Sai isn't doing the right thing either!!

I'm a Sairat fan but I do agree that Virat is going overboard and acting psychotic.

But I strongly believe Sai isn't doing the right thing either!!

It's understandable that she does not want to reunite with Virat but to keep Virat away her getting married to Satya is again CRAZY and SELFISH

By marrying Satya she is only trying to PROTECT her image and she is not realizing that she is wronging her own kids Vinayak and Savi the most through this marriage.

I am not trying to hurt any Saiya fan's feelings through this post,

I personally feel that Sai accepting Virat would have been less SELFISH and CRAZY than her marrying Satya.

By marrying Satya she is just involving Satya too in her life's mess, nothing else!

It would have been better if Saiya had developed feelings for each other and then got married but right now whatever is happening is really crazy.

But yeah I understand this is ITV so crazy things are bound to happen here.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

I'm a Sairat fan but I do agree that Virat is going overboard and acting psychotic.

But I strongly believe Sai isn't doing the right thing either!!

It's understandable that she does not want to reunite with Virat but to keep Virat away her getting married to Satya is again CRAZY and SELFISH

By marrying Satya she is only trying to PROTECT her image and she is not realizing that she is wronging her own kids Vinayak and Savi the most through this marriage.

I am not trying to hurt any Saiya fan's feelings through this post,

I personally feel that Sai accepting Virat would have been less SELFISH and CRAZY than her marrying Satya.

By marrying Satya she is just involving Satya too in her life's mess, nothing else!

It would have been better if Saiya had developed feelings for each other and then got married but right now whatever is happening is really crazy.

But yeah I understand this is ITV so crazy things are bound to happen here.

Yeah I totally get your point. Honestly, I don't really like this 'forced marriage' track 2.0. It would have been SO much better if Sai and Satya had gotten married due to their attraction, or at least through an arranged marriage that was not triggered by a ticking bomb.

But I don't think Sai is ruining Savi and Vinu's life as much as people think she is. I mean...Vinu would be for the most part unaffected. He has his own family, and while he and Sai are attached, the attachment isn't as severe nor would this new situation cause as much damage that will affect his mental health. At least it shouldn't. If the makers decide to change the entire character sketch in one episode (which they have done quite a lot before) then I can't really say anything.

The only person who will be affected would be Savi. But...hear me out. This scenario would still turn out much much better for Savi than if she were to stay in CN or if Sai were to remain single and in touch with Virat. The reason for that is, while it will be heartbreaking for her to be away from Virat or CN people, Satya's family are genuinely nice people, and not just nice but people who are practically outcasts, so there is no chance of any kind of prejudice against her because of her birth and her parents' controversial marriage (Unless they again change everybody's character to add drama).

I know this isn't the best course of action to take. Of course, it isn't. In real life this is stupidity to the max. But given it is a serial, and the only two options there are is for her to get married or to remain single, I would say the former is much better. Think of it this way, her staying single, as much infuriating as it is, is in someway an open thread, especially for Virat, and she needs to close that thread, to make Virat understand that there is no chance of them ever getting together, since staying away from Virat is not an option (him being Savi's father and all...whatever).

The best proof to explain my point would be Virat's (such a shame I can't actually use swear words for him here coz I have some colourful vocabulary) confusing use of the term 'wife'. When it is convenient, he refers to Pakhi as his wife, and when he wishes to he refers to Sai as his wife. And the only reason he even dares to do so is that Sai is single and he feels that he still has a right to her since the slot is very much open.

Now, I am not saying that if a man does this the best way is to hurriedly give that slot away (that would be stupid please don't do that), but I am once again heavily pointing out that this is the serial and there are only two or three possible paths they can take. And among them the best is for Sai to indeed give that slot away to a man who is a genuinely good person (I am ignoring the weird attempt at self-harm by Dr. Adhikari here...coz that felt OOC).

This way whatever illusion Virat has of Sai being his and still being his wife would go away. And that would be the best because then there would be no logical reason (not that there is any now) for Virat to pursue Sai.

I don't think Sai's this decision is selfish, cause if Virat is not stopped (and stopped in a permanent manner) then this would do irreparable damage to not just her or Pakhi (the hell with her), but to Vinu and Savi.

Plus, I don't really see how Sai is in any way gaining anything here. Even her protecting her image is related to saving Vinu's 'family'. It isn't as if Vinu will give her the place of a mother in his life after this, and whatever the second most important place is, she already holds that position. So, this is just her once again trying to save Vinu's sense of family.

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

Yeah I totally get your point. Honestly, I don't really like this 'forced marriage' track 2.0. It would have been SO much better if Sai and Satya had gotten married due to their attraction, or at least through an arranged marriage that was not triggered by a ticking bomb.

But I don't think Sai is ruining Savi and Vinu's life as much as people think she is. I mean...Vinu would be for the most part unaffected. He has his own family, and while he and Sai are attached, the attachment isn't as severe nor would this new situation cause as much damage that will affect his mental health. At least it shouldn't. If the makers decide to change the entire character sketch in one episode (which they have done quite a lot before) then I can't really say anything.

The only person who will be affected would be Savi. But...hear me out. This scenario would still turn out much much better for Savi than if she were to stay in CN or if Sai were to remain single and in touch with Virat. The reason for that is, while it will be heartbreaking for her to be away from Virat or CN people, Satya's family are genuinely nice people, and not just nice but people who are practically outcasts, so there is no chance of any kind of prejudice against her because of her birth and her parents' controversial marriage (Unless they again change everybody's character to add drama).

I know this isn't the best course of action to take. Of course, it isn't. In real life this is stupidity to the max. But given it is a serial, and the only two options there are is for her to get married or to remain single, I would say the former is much better. Think of it this way, her staying single, as much infuriating as it is, is in someway an open thread, especially for Virat, and she needs to close that thread, to make Virat understand that there is no chance of them ever getting together, since staying away from Virat is not an option (him being Savi's father and all...whatever).

The best proof to explain my point would be Virat's (such a shame I can't actually use swear words for him here coz I have some colourful vocabulary) confusing use of the term 'wife'. When it is convenient, he refers to Pakhi as his wife, and when he wishes to he refers to Sai as his wife. And the only reason he even dares to do so is that Sai is single and he feels that he still has a right to her since the slot is very much open.

Now, I am not saying that if a man does this the best way is to hurriedly give that slot away (that would be stupid please don't do that), but I am once again heavily pointing out that this is the serial and there are only two or three possible paths they can take. And among them the best is for Sai to indeed give that slot away to a man who is a genuinely good person (I am ignoring the weird attempt at self-harm by Dr. Adhikari here...coz that felt OOC).

This way whatever illusion Virat has of Sai being his and still being his wife would go away. And that would be the best because then there would be no logical reason (not that there is any now) for Virat to pursue Sai.

I don't think Sai's this decision is selfish, cause if Virat is not stopped (and stopped in a permanent manner) then this would do irreparable damage to not just her or Pakhi (the hell with her), but to Vinu and Savi.

Plus, I don't really see how Sai is in any way gaining anything here. Even her protecting her image is related to saving Vinu's 'family'. It isn't as if Vinu will give her the place of a mother in his life after this, and whatever the second most important place is, she already holds that position. So, this is just her once again trying to save Vinu's sense of family.

This !!

Also the way he thinks he can touch both these women when he wants & also let them know his boundaries, when he wants to , is so infuriating, so disrespectful. What have they turned this character into..So shameless, so pathetic, so cheap, so immoral.

Respectfully disagree.

Sai's decision to marry Satya is definitely not a selfish one. She is choosing to marry again and thats completely reasonable. why is Sai obligated to reconcile with V ?! Why should she be with V if she does not want to

She has every right to say NO to V. And she has said it repeatedly but the man just doesnt understand it and is behaving like a sadakchaap gunda! he has been coercive, abusive and nonstop harassing her despite her very clear refusal to be with him as a spouse. she has always been ok with staying in Nagpur and being coparents to Vinu and Savi with V. She has told him that what he chooses to do with P- divorce/not is immaterial to her. she does NOT want to be his wife anymore. thats it.

She shouldnt have to prove her unavailability to be Vs wife by marrying another person. her NO should be enough. it is not ideal that she is making this decision to marry Satya kinda suddenly.

BUT having said that if she wants to move on by getting married to another man now- thats her choice. and she is absolutely within her right to make that choice. If Satya knows her past with V, knows what V has been upto recently and how sai feels about that, he knows about her children and also about why Sai wants to marry another man now and STILL accepts her as his wife and Sai also knows about his past too- then its 2 mutually consenting adults getting married. why is that a problem?!

If Satya is willingly entering her messy life as Sai's husband, its his choice. she hasnt put a gun to his head. he is an adult. no one has forced him.

When kids are fine with having their biological dad married to P why will Sai marrying again impact them? they will just have to come to terms with the fact that their parents are separated and each have new spouses now. and they have to deal with it. because 2 adults cant be expected to live together just for the sake of kids when they are just not compatible. in the long run its not really helpful to kids to be watching a dishonest farce of a relationship between their parents.

Savi can still have Vinu, V and CN folks in her life because they are biologically related to her but now Sai instead of living alone will now get a new family. Savi is not gonna lose anything. Infact she will gain another family- one that likely can be substantially better place to grow up than CN. A person like Satya in her life- who is a better father figure than her actual dad V. and she can have an independent equation with him. Satya isnt her real father but he can be a paternal figure, role model, a mentor, a caregiver, to her.

Vinu also will not be affected. He already likes Satya and he will continue to have Sai and him in his life in whatever capacity he wants. if someday he gets over his obsession with P, he can have Sai as his aai too. but otherwise he has SaiYa - 2 people whom he can look upto and fall back on for support whenever he wants.

The kids cant dictate that VP or Sai V or SaiYa should be together. because that is NOT upto them. thats upto the adults involved. and it has to be a mutual decision.

P wants V but V doesnt. V wants Sai but Sai doesnt. But Sai and Satya both want to be with each other so that is great! VP can decide again what they want to do. go back to their farce marriage or continue to proceed with divorce.

Sai by marrying Satya is ensuring that she stays in Nagpur and thus both she and V are available in the lives of Vinu, Savi as biological parents but they cannot be spouses because Sai does NOT want to be Vs wife. period.

Satya is an adult himself hes willingly getting married knowing everything.

I don't get the point of selfishness here tho.

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

Yeah I totally get your point. Honestly, I don't really like this 'forced marriage' track 2.0. It would have been SO much better if Sai and Satya had gotten married due to their attraction, or at least through an arranged marriage that was not triggered by a ticking bomb.

But I don't think Sai is ruining Savi and Vinu's life as much as people think she is. I mean...Vinu would be for the most part unaffected. He has his own family, and while he and Sai are attached, the attachment isn't as severe nor would this new situation cause as much damage that will affect his mental health. At least it shouldn't. If the makers decide to change the entire character sketch in one episode (which they have done quite a lot before) then I can't really say anything.

The only person who will be affected would be Savi. But...hear me out. This scenario would still turn out much much better for Savi than if she were to stay in CN or if Sai were to remain single and in touch with Virat. The reason for that is, while it will be heartbreaking for her to be away from Virat or CN people, Satya's family are genuinely nice people, and not just nice but people who are practically outcasts, so there is no chance of any kind of prejudice against her because of her birth and her parents' controversial marriage (Unless they again change everybody's character to add drama).

I know this isn't the best course of action to take. Of course, it isn't. In real life this is stupidity to the max. But given it is a serial, and the only two options there are is for her to get married or to remain single, I would say the former is much better. Think of it this way, her staying single, as much infuriating as it is, is in someway an open thread, especially for Virat, and she needs to close that thread, to make Virat understand that there is no chance of them ever getting together, since staying away from Virat is not an option (him being Savi's father and all...whatever).

The best proof to explain my point would be Virat's (such a shame I can't actually use swear words for him here coz I have some colourful vocabulary) confusing use of the term 'wife'. When it is convenient, he refers to Pakhi as his wife, and when he wishes to he refers to Sai as his wife. And the only reason he even dares to do so is that Sai is single and he feels that he still has a right to her since the slot is very much open.

Now, I am not saying that if a man does this the best way is to hurriedly give that slot away (that would be stupid please don't do that), but I am once again heavily pointing out that this is the serial and there are only two or three possible paths they can take. And among them the best is for Sai to indeed give that slot away to a man who is a genuinely good person (I am ignoring the weird attempt at self-harm by Dr. Adhikari here...coz that felt OOC).

This way whatever illusion Virat has of Sai being his and still being his wife would go away. And that would be the best because then there would be no logical reason (not that there is any now) for Virat to pursue Sai.

I don't think Sai's this decision is selfish, cause if Virat is not stopped (and stopped in a permanent manner) then this would do irreparable damage to not just her or Pakhi (the hell with her), but to Vinu and Savi.

Plus, I don't really see how Sai is in any way gaining anything here. Even her protecting her image is related to saving Vinu's 'family'. It isn't as if Vinu will give her the place of a mother in his life after this, and whatever the second most important place is, she already holds that position. So, this is just her once again trying to save Vinu's sense of family.

Amazingly explained in detail 👏👏

Sai is nowhere gaining anything for her by marrying satya, she is here to keep her child's happiness even if she is the one who has to sacrifice.

As of Satya he himself is in a mess and Sai will be the rescue, and them sealing a deal of marriage for sake of it and never falling in love may come out as beautiful even we never know.

Originally posted by: Aleyamma47

I'm a Sairat fan but I do agree that Virat is going overboard and acting psychotic.

But I strongly believe Sai isn't doing the right thing either!!

It's understandable that she does not want to reunite with Virat but to keep Virat away her getting married to Satya is again CRAZY and SELFISH

By marrying Satya she is only trying to PROTECT her image and she is not realizing that she is wronging her own kids Vinayak and Savi the most through this marriage.

I am not trying to hurt any Saiya fan's feelings through this post,

I personally feel that Sai accepting Virat would have been less SELFISH and CRAZY than her marrying Satya.

By marrying Satya she is just involving Satya too in her life's mess, nothing else!

It would have been better if Saiya had developed feelings for each other and then got married but right now whatever is happening is really crazy.

But yeah I understand this is ITV so crazy things are bound to happen here.

How?

From what I know

Vinu still doesn't know Sai is his mother nor Virat looks interested in telling him the truth.

Locking Savi in a room, then emotionally blackmailing her from outside, Savi is seeing so much shit Virat does with her mother(Idk how she doesn't question, and Idk she has even questioned why her father has another wife)

I would have liked it if this marriage reason was due to Virat and his family being horrible and destroying her life 6 yrs back and trying to do it again, rather than Sai trying to be mahaan to save Virat from getting destroyed and blackmailed by Ashwini.

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I agree

I would have loved to see Satya and Sai falling in love phase and then getting married rather than marrying due to the burden put on them.

For me

Sai is making sure at least her one kid stays away from toxic and criminals and in a safe home (I don't trust Chavan even a bit) Not sure how Satya's family is gonna do

Where the story itself going

Writers itself don't know, simply playing with lives of Father, mother and kids

No one is going to gain anything especially kids 😒

Originally posted by: ssssj

Where the story itself going

Writers itself don't know, simply playing with lives of Father, mother and kids

No one is going to gain anything especially kids 😒

Exactly, the kids are ones who will be affected the most in all this mess.

Neither Sai nor Virat is thinking about what will go through their kids with their decisions.

But one thing I find is that Virat's decision to reunite with Sai is a much BETTER decision for the kids than Sai's decision to marry Satya and run away from Virat,

Virat is deciding based on his emotions while Sai is deciding based on her ego.

Both are equally wrong but decision wise Virat's decision is better.

Because even if Vinayak objects to Sairat's reunion now but later if he is counselled well and told everything about Sairat and Pakhi's past then he would understand it,

Actually it is the duty of both Sairat to make Vinayak understand the reality as good parents, not jump into another marriage like what Sai is doing now.

Both Sai and Virat have failed in PARENTING!!!👎🏼