1. Why Gulaal carries a photo of Vasanth to where ever she goes?
Because she wants to lol, Vasant picture is the one things she can have around and nothing else, what else can she hold onto, i dont think she has ever grieved for him properly, coz his body was never found and those little time she spent with him, are so precious for her, and not only that Vasant is the bridge and one person in Kes-Gul that is important and loved dearly'
Lets not forget, she has carried all of Vasant's dream and promises forward and for her, in the last 10 years always been and felt Vasant's - and thats what she has seen her life be and would be like... she never once thought it would different. And the one thing she has to live with, is knowing how and why Vasant is not with her today, i have said it makes a difference if it was random unfortunate accident and he died like that, atleast there could of been mourning and she didnt know, but Gulaal knows this wasnt a accident and who did it and why, something that she has to live with and so on, and learnt to live with, and knowing that Vasant would of wanted that as well, not anyone knowing and so on and keeping his family together
2.) Why Kesar is tagged as an immature boy?
Tagged is a good name, coz i find that is what is coming across on-screen - Kesar since last week, has come across - all the labels that have been mentioned because thats what they have getting across i feel - Childish, stubborn, immature, forcing, begging etc - because i feel that is what they were trying to get across in the last two weeks... and yes a man and boy we are seeing (esp thnaks to Srushti, taking me back to child Kesar, when i see child Kesar (AliHaji) Kesar behaviour doesnt seem OTT as a person the Kesar we know, but as an adult Kesar, you just think well this looks all the labels we have said
But i wont call him immature coz he isnt as such, coz we know the deep thinking brain he has - such simple thoughts and view at the world he has, and he has qualities of maturity which hasnt reached it full potential and its there, i have alway said that, he can be so much more...
I very much agree on He is straight forward and has enough courage to face the consequences of his straight forwardness and the guts to admit his mistakes, where Gulaal often fails. I think these can be seen as the signs of maturity. All these together is what makes him he the Kesar. - and the very things that make Kesar is the ones he can carry forward to emerge the growth in him and strength from his love.
I do have to say, that a few ppl have told him, about his forcing and pressuring, which he still didnt get it... which was the frustrating bit i find for me, but for Kesar he in himself was like, i havent done anything wrong, my intentions arent wrong... pov he had
3. Gulaal and Kesar?
She has to realise that how much he values her and that his love is unconditional. Atleast she can respect and accept/understand his love even if she cannot reciprocate it in the current mental state.
And this is the very thing Kesar wants her to see and believe it, he isnt even asking her to feel the same thing, but to see his love and accept it that is love, that pure unconditional love he has for her... knowing Gulaal she is forcing herself not to see it as such - she just doesnt see it or to make her believe that its actually Love, and labelled it attachment and so on (the things he did last two weeks aint helping, coz they actually do say at one point its - attachement)
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