No anger No hurt, Mr. IPS !! - Page 5

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Something I read in another post has triggered me. May be we are looking at it too much from the angle of Sai and Virat's current relationship. May be Virat's reaction was a culmination of a lot of things. He is under tremendous pressure - with Samrat misunderstanding him, his brother's marriage at stake, tough decisions to be taken etc. And he is very ill and emotionally drained. So it may have been an outburst - something similar to DIG incident.

I may be among the minority who didn't find his DIG outburst toxic. He was stressed out about his career - he wanted some space. She was insistent - he lashed out. But Sai didn't keep quite - she gave back as good as she got. 😎Baat khatam. It does happen to normal people too sometimes. Purely my POV.

Only difference is Sai is extremely subdued - because she is breaking inside. 😒

What do you all think?

Nethra... I just responded saying something nearly identical... I agree with this completely....

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Something I read in another post has triggered me. May be we are looking at it too much from the angle of Sai and Virat's current relationship. May be Virat's reaction was a culmination of a lot of things. He is under tremendous pressure - with Samrat misunderstanding him, his brother's marriage at stake, tough decisions to be taken etc. And he is very ill and emotionally drained. So it may have been an outburst - something similar to DIG incident.

I may be among the minority who didn't find his DIG outburst toxic. He was stressed out about his career - he wanted some space. She was insistent - he lashed out. But Sai didn't keep quite - she gave back as good as she got. 😎Baat khatam. It does happen to normal people too sometimes. Purely my POV.

Only difference is Sai is extremely subdued - because she is breaking inside. 😒

What do you all think?

Could be , just hope he too realizes what he has done when he clams down and asks for an apology along with Sai. His anger I completely understand and even him jerking her hand away when she tried to feed him. These things do happen between couples when one is angry and the other is trying to calm the other person down. But how he walked away when Sai was cleaning instead of helping this is where I am unable to see his pov. But then like Ramya mentioned this is nothing new, he has done it in the past where when was angry he hurt Sai and Aai and then asks for forgiveness after the damage is done.

DIG both of them didn't share any bond so the outburst from both of them seemed right in that situation for me. Actually I would have felt odd if the 2 didn't react the way they did 😆

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Where are you running to Asmi?

Originally posted by: Rdigest

Could be , just hope he too realizes what he has done when he clams down and asks for an apology along with Sai. His anger I completely understand and even him jerking her hand away when she tried to feed him. These things do happen between couples when one is angry and the other is trying to calm the other person down. But how he walked away when Sai was cleaning instead of helping this is where I am unable to see his pov. But then like Ramya mentioned this is nothing new, he has done it in the past where when was angry he hurt Sai and Aai and then asks for forgiveness after the damage is done.

DIG both of them didn't share any bond so the outburst from both of them seemed right in that situation for me. Actually I would have felt odd if the 2 didn't react the way they did 😆

Exactly this...That's disrespectful. No amount of hurt justifies it.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Where are you running to Asmi?

You know where!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly this...That's disrespectful. No amount of hurt justifies it.

I'm not saying that his behavior is justified. Not even in the slightest. But, I am saying that to me, it is entirely understandable.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

You know where!

Nahi pata... batao toh

Originally posted by: tptwi

He had fever, emotionally not well, physically as well...So he cannot be expected to behave behave.. So happens, but what happened at the end as per me was disrespectful..to say the least...

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Pooja I was to write this and has been already spoken about.. Its not the mistake that happened as a result of his jerk..But how he walks away, letting her do that job..I found that disrespectful..Also I actually am clubbing it to how he behaves when angry..Not a clean track record there..

He had fever, emotionally not well, physically as well...So he cannot be expected to behave behave.. So happens, but what happened at the end as per me was disrespectful..to say the least...

Of course it was disrespectful, Asmi. No one can disagree with it! Like I said in my post, his behavior was vile. But, I saw it as him leaving the room, because he could not bare to see her acting his concerned and caring towards him anymore. He needed to get away from her as soon as possible. He had tried to tell her to stop, and yet she kept pushing...because she cannot see him like this either. I'm not defending what he did. I'm just saying that is why he did what he did.... he is just so desperate and helpless at this point... he is not thinking how any of this is WRECKING Sai....

I hope I am making sense here...

People were writing about how he disrespected food and also implying that he purposefully shoved the plate (not just in this thread but others too), so that is why I brought that up...

Originally posted by: tptwi

Nahi pata... batao toh

Running to a place where I get to know how Sai DESERVES this!!🤣 Virat himself cannot lead me there..Because once he knows it hurt her, he is going to yet again become gopi Vahu bro!!