Why do they need space from each other? - Page 4

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Arey they both need it.Even I would think it then when the show was actually telecasting these episodes..I was so confused with her behaviour and with her I would leave when you are fine .. and BAM came Harinis's birthday and that confrontation.. and her talk to Virakhi rather herself on how she was dreaming and she forgot things..You know if that would not have happened, she would surely have thought about it , about Virats' behaviour..But with that confrontation,specially since she witnessed Pakhi talking about her dreams got her in shock and gave her a reality check..A reality check on the terms and conditions of the marriage ... and that led her to switch off all those buttons that had to do with understanding Virat and his gestures.. She reprimanded herself for it and not anyone else for treading in the way where she has has no manil....

The problem is that these idiots never give her monologues. They don't have someone to whom she can tell freely about her emotions..Every one from Aayi to Mohit to Shivani comes to her with an intention of uniting her with Virat and not understanding her insecurities .so they are useless that way... After ages we saw her talking to herself in those respects on this trip..Sai is difficult to understand and then to make people see her perspective...well wo toh chor hi do!! She spoils that opportunity with her brash attitude with Raja Babu Virat..

@bold I do remember and had written a post about it too but even then Sai didn’t try to think of these when Virat actually said that he has ended his commitment. That’s is why I said that I do understand her issues but they can also show her thinking about these 😞.

@italics they are useless. They haven’t tried to understand her feelings of her insecurities at all.

About her brash attitude, I have felt many a times it is only to keep a safe distance from him and to not fall for him or get close to him. When we see the same in other shows where the ML shows this kind of an attitude, it looks so normal and people even like that about the character. I am not sure if it is an even bigger because of the gender, because Sai is a FL and we are not used to seeing such a character generally.

Did we not see how she was handling the child yday? How she deals with many people with love and affection, why wouldn’t she be the same with Virat? She has been that same with Virat too. Sometimes they make her look even more rude and indifferent so as to create a distance or maintain the distance between the leads until the confession I feel. The makers are to be blamed who would show the character as and how they want. Even during her college track, right before he left for the mission, she was shown to be very caring and by bringing up the saree drama, after the pendant thing they made her act indifferent and rude. They don’t know how to execute these things in the right way communicating whatever they are trying to portray. All they want to show is her maintaining distance and creating distance between them when she is made to feel that she has come in between Pakhi and Virat.

Amazing post Asmi ji❤️

Both of them, especially Sai, needs some alone time to analyse the whole situation and introspect their words, actions and thoughts.

I had posted earlier that Sai needs to go to Pullu's house after discharge, so that both of them get the space to give their feelings. It didn't happen then, but now it is happening.

The upcoming track will be amazing as it will give us the much needed sneak peek into Sai's feelings. Now it's time to show Sai's POV and monologues.

The upcoming episodes have a great potential for the growth in SaiRat's relation, IF MAKERS HANDLE THIS TRACK PROPERLY.

Now is the time for makers to show the audience what exactly Sai feels. Now is the time to add the much awaited and needed progression in SaiRat's relation. I hope makers will carry this track as it needs to be🤞🤞🤞🤞. I HOPE MAKERS WON'T DISAPPOINT US.

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold I do remember and had written a post about it too but even then Sai didn’t try to think of these when Virat actually said that he has ended his commitment. That’s is why I said that I do understand her issues but they can also show her thinking about these 😞.

@italics they are useless. They haven’t tried to understand her feelings of her insecurities at all.

About her brash attitude, I have felt many a times it is only to keep a safe distance from him and to not fall for him or get close to him. When we see the same in other shows where the ML shows this kind of an attitude, it looks so normal and people even like that about the character. I am not sure if it is an even bigger because of the gender, because Sai is a FL and we are not used to seeing such a character generally.

Did we not see how she was handling the child yday? How she deals with many people with love and affection, why wouldn’t she be the same with Virat? She has been that same with Virat too. Sometimes they make her look even more rude and indifferent so as to create a distance or maintain the distance between the leads until the confession I feel. The makers are to be blamed who would show the character as and how they want. Even during her college track, right before he left for the mission, she was shown to be very caring and by bringing up the saree drama, after the pendant thing they made her act indifferent and rude. They don’t know how to execute these things in the right way communicating whatever they are trying to portray. All they want to show is her maintaining distance and creating distance between them when she is made to feel that she has come in between Pakhi and Virat.

Because when she asked him the reason behind not having commitment he gave her jalebis yet again..See I end a commitment and I stop loving the person I was committed to, are two different things..Thats why there was no thinking in that direction..But then thats my opinion.I think she has not get much opportunity to sit and think about Virat and his gestures..All these situations, Virat's being Pati, showing love , then going back to become her legal guardian, then again calling her patni, then back to calling her zimmedaari, then on top of that we have Pakhi and her delusional stories, her taanas, then whe have CN , it all becomes tempestuous for her..would become for anybody...How is one to think..Thats why is used the term confusions..She would be mighty confused to bring up the simple form of her inner thoughts and on top of that, none to talk to..She is closest to Virat and she cant talk to him about it ofcourse..

You know I personally mention her being brash, because she is hated for that, the MLs however are loved for being that way and showing subtle love.. Thats why.. I find it difficult to explain Sai to someone because of lack of references you know..

Originally posted by: Devikadish

Amazing post Asmi ji❤️

Both of them, especially Sai, needs some alone time to analyse the whole situation and introspect their words, actions and thoughts.

I had posted earlier that Sai needs to go to Pullu's house after discharge, so that both of them get the space to give their feelings. It didn't happen then, but now it is happening.

The upcoming track will be amazing as it will give us the much needed sneak peek into Sai's feelings. Now it's time to show Sai's POV and monologues.

The upcoming episodes have a great potential for the growth in SaiRat's relation, IF MAKERS HANDLE THIS TRACK PROPERLY.

Now is the time for makers to show the audience what exactly Sai feels. Now is the time to add the much awaited and needed progression in SaiRat's relation. I hope makers will carry this track as it needs to be🤞🤞🤞🤞. I HOPE MAKERS WON'T DISAPPOINT US.

You know in that case, Virat would be still yearning her, feeling guilty. So would not have been good for Virat.. Right now Virat is so much in love with Sai and wants the love back that he is not able to protect himself.. He needs to protect his heart right now..I know he created the mess, but still kya karun..Neil makes Virat look so damn convincing..😡

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

You know in that case, Virat would be still yearning her, feeling guilty. So would not have been good for Virat.. Right now Virat is so much in love with Sai and wants the love back that he is not able to protect himself.. He needs to protect his heart right now..I know he created the mess, but still kya karun..Neil makes Virat look so damn convincing..😡

Aapke baat meiin point hai👍🏼

Neil makes Virat 1000 times bearable. Warna pata nahi maine Virat ko kya kya bol dena tha🤬. Neil's acting prowess saves Virat.❤️

Originally posted by: tptwi

Laksh,

I always find it so funny that you think you are bashing characters when you are actually just pointing out some of their flaws 🤣

@bolded: I actually do think that she somewhat realizes the implications of this behavior from Virat. Isn't that why she is so confused in the first place and has said time and time again that she has a hard time understanding Virat? The crux of her problem, in my opinion, is that even though she senses his feelings towards her are way beyond a zimidari, she is unable to give herself permission to label those feelings as the unconditional love a husband has for his wife due to all of her fears and insecurities. This is the same reason why when Virat during the anniversary fight said that this is their journey and they have come so far, Sai looked entirely shattered. Because, she agreed with him...and yet, she could not label it as the journey between a husband and a wife.

But, as you have said, Sai is going to have to dig deeper down into Virat's perspective... ironically, it is going to be Virat's indifference, not his outpouring of love, that will ultimately cause her to let her walls down...

It just pains me that she won't have anyone by her side to support nor guide her, so I truly hope that Samrat can be that person for her...

@bold 🤣🤣

I agree that she has told that she is confused and it is difficult for her to understand Virat but what is stopping her from thinking about it on her own 🤦‍♀️.

@blue I know and I can understand that 😊.

@green this is what I am talking about and I want her to. It is not like I don’t understand her issues but I want her to think more about it. Unfortunately Pakhi is a big roadblock for her who will keep acting as a hurdle in her thought process to come to a conclusion but she now has to fight this I guess.

@last para true, it is sad that she really doesn’t have anyone. I don’t want to have any hopes from Samrat too because as such others have also disappointed us quite a lot. Also, in their story, these two would be doing things for others but others contribution in their life isn’t going to be much. They would only turn into roadblocks and not a helping hand. I don’t know, I don’t want to have any hopes and get disappointed because the makers are too lazy and don’t even care about their own work or story.

Originally posted by: laksh

@bold 🤣🤣

I agree that she has told that she is confused and it is difficult for her to understand Virat but what is stopping her from thinking about it on her own 🤦‍♀️.

@blue I know and I can understand that 😊.

@green this is what I am talking about and I want her to. It is not like I don’t understand her issues but I want her to think more about it. Unfortunately Pakhi is a big roadblock for her who will keep acting as a hurdle in her thought process to come to a conclusion but she now has to fight this I guess.

@last para true, it is sad that she really doesn’t have anyone. I don’t want to have any hopes from Samrat too because as such others have also disappointed us quite a lot. Also, in their story, these two would be doing things for others but others contribution in their life isn’t going to be much. They would only turn into roadblocks and not a helping hand. I don’t know, I don’t want to have any hopes and get disappointed because the makers are too lazy and don’t even care about their own work or story.

@bolded: I'm interested to see how Samrat's entry and the changing dynamics there can perhaps help her overcome this roadblock. Anyways, keeping my hopes low, but I think there is a lot of potential there.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Oh yes I was looking for that word..For Virat that fear of losing her is all compassing..self consuming..and the kind of self doubt he has..it makes it worse for him...He needs to now protect himself from this self consuming love and fear.. He needs to be loved back by this woman because honestly he is dying ..

@bolded: The way in which Neil portrayed this was honestly outstanding. He looked entirely lifeless in the episode, and yet, you could still see the emotions pouring out of him 😭

Originally posted by: tptwi

@bolded: I'm interested to see how Samrat's entry and the changing dynamics there can perhaps help her overcome this roadblock. Anyways, keeping my hopes low, but I think there is a lot of potential there.

I might be going ghum if they drag this and make it all too painful 🤣. And please no more Virat Pakhi scenes and I will forever go Ghum if they show their creativity.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Practicality hata kar hi humne post banaya hai..But honestly looking at these two and how they feel about each other..Virat distancing himself emotionally from Sai for like a month or two would do wonders for them...

It may activate her fear of loosing him but also it can backfire just like this anniversary surprise..

Why I am saying this because sai's outburst due to two reasons one the stupid story and narration of his epic two days "lob" store by the instructor. She will probably MU him more thinking that he is wants to get rid of her just like Virat thinks Sai may never love him back. So i guess Virat should take his time before expressing his decision to Sai.He can be more formal with her from now on..emotionally distant himself from Sai. Because there isn't any point trying since Sai clearly said NOT to play with her mind. That's a big accusations..

I believe that time is the best healer. If it's doesn't that means they were never meant for each other or true love tests you over time and time to find its destiny.

Let them break to recollect, let them fall to bounce back HOPE WITHOUT ANY ZIMMEDARI 🤓😆