Ego vs Insecurity - Page 4

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

You really underestimated the makers. Not one day of sukh and chain was there post a confession. 😆

Not a single day of sukh and chain since they got married.

Originally posted by: nutmeg7

You really underestimated the makers. Not one day of sukh and chain was there post a confession. 😆

I bow my head and take back my words 🥺

Originally posted by: msin

Actually they love extending pakhi scenes … so there’s a good chance they might give all the shruti trauma on pakhi

and also the actress cannot portray empathy .. so it will be difficult to show any good vibes which RK had with emon for a good 4-5 months in the story ..

They are gradually reducing samrat roles… badshah was a lot more vocal .. so I won’t be surprised they suddenly kill him off in the story ..

You predicted Samrat s death by makers long back....

My prediction

Pakhi will be obessed with savi

Are you reading the whole thread and secretly laughing at me 🥺

Can I request you to keep these theories in EDT?

This is more of an analysis thread 👍🏼

Sorry if this hurts you

See if Pakhi pretends to be obsessed with savi na both mother daughter duo will break her head especially Savi

Originally posted by: Moor278

Are you reading the whole thread and secretly laughing at me 🥺

No ya. I am just thinking we should all go back to older threads and laugh at ourselves. Atleast you and me

Will Savi help the ego subside for long enough for them to reconcile?

Will Vinayak's exposure as being their real son help to lessen their insecurities?

I am happy they are soon going to all be in the same place, but dont want them to go back to Nagpur ever. Waha Virat ka dimaag kharab ho jaata hai. GC mein bhi kitna accha tha initially. Sai also becomes majboor and dukhyaari for pyaar there. The hawa does not suit them. Let them four settle in Khopoli.

Originally posted by: Moor278

Came across a post and thought of SaiRat.

The whole issue of Sai and V is of Ego vs Insecurity.

They both have it in spades and it's this contradiction that causes them to behave like they do.

In the initial episodes before marriage both have ego. They fight constantly but there is an underlying attachment which they are unaware of.

After they get married, V initially stands up for Sai in everything. Sai looks up to him. At this point she is insecure because she knows she is not accepted as a bahu. Also everything is new to her and V is supportive of her. In all this, because she appreciates him, his ego bolsters.

As this continues, and some of Sai's activities are proven right (Amey, Mohit ko khana dena etc) her ego increases too and she starts opposing stuff loudly and forcefully. She starts to assert her right on V. He looks at them as positive signals and his attachment deepens. It is now his turn to be insecure as he feels her not reciprocating.

The pattern continues and because of Pakhi and other such events her insecurity towards the relationship and her position in Vs life is threatened. But Vs ego is on a high because now he feels that because he did so much for her and he loves her so she should be grateful.

The mimo track however was a good situation for lowering their inhibitions. They both kept their egos aside and looked at it from a new perspective. That was a start to a beautiful bond. The insecurities were still there but they had worked through it to realise the importance of each other in their lives.

The Shruti track however has once again brought ego to the fore. Because of the mimo track, both had a feeling that they trust each other no matter what. It got tested and how. Sai was egotistical when she asked for divorce, her hurt was overpowering her trust on him and for V his logic that i have not done anything wrong but you don't trust me enough was his ego.

As this track ends, they both are now confused, V is again on high because he has been proven right (that he did not have EMA with Shruti - excluding the Naxalite angle for the time being) whereas Sai is now immensely hurt and in guilt. At this point, she is beyond any logic and just wants to apologise and be back with him.

I feel going ahead, when things clear out to V, he might feel bad and leave his ego aside and go after her like he did in GC separation. And hopefully because Sai is in guilt she might accept him readily. The confession may finally end this tussle for them.

This last part is my assumption for the future scenario because i don't see a KD copy logical as there is no conjugal relationship or confession yet. So for them to move ahead and make SaiRat endgame they need to come up with a different approach than KD. 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Comments welcome. Just a post that i thought off after I saw the said video. 😊

Nice insights!. The separation still looks forced, but the death angle kind of intensified and justified it.

Yes the only way I see forward is that Virat will be giving now...he has lost sai and vinu. The death should have made him more compassionate and accepting. He cant afford to lose Sai to any petty things like ego, once he lost her to the ultimate! Yesterday, I felt Sai had regret in her face. She has dealt life without Virat, when she could have reached him. The frown on her head shows it all. There is a lot of other side to their relationship than the last fight. She cant deny it. So if Virat comes back, and she sees him missing her she will be back to him in a jiffy. However, Virat should give her the trust she lost on him when he snatched the child and gave to Pakhi. He should work hard there to restore her trust on him