Nikhil the Martyr ......

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Posted: 11 years ago
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While I agree with Nikhil to some extent on the other hand him blaming Laajo is not right either.

He said something to this effect in Friday's epi:

You've said what you wanted? After doing all of this, I have to listen to this too? So your life wasn't ruined, I ruined mine! For you I fought my whole family. I've loved Ishana for 7 years, and just for you I almost lost her as well! At all times I have stood by you. Tell me Laajo, what is it that you need that you will make you happy tell me...

Yes he married her to save her but at the same time had he informed her family or her that he loved someone else, perhaps they would not have married her to him. If he had told her parents that this marriage would be in name only because of his love for Ishana perhaps they wouldn't have married Laajo to him. He didn't tell Laajo until after he took her back to Sonvarsa to dump her at the request of his mom. So how can he blame Laajo? This is a decision he took all by himself with no one other than his grandfather and aunt knowing about Ishana (with the exception of his friends that were with him of course). So while I agree that Nikhil saved her for him to act like a saint or a martyr is just not right. I'm sure she did not expect to end up having a married life like the one she is having. She's been coping admirably with all of the hatred shown to her from his family members (with the exception of Samrat and his children)...I cannot believe he felt that she did not have the right to declare how she felt! How dare he say...so this is all that is left for me to hear after all that I've done for you? What is he a bloody saint that no one can say anything at all to him😡


I have to say, other than the time he's stood up for Laajo with his parents at the beginning of the show, I have zero respect for him right now. It seems he can only be nice when and if it suits his mood (or his "Ishana's" feelings).🤢


I cannot wait until Laajo leaves him and his pathetic excuse of a family (minus Samrat and his kids of course😊).


Let him have Ishana and her scheming ways...

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Poojaa_P thumbnail
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i totally agree with you!!
I feel the same. its not fair at all.
Yes this marriage is a compromise but he knew taking this decision, it was going to ruin three lives. you wanted to be the hero, now stop complaining.
either he should accept that marriage was the biggest mistake and leave her
OR give it some time and stop making her feel as if its her fault.

Yeah mee too, just want Laajo to go away from him, then only he will realise what she has done for him and his family.
but it seems so soon for her to go back, they havent spend much time together for nikhil to feel something for her..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Perfectly said, Laajo has the right to vent out her feelings and Nikhil should understand them
What Nikhil said is also right but in order to avoid complications like u said he should have made his situation clear to her family in the village itself.
This is the first time Laajo had clearly told her feelings out and Nikhil instead of understanding it took it into the other way and made her feel guilty
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I have nothing left to say you said it all.
Any time I was pissed off at him in the past I still maintained he was insensitive but he has crossed all boundaries and has become a complete jerk and 🤬hole. on serious mention he is blaming Laajo for the decision that he consciously took. she didn't beg him nor did she plead for him to marry her he did it for himself to help her out. he ruined his own life, he threw away his love for Ishana, he was the one that jeopardized the seven year relationship that he has for Ishana not Laajo. I'm not really watching the show as its just too many negativity and im tired of Ishana-Barkha-Nani team monopolizing over Laajo. its getting frustrating and annoying and all i want right now is for Laajo to leave already and to find someone. never had i ever wanted a couple to be separated more so than right about now.
Edited by najialuv88 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Poojaa_P

i totally agree with you!!

I feel the same. its not fair at all.
Yes this marriage is a compromise but he knew taking this decision, it was going to ruin three lives. you wanted to be the hero, now stop complaining.
either he should accept that marriage was the biggest mistake and leave her
OR give it some time and stop making her feel as if its her fault.

Yeah mee too, just want Laajo to go away from him, then only he will realise what she has done for him and his family.
but it seems so soon for her to go back, they havent spend much time together for nikhil to feel something for her..




Agreed. He did want to play "hero" as Ishana had put it so he shouldn't be complaining now and trying to make it out that it is Laajo's fault. If anything she's the least to blame. She was just a puppet between her family, Nikhil and Nikhil's grandad. They are the ones that made the decision for her. If he had gone to her first and explained everything to her and she still agreed/wanted to marry him, then he could blame her but not now! She was even willing to tell her parents that he was leaving her that time he agreed to his mom's wished but he was the one (again) not being able to leave her their as he would have "fallen" in the eyes of her parents.

I want her too leave soon as well but I agree that they haven't spent nearly enough time with each other as really the only "real" time they spent with each other was when the went back to Sonvarsa for a couple of days...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Desigirl_21

Perfectly said, Laajo has the right to vent out her feelings and Nikhil should understand them

What Nikhil said is also right but in order to avoid complications like u said he should have made his situation clear to her family in the village itself.
This is the first time Laajo had clearly told her feelings out and Nikhil instead of understanding it took it into the other way and made her feel guilty



Yes, definitely he should have made the situation clear to everyone before taking this big step in marrying Laajo. He's definitely screwed not only those 3 lives but also has will cause problems for all members in Laajo's family plus currently Ishana's mom too. So that is 8 lives if you don't count Nani and Barka😆.

I'm glad Laajo told him her feelings but I hate the way Nikhil turned it around and made her feel like she had done something wrong by sharing. She has taken everything everyone has dished out at her for the whole time she has been there and the first time she dared to say something he laid the guilt trip on her. What a joke🤢
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: najialuv88

I have nothing left to say you said it all.

Any time I was pissed off at him in the past I still maintained he was insensitive but he has crossed all boundaries and has become a complete jerk and 🤬hole. Yes, he has!😡
on serious mention he is blaming Laajo for the decision that he consciously took. she didn't beg him nor did she plead for him to marry her he did it for himself to help her out. Exactly!
he ruined his own life, he threw away his love for Ishana, he was the one that jeopardized the seven year relationship that he has for Ishana not Laajo. Agreed!! He made the decision but isn't man enough to admit it. She would have left him too when he went to drop her off but he is the one that brought her back. So not once but twice, he is the one that brought her into the house. Why the heck is he blaming her now???
I'm not really watching the show as its just too many negativity and im tired of Ishana-Barkha-Nani team monopolizing over Laajo. its getting frustrating and annoying and all i want right now is for Laajo to leave already and to find someone. never had i ever wanted a couple to be separated more so than right about now. Odd fans aren't we? Most want their lead couples to unite and here we are anxiously awaiting the day they separate.😛




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Parm.

My replies below:




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Edited by najialuv88 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I feel Nikhil didn't do anything for Lajjo, he married her and brought her to his house and dumped her in one room. He didn't even protect her from a servant like Shaila, how can he let her insult Lajjo.

He could have tried to teach her city life, he could have sent her to. College to study, he has money he could have bought a small apartment to stay and study.

There are so many possibilities, but he didn't try anything, just ran after Ishana. He is a coward that's it.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Well said👏
He is a looser. What is he doing with his life? other than other than planning dates with Ishana🤢
He always says Lajjo is his responsibility...hmm...I wonder how he is supporting her financially? does;t he needs to support her by his own means rather than depending on his parents?

One word for Nikhil...get a job dude!!

Edited by KambakthIshq - 11 years ago

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