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Posted: 2 years ago
#11

If Virat was smart like P, he could have twisted Sai Savi leaving CN as cause of Vinu’s sickness & asked Sai to never leave or Vinu will suffer. Then he would have his pyar & his son’s nanny, cook, housekeeper both at his disposal. Savi would get to stay with her real family.

How is Sai going to explain this sudden shaadi to Savi. Ab hum na ek game khel rahe hai jisne hum baba ko badal dete hai. She doesn’t know but Vinu is villain in this poor girls life. If not for Vinu her mother wouldn’t have left CN in the first place. She would have been born as CN ka chirag. Then she got shifted from Kankavli to Nagpur overnight as her Aai felt connected to her sauten’s beta. And now thanks to Vinu first her Aai will think of uprooting her from her baba, real family, friends, school just because prince can’t move away from his mumma & CN. Now thanks to Vinu she will get another set of crazy family overnight.

Isn’t Sai taking Savi’s adjusting nature for granted? And what’s with Vinu. Isn’t he this weakling thanks to P. How good it is to leave him with P. And what’s this logic that Vinu can decide what he wants but not Savi? Aren’t both kids just few months apart?

Edited by LadyD - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: imsoumyasrk06

This would be longest 24 hours in history 🤣🤣

Also action filled. 1 slap, 1 push, 1 thrash. Only Sai is safe as of now
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyD

If Virat was smart like P, he could have twisted Sai Savi leaving CN as cause of Vinu’s sickness & asked Sai to never leave or Vinu will suffer. Then he would have his pyar & his son’s nanny, cook, housekeeper both at his disposal. Savi would get to stay with her real family.

How is Sai going to explain this sudden shaadi to Savi. Ab hum na ek game khel rahe hai jisne him baba ko badal dete hai. She doesn’t know but Vinu is villain in this poor girls life. If not for Vinu her mother wouldn’t have left CN in the first place. She would have been born as CN ka chirag. Then she got shifted from Kankavli to Nagpur overnight as her Aai felt connected to her sauten’s beta. And now thanks to Vinu first her Aai will think of uprooting her from her baba, real family, friends, school just because prince can’t move away from his mumma & CN. Now thanks to Vinu she will get another set of crazy family overnight.

Isn’t Sai taking Savi’s adjusting nature for granted? And what’s with Vinu. Isn’t he this weakling thanks to P. How good it is to leave him with P. And what’s this logic that Vinu can decide what he wants but not Savi? Aren’t both kids just few months apart?

This exactly why Savi is the perfect lead for next gen leap. They are literally preparing her character for all the Dukh.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Finally someone in Ghum who can give virat his sh!t back without even going to his level

🤣👍🏼👏

More power to you Satya

Idgaf attitude is the right way to deal with Virat 🤪🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: KaalaCoat

This exactly why Savi is the perfect lead for next gen leap. They are literally preparing her character for all the Dukh.

Ghum generational leap


I think the opposite I think Savi will be the good kind child

Who had an upbringing with a stable man like Satya

Where as Vinu will be the negative charchter who will have heart filled with hate , angry because he will think Sai left him

Because of pakhi manipulations

As an adult and Savi will try to make vinu see the truth

Vinu will somehow be against sai

And Savi will take upon herself to clear her mom's image in Vinu's mind

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Posted: 2 years ago
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If it was upto Sai she'd take Vinu and Savi but Vinu is obsessed with mumma so Sai is only getting to make decisions for one child. And Savi leaving CN and being a good distance away from V is the best thing that can happen to her. Sai would never deliberately pick one child over another. She has tried to make every transition smooth for Savi in her capacity. Savi has had a better upbringing than Vinu. She grew up like Sai in a serene atmosphere, where she was free, one with nature. She asked for baba a lot but despite that she was happy. She was taught good values. She was friends with the whole village. And Sai will ensure that Savi's upbringing, education is not compromised by psycho V and his equally pathetic current wife P. Even now Sai is in a tough spot. It'd be easy if she could tell Savi- "we are hiding and not living with UM as planned because your father is behaving like a rogue. We need to flee because your father cant be mature and is threatening our safety and those of other innocent people "

At this point Sai is scared of him. V is destroying property, manhandling everyone and is behaving like a lunatic. Yet she's keeping it together in front of Savi.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Nja91

If it was upto Sai she'd take Vinu and Savi but Vinu is obsessed with mumma so Sai is only getting to make decisions for one child. And Savi leaving CN and being a good distance away from V is the best thing that can happen to her. Sai would never deliberately pick one child over another. She has tried to make every transition smooth for Savi in her capacity. Savi has had a better upbringing than Vinu. She grew up like Sai in a serene atmosphere, where she was free, one with nature. She asked for baba a lot but despite that she was happy. She was taught good values. She was friends with the whole village. And Sai will ensure that Savi's upbringing, education is not compromised by psycho V and his equally pathetic current wife P. Even now Sai is in a tough spot. It'd be easy if she could tell Savi- "we are hiding and not living with UM as planned because your father is behaving like a rogue. We need to flee because your father cant be mature and is threatening our safety and those of other innocent people "

At this point Sai is scared of him. V is destroying property, manhandling everyone and is behaving like a lunatic. Yet she's keeping it together in front of Savi.

Isn’t Savi obsessed with her baba & real family? If she can do good upbringing of Savi why is she then giving up on Vinu? Why not try working with him as she had planned. Virat is bad for Savi then why did she let P around Vinu? Isn’t she vicious & unstable? Why P, her family, what people will say come before everything. Either way you look Sai is unfair to one of her children. Currently she is thinking of leaving the city & I am going by that. If she decides to marry Satya then there can be more discussion on this.

Parents take kids for granted. Even if you think they don’t know anything or will forget what affects them or what stays deep in their mind is surprising.

Edited by LadyD - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyD

Isn’t Savi obsessed with her baba & real family? If she can do good upbringing of Savi why is she then giving up on Vinu? Why not try working with him as she had planned. Why P, her family, what people will say come before everything. Either way you look Sai is unfair to one of her children.

I don't think soo Sai leaving CN is giving up on Vinu

Virat was abusing Sai and Savi both in CN

So what do you want Sai to stay with him while he continues to be gross abuse to her

And behave like a road side psycho


Why is it Sai's responsibility alone to save Vinu when it's Virat who bought pakhi in vinus live

Why mother are responsible alone for child's

Sai can't do anything about Pakhi because pakhi is step mother of Vinu not just a surrogate because virat choose to marry her

Pakhi has parental right on Vinu legally

& Vinu is not a toddler he is a pre teen who had made a choice that he only consider Pakhi his mother

What you want Sai to do force vinu to listen to her

Vinu is whole human being with thoughts and personality and free will

Who for better part of his life sees world through a women lenses who raised him

These are complex situations

But if Sai stayed Vinu would have hated her and blamed Sai for his parents divorce and fight

Edited by badgarlriri - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: LadyD

Isn’t Savi obsessed with her baba & real family? If she can do good upbringing of Savi why is she then giving up on Vinu? Why not try working with him as she had planned. Virat is bad for Savi then why did she let P around Vinu? Isn’t she vicious & unstable? Why P, her family, what people will say come before everything. Either way you look Sai is unfair to one of her children. Currently she is thinking of leaving the city & I am going by that. If she decides to marry Satya then there can be more discussion on this.

Parents take kids for granted. Even if you think they don’t know anything or will forget what affects them or what stays deep in their mind is surprising.

Savi despite her baba obsession is not as unreasonable as Vinu thanks to Sai's parvarish. Thank god for that.

Sai still wants co-parenting of both kids but V is a lunatic endangering safety of people around him and is beyond all reason right now. Hence the impulsive decision to flee for now.

Sai will not long term be able to sustain that and that's why she proposed co-parenting in the first place.

Sai cant do everything right or fulfil every wish of kids. She's doing everything she can to keep them happy. Both of them. Thats all a parent can do. She cant be perfect. She's doing her best. She's been kind, dignified and mature despite all her past, pain, bitterness keeping kids individual equations with each othet, V, P, CN folks from being colored or influenced by her experiences. It is Sai's parvarish thats made Savi understanding, adaptable and resilient . And i worry always about V, CN influence creeping up. Sai will do her best to keep Savi normal so she isnt as impacted by all this growing up.

Satya whenever he gets involved in sais life more intimately will be a good role model for Savi. Everything V is NOT.

Vinu was ignored by all in CN. But Sai proactively kept Savi distracted from a stressful situation preventing her from realizing the gravity or getting scared, anxious. Thats what a good parent does.

Within the realm of ITVs illogicality she's tried a lot of things to get Vinu custody but failed and she really does not have the energy left to fight anymore after all these years of fighting alone. I can understand that.

As a mother she's fine to be involved even from a distance with Vinu. But V had ruined her plans. Now P is unlikely to let Sai/Savi near Vinu... And she may have to fight again

Sai cannot give Savi a "normal conventional" family because V her biological father is a $#@&$#

Sai cannot live in CN forever if VP are together or reconcile even if P didn't exist without a lot of counseling and now toh with P as V wife its just not an option to reunite with V to keep kids in CN. If P divorces even then Sai can't forget Vs deeds and trust him.

So in the realm of whats practical she proposed co-parenting but V didn't heed her.

Sai doesn't have too many options when V and P are such selfish and pathetic people.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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If Sai had stayed in CN risking Vinu hate then Savi also would have been impacted by it. Why is her mother called names like home wrecker, dusri aurat etc.

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