Originally posted by: LadyD
Isn’t Savi obsessed with her baba & real family? If she can do good upbringing of Savi why is she then giving up on Vinu? Why not try working with him as she had planned. Virat is bad for Savi then why did she let P around Vinu? Isn’t she vicious & unstable? Why P, her family, what people will say come before everything. Either way you look Sai is unfair to one of her children. Currently she is thinking of leaving the city & I am going by that. If she decides to marry Satya then there can be more discussion on this.
Parents take kids for granted. Even if you think they don’t know anything or will forget what affects them or what stays deep in their mind is surprising.
Savi despite her baba obsession is not as unreasonable as Vinu thanks to Sai's parvarish. Thank god for that.
Sai still wants co-parenting of both kids but V is a lunatic endangering safety of people around him and is beyond all reason right now. Hence the impulsive decision to flee for now.
Sai will not long term be able to sustain that and that's why she proposed co-parenting in the first place.
Sai cant do everything right or fulfil every wish of kids. She's doing everything she can to keep them happy. Both of them. Thats all a parent can do. She cant be perfect. She's doing her best. She's been kind, dignified and mature despite all her past, pain, bitterness keeping kids individual equations with each othet, V, P, CN folks from being colored or influenced by her experiences. It is Sai's parvarish thats made Savi understanding, adaptable and resilient . And i worry always about V, CN influence creeping up. Sai will do her best to keep Savi normal so she isnt as impacted by all this growing up.
Satya whenever he gets involved in sais life more intimately will be a good role model for Savi. Everything V is NOT.
Vinu was ignored by all in CN. But Sai proactively kept Savi distracted from a stressful situation preventing her from realizing the gravity or getting scared, anxious. Thats what a good parent does.
Within the realm of ITVs illogicality she's tried a lot of things to get Vinu custody but failed and she really does not have the energy left to fight anymore after all these years of fighting alone. I can understand that.
As a mother she's fine to be involved even from a distance with Vinu. But V had ruined her plans. Now P is unlikely to let Sai/Savi near Vinu... And she may have to fight again
Sai cannot give Savi a "normal conventional" family because V her biological father is a $#@&$#
Sai cannot live in CN forever if VP are together or reconcile even if P didn't exist without a lot of counseling and now toh with P as V wife its just not an option to reunite with V to keep kids in CN. If P divorces even then Sai can't forget Vs deeds and trust him.
So in the realm of whats practical she proposed co-parenting but V didn't heed her.
Sai doesn't have too many options when V and P are such selfish and pathetic people.
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