GHKPM WU & Episode daily discussion thread #116 DT P. 61 - Page 77

Originally posted by: Bittabuji

Couldn't agree more. Whoever it is whether men or women if they aren't comfortable with their touch it should be respected. Even in past after harini birthday people bashed pakhi n defended virat when she tried to touch him n made him uncomfortable n didn't left him alone unless he drink turmeric milk but when the actor who played virat defended the pakhi character n ok with her actions we never defended virat infact after that he had no problems with pakhi touching him.

Also even if pakhi was worst character we called out samrat when he manhandled pakhi n then tried to close with her when he knows she was behind virat even I also called out when virat manhandled/theatned pakhi after sakhi café meet.

Here Satya just casually put his hand on sai shoulder frdly so definitely he will back off if he heard sai words.

He can also ask sai to not touch him if he's not ok with.

Agree concern is very important irrespective of gender.

Here there is a confusion in previous scene where satya adjusted sai's hair strand, after that sai said that dont repeat it again and she is not comfortable...so there is no clarity does he heard what sai said or not.

Originally posted by: Haalim

Ab baaki shows ka mujhe kya karna hai behan? If Ayesha is paid as much as him, good for her.

Aapke favorite HA bhi tou isi saste PH waale show main aagaye na? Tab unka stature match kiya?

Neil was the first one to got selected to play lead nd as hero in the show nd ppl talking about relevance 🤣,koi relevant ho na ho but the leads hero heroine of the show I.e.NeilSha will never need any relevance as they aren't cameos or supporting parallel leads just like pakhi, ghum is SaiRat's show which is an ultimate truth, baaki agree or don't agree their call, which absolutely makes no difference

P. S. Ghum has only one hero nd heroine ie SaiRat nd its a Virat centric show..aaj dekhliya na purse who are ppl hailing😌😊the one and only hero of the show Virat Chavan🤩😎

Vishay Sampla~

Originally posted by: Moor278

I have been refraining myself from commenting in the EDT... but had to butt in after reading this!!!

So now just because Sai is rejecting advances from Satya he should force himself like V???? Is that what you want for a female character????

No one justifies V's harmful abusive behaviour that borders on physical violence (not talking about mental harassment since the comparison at this point is between V and Satya and Satya hasn't done anything like that).

So limiting to the physical abuse aspect.... why should Satya fall to V's levels???? if V is so wrong that he gets bashed in every alternate Comment why would anyone want Satya to be like him?

What kind of weird manifestation this is???? Even as a joke????

Didn't knew all this was allowed in the name of humour😳

Also... what happens to consent now????

Sai maybe okay with Satyas touch few days/months/years down the line(like she was with V) ... at this point she is not... at this point she is uncomfortable... at this point she is not ready for that kind of intimacy....

How and why is she wrong?????

Moreover Sai and Satya had clarified the terms... he was witness to V's outburst that led to Sai asking him to marry.... she confessed on the wedding night that she is not happy... he knows why she asked him to marry.

After all this Satya is the one changing the rules or expecting a change in dynamics without even asking for Sais consent.

How is Sai at fault???

He genuinely seems like a good fellow... but it's not the behaviour expected out of him .

Even in arranged marriages in India... men and especially sensible educated men don't do this.... they understand and respect boundaries and consent.

This is so not done!!!!!

Not even as a joke.

When P was called names... it led to huge outrage... how is Satya behaving differently if he is expecting more from the original set of conditions?????

Just watched the episode. 👍🏼 I don’t know what was the bawaal, but the episode seemed fine to me.

Originally posted by: Thanuj

Agree concern is very important irrespective of gender.

Here there is a confusion in previous scene where satya adjusted sai's hair strand, after that sai said that dont repeat it again and she is not comfortable...so there is no clarity does he heard what sai said or not.

Originally posted by: Haalim

I've seen these episodes.

Tab jo dikhaya woh bhi dekha. Ab jo dikha rahe hain woh bhi dekh rahi hun. Main tou kuch nahi keh rahi.

That's why makers made Sai marry again to make the scores equal 🤭making her go through what Virat gone through, y only Sai should get compromised Virat (as per some )that's not fair even Virat deserves compromised Sai, then justice will be done to both..

P. S. Smart move makers nd Vankar,warna aise kaise unke hero ko galat rehne dhete, so Sai ko bhi leliya tit for tat 😊even Virat going through same what Sai has endured

Originally posted by: LadyD

I am glad that Sai cleared the doubt or misunderstanding on this forum.

Nutty’s chant is right

Sai loves Virat.

She has been given some of Virat’s dialogue. But she is more truthful & doesn’t say Virat mera kuch nahi lagta. She puts all her actions under parva for mere bachcho ka baap.

One good thing about the episode is Vinu has started to accept mumma nahi ayegi without throwing tantrums & replaced her with Aai. And everyone is clear where they stand.

Satya should clear things about his changed intentions with Sai. He doesn’t know GC wali sherni Sai. Or uski waat laga degi. As reality check for him she should wear Virats saari

so true.....very beautifully explained 🤩😍

P. S. And as nutty was so rightly said often i.e.

SaiLovesVirat

ViratLovesSai

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Originally posted by: oye_nakhrewaali

Sai is me with everyone🤣

Except Virat.

Originally posted by: Nirip

Indeed it is. It was wrong then and its wrong now, what is shown.

Uncomfortable touch is a very sensitive issue makers shouldn't have brought it up for stupid drama. Satya hasn't crossed any line, just hasn't taken into account Sai's reaction....which he should have. Sai has voiced it according to her.yehi MU hoga

N as far as I have understood the character, he will respect once he comes to know of it.

They will make Virat-the villian out if it. Sai-satya will resolve this🤣

Ab Virat kaha aagaya beech mein, that too y villain ?Mr. Mrs adhikari ka matter hai unn dhono ko karne dho jo Karna hai

ab toh chod dho yaar usko uske haal mein, he had enough, he has nothing to do with Sai now

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Originally posted by: Moor278

I have been refraining myself from commenting in the EDT... but had to butt in after reading this!!!

So now just because Sai is rejecting advances from Satya he should force himself like V???? Is that what you want for a female character????

No one justifies V's harmful abusive behaviour that borders on physical violence (not talking about mental harassment since the comparison at this point is between V and Satya and Satya hasn't done anything like that).

So limiting to the physical abuse aspect.... why should Satya fall to V's levels???? if V is so wrong that he gets bashed in every alternate Comment why would anyone want Satya to be like him?

What kind of weird manifestation this is???? Even as a joke????

Didn't knew all this was allowed in the name of humour😳

Also... what happens to consent now????

Sai maybe okay with Satyas touch few days/months/years down the line(like she was with V) ... at this point she is not... at this point she is uncomfortable... at this point she is not ready for that kind of intimacy....

How and why is she wrong?????

Moreover Sai and Satya had clarified the terms... he was witness to V's outburst that led to Sai asking him to marry.... she confessed on the wedding night that she is not happy... he knows why she asked him to marry.

After all this Satya is the one changing the rules or expecting a change in dynamics without even asking for Sais consent.

How is Sai at fault???

He genuinely seems like a good fellow... but it's not the behaviour expected out of him .

Even in arranged marriages in India... men and especially sensible educated men don't do this.... they understand and respect boundaries and consent.

This is so not done!!!!!

Not even as a joke.

When P was called names... it led to huge outrage... how is Satya behaving differently if he is expecting more from the original set of conditions?????

..People who are commenting on Virat’s touch vs Satya touch are forgetting that .. that first 100 episodes till Sai second accident was totally based on kusum dola .. and in KD .. and in ghum .. Sai ( emon ) clearly had fallen for Virat ( rono ) before him .. and was very jealous of Rk .. she gave tili to Pakhi and made herself herself big .. … even Kaku understood this and started giving importance to Pakhi if she had ignored Pakhi and had not overheard the V-p conversation tab itna issue Nahi Banati

.. Virat himself never understood but he had also fallen for Sai .. in gharchiroi .. they were flirting with each other full time .. remember prize giving ceremony, remember the lock house incident …. Agar woh dono flirt nahi kar rahe thhe toh kya kar rahe thhe .. karna big chahiye both were young n free .. So she was very comfortable and rather attracted to Virat .. in fact her anger with Virat was he had chosen Pakhi over her .. so she wanted to play this Mahan game .. Emon was more obvious but even Sai was in the initial days

ab do bachho ke aai Baba ko bachhonki studies me focus Karna chahiye .. aise hi iit jee / UPSC crack nahi kar jate.. Faltu me shadi shadi games Khel rahe hai ..