i agree; the more you poke someone, the more they'll get annoyed and walk away from you. just a bit of distance might be what gulaal needs to realize that kesar's absence does affect her.
lol reminds me of the movies where the guy doesn't get the girl when he follows her around and gives her importance. but when he stops pursuing her, that's when the girl comes after him.
and at this point, i would love masala. the new episodes make me pull my hair off.
and yeah, please no using talli to make gulaal realize her love. no matter what, i just cannot tolerate her being in the equation again.