki meher apna badla kyon nahi le rahi iss nakli adalat ki shikayat karke or ye adalat jiski property hai usko jail bhijwaker sabko pata hai ye kanooni kaam ger kanooni dhang se ho raha hai ab rajat sharma ne bhi ijajat li hogi aapki adalat ke liye par mujhe nahi lagta hitler ki adalat main kisi ne jaruri samjha hoga 🤣

murga murgi tak to theek tha but talaak kafi badi baat hai ese mudde esi fake adalat main nahi suljhaye jaate shayad or wo lady pati ko badnam nahi karna chahti bhai or kitna badnaam karogi isse achcha to court chali jati padosi tak ko bhi pata nahi chalta ki ghar main kya hua 🤣

And why did her husband even agree to be part of this stupid tamasha Shayad Rishi ne usko apne non-existent paiso se bribe kiya hoga to become his client so he doesen't look like a nikamma Nikamma na dikhne ke drama mein bhi kitna kaam karna padta hain

Originally posted by: Walden

Yaha to bhari barkham discussion ho rahi hain...which (due to my lack of experience 😭), I don't think I can add to much. Pia Puttar please do not cry .🤬.Did I give you heavy dose of my Love Strory ? again and and again I keep making the same mistake . I promise you again that, in future I will keep it very simple so , you will not go though this love deprivation pain. Rember what Rishi said" har kutte ka ek din aata hai " . Now ,I know you are not Kutta . I can differtiate .otherwise I will get badawala lecture.😉

But I will say this- Why is it okay to leave/separate from a spouse (if circumstances change/love changes whatever) but not okay to do the same with your family (whom you did not even chose). Why is sticking around the family and providing for your nikamma ungrateful parivar okay and applaudable but if its your spouse, then the same rules don't apply. Now I am sure some point in your life your mom or grand mother gave you lecture on blood is thicker than water ! I got it on few occasions. Family is God given gift . Parivar ko thukarana is sin😈 .lakin husband ko chodana is nari ka Hukh hai . Why can't a husband be a wife's zimmedari? 😆 Now i must say . you grew up in different country . You need to pay more attention to Indian news paper and laws I am surprised Indira supported the woman client- I thought she would chide her for washing her hands of her zimmedari 🤣 A bit hypocritical if you ask me 😆 hypocrisy ? No ,no ,not in hitlers adalat 🤣🤣

I also couldn't help overlook the irony and hilarity in two nikamma, jobless "lawyers" and the nikamma janta in the audience (who apparently has nothing else to do than be a spectator at this fake adalat) chiding others and each other for being nikamma 🤣🤣 Rishi was at work . R U calling him Nikkamma? You do not have to get paid or have wealthy Clint to make living. Rishi had short cut planned . he is planning to get cut from support money . Now that's my Rishi.👏👏every thing is well planned . Short cuts!!! They do work for him.

BTW I have news for you. Shweta just informed me that Malvika is now head of the creative team and Illa is only producer .no wonder we are got to see few good episodes . So every one please do not curse Ila .Malvika will be honored with Pooja and Aarati. . Attention and warning. plase see the show with Zero expectations like me .So Dia Cheers !!

Originally posted by: -dear10-

mujhe ye nahi samajh aa raha ki meher apna badla kyon nahi le rahi iss nakli adalat ki shikayat karke or ye adalat jiski property hai usko jail bhijwaker sabko pata hai ye kanooni kaam ger kanooni dhang se ho raha hai ab rajat sharma ne bhi ijajat li hogi aapki adalat ke liye par mujhe nahi lagta hitler ki adalat main kisi ne jaruri samjha hoga 🤣

murga murgi tak to theek tha but talaak kafi badi baat hai ese mudde esi fake adalat main nahi suljhaye jaate shayad or wo lady pati ko badnam nahi karna chahti bhai or kitna badnaam karogi isse achcha to court chali jati padosi tak ko bhi pata nahi chalta ki ghar main kya hua 🤣

Originally posted by: Heema22

Ankii 🤗🤗🤗

Ham ne Pukara aur Tum chale aye ?? OMG . I cannot believe my eyes when I saw your first post. I was still at work and I could not wait till come home and read it . Thanks for full filling my dream about talking to you on Kanans thread !

Radhika 🤗🤗 Do you believe we all together again on same thread talking about Love and INSHI ! This is my dream come true .i am flying high . Good days are here again .

Now, my Beja on fire . Very tired, I deleted my post( not this one ) my mistake x 3. So I am going to take short cut like Rishi and not quote you guys . I will read all of them after good night sleep.

We are three married ladies, have experienced love and it's value,Nature and true colors . If you read the thread you will see married people writing though their experience are writing exactly the same POV . Just different words . And not fantasies or fairy tales !

I never was able to define love. I never want experience my life without love. I do not believe that any relationship including husband and wife is unconditional . If its unconditional we will never fight or disagree. When my husband disagrees with me ,I get furious , why? There is expectation and conditions of my relationship make be react and feel rejected! So we do have expectations and conditions .very natural .

Once you find someone to share your ups and downs, downs are almost as good as ups ! I have truly experienced this . Someone in your to life to talk to is one of the fundamental need of human being and that we find in someone we love. So is this love? Some one to talk to share problems and happiness ? May be.

We all have expectations from our love . We need to compromise but often we want other person to compromise more . My friend got married thinking that When she is married she will be change other person ( what a confidence) this did not work and will not work ..you only can change yourself .many people assume things in their relationship . I find that Assumptions are termites of the relationship.

We change with age and maturity and life experiences but our partner need to change with us. If one person doesn't change relationship suffers and some time it breaks !!

Now INSHI . My addiction . They are failing? why? I know why. Rishi had only Indira in his heart . And Indira had too many others in her heart. Rishi had small Corner.one is100% and other is 25 % . unless this matches or changes at comfort level relationship will not improve. .he wants more and she thinks its enough . Expectation of relationship is different for both of them. She is practical and he is emotional . No one is wrong or right. It's all judgmental .both have flaws and they are not taking their time to change themselves .they do not talk. Some times I think that they want other to know how they feel but their relationship never reach that point after separation. No time to adjust .,talking is fundamental need. They both are short temper. Impulsive . Judgmental at times . Condescending . They lack respect for each other . So every thing is needed for happy married missing . Blaming each other will never works. Denying need for each other will not work . Both of them need to give in.

I hope Illa makes this positive relationship and does not keep it cripple for TRPS. It's good see positive relationship who are madly in love with each other.this couple has potential . They can grow with each other, learn to respect and love in healthy way!!

Radhika . I think we were writing post to each other at same time. This is exactly what I said . We just had different words . .we are echoing exactly the same thing .Writing style is different now who can Match Anki ? Not me. I am in wrong business !!

Ankita take a look at my new improved signature !!