Copy pasting from the other thread with some additions,
Her problem is she wants, Jaisa chal raha tha waisa chalne doh
She had no problem working under AJ's satta cause, somewhere AJ's sashan was her views too.Those were according to her own image of perfection.
So working under him, as his slave under his ways which used to aline with her own views, her delusional self might have thought she was running the house. But she didn't realize the truth till Guddu's entry.
Before Guddu's entry, her words had importance, even if AJ was the head of the family & holding all powers. He would take her words into consideration cause of which she used to feel respected & much superior in front of the other 2.
She wanted a saas who would be her puppet & just a shield for her from AJ's wrath which he would fire anytime before & that's the only thing she had problem with i.e. AJ's wrath on her. She felt whoever comes, would really never have a real place in AJ's life but they can be safe from AJ's wrath by putting all the blame of every mis-happening that irks AJ on the puppet saas's head.
But Guddu being Guddu instead created more problems for her & even before marrying her AJ kuchaloed her guroor by making her apologize to guptas & then even blasted at all 3 openly in the announcement party when they tried to insult Guddu.
On wedding night even after displaying the tashan downstairs, AJ made it clear, if she wants to leave, she can leave but he won't kick out Guddu.
After marriage, even if they tried to put the blame of their doing on Guddu, AJ showed them "thenga" instead & hardly said Guddu anything much even on on her big big blunders [which may or may not be made by her but was presented as such]
While before he would blast at them even if they did uch-nich in putting the right amount of sugar in kheer.
Later on he blasted at them for Guddu i.e. cooker incident, drunk Guddu.
So baazi puri tarah se palat gayi.
Before she used to think after AJ, she is 2nd in command in the house as she is next in line in the perfection but now a "galtion ki dukaan" is standing next to AJ & is given the authority of same level.
Dadi has ser pe charaoed Guddu & AJ always gives in to her demand, no matter whatever it is.
& Only thing she can do openly is ser hilao 😆
For her delusional self, the picture is such,
She herself is aadarsh bahu of the family who can go to any extent for the betterment of the family
Guddu :- Main Vamp of her life. Jawan wife of the Sasur who is spoiling the family, its bonds, its habits & bhatkaoing the Sasur from his adarsh & sidhant, bharkaoing him against his adarsh bahu, Changing everything everywhere.
AJ :- once an idol of perfection but now completely magan on his nayi jawan biwi's jawani
^ this is what she sees. Its her vision.
Just to clear this, main iss dayan ko defend nahin kar rahi hoon. In fact, I am saying, koi pagalkhane bhejo yaar isse.
She has been mentally not ok from the very beginning only but aab pagalpan bahar aa raha hai... cause Guddu is the trigger of her pagalpan.
Edited by captainplus - 6 years ago