Originally posted by: arti_17
I would have definitely applauded Indira even if she was a man...bcos considering d kind of family dat she needed 2 feed n take care of is horrendous...regardless of the gender anyone wud acknowledge d fact dat a sole person is taking care of the whole family without expecting anything in return...n wen d family in question is sharma family den dat person certainly needs 2 b appreciated be it indira or shweta or evn rishi..bt rishi has nvr been shown 2 take up any responsibility as well hence d woman power rules in HD...😛
evn wen vidit was supposed 2 enter all wer anticipating dat he n indira will manage SN bt things turned out 2 b different...
n its just nt abt praising Indira all d time...ppl around her r nt evn worth appreciating n thats what makes her all d more gr8!!! if anyone in her family would hv atleast cared 2 share her responsibilty i wud hv definitely applauded dat person 4 doing so be it male or female...
plus in our society if u see a single father managing his kids n home as well his work he is always thought highly of...in a similar manner if a woman does so why cant she be appreciated...??? a housewife is nvr given credit 4 managing a family...dat can give rise 2 another debate...
n i guess u hv just read posts whr Indira has been applauded bt probably conveniently ignored posts whr she has been bashed n Rishi has been considered gr8 4 every damn thing dat he does...so i guess evn she deserves a word of appreciation 4 her selfless deeds...!!!!!
i wonder if ppl hv problm wid Indira being given d limelight n praised or they really do want a change in perception 2wards d society...😕
finally its a matter of perception n nt hw forward our thinking is...as sumone replied in ur post dat if she were a man no 1 wud hv applauded her..i dnt think so...4get d society we shud start wid ourselves...if we cant appreciate her nw we will definitely nt appreciate her evr...!!!!!
first of all shilpa,BINGO to whatever you said👏👏👏
and in our society ther r still some ppl who thinks that women can only be at home...and womens are worthless,,
@bold-yup i so agree with you why in our indian society a housewife is never given credit fr managing the family,,its a very big responsibility and alone women hv to look after her family her childrens bt have you seen a single person giving credit to any of housewives,,a biiiggg NOO,,still in many areas of our country thr r very less respect fr womens,,in such society a strong character like indira is just unbeleivable..and still,i in indian society in some parts most of the men are hypocrites,,in indian male dominated society nobody is likely to question their activities as long as they are providing their families with basic necessities n comforts,,n most of men have extra martial affairs too and in such cases a women having childrens are forced to turn a blind eye fr entire situation,,the truth is tht women were never weaker but they are made weaker in our society n india is still a male dominating society,,We see physical domination in some familes too.
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n lastly we only have to try our best so that both of them get equal chance to expand their wings & use their potential to the maximum by complementing each other.. be more patient ,be more tolerant & be more strong ...woman is symbol of that...!!
Edited by ShreyuArTi4eva - 12 years ago