Does the baby deserve pakhi ka gutter jaisa kokh - Page 15

Originally posted by: Shaome

My mom always says the same thing.. 🙈

I don't but my mom believes in horoscopes.. and whatever that pandit had said about my husband has come true.. as in the family background and year of marriage etc😆

When Sai came back during second marriage .. after virat gave her umpteen chances to leave him and the marriage .. she came back on her own free Will

Maybe it was done crudely with drums .. but nobody forced Sai to come dressed as a bride .. she had finished her studies as a doctor . Virat’s obligation to her father and her was over ..

Sai had seen his family enough .. how meanspirited they could be .. Infact ashwini also came out looking selfish .. Virat was not begging her to marry him ..

they had not consummated the marriage .. Sai could have walked out ..

But she came back and proposed virat to marry him and virat consented ..

this marriage is between 2 free consenting adults .. who have let go of their past grievances .. Ab kab tak uska dhol bajate rahenge ..

Elon musk is just an euphemism.. because I like him personally .. Bas…. 😂😂

there will always be some one better .. who may or may not fall for you .. but if you have chosen to take the vows with someone then pls respect It ..

Otherwise you will always be chasing a dream .. yeh achha nahi .. let me leave this relationship for some one better .. then one fine day that perfect some one leaves you for some one else .. and I mean it for both the sexes ..

Then wish for virat to be very very active in the night .. tab toh chamatkar hoga

No dear.. that was not the point of the post...

I suggest you read Gauris post and then mine... With open mind

It was a comment on 'would Sai had married V knowing his nature if she was not forced?'

Externally keeping KJ's death situation aside... Sai might have been tempted to marry V in future if KJ had been alive.

So all the description and discussion are only till SaiRat marriage.

And if Sai had been BK's choice or if they had accepted Sai right away.. itna hungama bhi nahi hota aur itni story nahi badhti.

Why does everyone like GC wala V? Because he is a sensitive mature human being. We all keep him as reference.

That person flips completely when he is back to CN and confronted with situations beyond his understanding and beyond his control. Can you really predict how someone will behave?

How was Sai to know that he will behave like this in future? Had everything been perfectly alright, this V would not have surfaced and he would have been the GC wala V version that everyone remembers and loves.

So no.. it wasn't a comment on how he behaved later or why Sai should have rejected him. He seemed like a good enough person at that time that KJ trusted him. I am not going into the ambiguity of the vaada KJ took from him because that is open to interpretation. (In LB.. Marathi ghum.. KJ dies in both of their presence and he specifically puts her hand in his.. implying marriage)

The other point being this is show.. if the characters won't behave in a certain manner, the story won't move and neither Ghum makers have that sort of creativity.

V's behaviour to Sai is on the spectrum of abuse.. theres no denying that and neither am I justifying it.

That post was only till SaiRat marriage and real life scenarios where it's not easy to walk out of marriage because of a tiff. A marriage can break because of difference between two individuals... Not because of a third party.

Whatever V behaves with P is part of the story but his mindset is he loves Sai and she loves him. I don't know why they should give up on each other when they can work it out between themselves. Court bhi 6 months ka time deta hai... Ye to fiction hai

I did notice... Also wrote it in my review... And the first draft for deleted for some reason... I was too lazy to write it second time. 🤣

Bewakoofon jaisi shakal banai thi usne

Originally posted by: msin

When Sai came back during second marriage .. after virat gave her umpteen chances to leave him and the marriage .. she came back on her own free Will

Maybe it was done crudely with drums .. but nobody forced Sai to come dressed as a bride .. she had finished her studies as a doctor . Virat’s obligation to her father and her was over ..

Sai had seen his family enough .. how meanspirited they could be .. Infact ashwini also came out looking selfish .. Virat was not begging her to marry him ..

they had not consummated the marriage .. Sai could have walked out ..

But she came back and proposed virat to marry him and virat consented ..

this marriage is between 2 free consenting adults .. who have let go of their past grievances .. Ab kab tak uska dhol bajate rahenge ..

Elon musk is just an euphemism.. because I like him personally .. Bas…. 😂😂

there will always be some one better .. who may or may not fall for you .. but if you have chosen to take the vows with someone then pls respect It ..

Otherwise you will always be chasing a dream .. yeh achha nahi .. let me leave this relationship for some one better .. then one fine day that perfect some one leaves you for some one else .. and I mean it for both the sexes ..

Despite seeing his terrible side, that's why I call her doormat.

She choosed virat over her self respect. Virat and his family terribly insulted her for her no fault. She happily accepted it as a clown. She don't mind getting insulted daily for the sake of living with virat.

Had kamal Joshi was alive, would he made his daughter go through this ? Never. He would have convinced his daughter that she is in toxic relationship.

Before shruti track sai herself tried to leave that house many times. Had virat and aswini didn't manipulate her emotionally she would have ended this relationship long back for her mental peace.

Everyone knows ending a relationship is not a easy task that too when u r orphan.

But at what cost? Daily taking insults, getting taunted, husband prioritising ex over wife, ex openly claiming rights on her husband, husband abandoning her at crucial situations, getting name called by the elders and husband not minding it.

Didn't virat take vows? Or only Sai is liable to respect those vows. A relationship is two ways.

How long it can survive with only one person efforts?

Had sai ended this relationship long back instead of compromising her self respect. Now she wouldn't have become infertile.

She may or may not find a good partner but atleast she wouldn't have become infertile.

Normalising someone living in a toxic relationship for the sake of vows and normalising the abuse virat did in the name of normal husband wife tiff because of third party is 💁.

Living respectful life alone is greater than living a life where u always given last priority in ur husband's life & live in the house where u are not respected even as a human.

Just because Sai loves virat, sai accepts his family, it doesn't undo the fact that virat & his family is toxic & no girl deserves such life.

No parent would want his daughter to live in such relationship.

There are many people living in this world .. some chose to lead a life of independence, chosing their self respect above everything else .. and some who chose to compromise on many things but wish to lead life with a partner who they desire ..

we cannot say this one is wrong or that one is .. it’s the person who is wearing the shoe who can take a call whether to wear it or walk bare feet

one size or axiom cannot fit all .. and I will leave it that .. 😊

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Of course no one denied that sai herself choosed virat after shruti track.

Despite seeing his terrible side, that's why I call her doormat.

She choosed virat over her self respect. Virat and his family terribly insulted her for her no fault. She happily accepted it as a clown. She don't mind getting insulted daily for the sake of living with virat.

Had kamal Joshi was alive, would he made his daughter go through this ? Never. He would have convinced his daughter that she is in toxic relationship.

Before shruti track sai herself tried to leave that house many times. Had virat and aswini didn't manipulate her emotionally she would have ended this relationship long back for her mental peace.

Everyone knows ending a relationship is not a easy task that too when u r orphan.

But at what cost? Daily taking insults, getting taunted, husband prioritising ex over wife, ex openly claiming rights on her husband, husband abandoning her at crucial situations, getting name called by the elders and husband not minding it.

Didn't virat take vows? Or only Sai is liable to respect those vows. A relationship is two ways.

How long it can survive with only one person efforts?

Had sai ended this relationship long back instead of compromising her self respect. Now she wouldn't have become infertile.

She may or may not find a good partner but atleast she wouldn't have become infertile.

Normalising someone living in a toxic relationship for the sake of vows and normalising the abuse virat did in the name of normal husband wife tiff because of third party is 💁.

Living respectful life alone is greater than living a life where u always given last priority in ur husband's life & live in the house where u are not respected even as a human.

Just because Sai loves virat, sai accepts his family, it doesn't undo the fact that virat & his family is toxic & no girl deserves such life.

No parent would want his daughter to live in such relationship.

I'll just say one thing...

This is a show... A fiction...need for drama...

Now read every sentence of your post with this statement:

'Sai has enough pull on V from the start and he has to listen to her as her husband. If this was real life, they would have moved out long back and lived happily'

Originally posted by: Moor278

I don't but my mom believes in horoscopes.. and whatever that pandit had said about my husband has come true.. as in the family background and year of marriage etc😆

I don't believe in horoscopes 🙈

But I strongly believe in karma and destiny.. My mum says our karma will decide our destiny.. God has already written what's in our fate but with his umpteen blessings things may come as we wanted or even better.. But she always says nothing will happen up until the time it's decided by our destiny ..

Originally posted by: Shaome

I don't believe in horoscopes 🙈

But I strongly believe in karma and destiny.. My mum says our karma will decide our destiny.. God has already written what's in our fate but with his umpteen blessings things may come as we wanted or even better.. But she always says nothing will happen up until the time it's decided by our destiny ..

Same here...

I believe in the existence of God or a supreme being.. somewhere... And for me.. it's just one... Without any tags of religion...

But I believe in doing the deeds more.

I am not into daily prayers and Pooja paath.. just know the basics 😆