Ego vs Insecurity

Came across a post and thought of SaiRat.

The whole issue of Sai and V is of Ego vs Insecurity.

They both have it in spades and it's this contradiction that causes them to behave like they do.

In the initial episodes before marriage both have ego. They fight constantly but there is an underlying attachment which they are unaware of.

After they get married, V initially stands up for Sai in everything. Sai looks up to him. At this point she is insecure because she knows she is not accepted as a bahu. Also everything is new to her and V is supportive of her. In all this, because she appreciates him, his ego bolsters.

As this continues, and some of Sai's activities are proven right (Amey, Mohit ko khana dena etc) her ego increases too and she starts opposing stuff loudly and forcefully. She starts to assert her right on V. He looks at them as positive signals and his attachment deepens. It is now his turn to be insecure as he feels her not reciprocating.

The pattern continues and because of Pakhi and other such events her insecurity towards the relationship and her position in Vs life is threatened. But Vs ego is on a high because now he feels that because he did so much for her and he loves her so she should be grateful.

The mimo track however was a good situation for lowering their inhibitions. They both kept their egos aside and looked at it from a new perspective. That was a start to a beautiful bond. The insecurities were still there but they had worked through it to realise the importance of each other in their lives.

The Shruti track however has once again brought ego to the fore. Because of the mimo track, both had a feeling that they trust each other no matter what. It got tested and how. Sai was egotistical when she asked for divorce, her hurt was overpowering her trust on him and for V his logic that i have not done anything wrong but you don't trust me enough was his ego.

As this track ends, they both are now confused, V is again on high because he has been proven right (that he did not have EMA with Shruti - excluding the Naxalite angle for the time being) whereas Sai is now immensely hurt and in guilt. At this point, she is beyond any logic and just wants to apologise and be back with him.

I feel going ahead, when things clear out to V, he might feel bad and leave his ego aside and go after her like he did in GC separation. And hopefully because Sai is in guilt she might accept him readily. The confession may finally end this tussle for them.

This last part is my assumption for the future scenario because i don't see a KD copy logical as there is no conjugal relationship or confession yet. So for them to move ahead and make SaiRat endgame they need to come up with a different approach than KD. 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Comments welcome. Just a post that i thought off after I saw the said video. 😊

Vanker is delaying confession

1) Wants to end the drama after confession

2) Will Start a new story of generation gap bringing Sairat baby girl

Aleast after hospital track hoped for confession. But vankar nt planning for confession it seems.

Because again they are bringing back sruthi.

More ever if they want to show confession, the next track wud be pakhi fake pregnancy track. Which makes her character out nd out negative, but ml and pl may be not want that, which may leads to negativity may effect their other show.

Originally posted by: Shaome

Vanker is delaying confession

1) Wants to end the drama after confession

2) Will Start a new story of generation gap bringing Sairat baby girl

That means Sai will be preggo soon, NOOOOOOO!!!

Woh khud bacchi hai usse baccha mat karwao yaar😭😭😭

Leap laa sakte hai if they really want to bring SaiRat ka baccha

Amazing post moor❤️, MiMo track had the potential for redemption from both Sai and Virat's side, but they messed it up by getting back to KD copy paste.

Shruti track Lana he tha toh MiMo track dekar hopes badhane ki kya zarurat thi🤷🤷

No.. i don't feel mimo is wasted.

It was needed for Shruti track as they preponed it.

And going ahead, it can be used in an alternate way when they patch up.

They both realise the importance they have in each other's life and that the trust they had built in that track stands true. It was tested in Shruti and it did not fail to some extent.

Again excluding the fact that V did not share everything with Shruti, the core part of the trust where he did not EMA with Shruti stands true.

There should have been more where Sai will tell him the betrayal she felt but looking at the precap and her guilt, it does not look possible in the show so there's no point in looking for that. V will be made mahaan and Sai will forgive him.

Rather than bringing fake pregnancy track which looks redundant.. as shruti baby track was a bigger scandal .. this is tame .. they can go for issues like ninad heart attack , Shivani remarriage, durga Puja track all this will take at least 2-3 months ..

Shruti part 2 is redundant if Sai is not pregnant .. also Sai became a doctor and left the house with her kid ..

So all that can only happen with a 2 year leap ..

If they bring in shruti right now .. she will only do the part of irritating Sai like pakhi .. and it’s ok .. so long virat is not getting to sleep with Sai ..

he can keep on dallying with his bhabhis and remain frustrated life long ..

Originally posted by: msin

Rather than bringing fake pregnancy track which looks redundant.. as shruti baby track was a bigger scandal .. this is tame .. they can go for issues like ninad heart attack , Shivani remarriage, durga Puja track all this will take at least 2-3 months ..

But pakhi still stuck on her two days eternal yoga love for virat. So they need some track to show her move on.in KD after fake pregnancy track RK was movedon vth badshah.

Coming to sruthi, after her confession, her jealous about sai, how v will entertain her this time. Keeping sruthi vth him is a big threat to sai's life in fiture.

perfect psycho analysis..

Will read it again and get back to you.

By the way, I am back!