Sai's Catharsis - V Realisation Part 2 (pg 10) - Page 5

Not sure. I haven’t watched it. but from the translations I read here, Ninad gets a heart attack, and while in Sai's care his condition deteriorates. Everyone blames Sai for it, however Ninad supports her and stays adamant that Sai will continue to look after him. But this I believe was before she became a doctor.

Like we have all said at different occasions about Sai taking on the entire blame and yet not finding any fault or holding any grudge against the family. They were wrong too, but they completely disowned her. The reason here is that she always knew that they were Virat's family and she was connected to them through him. While all of them claimed to love her as their own, including V, Sai in her heart knew and accepted that reality. All their claims and support during SH never really made her think otherwise. She was thankful for their gestures but was never delusional there. Hence, she is not holding anything against anyone for leaving her and not supporting her. Because at the end of the day they are V's family.

However, she craves for a family and their love. And since she has none of her own she compensates that need through them. And in return she accepts and loves them unconditionally.

Coming to V and Sai, both are opposites as individuals. And very strong ones at that. So there are bound to be clashes and difference of opinion. Now, their maturity and their will to make it work is what will make them compromise and work this out for them. Now Sai and V are very giving people but while Sai doesn't expect much in return, V does. Thats just how each one is built.

And like you rightly said Sai only had her Aaba who was her world, and now her world revolves around V. But she has been very supportive and cognisant about the needs of his family too. They are her package deal. Now post love realisation how much of it changes is for us to watch. But V on the other hand is a sucker for attention. He gives and expects the same amount of love and attention. That is definitely an expectation mismatch. Not because on lacks something, but how one perceives it. Like he keeps complaining that she goes out of her way for his family but not for him. But he fails to see that it is because it is his family. And every person is different, in their relationship, how they behave in one and how they treat it. It is about understanding the person for what they are and not burdening them with one's own expectations. Its like some people need hugs to show their affection while others express it through their gestures. Understanding the emotions in whatever language/medium they are expressed is where the key lies.

Children are always the obvious casualties of broken relationships. I would really be disappointed to see Sairat as they have been portrayed putting their child's future and life on line in their own differences.

I have different opinion about them wanting marriage and love. They both wanted marriage before. After Virat was shot he was happy Sai came back as a wife and Sai stopped from leaving CN again because Virat used the pati ka haq. The patni ka pyaar question since Diwali night. She came back to CN as a wife, for their marriage. Only after her love realisation she wanted marriage and love, same as Virat now.

Agree with you about Ashwini. She has always been Virat's mother first. Her dialog to Sai after first accident and the excuse she used on Sai after second accident, are the biggest example. Sai has accepted her as her own Aai since day 1. Even after ousting, she said Ashwini will always be her Aai. During Shruti track, Ashwini had gone against Virat for her and most importantly the ring she gave is still on Sai's finger. Sai is seeing her still being angry as she has hurt her, like she did to Virat. But Sai has not wronged her and Ashwini is just projecting her guilt towards her.

Patralekha has realised she have no influence on both Sai and Virat then, so she used the third angle talk. Coincidently Shruti appeared but when Sahas appeared too, that third angle doesnt matter anymore. Again, logic of timeline.

The family members know about Virat's feeling towards her but they did not think of this when Shruti track happened. I can still take Sai taking the blame for what the society thinks about him but not what the family did. Its their own action. They also had no bharosa on him. The way she stopped Patralekha from applying color on Virat before the press conference, I saw it as a way to say that she will not let P's love for Virat taint him anymore.

True, Virat is her whole world. She didnt want to go for her award function without Virat even when the whole family is ready. Only he mattered for her. His family is an extension of him. She always think of their happiness because she knows how much his family matters to him.

Like Sai said the narazgi ka chashma he is wearing is not letting him see the logical and important thing. Her anger went off when she find out the whole truth, and Virat's action and words made sense to her then. But, Virat is still angry. He heard what Sai has been saying about their relationship but not register it in his mind. He needs to let go of that anger. This is probably also Sai's way of making him see her and family's pov during the Shruti track.

Beautiful 🥰🥰

The dialogues meant so much ... Finally some good writing.

I am glad it happened.. and it happened in front of V, he needed to hear all this and much more. Anyway.. it's a start.

You have made a very pertinent point. They may have been forced in a marriage. It was a deal but with or without love, both were holding on to the sanctity of the relationship. They didn't waver neither thought of.

Love came later.

Hence, when the relationship broke, it hurt them so much. And that's the whole crux of the issue. The trust which should have been there knowing this, was lost. At that point of time love overpowered trust for Sai and for V now hurt is overpowering the love.

Yet, they both are at a much better level right now. They very well understand the importance they have in each other's lives. And how it much it matters to them to be in the relationship. Hence all the talk of leaving but not breaking it by a formal divorce. That's hope... Thats the window they both are willing to keep open for the light to come in eventually when it does.

The family part is where i feel V will and has to jump in. Itni umeed hai mujhe abhi bhi 🙈

He wont say anything now but he will when everything patches up.

Thats how he works.. he himself can be rude and crude to Sai but he does support her in front of family. Especially after realising his own mistakes. And good thing is doesn't repeat them back to taunt her when he has Apologized.

The reason why i feel V will do it because whatever Sai may say will be taken as her 'junglipana' insolence and badtameezi. Neither would Sai say it because she doesn't want that confrontation. She wants love and is ready to wait for it.

V on the other hand has been seeing their behaviour to her. Agar ab bhi he doesn't speak for her, then it would make no point. But this could be the last straw to make him mahaan. In Sais eyes and the audience. So i doubt the makers would let this go. 🤞🏻🤞🏻

The breakdown Sai had on the night she returned to CN, the slight flinch thinking Devi might slap her, then saying its been so long she received love shows how much its taking a toll on her. Sai has been hiding her hurt under her cheerful mask. But the love realisation become her drive. The snatching apology dream may be shown in a fun way, but it shows her real self. She motivated herself and put the mask back on. The diya visarjan took her mask off and her pain came out. The conversation with Ashwini, with Virat at the back, showed how much she feels guilty and is yearning for love and acceptance. Something that people did not see behind her mask. Ashwini’s word about sahi waqt gave her hope. Somehow I feel Ashwini will put some word to Virat about Sai. Yesterday’s episode was indeed Sai letting out her real self.

V ka Emotional Intelligence/Quotient

A particular trait of Sai and V that I always felt was reiterated for me in these two episodes.

Emotional intelligence is the ability to read, understand and work upon your emotions to overcome challenges. By read and understand it also means for the other person/persons connected to you.

Sai ka EQ has always been on the higher side. V has been on the low.

She perceives, understands and reads things better than V inspite of her young age. This could also be attributed to the unique childhood she had whereas for V being the pampered child of the house, everything must have been handed on the platter. He doesnt need or never had to reflect upon things.

This low EQ although might work better as an IPS because that will also mean that he can look at things objectively when it doesnt concern his personal life. Totally my opinion.

The episode today put it out nicely.

V has always been impulsive... in his love and in his anger.... towards Sai.

Could also be because Sai is completely different to him in that sense and he doesnt know how to handle her.

He does things first, says mean words and reflects upon them later. But only when pushed to do so.

Thank God for Sunny.... he did what a good genuine friend would do.

A moment of appreciation for Jeet... those few lines he said to V were done exceptionally well. There was a resignation at V's adamancy, pain at seeing his friend sad and enough concern and conviction about Sai's actions. He almost choked up saying it. Beautifully done.

The push finally made V reflect on all that he had been blind to see. Sai's words at maut and being an orphan hit the right chord and removed his blinders. He was ready to forgive the family but only because she asked him to... that is how much her words matter to him but he is stupid to not realise it.

The mind voice V is a treat. I wish he could have come back earlier and he retains.

Sai had a catharsis yesterday. This conversation seemed liked one for V. Mind voice V was sensible, logical and smart in accepting the faults, accepting the errors in judgement and pressing the right buttons.

NB looked good too... and the White shirt/blue shirt difference between both the V's was nicely portrayed. much like 'tu bin bataye'

The family conversation was good but short. I wish he had said more. But I still have hopes he will. Probably later when the ill treatment to Sai continues. Right now, CNwasis wanted V back... which they got... but they dont know that it means Sai will be back too... this time stronger than ever. I can see the relation to yesterdays promo and V ka dialouge now.

Sai had a short scene and it was nice. I hope the gifts are farewell gifts and not proposal gifts. Sai doesnt need the pushover from Devi. I still want V to confess first and now more than ever.

I want IF ka article to be wrong. Dont want to see Sai riding a bike and proposing to V. Didnt get the vibes though. I felt like she has lost hope.

Please Vanku... please give me a reverse KD. I will forgive you for V ka idioticness.

V hiding from Sai was cute.

Sai mumbling and clutching the frame tighter was good.

V's expressions (both mind and real V) were so nice... especially that slight tear real V had at that moment.

Pakhi was crap as usual. Always finding the blame to be put on Sai. I wonder though how come she didnt realise what it means. If V has forgiven everyone because Sai asked him to... that means Sai still matters ... how could she not see that?

Ash ka convo was okay... was in continuation to what she said yesterday. I feel validated. She is indeed playing with his mind. Getting him to forgive Sai and by extension getting him back.

Their hug was sweet. Had the initial episodes ke vibe. Atleast one mother-child bond is restored.

Sammy matters to V... chalo thik hai...

I still want much more introspection from V. I want him go all out in manaoing Sai back. I want him to understand why she did what she did. Right now it is only the post landmine actions that he is recognizing. I want him to feel more.

Okayish episode.

Lovely analysis.. let’s see Sai milti hai ki nahi

I would be happy with a reverse KD type of confession ..

Virat is a cop .. and he has enough pics of Sai .. he can use his force to trace where she has gone ..


They can show her sitting and having breakfast at a nearby Dhaba .. planning where to go next .. when virat catches up with her

Originally posted by: msin

Lovely analysis.. let’s see Sai milti hai ki nahi

I would be happy with a reverse KD type of confession ..

Virat is a cop .. and he has enough pics of Sai .. he can use his force to trace where she has gone ..

Switched off phone main location track nahi hoti na lekin 😉

Sai is smart if indeed she has gone away