No anger No hurt, Mr. IPS !! - Page 3

He is sadly becoming junior ninad.

I just wish they bring back the fierce sai Joshi of initial episodes..don't want her to turn into ashwini 2.0.

Showing ur anger on food is highly disrespectful. I wud rather hv the cvs not to show such things on tv. Kids watching it shudnt think that they can show their anger on food!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

@bold And only with Sai...and no one else..

Sai needs to stop being ziddi..I will not call what she today pestering, first she does not realise what has happened and secondly Virat is extremely sick... If he would not have been sick, she would have left him alone..wont go after him.......When the better half is sick, however issues one has between them they would want to take care...Virat kept going in and talking to her, when they had an issue after the accident..And that was a bigger mistake than what this one has done here.. No amount of pestering warrantees this kind of behaviour..

I wish she left, I so wish, but the only problem is they are following KD..

Bold - he has acted the same way to Pakhi too.. in at least couple of instances.. the one I have mentioned in my post and the other when he manhandled her. Pakhi has no self respect.. that’s another story.

I am not trying to justify his actions here… in fact I am saying the opposite.. I mentioned he deserves no pardon from her…I wanted her leave him..

I didn’t mean her ziddi in today’s episode.. I mean in general.. when someone says no, Leave them be. It happened in the bday issue with Paapi too.. I never mentioned it happened because she is ziddi.. I am just saying give him his space..

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Bold - he has acted the same way to Pakhi too.. in at least couple of instances.. the one I have mentioned in my post and the other when he manhandled her. Pakhi has no self respect.. that’s another story.

I am not trying to justify his actions here… in fact I am saying the opposite.. I mentioned he deserves no pardon from her…I wanted her leave him..

I didn’t mean her ziddi in today’s episode.. I mean in general.. when someone says no, Leave them be. It happened in the bday issue with Paapi too.. I never mentioned it happened because she is ziddi.. I am just saying give him his space..

YEs I agree he should be given space when he wants... But then when has he asked before or if he has asked , I am not sure I have missed...SHe would be the one who would give him space all the time when he wanted to talk to PP.. She needs to pester less, but then again I dont remember when was he bothered being pestered..

Side Note : I pester my BF a lot, nag him😆..and when he wants space I would not give him when we started together, because I was confused as he enjoyed my pestering and same goes for him...But now we have learnt to give that space to each other..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

YEs I agree he should be given space when he wants... But then when has he asked before or if he has asked , I am not sure I have missed...SHe would be the one who would give him space all the time when he wanted to talk to PP.. She needs to pester less, but then again I dont remember when was he bothered being pestered..

Side Note : I pester my BF a lot, nag him😆..and when he wants space I would not give him when we started together, because I was confused as he enjoyed my pestering and same goes for him...But now we have learnt to give that space to each other..

Bold - Today he is going on a date yaar that too with his ex.🤣 So must be tensed na..

Yes.. initially we all make mistakes and come out of it.. I don’t see him change?? Not even after Sai’s accident.. I don’t want her to give him one more chance. She must say enough is enough at least now.. let him cry buckets..

In an abuse cycle, generally the husband hurts his wife, then asks sorry.. then hurts her again.. this vicious cycle never ends unless the wife stops forgiving him and takes action.

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Bold - Today he is going on a date yaar that too with his ex.🤣 So must be tensed na..

Yes.. initially we all make mistakes and come out of it.. I don’t see him change?? Not even after Sai’s accident.. I don’t want her to give him one more chance. She must say enough is enough at least now.. let him cry buckets..

In an abuse cycle, generally the husband hurts his wife, then asks sorry.. then hurts her again.. this vicious cycle never ends unless the wife stops forgiving him and takes action.

This is what happened both after man handling scene and accident scene..Not during ousting, because she was mighty angry then...Other two times, she just could not see him crying.. and gave up.. In general a man with bad intent doing this would be called an emotional manipulator..

Perfect example of why SaiRat shouldn't be together. The burden of this complicated relationship, the burden of bearing Virat's emotional baggage has made Sai lose the autonomy to set boundaries. She has no one to fall back on, no one to give her power and strength - to maintain her free will.

I understand where Virat is coming from. I still do not think he is acting out of ego or anger (atleast until now) or attempting to punish her. Has he truly accepted, in his heart, that Sai doesn't love him - not really. He is not able to take it - definitely not because his ego is hurt but because his emotional needs are huge and he has come to rely too much on her for it. He has completely collapsed. He is not handling it well at all - he is simply running away from it (literally!), running from his emotions. He is desperately trying to keep her at bay. The closer she tries to reach, the more jittery he is becoming. (Not justifying his actions at all).

I might still have given it the benefit of doubt under the circumstances - taken it as a bad phase in the realtionship, the toxic phase. That is if Sai was not in such a helpless situation and she was in a position to excercise her will, set her boundary. Additionally one cannot deny that he does have issues with keeping his emotions in check anyways.

Sai and Virat are best left alone apart.

I just hope makers don't take this any further. This is the limit of what I can bear to watch.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

Perfect example of why SaiRat shouldn't be together. The burden of this complicated relationship, the burden of bearing Virat's emotional baggage has made Sai lose the autonomy to set boundaries. She has no one to fall back on, no one to give her power and strength - to maintain her free will.

I understand where Virat is coming from. I still do not think he is acting out of ego or anger (atleast until now) or attempting to punish her. Has he truly accepted, in his heart, that Sai doesn't love him - not really. He is not able to take it - definitely not because his ego is hurt but because his emotional needs are huge and he has come to rely too much on her for it. He has completely collapsed. He is not handling it well at all - he is simply running away from it (literally!), running from his emotions. He is desperately trying to keep her at bay. The closer she tries to reach, the more jittery he is becoming. (Not justifying his actions at all).

I might still have given it the benefit of doubt under the circumstances - taken it as a bad phase in the realtionship, the toxic phase. That is if Sai was not in such a helpless situation and she was in a position to excercise her will, set her boundary. Additionally one cannot deny that he does have issues with keeping his emotions in check anyways.

Sai and Virat are best left alone apart.

I just hope makers don't take this any further. This is the limit of what I can bear to watch.

I know just was discussing with someone , how she reacted for the same thing, during Vittal Mane episode and how we were all proud of her..We see Sai has taken Virat for granted and we have this Sai who has been taken granted by her own self in her love, forget others..

I really dont want them to drag this.. but KD KD KD!!😡 I dont want any confession, but dont make the two toxic.. Yes it could be taken as the worst phse, but not more than this please..

I understand Virat, he really cannot do without her, like he said bewazood and the ideal man in him says, if she is so averse to his emotions, she does not deserve to be with him, hence he is protecting himself.. But please please while protecting yourself , try not to be inhuman..BAS !! thats what I want..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

SHe herself once said that she has changed a lot..IPS Chavhan called it a taunt.. And yet again just the same morning he was telling Sai ki badalna mat, be what you are, I like that in you and he fails to see what she has become now...

Blue and Bold: In which episode she told this?

Yes his anger is justified but not this behavior. Like he once told Pakhi he would never insult Sai if she doesn't accept his love, I would have preferred if he just ignored her.

I agree with Ramya and the list she pointed out. He has always been this way show his rage and then cry for forgiveness. I was saying something similar to Pooja too, he will cry buckets when he realizes what his indifference and anger have done to Sai.

Yup, she should let him be and stay away or better really tell him what she thinks and leave for good. At this point she is unable to control her emotions for him, so she is trying to take care of him inspite of all the insults. Virat think Sai doesn't understand his actions and he doesn't understand Sais actions. Is it me or Sai has never said he doesn't under my actions cause most of the time she blurts out what is in her mind I guess🤔.

What a sad state of affairs. I am just waiting for Virat to hurt her more in cafe after she sees him holding Pakhis hand which would be the last nail in the coffin😭