Why Vankar Why?????? :(

In the ITV Universe, the bond you portrayed in Ghum between Aayi and Sai was one of the most beautiful relationships. In a typical ITV world , where Saas - Bahu's negative vibes is what basically runs many shows, Ghum was an exception.

The loving bond between this Saas-Bahu was a lot more realistic too, as these days, in most households Saas-Bahu is more like Maa-Beti.

Sai was advised, supported and guided by Aayi, which really helped Sai to handle her marriage with Viru and navigate the complex family dynamics in a typical traditional, joint family. Aayi was that guiding light many times to Viru and Sai whenever they hit a roadblock in their relationship.

But the Aayi that we see on the screen now is worse than the worst Saas of any ITV show. She behaves so negatively with Sai and is even not flinching a moment before putting Sai down. We can give her a little bit leeway because she is Viru's Aayi and she is hurt by what has happened to him. But how can she be this cruel and even ignore the fact that Sai is the only reason her son is alive now. And she is the only one who is privy to what Viru feels for Sai.

This complete 180 degree Aayi took is so unpalatabe and even disgusting right now. On top of that you keep showing Sai going behind her!!

Just because Sai is the main Female character, do you have to compromise her self respect to this level? This show was very progressive in the beginning and now its at the gutter level as the most regressive show on TV now!

I still dont get it why you are so much in love with Toxicity!!!! 🤔

He compromised many characters to make the FL pure Saint..

Ghum is baba adam ka jamane ki kahani 🤢

Where bahu has to put up all the sh** for the sake of their husbands

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Vanku’s creativity ruined Aayi- Sai 😡

Originally posted by: xfiles

In the ITV Universe, the bond you portrayed in Ghum between Aayi and Sai was one of the most beautiful relationships. In a typical ITV world , where Saas - Bahu's negative vibes is what basically runs many shows, Ghum was an exception.

The loving bond between this Saas-Bahu was a lot more realistic too, as these days, in most households Saas-Bahu is more like Maa-Beti.

Sai was advised, supported and guided by Aayi, which really helped Sai to handle her marriage with Viru and navigate the complex family dynamics in a typical traditional, joint family. Aayi was that guiding light many times to Viru and Sai whenever they hit a roadblock in their relationship.

But the Aayi that we see on the screen now is worse than the worst Saas of any ITV show. She behaves so negatively with Sai and is even not flinching a moment before putting Sai down. We can give her a little bit leeway because she is Viru's Aayi and she is hurt by what has happened to him. But how can she be this cruel and even ignore the fact that Sai is the only reason her son is alive now. And she is the only one who is privy to what Viru feels for Sai.

This complete 180 degree Aayi took is so unpalatabe and even disgusting right now. On top of that you keep showing Sai going behind her!!

Just because Sai is the main Female character, do you have to compromise her self respect to this level? This show was very progressive in the beginning and now its at the gutter level as the most regressive show on TV now!

I still dont get it why you are so much in love with Toxicity!!!! 🤔

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Yes that is what bothers me! She is hurt and worried about his pain. But what about his mental pain? She knows more than anyone about his feelings. Is she ok at this stage, her son and DIL separates? She is utterly irresponsible. Tomorrow his physical pain will go away and this lady sends away sai, then? Again cry because your son is aloof and heartbroken?

What got me yesterday was her reference to pakhi while scolding sai? What is the need to bring her in? It is like rubbing on sais pain point deliberately. There was no need. She behaved like BK 😡

Sai-Ashwini went from being one of the most beautiful duos to being the worst. Same like Mohit Sai and Devi Sai duos. Even Virat Ashwini duo.

The main reason for me despising the makers is turning these beautiful people into the most annoying beings in the show🤢

Sai-Aaba duo was spared.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

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Yes that is what bothers me! She is hurt and worried about his pain. But what about his mental pain? She knows more than anyone about his feelings. Is she ok at this stage, her son and DIL separates? She is utterly irresponsible. Tomorrow his physical pain will go away and this lady sends away sai, then? Again cry because your son is aloof and heartbroken?

What got me yesterday was her reference to pakhi while scolding sai? What is the need to bring her in? It is like rubbing on sais pain point deliberately. There was no need. She behaved like BK 😡

She is the only one who know virat's exact feelings for sai and she want to separate them....weird logic...

He cleared from beginning of shruthi track...he did everything for Sai...and if he really wanted no one can stop him from throwing her outside cn...even sai herself...deep inside he craves for sai as his love and wife...no wonder why virat loves sai more than those chavan gang.....they used him like a toy...never cared his feelings...when something goes wrong they will sit and cry....

Her character was always grey... She always manipulated Sai to stay with her son.. Now her real face is coming out..

I'm missing that old selfish Sai who gives back equally the way they deserve..I want Sai to tell her a mother in law never can be mother.. I want Sai to snap at her saying " I'm orphan because of your son"..i want her to tell your upbringings causing him all the pain.

You know what irritates me the most?

Not that Ashwini turned negative, but that the turaround has no effing logic 🤔

Originally posted by: dairymilkanu

She is the only one who know virat's exact feelings for sai and she want to separate them....weird logic...

He cleared from beginning of shruthi track...he did everything for Sai...and if he really wanted no one can stop him from throwing her outside cn...even sai herself...deep inside he craves for sai as his love and wife...no wonder why virat loves sai more than those chavan gang.....they used him like a toy...never cared his feelings...when something goes wrong they will sit and cry....

I think from story PoV, they wanted to show Sai is sticking to Virat even with all this shit happening around her.. Previous Sai would have left. But now she will fight. 😒

But after all this, there should be some learning shown from Sai's side too. That treat everyone like they deserve. Yes that is your house legally, live there, be with your husband and make a family. But treat others including Ashiwni for their worth. Ashwini is your MIL, treat her with respect and care. Not with daughter's love. in that way, they will also understand what they lost.

Give some arc to the characters, even if it is to redeem them.. Suddenly being a mother, and turning into a heartless MIL and then suddenly a mother. It doesnt help with Ashiwni's character arc or Sai's character arc.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I think from story PoV, they wanted to show Sai is sticking to Virat even with all this shit happening around her.. Previous Sai would have left. But now she will fight. 😒

But after all this, there should be some learning shown from Sai's side too. That treat everyone like they deserve. Yes that is your house legally, live there, be with your husband and make a family. But treat others including Ashiwni for their worth. Ashwini is your MIL, treat her with respect and care. Not with daughter's love. in that way, they will also understand what they lost.

Give some arc to the characters, even if it is to redeem them.. Suddenly being a mother, and turning into a heartless MIL and then suddenly a mother. It doesnt help with Ashiwni's character arc or Sai's character arc.

So finally Sadhika Didi is thinking like a creative writer.

Sai has to be this mahaan, chahe duniya yahan ki wahan ho jaye magar wo Virat ka saath nahi chhodegi. Pativrata is the word for it.

Yes, as you say, if Sai learns something from this, fine...