Past coming out bit by bit - Page 27

Originally posted by: Sherry24

Thanks ❤️

I wrote about this in some post. Can't find it.

We are talking about "Trust" in subjective terms...in a way categorising it. While she may feel that V did not love her the way he claimed to and his importance to him was only credited to being the mother to his son, she still trusts V on P angle. She still believes him to never allow P on a partner or spousal space. Hence, while she knows P's intentions and her manipulation capabilities along with the positively aligned circumstances, she never considered that P could actually be the "Wife". Here she is holding her trust on V higher than P's capability at manipulating him. So when she knows the truth, it will not be the trust on V that is broken. It will be her belief that P cannot manipulate V into marrying him. Because that is the growth of Sai as a wife post SH track. It is betrayal on manipulation, forgiveness, acceptance....not on "love". It is kind of warped here.

Wow! So deep!

I have a different opinion on "Sai to believe that V only loves her and V to Trust Sai"

I think Sai knows that V only loves her, but she doesn't trust his decisions (rightfully). He doesn't see how his decisions are affecting and hurting others (that is what she said today). He has the power to free P but gives into P & fam pressure. He gives in way too easy.

He did try to free her several times, but the slightest scope P sees, she jumps back in. By on-off friend zoning P, she sees hope. Sad for her too. Vile but still sad. Sai realizes this but not V. Today's comment on the ph summarizes it. (aap ki harkatho se aas paas ke logo takleef hoti hai)

And V need to trust Sai (and her decisions). He should know by now that she thinks thru with compassion for others (Ladhak fight: ab toh aap samjhte hai na, ke mein unke (P) bare mein sonchti hu). Sending P to jail would have emotionally freed everyone and better in the long run. I bet Sai did not do it of spite, but she thought of everyone her son, her husband, her extended fam and even P. P would have barely served jail (fgs JM barely served a few years for 2 murders) and came out obsession free and would have lead a normal successful life.

But because of V's decisions everyone is hurt. Leaders should understand bigger picture, not just immediate scene. V and BK are short and tunnel vision leaders. Though Sai has bigger goals, better views!

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Continuing on the topic of leadership from my previous post, I am trying to understand why everyone is pro-P and anti-Sai in Chuha-Nivas. I charter it into "mass mentality"

A leader is not a leader until that first person (esp someone you trust) supports his/her action/statement. In CN, BK makes a statement and immediately Ninand (initial days), Omkar, Sonali etc support it, vocally and loudly, taking away the voice of others and eventually it becomes mass opinion. If anyone stands against it, they are shooed and voice-canceller is used mercilessly.

When Sai left home and death of Vinu and Sai was presumed, initial hurt of loosing them snowballed into blame on Sai. Observing V's mental sthithi made that permanent. If anyone even tried to reason it out might have been labeled as V ke dushman. Eventually everyone is sailing in the same boat of Sai bashing. As usual P could have seen her chance to dance. Did her PR and landed as the fav bahu.

Let's see how this pans out.

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I know they are pealing the layers for the audience, lekin yeh sub tho V-Sai ko patha chalna chajiye na!

I like your thoughts .. but I don’t have much hopes in its execution..

I am a veteran in itv soaps .. they murder the storyline and characters to give more drama and thrill .. and whatever should be the desired logical outcome . It does not happen

For a show to show logical happy ending .. the audience has to get it shut down .. if this show closes in a months time then we may see .. a logical happy ending ..

I think the audience did the biggest favour to ipk .. by having it close down .. we got a happy end ..

Infact the makers and channel are so disgusting.. that even feel good shows like sasural genda phool which had a happy end will be resurrected for a second season in which the female lead is shown to be dead

So I am not expecting any such grand gestures from virat where he does anything to sai .. to show how much he loves her ..

Mind says that drama cannot happen in kakoli .. for that they have to go to Chavan niwas .. for whatever illogical reasons ..

but heart says Sai should not go .. when virat could not prove his loyalty or even affection for her .. and married Poki .. she should let them live with each other in the chavanesd happy world

If nothing she is saving mankind and doing useful work . A life well lived .. not everyone gets love and loyalty in this lifetime .. it cannot be the be all and end all of your existence..

Originally posted by: JinglesRead

Virat Sai aur Pakhi ek hi ghar mein rehna TRP puller hain. Saare scenes recreate karenge jaha Pakhi patni hogi aur Sai uska pyaar jo dusri aurat bhi hain .

Sai jyada der CN se dur nahiin re sakhti. Iss liye sabko Sai ke khilaaf kiya hain taki Pakhi ka pala bari hoon jab Sai ayegi Chavan niwas .

yes but Sai won’t enter .. Chavan niwas .. the usp of the story is .. Sai is a self respecting character .. she’s not gungun ( flop show ) when she had everything.. she left everything for her self respect ..

By making Sai compromise on her self respect .. trp will fall rapidly ., doosri aurat cannot be the face of star plus show ..

Originally posted by: msin

yes but Sai won’t enter .. Chavan niwas .. the usp of the story is .. Sai is a self respecting character .. she’s not gungun ( flop show ) when she had everything.. she left everything for her self respect ..

By making Sai compromise on her self respect .. trp will fall rapidly ., doosri aurat cannot be the face of star plus show ..

Yes but her kid Savi is with her .. there is no indication that virat’s name is there in Savi’s birth certificate..

and vinu is adopted ..

Virat can’t force Sai to give up Savi .. as he has commited bigamy .

It’s going to be like Shruti n sahas case .. where sada could not claim the baby .. as his name was not there

to claim Savi .. Virat will have to nullify his marriage to pakhi . File for a divorce ( divorce happening .. matlab the marriage is still valid in eyes of law )

And that means the second marriage is just hogwash

Kohi bhi Karan ho Virat irredeemable hain . Agar usne shadhi majboori mein ki toh Ek kamre mein rehne ki kohi zaroot nahin tha aur Pakhi ko worship karne ki bhi zaroor nahiin thi .

TRP Janta ko kohi farak nahiin padtha aur online audiences ko kohi importance nahiin deta .

Agar adoption ki waje se shaadi huvi toh fake nahiin hogs warna ek aur IBF complaint jayegi ki adoption ke liye fraud kiya ek IPs officer ne . Shadhi pakka real hain aur Virat Sai ke layak nahiin hain ab . TRP kaam hona chaiye aur generation leap lelo ya phir punar janam dikado. Vankar ne yeh shaadi karva ke Sairat ki band bajadi

The least they should do is introduce a young male in Sai's life (not Jagtap)...maybe a smart young doctor. Makers won't make him Sai's lover but he should atleast be a good friend to Sai. Virat should witness their friendship- he will die of jealousy. Sai should give him dosti jaap bhar bhar ke.

Originally posted by: msin

Yes but her kid Savi is with her .. there is no indication that virat’s name is there in Savi’s birth certificate..

and vinu is adopted ..

Virat can’t force Sai to give up Savi .. as he has commited bigamy .

It’s going to be like Shruti n sahas case .. where sada could not claim the baby .. as his name was not there

to claim Savi .. Virat will have to nullify his marriage to pakhi . File for a divorce ( divorce happening .. matlab the marriage is still valid in eyes of law )

And that means the second marriage is just hogwash

Shaadi toh pakka real hain agar adoption ke liye kiya toh warna fraud hojayega aur IBF complaint ke liye ek aur mauka mil gayega fans ko . Kuch saal rakh kar Vankar me khud ko protect ki hain IBf complaint se . Ab kohi nahiin janta ki first marriage legal hain ya second marriage kyunki leap ka year kuch saal hain .

Agar second marriage illegal bhi hain toh kya farak padta hain agar Virat Pakhi ko chunega toh . Jiss tarah se Pakhi ne blackmail kiya hospital mein jab usko pata chalega ki Sai wapas agayi toh waise hi blackmail karegi aur Virat usko chunega

That I agree with you 💯 % .. Virat by marrying pakhi has done a irretrievable mistake .. and there’s no going back to it .. or even justification to it..

Now that he has married her .. either he nibhaos it .. or gets out of it totally .. but till he is pakhi’s Pati .. he cannot stand beside Sai