Double standards- edited topic : note : 15 - Page 7

in a joint family like indira's there is always a chances of strong personality and weaker personality of siblings, as well as intelligence difference.. what happens in a joint family is stronger/intelligent personality takes the reins .. here there is no difference of gender , but the strength of character and intelligence ... it is not that her brothers cannot take over the responsibility but they bows under the stronger personality like indira's.. now in case they take over, then they will try to make a life for themselfs not for others is the reality of life..

Originally posted by: Surbhi123

..Regarding bringing RP ...you said we are insecure of your hero...the answer was to that...😊
i agree person likes indira exist...and yup if she was a boy...i would have been proud of her...and i am taking about characters only...not a single word on sumit from me has been written till now...

dear, even i had talkd about insecurity about charactr 'rishi' .(what made u thnk that character is my hero ? )Then why did u even think of writing Rp in previous reply. Thats the reason i quoted u try and keep both separate. The word separate didnt appear in my post i thnk earlier. I editd .
And dear, i was sticking to waldens original post and replying to arti_17 on the secnd part of her reply .

Originally posted by: light_28

u said u wud have applauded indira if she was a man. Fine great ! Your view point is over here. The TM had just askd a view and you had fairly placd it.
I appreciate what you said in your post that regardless of the gender u wud have appreciatd the person. I truely thot that i will hit the like button 4 ur reply as i share the same view but then you shut the doors of goodness when you further brought Rishi
ahead. There was no need to bring rishi in and say that he has nt taken up the responsibilty. No one had askd u to drag the topic to rishi. I dnt undrstand the psychology why u all are so attachd with "Rishi" !! What the hell makes u feel that Indira wil fall low if rishi gets praised ? What is there within your mind that makes you so so insecure ? And the way u have written that jst becz u feel rishi is being applauded 4 every damn thng u wil cum everywhere to applaud indira clearly tells that u have actually cum here with a mentality to deviate the topic.
Walden has raised a topic not to applaud or demean indira or rishi. He invited all fairly to the discussin. He didnt even mention Rishi- the character. He wishd to view the show frm a diffrnt angle. SO i dnt undrstand why u ask him to have a luk at the other posts and compare it with his. Do u think he wil do that ? Do u ever heed to such free advices ? Why do u think this post is meant to question indira ? And jst becz u have the prejudice u cum here to spread ur mentality and go on with anything that u feel is the idea of the TM !
Walden this is 4 u: you got a reply deviating ur topic in second place itself. You shud have immediately hit the report button.
The second part of the reply given by the fellow member above where she went on with rishi vs indira posts is just out of the world of your topic.
Such deliberate attempts to bring in the bashing factor are too much now

Originally posted by: arti_17

awesome post uk👏👏

women r always degraded n considered lesser than their male counterparts...so wen she does sumthing praiseworthy then why nt give her d necessary footage...?

Thanks shilpa! Indira sharma character is like a change for girls in today's world. So definintely it's praiseworthy. The impact of this character hasn't gone unnoticed and this is the reason that Hitler Didi's dress is a part of some college uniform.

Originally posted by: tabu31noor

itni faltu ki disscussion me time waste na kar aap logone HDIAN bun ke RP ko vote kiya hota to hum TC POLL jeet jaate bhai...iss tarah divided rah kar kissi ka bhala nahi ho raha hai just look at SARUN Fans yaar

Originally posted by: Heema22

Thank you Tabu. I was about to write some thing very similar but you did better job ! Thanks

TM had totally different discussion in mind !! This post need to to be close . WLden you need to report this !!

We all watching the show. Yes, each of us have different reason to watch it . Do not spend your time on rebuttal each other out of context .No one is right or no one is wrong. Every one has opinion and they want to express it. Why do you spend so much time defending actor or role he or she plays !! This topic was about double standers!! For both male and female !! Stay with the topic ,

Like TAbu said if you have spend this much time voting for our Stars they will appreciate it more than these discussions which will give them no boost!! Voting and winning pole will definatly make more appreciative of thier fan.so next time when polling start spend your time voting !! They would have won the race.

I will not visit this thread again so save your time and go vote for Rati and or Sumit

Exactly everyone has right to speech, express his/her opionion. And this topic itself allows a debate,so it's obvious people will maintain opionion just as you,TM and I do and there's nothing wrong in it. A healthy debate, constructive critisim and defense are part of a public forum. I do not find any valid reason for the topic to close. Every topic will have agreements and disagreements. Till the time we have agreements, we feel happy but when we express disagreements, it irks. Why? I never saw a good debater loosing his/her temper when his/her points are cut.

Originally posted by: arti_17

its u who is getting insecure n personal over here...

d topic itself is abt gender inequality...inequality in itself is abt comparison...hence only one facet cannot b discussed abt without discussing d other...rishi belongs 2 d other gender i guess, so he was mentioned by me...

other thing is u r free 2 report my post if u hv found anything offensive said against anyone...

thirdly u dont need 2 attack d whole fangrp 4 a comment by 1 member...i 4 1 can nvr feel insecure abt Rishi bcos he just doesnt come up 2 those standards...d most complicated character of HD written by d cvs till date...

its nt in my tactics 2 criticise Rishi in order 2 bring indira up...she already is thr up acc 2 me in terms of characterisation, responsibility, attitude n d list goes on...

if u dnt agree its ur choice...

its u who is deviating 4m d topic n bringing up other issues of fangrps in between...

Fangroup or fan or rishi fan or indira fan was nt used by me even once. Nor when i quoted you or surbhi123. It was Surbhi123 who first used the word "fan" in her reply to me. She told me that she is a fan of well knwn actress RP. Dnt knw why ?
Anyways thanks 4 clearing me that why you thot the need to mention rishi in your the first most comment . My issue was only wid that and i got it that u wishd to take rishi as the eg to explain the other side. Thanks.