Does anyone feel bad? - Page 2

Originally posted by: asmi_ekaa

I read Moor's thread..

So the woman who was years after her father's death for the first time was excited about loving, being loved, you know in the purest form, getting married of her own will, is made to chose between her father's dream, her dream and her love and the husband makes a choice for her, asking her to trust her, in the process making her feel all choked and sad while she took her pheras.. Did anyone feel bad, for her, as a woman, a career oriented woman. As a woman who carries the dream of her parents? Does anyone feel bad for her, that nobody around her , none, since she being an orphan, took a stand for her, everyone wanted Virat's happiness and this marriage, for her being an orphan?

Forget what happens in future, but does anyone feel bad that you know, she was disrespected, disregarded, abused and insulted at her own altar, infront of the man who loves her and was silent all along, who does take stand for other women in the house, at her happy marriage.

Exactly.

V ka ghar,v ki family ,v ke jazbat

Bas V ,V,v

Damn its like she doesnt matter

No body stood up for her.

Just to diffuse the situation you dont get the person choked up !!

But from now whatever happens to SAI is her doing coz she keeps going back to him

I want to feel bad for her but she herself choosed this life. Feeling sad to say this but Sai character deserves this for having zero self respect. This is coming from the person who was arderent fan of Sai Joshi once.

Originally posted by: Nabni_blr31

I felt bad.😭

Actually I wanted to comment on Neerja 's post regarding Sairat's confession. But I controlled myself, thought let me watch Virat's reaction then I will gv my opinion. This guy ,seriously he never fails to disappoint me.👏Virat Chavan...👎🏼

Sai's biggest fault is she falls in love with a wrong person. I hv told this many times that one can even tolerate this person, but how can u tolerate the baggage which comes with him. His toxic family and his dost.😡 Forget about Sai's happiness, her rights and all,now they want to snatch the only thing she has her own. Her Abba 's dream, her identity Dr Sai Joshi.😭

Today I felt terrible for Sai. Sorry SaiRat fans, but Sairat never had a love story and they will never have a love story. The entire Sairat journey is full of heartbreaks,betrayals, hatred and toxicity. Not a tiny sign of Love.

Eventually they could have shown it as any other story, but love story and I would have accepted it. This is not a love story, glorification hurts.

Originally posted by: Svt611

see that’s my problem. The storyline will have undercurrents and recollection of the past. Anniversary, ousting, pakhi ka two day love all is still remembered. That way all of this should be forgotten but it isn’t! But this is supposed to be forgotten and we are supposed to casually forget it never happened!!??? That’s not how life works, you casually don’t forget something with legitimately caused you mental distress, it takes years to get over mental torture (I speak from experience).

Without addressing many things and brushing under the carpet I cannot enjoy the show cause subconsciously those incidents stay and I’ll remember them

Vanker said he is discarding abuses.. Fans didn't get the underlying meaning.. He meant women should be submissive and meek who will tolerate everything in the name of love..

I do understand virat has given up the marital bliss for 5 years for the sake of her career.. He deserves more time and attention from his wife.. But is it worth at the cost of Sai's career.. Today in his dream I got the clear picture of his thought process.. He is very much well aware of each and every family member and about himself.. Still he never speaks up for his wife whom he claims to love.. I know it's very tough to live in joint family even sometimes we can't say anything against our elders.. Since it's happening frequently how one can be so blind folded, act as if nothing happened..

Now coming to Sai who is the charm of this show..why she has been turned into too white.. No one is saint in this world..

If we resonate with current phase that the story is real then why a head strong girl like Sai should put up with all these in the name of love??

I find it harsh to say Sai chose this and has no self respect. She loves V because she has seen his goodness, seen his concern for her in many moments and over time has found him to be someone she got attached to, who was always supportive of her career. but she has her priorities straight and clear too. She is trying to give V some time now because he said just listen to me for now and gave her vaasta of love, trust. And so she is trusting that he won't actually let bk get her way and so that bk allows the last phera to happen without drama. But she is not hiding her pain , confusion, uncertainty looming large now. She is clearly unhappy about this demand and does NOT intend to follow through. As V's dream showed, if V didn't take control and speak for Sai, Sai's response would have been to walk away n pick her identity. Theres no marriage to cherish when you dont have your own self worth or identity left. I think Sai is just giving V time to explain why he said what he did because unlike V, she learns from her "mistakes". She felt like the Shruti kaand may have been better if she had shown more patience so this time she's giving him that chance. But V never learns. Everyday his ridiculous family finds new ways to torture and harass Sai..and he keeps watching that expecting them to suddenly change their stance and accept her. Bk is not conservative. She is evil, disrespectful towards Sai. Period. How does V never recognize it?! This woman pp again is downright evil, despicable. She literally told him to elope with her. How does he still allow her to be within 6 feet of himself and still think of her as a friend. Shes a pathetic human being. And he knows that. But everytime he is angry/upset at Sai he has allowed pp to enter his room, touch him, manipulate him. He starts venting about Sai to her. So i don't see V learning any lessons...