More heartbreak - Page 6

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

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Originally posted by sadiltl

Lets keep KD aside, I liked the episode because the way writers handled the anniversary track. They placed the Virats fake story (how ever dumb it is!) and yoga teacher aptly so it looks like, to me atleast that Sai's outburst is mostly exacerbated due to these two incidents.

Yes she is confused, she wanted more verbal assertion but imagine if the two incidents did not happen, Would sai be so mad as she was today?...I dont think so. More than yoga teacher crap, Virat's story had upset her the most. It has opened her the box of insecurites which I think she had sealed after the accident patchup. I am sure if not for these two incidents, she would have been happy for the surprise and virat would have confessed and everything would have ended well.

I don't believe she would have been happy. She would still have been alarmed and freaked out. She might not have been as harsh as she was if not for these incidents. But definitely not happy. She needs verbal clarification from Virat.

But the fate has some more suffering in the store for them. One good thing is Sai has spit out everything. She acknowledged there are issues with all these things. Only when you understand the root cause, you will try to solve it. While solving her questions, she will find answers.

Virat would have definitely confessed if she had reacted positively. It was the right moment. But now he will take few steps back. He always had doubts about Sai loving him as a life partner. Today her words will be taken by 'insecure' part of Virat seriously. He will move away, which will help them. Virat has faced the fear of losing Sai to Ajinkya. Sai has to face the fear. when you are faced with your worst fears, you think instinctively what is needed for you to end it. NO additional garbage will interfere with your thought process.

PS: Today Sai did say some harsh words for which Virat deserves an apology, not for a husband but for her caretaker and friend who never crossed the line with her nor showed anything 'more' without her consent.

Yes. He deserves an apology. Sai was way too harsh.

AND LETS NOT DISCUSS KD. Yes i am saying this . Writers are giving us something different. Lets see! KD messes with our brains.

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Tagging two people whom it has always been most difficult to tag since their usernames are like passwords 😆 @tptwi @sadiltl

I just burst out laughing at your passwords comment 🤣 I chose random letters for my username 😆

I completely agree that she would not have been happy at a confession at this point. She would have freaked out even more, grown more confused, and gotten more dejected even. She couldn't accept an anniversary celebration because of the deal marriage, so how could she accept that love exists in a marriage that isn't even real? Like you have perfectly said, she needed clarification on the past and the vaada(s).

Originally posted by: sadiltl

"I don't believe she would have been happy. She would still have been alarmed and freaked out. She might not have been as harsh as she was if not for these incidents. But definitely not happy. She needs verbal clarification from Virat."

Could be. But I am thinking from writers PoV and the Sai we have in Ghum not Emon in KD. She was ready for a kiss one day before. She was enjoying the trip until the two incidents happened which threw her away (I was totally upset, imagine sai's situation). So I was thinking, without these 2 she would have been happy.

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Originally posted by: tptwi

Sai feels for Kaku, Ninand, Omi, Pakhi...literally everyone who has abused her over and over again... quite literally every single day. More than bothering me, it breaks my heart for her. She values family above all else, whether that be because these people are extensions or Virat and/or she desperately seeks to belong (I think it's both), and she is willing to look past everything they have done to hurt her....

Also in terms of family... they are living in a joint family, and Sai has started to learn and accept those rules too...

Absolutely true, none of this is healthy for her. The only reason I pointed Pakhi is since she has been the worst of the lot and she called her bechaari today. Somebody needs to stop this before Sai really thinks these are all victims and she is the reason for everyone's sadness. It is not good for her mental health.

I truly hope she takes a break and goes to taai and Pulkits house to clear her mind.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Honestly it's too much on any woman to figure out on her own, without anybody at her side after the husband distances himself from her hereon..I am okay with the distancing and not with her having to deal with it all alone ..with no sane person to advice her... This is too much on her...Her fear of rejection..her fear of self respect being crippled , is that not something that could be also the case..looking at it from her perspective..?

I felt sad for her today. She has no one to talk to about these things. 🥺Ashwini has been a disappointment in that regard.

She is in a very very vulnerable state....and looks like it's gonna get worse.

Originally posted by: tptwi

Sai feels for Kaku, Ninand, Omi, Pakhi...literally everyone who has abused her over and over again... quite literally every single day. More than bothering me, it breaks my heart for her. She values family above all else, whether that be because these people are extensions or Virat and/or she desperately seeks to belong (I think it's both), and she is willing to look past everything they have done to hurt her....

Also in terms of family... they are living in a joint family, and Sai has started to learn and accept those rules too...

what family if it’s a deal marriage these people are nobody to her .. she complains nobody cares for her well they are steeling their heart .. when u walk away after becoming a doctor .. they won’t miss you

if everyday living with virat was a sham for her .. then she should stop calling her his wife .. wife bana ke le aya .. for any body .. let’s say the driver it sounded so shabby for virat n Sai too..

the holiday was the worst if Sai .. I really wish virat stops giving her gifts , surprises any more .. it’s a deal marriage he has to keep her safe n secure ..

any KD watchers here does virat finally stop gifting her after this episode .. or he still continues after this fiasco

Originally posted by: sadiltl

"I don't believe she would have been happy. She would still have been alarmed and freaked out. She might not have been as harsh as she was if not for these incidents. But definitely not happy. She needs verbal clarification from Virat."

Could be. But I am thinking from writers PoV and the Sai we have in Ghum not Emon in KD. She was ready for a kiss one day before. She was enjoying the trip until the two incidents happened which threw her away (I was totally upset, imagine sai's situation). So I was thinking, without these 2 she would have been happy.

I agree she would have got angry but would have played along...I have mentioned it before, when there is no Patralekha in picture, Sai gets into her zone with her Virat Sir.. Here both Virat and yoga teacher reminded her of Pakhi and also indirectly pushed her to think that she is the third person!

Originally posted by: sadiltl

No no I called her family because, in joint families, it is difficult to call out people. Sai is now in the phase of gaining family's side, so she will not confront pakhi.

The reason she will think as third person again, is not for pakhi, but for Virat. She thinks only Pakhi makes Virat happy.

@bold but isn't this a problem in itself. Virat did exactly the same in the initial few months and look where it got him and how much delusional it made Pakhi and what a mess he is in now. Would Sai also not end up doing the same mistake Virat did ??

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

I felt sad for her today. She has no one to talk to about these things. 🥺Ashwini has been a disappointment in that regard.

She is in a very very vulnerable state....and looks like it's gonna get worse.

Is fear of rejection not natural for Sai as it is for Virat? On top of that Patralekha keeps adding a paragraph to a story she created about the love they had when she talks to Sai...How is she to gather that she is lying delusional.. How is Sai to add up all that without having any details of what relationship Virat and Pakhi shared from Virat.. or for that matter even Sunny!!

I am not sure how is any woman supposed to deal with it, with no one around to help her in the situation.. I feel so bad for her.. and at the same time for Virat as well...Abhi kya bolun....

Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold but isn't this a problem in itself. Virat did exactly the same in the initial few months and look where it got him and how much delusional it made Pakhi and what a mess he is in now. Would Sai also not end up doing the same mistake Virat did ??

Arey but samrat is here .. how will they welcome samrat back .. what will she tell pakhi .. look your husband is Here now u can divorce him

And get married to mine .. I hope she says it loudly n clearly infront of all .. samrat virat and their family elders

Originally posted by: Rdigest

@bold but isn't this a problem in itself. Virat did exactly the same in the initial few months and look where it got him and how much delusional it made Pakhi and what a mess he is in now. Would Sai also not end up doing the same mistake Virat did ??

I believe, putting down Pakhi is Virat's job, not Sai's. It is his responsibility to keep his wife feelings secured.

Sai can confront her if she is not involved with Virat or his family. Pakhi is now the family, and related to her in a more twisted way. So the dynamics of joint family comes into picture. Also, if Sai and Virat are in their marriage fully, Sai can confront Pakhi directly, she has the right to ask her not to stalk her husband. But now she doesnt think she has rights.

Also after this kaand, sai might go back to square one thinking that she is no one in the family, so could go back and confront her. But now Pakhi's husband himself is there to confront her, so why bother. I am sure she will pitch in :P