Why Vankar Why?????? :( - Page 2

Originally posted by: Sagi.

So finally Sadhika Didi is thinking like a creative writer.

Sai has to be this mahaan, chahe duniya yahan ki wahan ho jaye magar wo Virat ka saath nahi chhodegi. Pativrata is the word for it.

Yes, as you say, if Sai learns something from this, fine...

Yeah I keep forgetting it is ITV.

Originally posted by: Sagi.

So finally Sadhika Didi is thinking like a creative writer.

Sai has to be this mahaan, chahe duniya yahan ki wahan ho jaye magar wo Virat ka saath nahi chhodegi. Pativrata is the word for it.

Yes, as you say, if Sai learns something from this, fine...

Originally posted by: xfiles

In the ITV Universe, the bond you portrayed in Ghum between Aayi and Sai was one of the most beautiful relationships. In a typical ITV world , where Saas - Bahu's negative vibes is what basically runs many shows, Ghum was an exception.

The loving bond between this Saas-Bahu was a lot more realistic too, as these days, in most households Saas-Bahu is more like Maa-Beti.

Sai was advised, supported and guided by Aayi, which really helped Sai to handle her marriage with Viru and navigate the complex family dynamics in a typical traditional, joint family. Aayi was that guiding light many times to Viru and Sai whenever they hit a roadblock in their relationship.

But the Aayi that we see on the screen now is worse than the worst Saas of any ITV show. She behaves so negatively with Sai and is even not flinching a moment before putting Sai down. We can give her a little bit leeway because she is Viru's Aayi and she is hurt by what has happened to him. But how can she be this cruel and even ignore the fact that Sai is the only reason her son is alive now. And she is the only one who is privy to what Viru feels for Sai.

This complete 180 degree Aayi took is so unpalatabe and even disgusting right now. On top of that you keep showing Sai going behind her!!

Just because Sai is the main Female character, do you have to compromise her self respect to this level? This show was very progressive in the beginning and now its at the gutter level as the most regressive show on TV now!

I still dont get it why you are so much in love with Toxicity!!!! 🤔

He said the show is NOT toxic and he is sorry if you think so.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I think from story PoV, they wanted to show Sai is sticking to Virat even with all this shit happening around her.. Previous Sai would have left. But now she will fight. 😒

But after all this, there should be some learning shown from Sai's side too. That treat everyone like they deserve. Yes that is your house legally, live there, be with your husband and make a family. But treat others including Ashiwni for their worth. Ashwini is your MIL, treat her with respect and care. Not with daughter's love. in that way, they will also understand what they lost.

Give some arc to the characters, even if it is to redeem them.. Suddenly being a mother, and turning into a heartless MIL and then suddenly a mother. It doesnt help with Ashiwni's character arc or Sai's character arc.

This Aai is total hypocrite. She being her godus mahan aayi did not believe him, and now she blames Sai for her actions. If she was a good, smart and matured aayi. She would have guided and explained to sai to be more patient and wait for her hero son to find the right time clear her doubts. At the drop of a hat she also went against her son and now she blames Sai to cover up her foolishness. Wah kya character hai.

Aai from day one she used sai, she accepted virat marriage with sai because she wants keep his son away from patralekha

Some times she supported sai for eg. Sai admission time, but next day she took u turn and showed her anger on sai.

Pulkit kidnap track, she manipulated sai for not revealing anything to virat what happened in his absence.

Sai first accident time she cleverly manipulated sai, and made sai to believe, what ever virat done was only because of his possessiveness.

Second accident time she cleverly used devi beliefs, to manipulate sai. If sai separates from virat, virat life might be in danger.

In the whole shruthi track every one saw virat with shruthi in hospital, addressing shruthi as Mrs.Chavan, had seen birth certificate.

Worst thing because of virat foolishness sai got kidnapped., but these senseless people blaming sai.

The last nail in coffin is accepting patralekha accusations on sai, and raising hand on sai.

Basically I thought she would be a mentor to both. Now Sai and Virat have no one to guide them.

They have lost that one character who can be a guiding light to both. like in MiMo track, she appeared like she is trying to solve the issue, like elders do in a family.

But the kind of insensitivity she showed with Virat during Sruthi track and later with Sai when he was injured shows that she is not that strong afterall.

I now come to suspect that if Sai had moved on, and Virat did have an affair with sruthi, she would have eventually accepted Virat and convinced the family to accept him also. Was Sai ever under her wings withoout Virat in picture?. It is totally fine if she is not, but the story has to convey it. And Sai has to act accordingly. They cant just give her some heartwarming highly emotional dialogues and make her Sai's mother again.

Let her recollect her behavior, regret her actions on Sai. Accept that she had been Virat's mother only. Then assure Sai that she will try to be fair. In that way, there will be some story to look forward to. Just flippign her randomly is going to reduce her to a side character like Sonali.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Basically I thought she would be a mentor to both. Now Sai and Virat have no one to guide them.

They have lost that one character who can be a guiding light to both. like in MiMo track, she appeared like she is trying to solve the issue, like elders do in a family.

But the kind of insensitivity she showed with Virat during Sruthi track and later with Sai when he was injured shows that she is not that strong afterall.

I now come to suspect that if Sai had moved on, and Virat did have an affair with sruthi, she would have eventually accepted Virat and convinced the family to accept him also. Was Sai ever under her wings withoout Virat in picture?. It is totally fine if she is not, but the story has to convey it. And Sai has to act accordingly. They cant just give her some heartwarming highly emotional dialogues and make her Sai's mother again.

Let her recollect her behavior, regret her actions on Sai. Accept that she had been Virat's mother only. Then assure Sai that she will try to be fair. In that way, there will be some story to look forward to. Just flippign her randomly is going to reduce her to a side character like Sonali.

True..

I'm sorry to say that her upbringing reflects in Virat's character.. No wonder he comes across so weak and bit selfish..

Virat could be a better person if he wasn't raised by these chavanis..

She forgot that it was Sai who mend her relationship with Ninad.. She couldn't do anything for herself..

Yes many of us mentioning there is no character arc.. They are flipping the character illogically..

First she needed to ask Sai have patience ....later when shruti truth was out she needed to tell off Virat that he can't take his marriage for granted for a mere friendship ..

What aai said to Sai is the same thing we viewers want to tell her.

“Ay tu gappa bas ga”

Ashwini accepted Sai only because she wanted to keep Patralekha and Bhavani at a distance. Sai was her trump card against these two.

Similarly Patralekha is being encouraged by BK only to keep Sai under control.

Waah kya family hain...

He compromised many characters to make the FL pure Saint..