Virat's pain is ignored ||DT Note P.12|| - Page 7

Originally posted by: mysticriver

He was ready to be adopted father to Savi because he himself had a different set of family lmao 🤪

And we all saw the great father was even placing his pyaari cheez over Savi post her accident.

Pata nehi if people deliberately act oblivious to facts or haven't seen the episodes or acts like it didn't exist or ever happened 😆

So let us be sympathetic towards them who would like to pretend certain acts didn't happen. It's okay, we get it, truth is a bitter pill to swallow, so people prefer the candyfloss of fantasy.

Originally posted by: Cold-Fire

I read it that often when people do not want to accept harsh reality and truths they want to avoid it all costs and act oblivious to it to save themselves from the pain of accepting that something bad has happened. A defense mechanism of our personality called denial. A lot of people live in denial just to protect their sanity. Because they are unable to face the reality.

So let us be sympathetic towards them who would like to pretend certain acts didn't happen. It's okay, we get it, truth is a bitter pill to swallow, so people prefer the candyfloss of fantasy.

Standard statement, "I don't want to argue with you on this" 🤣

Originally posted by: NayaNehaD31

Itna sach, Satya, truth in one sentence😛😛😎

How are you kid? How's college?

Great Naya Di, what about you??? Abhi to chhuti chal rhi hai, soch rha tha ki humesha ki tarah IPL enjoy karu par yha iss ITV show pe baat kar rha hu.....👍

Originally posted by: mysticriver

He was ready to be adopted father to Savi because he himself had a different set of family lmao 🤪

And we all saw the great father was even placing his pyaari cheez over Savi post her accident.

Pata nehi if people deliberately act oblivious to facts or haven't seen the episodes or acts like it didn't exist or ever happened 😆

@red - No you are wrong and you need to watch the episodes first before commenting on others.

He agreed to become Savi's adopted father only because of Sai's insistence, because Sai did not want Savi to question her why her parents are living separately.

Btw, according to me Sairat separated not just because of Virat's mistake but Sai too had a big hand in it.

I know you will not agree with me. So lets agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

I agree with most of what you all @Ashane25, @Fats24 and @Itelidevara said in these posts. Itelidevara I'm unable to tag you.

Although I'm hating this obsessed jealous side of Virat, I do empathize with him to a certain extent because somewhere or the other, I can understand his pain too.

I'm not at all okay with Sai marrying Satya just to break Virat's heart so that Virat does not pursue her anymore which is why I had opened the thread:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ghum-hai-kisikey-pyaar-meiin/5325854/sai-isnt-doing-the-right-thing-either

Despite the numerous justifications given by others in this forum I still believe Sai is wrong,

And I found Sai's decision over there to be SELFISH because she is only thinking about herself and HER IMAGE, she is not even thinking about her children.

I have no issues with Saiya happening but then I didn't wish it to happen the deal marriage way for whatever reason it should be,

Virat is flawed to a large extent but he is right in divorcing Pakhi and trying to reunite with Sai,

The problem with him is that he has started behaving like a psychotic obsessed lover,

I don't understand why does Virat even need a woman?

If Sai doesn't accept Virat then Virat should just leave her and live a single life with his children that would be the best.

Virat should just move on and not behave like an obsessed psychotic lover.

The ITV viewers cannot acknowledge Virat's pain because majority of them are women who cannot see the point of view of a man.

Ma'am what do you have to say in defence of Shri Shri Virat Chavan when he was going gaga over the woman's beauty the next day after she said the previous day she hates his daughter 😭

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

@red - No you are wrong and you need to watch the episodes first before commenting on others.

He agreed to become Savi's adopted father only because of Sai's insistence, because Sai did not want Savi to question her why her parents are living separately.

Btw, according to me Sairat separated not just because Virat's mistake but Sai too had big hand in it.

I know you will not agree with me. So lets agree to disagree.

Because he himself would have nothing to say why he's not with Sai anymore to Savi. You talk about biased writing when makers never make Savi question when her hero father is married to another woman & shares same room bed blanket with her.

Yikes! None can see sense his pain because he's never had real pain till date. Only happened a bit in Shruti track but it was undone with 1000x torture Sai faced in return.

Sai is single individual she can flirt have ONS marry whoever the hell she wants. Atleast she's gonna have it with a nice person like Satya not like that characterless bhabhi lover who was ready to bed his jeeva ka widow. Eww!

I'm all ears for your justifications.

Originally posted by: Cold-Fire

I read it that often when people do not want to accept harsh reality and truths they want to avoid it all costs and act oblivious to it to save themselves from the pain of accepting that something bad has happened. A defense mechanism of our personality called denial. A lot of people live in denial just to protect their sanity. Because they are unable to face the reality.

So let us be sympathetic towards them who would like to pretend certain acts didn't happen. It's okay, we get it, truth is a bitter pill to swallow, so people prefer the candyfloss of fantasy.

Its nothing like that. I can write paragraphs defending Virat but what it will cost me is my TIME.

So why should I even bother to argue with you when I know you will not agree with me.

Plus, honestly, I had liked you and your comments in our previous interaction and thought you are a genuine personality who does not mock and provoke others who does not think alike you which is why I did not want to argue with you.

Thanks a lot for proving me WRONG!!

Originally posted by: mysticriver

Standard statement, "I don't want to argue with you on this" 🤣

Originally posted by: Palak2812

Divorce papers were submitted in Court in and Judge granted them Divorce?

Damn

I skipped that part

Actually nothing like this happens in television if Pakhi signed baaki ke formalities wo log karwa lenge....I think so....

Virat is solely responsible for his own pain.Couldn't feel his pain becoz whatever is happening it is becoz of his karma and horrible things he did.When he has ever took stand for Sai during their married life.He made Sai's life hell.He didn't has any redeemable qualifies.Look at other SP ML's we could feel their pain they haven't got destroyed beyond repair atleast they had some redeemable qualities and valid reason for their pain.Anuj became like this becoz of Anupama she never understood Anuj's love and fatherhood for Choti Anu she is selfish,Rishta mein Abhimanyu was wrong but he asked forgiveness from Aksara for the terrible things he did with her which Virat never did.He never thought he is ever wrong.Without divorcing Pakhi he proposed to Sai.He always brought Pakhi in his married life.He abused Sai,locked her, starved her, character assassinated her,never took stand for her from his family,never try to send Pakhi away from his life,never scold Pakhi, manhandled her etc.After this he didn't deserved to be called a ML he was toxic from day 1.He has made his own grave.He has got everything in a platter Sai always forgive him for the horrible things he did.In all these situations Sai has no other choice but to fight for herself and be egoistic.Sai was wrong sometimes but she did ask forgiveness and sorry from Virat at the past for that(e.g.Remarriage track and Shruti Track) .Fighting for one's self respect,right and survival doesn't makes someone mahan.Other ITV shows FL is maybe mahan and sacrificial but Sai isn't she is a strong FL who knew how to fight her own battles that's why audience liked her character which we could see in the TRP chart nicely the track where she gave back to Virat,Pakhi and Chavan's have high TRPs.Why should Sai lose her kids when she has always been a good mother and why should Virat get both his children.He never cared for them.Vinu was hurt but he was happy since Sai was coming back,he didn't want Sai to treat Vinu in the past becoz of his ego even if she was the last choice for his child,he locked Savi with Sai,he didn't go after Vinu-Sai when Sai left Chavan House before pre leap,he never thought about Vinu when he proposed to Sai,he try to separate Vinu from his own mother when he was just a baby by giving him to a criminal & horrible person like Pakhi,he didn't try to make Vinu understand Pakhi's real face etc.After all this how is he the best father.The Chavan's are really toxic they didn't deserve such a toxic household to grow in.All the Chavan's are a bunch a criminals so why did they deserve to have both the children.