GHKPM WU & Episode daily discussion thread #116 DT P. 61 - Page 85

Originally posted by: Haalim

There comes an important aspect of freedom, choice.

Choice between pyaar and self respect? It seems more like a compromise than choice. I think a person deserves both.

Originally posted by: msin

You should watch the first 100 episodes .. all 4 were very good there Virat , Sai , patralekha and my Jaggu dada( ❤️❤️❤️❤️) even Sam did well there with vithal mane .. watch the gharchiroli ones and take a call who fell for whom .. and the the initial days of marriage it started falling apart when creatives start deviating from Leena G ka original story .. warna kusum dola is a classic .. one of the best marriage tracks in itv ..it’s a block buster in every version

I've watched those episodes umpteen times. Why do you think I'm not getting over this show? 😭

They destroyed everything in the name of drama and to get numbers. But it's their child, their bread and butter what can we say?

Originally posted by: Snowfally

Choice between pyaar and self respect? It seems more like a compromise than choice. I think a person deserves both.

I said as an independent person she has a right to choose. It's her call what's more important to her. We can only crib, its upto makers what they think of her as a character.

Again, u didn't see those posts ?? Bohot convenient hai. I came across so many posts which said that Satya should run away . Sai is emotionally exploitative etc etc. Hell ,everyone in the family knew what they are getting into. Just bcoz of Satya's insistence , they went ahead with the marriage.

Regarding being morally correct, I agree Sai should not have even any residual feeling after what Virat made her through. His existence shouldn't matter to her. That thing is bothersome.

But no way she is acting upon those feelings. Like what Pakhi used to do. Despite being married to another man, she actively took interest in her brother in law and did everything to break his marriage. The same Pakhi which is better than Sai according to u.

Sai may not have forgotten her past and still harbours feelings for her ex, but i believe her when she says she wants to move on. And wants here ex to be happy in life.

Originally posted by: Haalim

I'm with Sai. Whatever she wants I'm fine with it. I would neither name call her for rejecting/accepting Virat nor will I character assassinate her for being with Satya.

It's appalling that the same people who were giving us moral lessons are now berating her just for being uncomfortable with Satya's touch. We were asking them don't bring feminism here it's just a show but there answer being oh you have a say here only because of feminism. Now the feminism has flew out of the window. Oh irony! 😭

That's called selective feminism 🙄

It suits your narrative, bring it on. If it doesn't, then make a mockery of the character by bringing her past traumas. Here even Satya is oblivious that Sai is uncomfortable. He is being shown going with the flow, is breaking the rules unknowingly. Its for drama purpose.

It's Sai's feelings, only she has right to decide.

Originally posted by: msin

You should watch the first 100 episodes .. all 4 were very good there Virat , Sai , patralekha and my Jaggu dada( ❤️❤️❤️❤️) even Sam did well there with vithal mane .. watch the gharchiroli ones and take a call who fell for whom .. and the the initial days of marriage .It started falling apart when creatives start deviating from Leena G ka original story .. warna kusum dola is a classic .. one of the best marriage tracks in itv ..it’s a block buster in every version

Just as gist on the topic of touch "Hamere Haath Hamesha Saath" of those episodes

https://twitter.com/redsalsaaa/status/1478769078613381121

Enjoy!

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

We should have an "outrage of the day". 😆 Or wait I will start. Today I am going to outrage on Ninad's behaviour. Kuch bhi bolega, I will nitpick. Let's see aaj Nin boi kya karta hai

Ninad

Nutty I want that statue from the old sairat room,uska DDP is real re n underrated too

Originally posted by: Nirip

That's called selective feminism 🙄

It suits your narrative, bring it on. If it doesn't, then make a mockery of the character by bringing her past traumas. Here even Satya is oblivious that Sai is uncomfortable. He is being shown going with the flow, is breaking the rules unknowingly. Its for drama purpose.

It's Sai's feelings, only she has right to decide.

Yep.

And in the name of making a ship sail Sai shouldn't be deprived of her rights as a human. She has a say if she's being comfortable or not with his touch. It doesn't depend upon Satya being nice or Virat being abusive. Remember the famous naara, a 'No' means 'No'.

Originally posted by: Nirip

Nutty I want that statue from the old sairat room,uska DDP is real re n underrated too

I LOVE that statue. Lagt hai jal gaya bichara. When the fire broke out, mujhe statue ka bhi yaad aaya tha

Not trying to be preachy but there are a few things that should be understood.Please note that whatever I would say in this post is not a dig at any fandom be it SaiRat or SaiYa.Apologies in advance if it comes across as that but I will have to say that for explaining my POV.I have not read the discussions going on here except for the last 2-3 pages.That also happened as I came to check if the episode is up or not.Wanted to read the WU.

Satya touching Sai without her consent is WRONG.

Sai pining for Virat while being married to Satya is wrong.

Shaming Sai for being uncomfortable with Satya's touch is also wrong.

Just because Sai is married to Satya or we want her to with him doesn't mean that we should shame her for not liking his touch.However I won't judge his character or call him names for these incidents because he has not been shown to be such a kind of person.The one who was so perceptive while making her wear gajra is now unable to understand that she isn't comfortable with his touch?This is clearly inconsistent writing.They cannot create conflict or show anything without making it cringe.But we don't say that Virat's behaviour is inconsistent writing because he has had the same pattern of behaviour with Sai and Satya.With Sai he has behaved in a similar way when Mahabaleshwar incident happened,Shruti track happened and countless other instances.His behaviour is Satya is similar to the Ajinkya incident time.The whole hit and miss with Sai trying to tell Satya about being uncomfortable is building up to something big.He might behave the same way again and Sai might blast him this time around.If he does something wrong then,I will surely bash him.

Sai got married to Satya because she wanted to stay "unavailable" for Virat (she had flashbacks of Ashwini saying things on those lines)So now her being in dilemma about choosing sari is bogus.Satya knew what he was getting into but he did not sign up for Sai holding Virat's hand in front of him or trying to touch him.Sai and Virat were not in love in the initial phase of their marriage but we wanted Virat to draw boundaries with Pakhi because deal or whatever,marriage is a marriage and your spouse deserves loyalty.So if Sai does the same,she will be called out.