Originally posted by: Soanz.19
He has thrown her out of the house in the midnight, denied her food, manhandled her, never stood up for her infront of his family instead asked her to adjust and told her that in-laws taunting the DIL is very common in families. But he's behaving like a jilted lover because Sai said some harsh words to him when he planned their anniversary👎🏼Sai was wrong in using those words and she should apologise for sure, but Virat has conveniently made everything about his insult and his beizzati. He hasn't even summoned up the courage to come clean about the vaada and his feelings, but Sai se expectations toh bohot high level ke hain😆
I agree.. I keep mentioning, its not just a day, just 10 days or a month, its a whole year that has made her the way she is...One really needs to see her change after the whole confrontation scene on the pool..The change in her attitude was so subtle that it would take a lot of effort to relate her with the earlier Sai, even the one before manhandling episode one.. Imagine..she is knocking the door of her own room and Pakhi after everything, after every truth out still gets to enter her room without knocking. And on top of that she gets to see him out in a cafe and no one would ridicule her the way Sai has been for going out with her husband. And this one has to ignore all this...all this and understand his love for her, through his actions..
In my opinion Both have equally failed in understanding each other.. Sai fails to see his love, though quickly without being told understands his insecurities and jealousy....While Virat fails to understand her insecurities, her jealousy and also her longing for him..The difference is one speaks with teary eyes when hurt and the other speaks in a blunt and brash tone..Both have said very hurtful words to each ither, the tone has been different... And I feel bad that the onus is on her , on her alone, with no Sunny to guide her, no understanding of what love is......its on her to understand he loves her!!!
While he still gets to see and meet Pakhi in a cafe !!
And she is supposed to think there is nothing between them..She is not supposed to link it with the divorce between Samrakhi and how they plan to move ahead after that, with him distancing himself from her completely. Because ofcourse that's not what's natural in this case.... She is supposed to get over all these feelings alone and reach him out.. Fair on her? I dont think so.. It was for both of them to realise what they have failed to understand about others and not just one.. But then anyway they are not focusing on Sai's hurt... So no expectations there..
I feel bad when I see posts on how she is getting what she deserves...If she deserves this treatment from him for the words she chose for him, what does he deserve for behaving the way you have mentioned all this while??? She has forgiven him within a blink of an eye.. for those crimes , infact did not even talk much about her trauma, because he wanted her to stop as it made him feel bad and here he is angry for being insulted to an extent that she is to handle it all alone since he has closed himself 👏
Edited by asmi_joya - 4 years ago