Does anyone feel bad?

I read Moor's thread..

So the woman who was years after her father's death for the first time was excited about loving, being loved, you know in the purest form, getting married of her own will, is made to chose between her father's dream, her dream and her love and the husband makes a choice for her, asking her to trust her, in the process making her feel all choked and sad while she took her pheras.. Did anyone feel bad, for her, as a woman, a career oriented woman. As a woman who carries the dream of her parents? Does anyone feel bad for her, that nobody around her , none, since she being an orphan, took a stand for her, everyone wanted Virat's happiness and this marriage, for her being an orphan?

Forget what happens in future, but does anyone feel bad that you know, she was disrespected, disregarded, abused and insulted at her own altar, infront of the man who loves her and was silent all along, who does take stand for other women in the house, at her happy marriage.

I felt terrible seeing her face. She finally got the love of her life and she was not even able to enjoy the moment.

I felt bad. If sai walk out like shown in virat dream, i wud be the first person to enjoy that moment.

That's why I mentioned in msin thread the episode was disturbing in every level..

Basically vanker wants to show women can't have their own identity.. Women are supposed to be submissive to their husbands.. The ultimate formula of successful marriage 👎🏼

I wonder what kind of family he belongs to..

No. She chose this hell for herself.

It was so sad to watch her literally feel suffocated. Watch Sai hold her necklace after that last phera and her expression. Its like shes choked/suffocated. She is unhappy even on the day shes supposed to be most happy. She had such hope/trust that V would speak out loud. And even when he didn't she is still choosing to trust that eventually he will make it better because she knows that he personally doesn't share bk's archaic ideas. But just to watch her happiest day be ruined and for her to once again be reeling with uncertainty, grief, disappointment, questions on the day of her marriage- its NOT ok.

I felt bad.😭

Actually I wanted to comment on Neerja 's post regarding Sairat's confession. But I controlled myself, thought let me watch Virat's reaction then I will gv my opinion. This guy ,seriously he never fails to disappoint me.👏Virat Chavan...👎🏼

Sai's biggest fault is she falls in love with a wrong person. I hv told this many times that one can even tolerate this person, but how can u tolerate the baggage which comes with him. His toxic family and his dost.😡 Forget about Sai's happiness, her rights and all,now they want to snatch the only thing she has her own. Her Abba 's dream, her identity Dr Sai Joshi.😭

Today I felt terrible for Sai. Sorry SaiRat fans, but Sairat never had a love story and they will never have a love story. The entire Sairat journey is full of heartbreaks,betrayals, hatred and toxicity. Not a tiny sign of Love.

Replying on this forum and participating in a discussion about this show after a very long time, it was suffocating to even read about it.

As someone who loves working and gets up daily, looks forward to going to work and doing my thing I would have completely broken. I guess it’s my opinion but I would choose my career over anything else cause that is one thing which is part of my identity and that is my choice. Similarly this should be HER CHOICE. No one not even her husband or the love of her life has the right to make that choice. Whether a woman or even a man wants to work or not, stay at home with the kids or not is upto that INDIVIDAUL AND NO ONE ELSE.

I get it this is a drama but there are better ways of handling things. To diffuse a situation you don’t break the person you love to bits and pieces and you don’t let them feel insulted force them to put a smile just cause they love you.

Love is understanding of the others pain and Virat is not rather has never understood that girls pain. I hate how this character has shaped and I cannot fathom the fact that I had loved this character to bits months ago.

I get drama hooks on audience but there is a way to show it too, by becoming toxic and out right negative it doesn’t work.
today no one on team Sai as they call is worth even respecting cause thanks to Shruthi track they all just discarded that girl when they felt like and used her.
I cannot forget the past 4 months of torture which need to be addressed and cannot be brushed under the carpet in the NAME OF STORY AND DRAMA. I’m not one who’ll just come back for romance and good scenes, I like continuity and a little sense in what I’m watching. Currently I want to beat someone up watching this toxic cycle being repeated.

Originally posted by: Svt611

Replying on this forum and participating in a discussion about this show after a very long time, it was suffocating to even read about it.

As someone who loves working and gets up daily, looks forward to going to work and doing my thing I would have completely broken. I guess it’s my opinion but I would choose my career over anything else cause that is one thing which is part of my identity and that is my choice. Similarly this should be HER CHOICE. No one not even her husband or the love of her life has the right to make that choice. Whether a woman or even a man wants to work or not, stay at home with the kids or not is upto that INDIVIDAUL AND NO ONE ELSE.

I get it this is a drama but there are better ways of handling things. To diffuse a situation you don’t break the person you love to bits and pieces and you don’t let them feel insulted force them to put a smile just cause they love you.

Love is understanding of the others pain and Virat is not rather has never understood that girls pain. I hate how this character has shaped and I cannot fathom the fact that I had loved this character to bits months ago.

I get drama hooks on audience but there is a way to show it too, by becoming toxic and out right negative it doesn’t work.
today no one on team Sai as they call is worth even respecting cause thanks to Shruthi track they all just discarded that girl when they felt like and used her.
I cannot forget the past 4 months of torture which need to be addressed and cannot be brushed under the carpet in the NAME OF STORY AND DRAMA. I’m not one who’ll just come back for romance and good scenes, I like continuity and a little sense in what I’m watching. Currently I want to beat someone up watching this toxic cycle being repeated.

True. I just don't get when some people say I'll pretend like this particular thing or track didn't happen, I'll not watch. I'll think that's where it began etc... I mean how does that even work.

Originally posted by: mysticriver

True. I just don't get when some people say I'll pretend like this particular thing or track didn't happen, I'll not watch. I'll think that's where it began etc... I mean how does that even work.

see that’s my problem. The storyline will have undercurrents and recollection of the past. Anniversary, ousting, pakhi ka two day love all is still remembered. That way all of this should be forgotten but it isn’t! But this is supposed to be forgotten and we are supposed to casually forget it never happened!!??? That’s not how life works, you casually don’t forget something with legitimately caused you mental distress, it takes years to get over mental torture (I speak from experience).

Without addressing many things and brushing under the carpet I cannot enjoy the show cause subconsciously those incidents stay and I’ll remember them