Will Virat lock sai? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Guneet80

Please enlighten me how Sai is the abuser here?

Did she throw Virat out of the house at literally midnight? Did she deny Virat food? Did she stood like a mannequin and forgave her family for their crimes? Did she maintain a special "friendship" with her ex and character assassinated her husband just because she saw them talking?

Did she witness her family abusing her husband day and night and did nothing other than giving empty lip service occasionally? Did she actively calls her ex her "friend" even after knowing the said ex has tried everything to made her spouse's life hell? Did she collaborate with the said ex in badmouthing her husband in front of her disgusting family?

I know Virat has done a lot for her BUT that doesn't negate how abusive he and his family has been towards her. Lol the victim blaming is SO real here.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Agree completely . The same cycle will repeat again . Sai will apologize when she realizes her mistake . She will never realize where she went wrong .

Then I don't think Sai should be called the abuser because she has literally done nothing, in fact she's the one being abused

Originally posted by: Guneet80

Please enlighten me how Sai is the abuser here?

Did she throw Virat out of the house at literally midnight? Did she deny Virat food? Did she stood like a mannequin and forgave her family for their crimes? Did she maintain a special "friendship" with her ex and character assassinated her husband just because she saw them talking?

Did she witness her family abusing her husband day and night and did nothing other than giving empty lip service occasionally? Did she actively calls her ex her "friend" even after knowing the said ex has tried everything to made her spouse's life hell? Did she collaborate with the said ex in badmouthing her husband in front of her disgusting family?

I know Virat has done a lot for her BUT that doesn't negate how abusive he and his family has been towards her. Lol the victim blaming is SO real here.

Behen pointless discussion can be stretched to NO end

A 19 years old teen has so much power to abuse a COP 👮

More power to SAI 😎

Originally posted by: Guneet80

Then I don't think Sai should be called the abuser because she has literally done nothing, in fact she's the one being abused

😂😂😂.. great logic .. anyone can be abused . Cops , lawyers are not immune to abuse . There are many real life examples to back this

Originally posted by: Shaome

Behen pointless discussion can be stretched to NO end

A 19 years old teen has so much power to abuse a COP 👮

More power to SAI 😎

Mujhe 19 saal ke umar mein maar khani milti thi infact aaj bhi wish I had the same power as Sai to "abuse" an IPS officer 😳

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

😂😂😂.. great logic .. anyone can be abused . Cops , lawyers are not immune to abuse . There are many real life examples to back this

True , plenty of real life cases but honestly this is not one of them.

Totally agree Sai is often irritating, obtuse, aggressive, rude, unappreciative etc etc.in fact i thought she really went overboard on so many occasions and becomes obnoxious . But by not stretch of the imagination can she be considered an abuser even if she was swearing at him. Although for instance I could apply that to Bhavani

But the way he’s been depicted Virat is an actual gaslighter & abusive male despite some good qualities.
Perhaps Neil’s good looks & general positioning as a good noble character has a lot of influence. If we imagined someone far less photogenic acting like this in real life i think the view may change. The dialogues & actions given to him put him beyond the pale at times. He really plsys with Sai’s mind because he’s too stupid to understand the problem or cant bear to admit his guilt in encouraging Pakhi. And now he’s being spiteful towards her just because she rejected him. Thats really petty and mean on his part.

Forget my view, i can still tolerate & try to understand him, my mother actually cant stand him! You should hear her comments

🤪

Originally posted by: velvetscarf

True , plenty of real life cases but honestly this is not one of them.

Totally agree Sai is often irritating, obtuse, aggressive, rude, unappreciative etc etc.in fact i thought she really went overboard on so many occasions and becomes obnoxious . But by not stretch of the imagination can she be considered an abuser even if she was swearing at him. Although for instance I could apply that to Bhavani

But the way he’s been depicted Virat is an actual gaslighter & abusive male despite some good qualities.
Perhaps Neil’s good looks & general positioning as a good noble character has a lot of influence. If we imagined someone far less photogenic acting like this in real life i think the view may change. The dialogues & actions given to him put him beyond the pale at times. He really plsys with Sai’s mind because he’s too stupid to understand the problem or cant bear to admit his guilt in encouraging Pakhi. And now he’s being spiteful towards her just because she rejected him. Thats really petty and mean on his part.

Forget my view, i can still tolerate & try to understand him, my mother actually cant stand him! You should hear her comments

🤪

Originally posted by: velvetscarf

True , plenty of real life cases but honestly this is not one of them.

Totally agree Sai is often irritating, obtuse, aggressive, rude, unappreciative etc etc.in fact i thought she really went overboard on so many occasions and becomes obnoxious . But by not stretch of the imagination can she be considered an abuser even if she was swearing at him. Although for instance I could apply that to Bhavani

But the way he’s been depicted Virat is an actual gaslighter & abusive male despite some good qualities.
Perhaps Neil’s good looks & general positioning as a good noble character has a lot of influence. If we imagined someone far less photogenic acting like this in real life i think the view may change. The dialogues & actions given to him put him beyond the pale at times. He really plsys with Sai’s mind because he’s too stupid to understand the problem or cant bear to admit his guilt in encouraging Pakhi. And now he’s being spiteful towards her just because she rejected him. Thats really petty and mean on his part.

Forget my view, i can still tolerate & try to understand him, my mother actually cant stand him! You should hear her comments

🤪

Bold Agree.. Sadly ITV heroes are only eye candy and he is no less ..But Neil truly made Virat work with his acting prowess 👏

I find Sai bit more realistic.. She acts like most of the single child bit bratish ,harsh often rude.. She has her own demons to fight

Many can NOT tolerate Sai may be she is Not presented as damsel in distress like many heroines of ITV ..they are mostly cardboard....

Originally posted by: laksh

This might be an unpopular opinion. Many a times I don’t see that Rono’s aatma has entered Virat. Though we joke like that and sometimes they do it, it is not true during all instances.

Virat has been in his character almost all the times even during the kaand. He is a person who has no control over his emotions. And when a person has no control over his emotions, they can hardly control their actions too. His deeds are his deeds only.

Coming to this question, I feel that he wouldn’t but he had said that he would be locking her in their room even during the PD lunch incident. We have to only wait and watch. Not everything that happened in KD has to happen here too. I want to see Virat from only the Ghum writers.

True. He is someone who can cross his limits for sure. No one drives him to the extremes other than Sai. He is extremely possessive of her. And when he cannot get to her in normal way, he uses his control. he might not be proud of his actions in the hindsight but that is what he is! If sai had told him point blank that she doesnt care for him or love him or asked him to not expect anything out of her, he would have kept his emotions in check. They both not being able to confess and still able to feel so much for each other is adding up to the frustration. Sai talks rubbish and he manhandles, unfortunately. It is very unpleasant to see but I hope they iron out their behavior once they understand eachother. Virat is no saint, but being a police officer he should show restraint. That is why most of his actions are unpalatable.

PS: I dont have doubt on his love for Sai, but defiintely have reservations on how he loses his control with her. 😲