What is Chudail's problem?

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Durga used to behave like a psycho ex- anyway thankfully the cvs cleared it up.
Still what I fail to understand is why does she care so much that Guddan has importance in AJ's life.

Even before Guddan, AJ was running the house and had the keys and he used to make them follow his every whim.😆 He used to treat them as slaves. He was the real boss. Durga was never the mistress of the house. Her monologue suggests that she was running the house which is incorrect. So I dont know what her problem is?🤪Guddan is so much better since she lets her get away with so many things which AJ wouldnt tolerate.


Unless Durga has some other motive which is beyond my understanding

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Posted: 6 years ago
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she is obsessed to become queen of the mansion ---pagal kahiki
Edited by rs-shailu29 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Copy pasting from the other thread with some additions,

Her problem is she wants, Jaisa chal raha tha waisa chalne doh

She had no problem working under AJ's satta cause, somewhere AJ's sashan was her views too.Those were according to her own image of perfection.

So working under him, as his slave under his ways which used to aline with her own views, her delusional self might have thought she was running the house. But she didn't realize the truth till Guddu's entry.

Before Guddu's entry, her words had importance, even if AJ was the head of the family & holding all powers. He would take her words into consideration cause of which she used to feel respected & much superior in front of the other 2.

She wanted a saas who would be her puppet & just a shield for her from AJ's wrath which he would fire anytime before & that's the only thing she had problem with i.e. AJ's wrath on her. She felt whoever comes, would really never have a real place in AJ's life but they can be safe from AJ's wrath by putting all the blame of every mis-happening that irks AJ on the puppet saas's head.

But Guddu being Guddu instead created more problems for her & even before marrying her AJ kuchaloed her guroor by making her apologize to guptas & then even blasted at all 3 openly in the announcement party when they tried to insult Guddu.

On wedding night even after displaying the tashan downstairs, AJ made it clear, if she wants to leave, she can leave but he won't kick out Guddu.

After marriage, even if they tried to put the blame of their doing on Guddu, AJ showed them "thenga" instead & hardly said Guddu anything much even on on her big big blunders [which may or may not be made by her but was presented as such]
While before he would blast at them even if they did uch-nich in putting the right amount of sugar in kheer.

Later on he blasted at them for Guddu i.e. cooker incident, drunk Guddu.

So baazi puri tarah se palat gayi.

Before she used to think after AJ, she is 2nd in command in the house as she is next in line in the perfection but now a "galtion ki dukaan" is standing next to AJ & is given the authority of same level.
Dadi has ser pe charaoed Guddu & AJ always gives in to her demand, no matter whatever it is.

& Only thing she can do openly is ser hilao 😆

For her delusional self, the picture is such,

She herself is aadarsh bahu of the family who can go to any extent for the betterment of the family

Guddu :- Main Vamp of her life. Jawan wife of the Sasur who is spoiling the family, its bonds, its habits & bhatkaoing the Sasur from his adarsh & sidhant, bharkaoing him against his adarsh bahu, Changing everything everywhere.

AJ :- once an idol of perfection but now completely magan on his nayi jawan biwi's jawani

^ this is what she sees. Its her vision.

Just to clear this, main iss dayan ko defend nahin kar rahi hoon. In fact, I am saying, koi pagalkhane bhejo yaar isse.
She has been mentally not ok from the very beginning only but aab pagalpan bahar aa raha hai... cause Guddu is the trigger of her pagalpan.
Edited by captainplus - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Before Guddan came to the villa, Durga was perfect.
If she made a mistake, AJ would be upset.
Durga wanted a mother-in-law, but only then she could control her mother-in-law. When Guddan came, everything changed. Durga's one-on-one duty in that house was transferred to Guddan and her hands. So Durga likes to have control, and when Guddan is there she can not have that control.
Than came Guddan in her life, who only knows what to do is to make mistakes.
She wanted to have a mother-in-law so she could get rid of AJ and his anger. However, Guddan is not in a position to keep an eye on the family, at least Durga thinks so.
So Guddan is not of any use to her. She just wants to get rid of Guddan.
And she is aware that if Guddan makes a place in AJ heart, she will remains forever in that villa. And Durga can not allow that. That's why I think she's so obsessed with AJ and Guddan.
Edited by sumatra1234 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Copy pasting from another thread here and some additional words in between:

As far as Durga is concerned, I think it's more about ego than desire for power. At least that's where it all started from. She wanted a Saas cum Naukarani. But instead, she got a 22-23 year old girl who not only makes mistakes in whatever she does, but she just cannot do ANY household work. Jale pe Namak wali chiz toh yeh hui ki Daadi and AJ handed over the Keys to the house, the Satta of Jindal Bhavan, the DECISION MAKING POWER of the family to her. Even after knowing that she will mess up at every step. And now, Durga Jindal, who wanted a Naukarani, is almost as good as a Glorified Naukarani herself. Her words are trampled over by not only AJ's but also by Guddan's.

And like Captain said, she was living in an illusion that she is in charge. But the truth is that she was looked up to. Respected and treated like a know-it-all person in AJ's absence. Now even if he is gone away people will ask for his equal : His Wife. So, she is now very insecure about her position in the Jindal Bhavan.

Kitna bhi bolo, the person who has the keys to the house and safe, is actually the decision maker kinda individual. Just like apne ghar mei hum papa se pocket money lete hai, bilkul vaise. Now Durga has to ASK for everything... And is unacceptable for her.

And that is like shoving a knife in her heart and twisting it. AJ bossing the house is the attack. And Guddan being the equal of AJ is the brutality for her. 🤢

As of today, her ego now out of question because her delicate bubble of imaginary Power & Control has been burst open by a sharp pin called Guddan Akshat Jindal jo actually Akshat Jindal apne haath mei leke khade hai... Now since her bubble is gone, it's pricking her skin and making her bleed.


Durga Kishore Jindal is a very obtuse character and I love looking deep into her. I don't like her at all though. 👎🏼
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Durga Jindal was living in delusional world that she is perfect Sarv Gunn Sampan types, and no person can challenge her, she wanted a Puppet for a Saas, who she can use for her own purpose. In a way take revenge through her Saas for all the mistakes that AJ pointed out & she also wanted some one to free her form some of her responsibilities so she can concentrate on her husband. In episode 2-3 near the hill she was frustrated n complaining to Saru-Lakshmi regarding one of the reasons for her getting a Saas.

Since KC time, one of the main biggest point Durga fails to understand as Bahu is that when her Sasur Akshat Jindal was single, she didnt have a Saas. What responsibilities a Saas should had have was passed on Durga Kishore Jindal as being the eldest Bahu of 3rd generation.

Now Sasurji is married, Dadi & AJ are taking what the SAAS responsibility that Durga was filling for back and giving to the actual person her Guddan Saasuma. Guddan Sasuma is the eldest Bahu of Jindal Familybecause Akshat Jindal is the eldest son,

In order its Dadi, AJ-Guddan, Angadthen DKJ-Kishore, Laxmi-Vardan, Saru-Rahul

Durga is just pagal, hypo & senile person, who needs to be shown the mirror of truth.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I think now Akshat will show her the truth of what her place actually is in the house so that she starts coming out of her delusion... I don't think Akshat trusts her anymore... for some reason you can see that distrust in his expressions when he sees Durga...
He will definitely start being more vigilant of things happening around Guddan... He still doesn't believe Angad and Saru is still in the house so he will know that Guddan is not completely safe...
After this whole incident his focus has shifted completely to Guddan and her safety. He will definitely keep an eye without showing or telling anyone...
I think he will doubt Durga too... Now it will depend that to what level will they show Durga going to to harm Guddan because now she is running out of options... She is losing people to work with her and everything she is trying is going wrong...
Out of desperation in the end she may try to kill Guddan or seriously harm her which will finally expose her... this may also lead to love realisation for Akshat... Again, depends on how CVs want to show it...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Durga Jindal all time think she is all in 1 an all r her gulaam.😡

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