If Arpita actually dies......

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hi guys,
I have been silent member of india-forums for over an year now, but have never made comment or post; however at this point I couldn't keep myself for not putting my two cents in

so i arpita dies, the two people who are going to (or maybe should) suffer the most are going to be
1) Bhauji......how can she live with that...i don't really watch that many indian soaps (just yeh rishta and Gunahon ka devta)....so not sure..but i don't think any antagonist could be so evil.....isn't she scared of god?....if it was real...i would be so worried about this kind of person.....if she is a normal human, she gotta feel bad after her death....who wouldn't? I would be so disgusted with myself.

2) Avdesh.....this guy is gonna feel like committing suicide after he finds out the truth.......even if he doesn't, he would rather be mad at her for cheating, but still have her live rather than die.......from personal experience....even you just have a small every day fight with the person, but after that you never see him to reconcile the differences....it hurts like a dagger through your chest....its like you can't breathe, eat, sit or stand up.....now i'm crying cuz i had a small fight (funny not serious at all) with my fiance on Sept 11, 2001 before he went to work at his law firm in twin towers.......n i wished him on his face that he shouldn't have a good day...i didn't really mean it n knew we would make out probably at lunch or when he gets back from work........i never saw him after that......n it hurts like hell.........i live in guilt 24/7 even though now i am married to a wonderful guy with three kids. I named my boy after him...we keep him in our prayers....but nothing is good enough.....gosh now i'm bawling so hard........n avdesh (i know its not real..but still) he is gonna go through the same thing...... probably worse......

guys i'm sorry if i wrote too much or anything against rules of forums...........

god bless

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey randomesoul😃
Welcome to the forum dear🤗🤗
me really not in a mood to comment if Arpi really dies, which i never ever couldn't bear the thought. If dies in the eyes haweli ppl and Rai's masion's ppl then its ok. But if Tanvi comes back with another avatar not Arpi but look alike then its not my GKD anymore.
Im so sorry for u as the story of urs (before ur marriage) is really a heart wrenching one though u did not mean it but as its life , im happy for u as well u move ahead in life and got 3 wonderful kids. I can understand its not easy to forget some one whom around u were built ur dreams to live with him forever. Ur hubby really have a great heart naming ur child after ur fiance's death.
hope u really enjoy on this forum as its a kinda family after family.Me say a global family.
Edited by BenNevis - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Welcome randomsoul to GKD family🤗

Hope you have loads of fun here
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Posted: 14 years ago
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welcome to the forum and i think above ben has said all.
its a show but it does show some kind of attachment or reality at times


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Randomsoul,
Welcome to the forum. Your story is truly upsetting, don't know how to reply becuase I can't even imagine your situation but I'm happy that you have a loving husband and dear kids. Sometimes we say things that we never really meant but its too late, to pull back those words. Please, don't upset yourself by thinking of the incident. One of my friend's friend had died in the 9-11 attack and I can still remmber that day in school, where my grade 3 teacher came and informed us about the devastating news. I live in Canada, and the U.S. is down south, so it was truly horrifying to learn about the incident. I am just praying that Arpi doesn't die but if she is replaced by a new avatar by Tanvi, then I might be ok. Don't shoot me for this, but I really like Tanvi and I don't want her to leave this show. Although, I would not be happy with the pairing of new Arpi and Avi, at least Tanvi will remain in the show. Sometimes, we have to accept harsh circumstance, it took me until this morning to get this realization. Life is very unpredictable, we are all meant to die at a particular moment and there is no way in avoiding it. Although, we will blame someone initially for the loss, we will soon accept it as fate. Sometimes, I feel like this Earth is too sinful, and only a few blessed good being are granted a better world (after-life) away from this cruelty. Thus, someone as pure like Arpi deserves a better place to be appreciated and God has asked for her company. Soon Avi will join her in the new world. I don't believe in ghost but afterlife and recarnations. People are born to fulfill their destiny and after that they leave this world, they must suffer for all the sins before going to a better world. This is why Avi, BJ, and RV lives. Avi has done some sins unintentially as a gunda and thus he must redeem himself. Will BJ and RV are the greatest sinners and they will deeply suffer before leaving this world. Once, Avi fulfills his destiny, he will leave this world. I am not sure if Arpi is dead, but when her death comes, she will be in a better place.
Edited by Sidda8 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hello Randomsoul, welcome to the forum.
Very sorry to read about your loss on 9-11. I can't imagine how hard it must have been for you to think about the last words spoken to your loved one, the only consolation is knowing that those words were not ment to hurt him, and I'm sure he knew that. I'm glad that you are now married with children, and that you have a supportive husband.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: randomsoul

Hi guys,

I have been silent member of india-forums for over an year now, but have never made comment or post; however at this point I couldn't keep myself for not putting my two cents in

so i arpita dies, the two people who are going to (or maybe should) suffer the most are going to be
1) Bhauji......how can she live with that...i don't really watch that many indian soaps (just yeh rishta and Gunahon ka devta)....so not sure..but i don't think any antagonist could be so evil.....isn't she scared of god?....if it was real...i would be so worried about this kind of person.....if she is a normal human, she gotta feel bad after her death....who wouldn't? I would be so disgusted with myself.

2) Avdesh.....this guy is gonna feel like committing suicide after he finds out the truth.......even if he doesn't, he would rather be mad at her for cheating, but still have her live rather than die.......from personal experience....even you just have a small every day fight with the person, but after that you never see him to reconcile the differences....it hurts like a dagger through your chest....its like you can't breathe, eat, sit or stand up.....now i'm crying cuz i had a small fight (funny not serious at all) with my fiance on Sept 11, 2001 before he went to work at his law firm in twin towers.......n i wished him on his face that he shouldn't have a good day...i didn't really mean it n knew we would make out probably at lunch or when he gets back from work........i never saw him after that......n it hurts like hell.........i live in guilt 24/7 even though now i am married to a wonderful guy with three kids. I named my boy after him...we keep him in our prayers....but nothing is good enough.....gosh now i'm bawling so hard........n avdesh (i know its not real..but still) he is gonna go through the same thing...... probably worse......

guys i'm sorry if i wrote too much or anything against rules of forums...........

god bless

sorry to hear about your story😭
Edited by swamini5 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey Random soul,Welcome sweet heart..Hope uu have loads of fun here... Say hi!! to ur lovely kids.. Never look back all of us have made mistakes onlt the brave move on..God bless!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Hey randomsoul........

All are so right ! Dnt wry..Dnt be guilty ..I knw ..its hard
.My frend lost her fiance in mumbai train bomb blasts...... I knw it was too hard fr her...She just brokedown..... We all helped her overcome this.....nw she is fine..working and moved on..still we all knw she hasnt frgotten anything....bt we are there fr her always...Now..she smiles and laughs...
Dnt think abt past....! wht happnd has happnd......We cant change it....
God Bless!!! nd have fun here....................
Edited by prash_t - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: prash_t

Hey randomsoul........

All are so right ! Dnt wry..Dnt be guilty ..I knw ..its hard
.My frend lost her fiance in mumbai train bomb blasts...... I knw it was too hard fr her...She just brokedown..... We all helped her overcome this.....nw she is fine..working and moved on..still we all knw she hasnt frgotten anything....bt we are there fr her always...Now..she smiles and laughs...
Dnt think abt past....! wht happnd has happnd......We cant change it....
God Bless!!! nd have fun here....................

Prashu..Tu badi cute hai!!😊

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