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Originally posted by: msin

See this is what happens in real life .. a good father may not be a good husband.. he might be a wife beater .. abusers hide under various cloaks ..they maybe man on woman ( not gender specific )

I want to go back in KD ( since that is my axiom point ) and add a few dialogues when shruti had gone to emon 1 day before her death .. she gave a lot of gyan to her .. how mahan Rono is .. basically she selfishly wanted her son to be mothered by emon .. emon fell in her trap .. she should have told shruti ..I know R did not do this because he was in love with you .. he did it because he likes being mahan .. it suits his ego . To play god .. so long I was the young poor girl from sundarpur .. he loved playing god with me .. the day I started becoming independent.. you became his new muse .. somebody to protect , to nurture

It suited his ego to hurt his family to protect you . When any professional help could have done this . Today you want me to protect ur son . That’s why you are acting good ..what if you had survived .. also .. don’t worry Rono won’t cry for you .. the day you die .. you will easily get replaced by the next needy beggar girl dying outside his door .. now worry what kind of mother figure she will be to your son .

if emon had said this to shruti I would have loved it m

second dialog I wanted to add in KD was .. when Rono was guarding her house in ujaan pur .. the next day when he apologises to her in the boat ..after witnessing child birth ..emon should have told him ..you are a very good man .. you care a lot for people .. you can give ur life for them .. but you are a bad policeman you cannot separate ur self from getting involved with your clients .. third you are a terrible terrible husband .. you were not there with me at my weakest moment .. you abused me thorough out my child bearing state. You are a terrible father you did not prioritise your child over others

so I will only involve you in my life as a good person .. keep you at a distance .. the door is closed for you to enter as a husband or father ..

Third I would have wanted emon to tell Rono .. keep away from me .. no need to watch over me .. as I need to build a new life .. I don’t want you hovering in my life as RK does in yours .. let me try giving myself and my kid a chance to get a new man in our lives .. if shruti n michhil could get a better man .. why can’t I hope for a better future .

This would have been awesome and Sai being a person with good instincts should say that.

Sai being the daughter of KJ knows what is abuse and it is not right. How can the makers show righteous Sai making such a mistake?

See its 2022, most urban girls understand abuse and want to move away from it unless they are so dependent that they cannot. If people like Anupama, Imli or Gehna can be shown getting second chances, why not Sai.

Sai should be shown become so successful on her own merit that she is unreachable to Virat & Chavans. If Virat had to pursue Sai on his own, he would have never been able to land such a girl in his life.

I am not sure if what we understand from the acting is what makers intend to show or if it comes ugly due to extreme behavior for TRP sake. If they have to show abusive and careless Virat as the husband, they should show him regretting his action and choice as each step of his should push Sai away from Virat.

Yesterday during the kidnap parallel scene where Pulkit was standing next to Ninad and Omi taking about how Virat might have done something, it was uncomfortable as they had also done the same thing to Pulkit and makers didn't even address it. Pulkit could have said if you, kaku and Omi could kidnap and torture me, why do you think your son will be any different?

Main problem with the show is there is no consequences for any action/ choice people make. Only Sai goes thru hell and back no matter what track it is.

Originally posted by: msin

See this is what happens in real life .. a good father may not be a good husband.. he might be a wife beater .. abusers hide under various cloaks ..they maybe man on woman ( not gender specific )

I want to go back in KD ( since that is my axiom point ) and add a few dialogues when shruti had gone to emon 1 day before her death .. she gave a lot of gyan to her .. how mahan Rono is .. basically she selfishly wanted her son to be mothered by emon .. emon fell in her trap .. she should have told shruti ..I know R did not do this because he was in love with you .. he did it because he likes being mahan .. it suits his ego . To play god .. so long I was the young poor girl from sundarpur .. he loved playing god with me .. the day I started becoming independent.. you became his new muse .. somebody to protect , to nurture

It suited his ego to hurt his family to protect you . When any professional help could have done this . Today you want me to protect ur son . That’s why you are acting good ..what if you had survived .. also .. don’t worry Rono won’t cry for you .. the day you die .. you will easily get replaced by the next needy beggar girl dying outside his door .. now worry what kind of mother figure she will be to your son .

if emon had said this to shruti I would have loved it m

second dialog I wanted to add in KD was .. when Rono was guarding her house in ujaan pur .. the next day when he apologises to her in the boat ..after witnessing child birth ..emon should have told him ..you are a very good man .. you care a lot for people .. you can give ur life for them .. but you are a bad policeman you cannot separate ur self from getting involved with your clients .. third you are a terrible terrible husband .. you were not there with me at my weakest moment .. you abused me thorough out my child bearing state. You are a terrible father you did not prioritise your child over others

so I will only involve you in my life as a good person .. keep you at a distance .. the door is closed for you to enter as a husband or father ..

Third I would have wanted emon to tell Rono .. keep away from me .. no need to watch over me .. as I need to build a new life .. I don’t want you hovering in my life as RK does in yours .. let me try giving myself and my kid a chance to get a new man in our lives .. if shruti n michhil could get a better man .. why can’t I hope for a better future .

Exactly what I want Sai to do. I keep saying he is and can be good as a human being as a humanitarian..but extremely bad as a husband...And that's where I want them to deviate from KD...to separate the two as partners..They can be in each other's life from a distant..as friends...and that's the only way they would respect each other...

I don’t think Leena wanted them to make up .. she did it just to end the show .. because till the last episode .. RK was talking these two did not even have a conversation..just abruptly sindoor porana and be together for family .. most cold … and stupid .. they were shown to lead separate lives doing well professionally..

They should have shown the end .. in emon’s prize ceremony.. where she thanks everyone including Rono and moves away .. and pulkit should have remembered his kidnapping considering he comes over here in the show .. and given a snide remark that if his elders can do this why can’t virat do the same to Sai

You never know they might just deviate from KD

Originally posted by: ranijain

This would have been awesome and Sai being a person with good instincts should say that.

Sai being the daughter of KJ knows what is abuse and it is not right. How can the makers show righteous Sai making such a mistake?

See its 2022, most urban girls understand abuse and want to move away from it unless they are so dependent that they cannot. If people like Anupama, Imli or Gehna can be shown getting second chances, why not Sai.

Sai should be shown become so successful on her own merit that she is unreachable to Virat & Chavans. If Virat had to pursue Sai on his own, he would have never been able to land such a girl in his life.

I am not sure if what we understand from the acting is what makers intend to show or if it comes ugly due to extreme behavior for TRP sake. If they have to show abusive and careless Virat as the husband, they should show him regretting his action and choice as each step of his should push Sai away from Virat.

Yesterday during the kidnap parallel scene where Pulkit was standing next to Ninad and Omi taking about how Virat might have done something, it was uncomfortable as they had also done the same thing to Pulkit and makers didn't even address it. Pulkit could have said if you, kaku and Omi could kidnap and torture me, why do you think your son will be any different?

Main problem with the show is there is no consequences for any action/ choice people make. Only Sai goes thru hell and back no matter what track it is.

Originally posted by: dairymilkanu

there was also a girl who left her husband at the day of marriage even before first night who was a naval officer....and later got re-married...

This is word to word same to a girl I know too. Like word to word 😱

Originally posted by: msin

agree Pulkit should have mentioned his kidnapping and abuse too and given parallel to virat

Wasnt Pulkit's kidnapping supposed to be a dream to compensate Neil's absence because of Covid?🤔

Originally posted by: hiddenpurple

Wasnt Pulkit's kidnapping supposed to be a dream to compensate Neil's absence because of Covid?🤔

dream 🤣? more like a nightmare for the poor guy, he got slapped around too, which was made into many memes

Originally posted by: msin

I don’t think Leena wanted them to make up .. she did it just to end the show .. because till the last episode .. RK was talking these two did not even have a conversation..just abruptly sindoor porana and be together for family .. most cold … and stupid .. they were shown to lead separate lives doing well professionally..

They should have shown the end .. in emon’s prize ceremony.. where she thanks everyone including Rono and moves away .. and pulkit should have remembered his kidnapping considering he comes over here in the show .. and given a snide remark that if his elders can do this why can’t virat do the same to Sai

@Bold - Exactly made no sense, why should they unite because RK wanted that.

Family and everyone apologizing the RK made me so angry given that she made Emon's life miserable for almost 12 years since the time she married Rono. She got a happy ending with Alok and moved on after spoiling so many lifes incl Badshah.

Until half that episode, everyone assumed Rono-RK are to marry and Rono made no efforts over years, which means he did not reflect on his actions at all on past 5 years. He let his daughter be brought up just by a single mother without dad's love. Also Emon kept herself and child away from grandparents/ uncles/ aunts etc, which they totally deserved, at least child was saved from negativity and horrible environment.

It meant he still thinks his actions are right. Emon and child going back to next cycle of abuse was a very dark ending. It wouldn't have lasted and good they ended show instead of showing Rono devolve further.

Originally posted by: ranijain

@Bold - Exactly made no sense, why should they unite because RK wanted that.

Family and everyone apologizing the RK made me so angry given that she made Emon's life miserable for almost 12 years since the time she married Rono. She got a happy ending with Alok and moved on after spoiling so many lifes incl Badshah.

Until half that episode, everyone assumed Rono-RK are to marry and Rono made no efforts over years, which means he did not reflect on his actions at all on past 5 years. He let his daughter be brought up just by a single mother without dad's love. Also Emon kept herself and child away from grandparents/ uncles/ aunts etc, which they totally deserved, at least child was saved from negativity and horrible environment.

It meant he still thinks his actions are right. Emon and child going back to next cycle of abuse was a very dark ending. It wouldn't have lasted and good they ended show instead of showing Rono devolve further.

No repurcussions for any character except sai who goes through hell for her no fault.

Whole family is abusive but they are whitewashed, the victim was made to bend infront of them. In other shows daughter in law changes toxic in laws, here toxic family changed a girl by breaking her confidence, by making her listen their disgusting words silently. She and audience are made to believe chavans are conservative not toxic.

Zero repercussions for a character like patralekha. Again victim forgets whatever she gone through because of that character and goes like pakhi didi by literally forgetting how much she insulted her. A character shamelessly pins for her devar, abuses a girl daily. Still she is called as bf,mature by ml himself, called as sankari by whole family, husband blindly supports her, sad and romantic bgm plays for her scenes.

And the mahaan ml. There isn't a single vaada he fulfilled in the show. But still he harps about being pakki jaban and other characters praise him for his pakki jaban. Despite abusing, character assasinating, gaslighting, starving, locking his wife he gets names like great husband, great son, loving husband who don't deserve a stubborn and selfish wife like sai. His wife herself feels inferior and sees him as mahan in many occasions. She remembers 1-2 occasions where he stood by her by conviniently forgetting the 50-100 occasions where he threw her under the bus. Ml in all the tracks is either victimizing or being made to mahaan. Zero introspection over his actions. In every track same scenario blaming everyone but himself. And all the other characters boosting his ego and proving him right by praising him to the sky for doing basic things while ignoring his biggest crimes. Writers uses words like responsible, loving, patient, honest to describe ml character while using stubborn and childish words for fl.

I was so mad when they brought kj to whitewash his character. They gave him a dialogue how virat was so mahaan to not slap sai for her behaviour during anniversary. This is so disgusting way to whitewash him.

This show made a victim to be apologetic to her abusers which is infuriating to watch.