Will Virat lock sai? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Guneet80

Hey Anju thank you for your kind words. I think my replies have less to do with what I do and more to do with the anger I feel at people blaming women for whatever happens to them. Literally everywhere you look it happens, so I guess I'm habitual to countering stuff like this.

Tragic tbh because no woman should be at edgento defend herself all the time but I guess we just live in a harsh world. This is why I really like Sai, I relate with her.

And in no way I'm bragging about anything lest it feels like that to anyone 😆

I know a lot of victim shaming happens..

Sometimes I avoid countering on twitter since I don't want to be attacked by crazy fans. Here it is still sane.

I was curious if u have have a background in writing since u are able to sum up and write the reaction so clear and crisp that's all.

I relate to her since j have been Der in many situations like.this.

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

I know a lot of victim shaming happens..

Sometimes I avoid countering on twitter since I don't want to be attacked by crazy fans. Here it is still sane.

I was curious if u have have a background in writing since u are able to sum up and write the reaction so clear and crisp that's all.

I relate to her since j have been Der in many situations like.this.

Oh I completely understand, your own mental peace is above all. We can't fight we the entire world na.

Oh no, I'm don't have a background in writing. I just write and stuff because it's my hobby.

Tho I'm highly thankful that you said such nice words. This is the best compliment I've received in a while 🤗

Oh yes, I think people do relate with Sai a lot and I strongly feel her character is the main reason people watch this show (other than the drama of course 😆)

Originally posted by: laksh

His deeds are driven by his emotions and that is why I am saying that he is in his character. Sairat are different but the reason we find a few things unacceptable are because of how he was shown earlier and how he is now.

A person’s qualities comes out during tests and that’s what is happening here. With all the parameters such as his family, Sai, work and his ex, this is how Virat would react.

Yasssssss.

I don't know if you remember when you used to write those loooooong 😆posts on character's or certain incidents. There was a few on Virat but on one of them I said the exact same as the parts in @bold.

His reactions are his own.

And he's proved it time and time again.

Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown

Oh my god! This. This literally sums up everything that I want to say.

Sai's biggest faults are her brashness and the way she at times refuses to acknowledge what Virat has done for her, or even appreciate it. Though these are things that would frustrate the other person a lot, none of her traits stem from spitefulness or the intent to hurt. These are faults can be put right with simple communication.

Whereas with Virat, his words and his actions come with the intent to hurt and harm, only because his big, fat ego is bruised. The one time I can say that Virat was genuinely hurt was during the Devi Tai wedding, because Sai displayed a lack of trust in him (according to him) and it was understandable. No. I do not support the ousting and I still think that he was a miserable, pathetic person to retort to such measures, but, you can say that he was right in feeling hurt and could have done the ignoring drama then. In every other situation, the only blow that Virat got was to his ego. That's it. And Sai had to bear the brunt of his extreme nature.

And as for Sai hurting Virat by questioning his relationship with Pakhi, he dug is own grave. And all of Sai's question in that regard is valid. Because, when he is capable of "calling out" Pakhi for certain actions of hers, why can't he simply clear the mess by clarifying with Sai in person? When he expects words of affirmation from Sai, why can't he give her the same? Every time Sai brings it up, she's either met with death glares or harsh words from both Pakhi and Virat who pretend to be doodh ka dhula hua, and it is Sai who is spewing venom. So, I can never really sympathise with Virat when Sai questions his relationship with Pakhi.

And the thing with Sai is that she never compromises on her relationship with Virat. Every time they have a fight and someone speaks on behalf of Sai, she always asks them to back off because this is between Pati and Patni. Whereas with Virat, every time he's angry with Sai, anyone can walk over her, stamp her and treat her like dirt, and he wouldn't bat an eyelid.

@bold - And these are her only defenses at times. These are the thoughts through which she builds walls around her so that she doesn't make the mistake of losing her heart to him.

Great post dude!

@Bold- THIS! How can sai questioning virat about his relationship with pakhi be criticised so much when we've all seen how virat and pakhi actually lie and act like there was nothing ever between them, and act all innocent as if sai has completely made up a story? I've never understood why sai gets criticised for this when virat straight up lies and acts like none of that even happened. In fact even plenty of times when pakhi brought up their past to him even then he acted all innocent and confused. So why does virat get to act like a victim and sai treated like she's some abuser when virat and pakhi both have jointly created this mess but then refuse to admit it?