The Vow Dissected...Random Thoughts-updt Pg 3 - Page 3

thnx vista di😊

Originally posted by: vista90pro

Hello everyone🤗,

Hope the weekend, and life in general is treating you all well😊

OK, so I watched the Fri episode and thought of updating this dissection, that had been based off of the promo. Well, this part at least, was spot on:

Also, at some level, he feels guilty for:

• Defying his hitherto guiding star, aka Bhouji
• Falling in love and being happy with Arpita when B has never known the pleasure of married life.
• Seeming to get on with his life when the family business of revenge was still pending.

This is, perhaps, the reason that prompted him to make the vow, to somehow punish himself for his transgressions of the past few days. What he seems to have missed out on is, that this decision directly affects another person, who incidently, happens to be his wife of few hours. An eighteen year old girl who put herself in mortal danger in order to be with him.

After watching the episode, it is clear that more than anything else, our dear boy (ODB), is an emotional fool. BJ's theatrics, the sound and fury of the staged drama, her rhetorical barbs, all succeeded brilliantly in sending him on a major guilt trip.........that culminated in the vow.

At that moment, in his mind, he didn't think of Arpita as the love of his life....rather, she was a distraction who had caused him to lose his focus and hence, was to be shunned. Then again, I think, on another level, his heart knows that Arpi will be his through thick and thin, and will support him in this decision. He thinks, she will realize how important this revenge business is to him and understand......and will stand by him..

Coming to Arpita's reaction..............talk about being OTT. Careening through corridors and crying bitter tears at the bedside.........seriously? She just exhibited the immaturity of her 18 years.....I would have much preferred if her tears had been for the way Avi stopped her from speaking and stormed off without a backward glance at her, rather than her fixation on SR. The focus was all wrong, IMHO. I just hope they redeem her some in Monday's epi.

Also:

1. Avita wedding did not take place on the death anniversary of the elder thakurs. BJ says "it was a happy day like this", not this date.
2. "Haath nahin lagaoonga" is a colloquialism that means "will not have physical relations." So I don't think we need to take it literally.......we may as yet have handlocks.😃
3. In the precap, BJ is essentially gloating that she was successful in keeping Avi for herself.....and away from that 18 year old.

Hopefully, this next week will be better than Fri and we will see Avi show better sense and at least, think back on the timing of the song and dance and begin to get some inkling, however vague, about BJ's intentions. Or, maybe this is too much wishful thinking😕

Will wait to see what you all think.

Thanks for reading.

Vista

Originally posted by: chatterbox

i want to add a bit here regarding arpi

she is just 18 yr old

and all of u here who r just near that age
put urself in her shoes and try to understand her \mind

she dared to speak against her father and that pappu and all that and took firm step to be with the one she loves

and yet what did she know abt avdesh at al

coming frm the background where her father was total mcp and had no respect whatsoever for women
she finds avdesh the kind of guy any woman wud want to be with..

even being a gunda he has a lot of decency and respect for woman
hence she just fell in love with him..

she is 18 had dreams in her eyes and didnt know the harsh realities of the gundas life or for that matter any reality of avdesh,

she thought all wud be rosy rosy

and as soon as she had come to haveli she had to bear the taunts of bauji
only love she got was frm avdesh and ammaji

goons respected her

bt she doesnt understand bauji
and what avdesh told she is agreeing to be with him in all situations

so why do we say she is immature

coz she doesnt know anything abt what has happend in haveli

she only sees avdesh and his love
i wont blame her at all

and now we hv to see how her character shapes up in future tracks

wud she be avdesh biggest support and his shield

or wud she be typical bahu all naive and rona dhona