More heartbreak

Anger, hurt, pain truly makes you lose your ability to listen and process things. We have seen it with Sai n now with Virat too.

Virat always served jalebis but when he directly told Sai, he does not have any commitment anymore, when he told Sai he wants to have real pati patni relationship she wasnt in the frame of mind to listen n process it.

Sai keeps saying deal, zimmedari not understanding that no one would do all this out of mere zimmedari.

Really Sai?!

But virat has shown that he also reaches wrong conclusions only , just like his baiko.

Coz today Sai has point blank told him what her problem is. Instead of clarifying n sorting it out , he is so hurt n shedding tears and eventually after all is done, his conclusion is that "Sai does not feel the same way I do" 🙈

Really Virat?!

If she didn't have feelings why does your past, your relationship with pp affect her?!

She literally said" don't play with my emotions". Why would she say that if she didnt have any emotions....and apart from love, what other emotion is she referring to?!

Sai has been completely honest n transparent what her issue is. She feels like she is in between him n pp. She feels like he still loves pp n thats what makes her hold back her feelings.

I dont understand when virat will understand it.

I dont fault him for not understanding now because they are too emotional.

But mohit/dunny should understand. Today they only saw Virats pov, not Sais. They should see clearly that the issue between Sairat is one giant MU n the root cause of all evil is pp.

I wish they would stage an intervention for Sairat and tell them what Sairat fail to listen/understand.

Coz neither Sai nor Virat reflect on the important things. They both get so carried away in their hurt/anger that they never pay heed to those sentences that are most important.

Virat doesn't understand that there can be no progress between them until the pp chapter is well n truly closed in Sai's eyes too. He really needs to stop being mute when Sai questions him about his past, his status with pp. If he wants her to reciprocate his feelings as a wife, she needs to know that pp is delusional and stupid and virat-pp was never a real thing.

It bothered me that when Sai asked why did you not refute what yoga lady said, Virat says "because it used to be true in the past". It wasnt! This man is truly confused. They didnt even have a relationship to begin with. It was over before it even started. He himself told pp that. Why then does Virat make it seem to Sai like him n pp had a real relationship?!

And Sai does not understand that virat is not a "loose guy" who would string her along only out of generosity, ehsaan, zimmedari, farz. He is truly moving on. And pp not understanding her place, not wanting to let go, still keeping ummeed from virat- that is only pp's problem. Virat is not encouraging any of that directly.

This is exactly why many of us have said that Virat speaking to pp curtly in private but giving her leeway im public , in front of Sai will come to bite him in the ass.

Sai today has very little objective data to make her feel like he loves her and has moved on past pp. His reluctance to show pp her place and prevent her interference has made Sai feel this way.

She feels like he is easily swayed/convinced by people into doing things he doesn't really want to do without realizing how it impacts her n breaks her heart- villagers convinced him to marry, his aai convinced him to do Shaadi ki rasmein, sunny convinced him to celebrate anniversary, her being lonely/orphaned made him celebrate her birthday....but she doesn't feel like this is all out of his true love/apnapan towards his wife. She only sees it all as an extension of this zimmedari he follows and she has made it clear that she feels like she is getting strung along and her emotions are being played with- that is essentially a confession of her insecurities.

She is clearly asking him to spell out what he wants or rather who he wants and sort out this chapter once n for all.

What bothers me is that sunny n mohit were utterly useless. Atleast mohit tried to calm things down and almost told Sai virats true feelings but virat stopped him. But Sunny should have elaborated that there was no rishta even in those 2 days of the camp n anything pp does now is purely her delusion n nothing to do with Virat.

Ayesha was on fire today. The way she has emoted these scenes is truly brilliant. Neil was great too but Ayesha stole the show for me. She makes me want to go into my laptop screen and hug her.....

But its so painfully sweet how Virat minutes after his outburst is back to worrying about Sai n her whereabouts.

And precap shows how Sai will once again be the instrument that brings happiness to the family n virat. She solved devkit, harinee issue n now its her that will convince virats jeeva to come back....

Today one more missed opportunity, Virat needed to speak up and confess and Sai needed to shut up and listen.

Both of them jump into conclusion without reflecting on each other's actions.

Originally posted by: ranijain

Today one more missed opportunity, Virat needed to speak up and confess and Sai needed to shut up and listen.

Both of them jump into conclusion without reflecting on each other's actions.

Ikr. And what is the point of mohit n sunny being there if they couldn't mediate this fight and help Sairat out.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Anger, hurt, pain truly makes you lose your ability to listen and process things. We have seen it with Sai n now with Virat too.

Virat always served jalebis but when he directly told Sai, he does not have any commitment anymore, when he told Sai he wants to have real pati patni relationship she wasnt in the frame of mind to listen n process it.

Sai keeps saying deal, zimmedari not understanding that no one would do all this out of mere zimmedari.

Really Sai?!

But virat has shown that he also reaches wrong conclusions only , just like his baiko.

Coz today Sai has point blank told him what her problem is. Instead of clarifying n sorting it out , he is so hurt n shedding tears and eventually after all is done, his conclusion is that "Sai does not feel the same way I do" 🙈

Really Virat?!

If she didn't have feelings why does your past, your relationship with pp affect her?!

She literally said" don't play with my emotions". Why would she say that if she didnt have any emotions....and apart from love, what other emotion is she referring to?!

Sai has been completely honest n transparent what her issue is. She feels like she is in between him n pp. She feels like he still loves pp n thats what makes her hold back her feelings.

I dont understand when virat will understand it.

I dont fault him for not understanding now because they are too emotional.

But mohit/dunny should understand. Today they only saw Virats pov, not Sais. They should see clearly that the issue between Sairat is one giant MU n the root cause of all evil is pp.

I wish they would stage an intervention for Sairat and tell them what Sairat fail to listen/understand.

Coz neither Sai nor Virat reflect on the important things. They both get so carried away in their hurt/anger that they never pay heed to those sentences that are most important.

Virat doesn't understand that there can be no progress between them until the pp chapter is well n truly closed in Sai's eyes too. He really needs to stop being mute when Sai questions him about his past, his status with pp. If he wants her to reciprocate his feelings as a wife, she needs to know that pp is delusional and stupid and virat-pp was never a real thing.

It bothered me that when Sai asked why did you not refute what yoga lady said, Virat says "because it used to be true in the past". It wasnt! This man is truly confused. They didnt even have a relationship to begin with. It was over before it even started. He himself told pp that. Why then does Virat make it seem to Sai like him n pp had a real relationship?!

And Sai does not understand that virat is not a "loose guy" who would string her along only out of generosity, ehsaan, zimmedari, farz. He is truly moving on. And pp not understanding her place, not wanting to let go, still keeping ummeed from virat- that is only pp's problem. Virat is not encouraging any of that directly.

This is exactly why many of us have said that Virat speaking to pp curtly in private but giving her leeway im public , in front of Sai will come to bite him in the ass.

Sai today has very little objective data to make her feel like he loves her and has moved on past pp. His reluctance to show pp her place and prevent her interference has made Sai feel this way.

She feels like he is easily swayed/convinced by people into doing things he doesn't really want to do without realizing how it impacts her n breaks her heart- villagers convinced him to marry, his aai convinced him to do Shaadi ki rasmein, sunny convinced him to celebrate anniversary, her being lonely/orphaned made him celebrate her birthday....but she doesn't feel like this is all out of his true love/apnapan towards his wife. She only sees it all as an extension of this zimmedari he follows and she has made it clear that she feels like she is getting strung along and her emotions are being played with- that is essentially a confession of her insecurities.

She is clearly asking him to spell out what he wants or rather who he wants and sort out this chapter once n for all.

What bothers me is that sunny n mohit were utterly useless. Atleast mohit tried to calm things down and almost told Sai virats true feelings but virat stopped him. But Sunny should have elaborated that there was no rishta even in those 2 days of the camp n anything pp does now is purely her delusion n nothing to do with Virat.

Ayesha was on fire today. The way she has emoted these scenes is truly brilliant. Neil was great too but Ayesha stole the show for me. She makes me want to go into my laptop screen and hug her.....

But its so painfully sweet how Virat minutes after his outburst is back to worrying about Sai n her whereabouts.

And precap shows how Sai will once again be the instrument that brings happiness to the family n virat. She solved devkit, harinee issue n now its her that will convince virats jeeva to come back....

Good Sam has been found .. atleast those issues like pakhi virat ka 2 day love will be spoken more loudly .. but why should he come back .. both Sai n samrat clearly want their spouses to patch up .. so let’s get pakhi virat together 😂😂😂.. if it’s possible .. atleast a lot of Delusional brains will understand

Originally posted by: msin

Good Sam has been found .. atleast those issues like pakhi virat ka 2 day love will be spoken more loudly .. but why should he come back .. both Sai n samrat clearly want their spouses to patch up .. so let’s get pakhi virat together 😂😂😂.. if it’s possible .. atleast a lot of Delusional brains will understand

But it won't affect chavani chavans.They will be like past is past..

They are doing over promotion for Samrat entry for a shirty track

Originally posted by: Nja91

Ikr. And what is the point of mohit n sunny being there if they couldn't mediate this fight and help Sairat out.

I feel now that it is a proven fact that Virat could never articulate his feelings or facts and rather would do more damage ( he failed to say nothing existed in those two days that can be termed as love) he should keep silent and move away from Sai. He should stop showing his concern,love or anything for that matter.

Sai needs to think and connect everything that happened in their lives on her own .. That may help her see things with clarity.

I think that's the best solution for us!! We always say Virat serves gol gol jalebis! But isn't Sai serving the same too? The same to same deal, zimmedari jalebi?! Why wud Virat say he wants a real marriage with Sai again and again if she thinks he is still stuck with Pakhi? If she thinks that he is that kind of a character, then he is anyway not worth to live with. She ought to walk out and NOW!

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

More than Mohit Sunny failed his friend today. He was the sole witness to whatever happened at yoga camp. He was so firm when he showed the mirror to Pakhi but same Sunny could do nothing to help resolve the issue of Sairat. Whether Sai believes him or not,he should have tried his bit.

I feel now that it is a proven fact that Virat could never articulate his feelings or facts and rather would do more damage ( he failed to say nothing existed in those two days that can be termed as love) he should keep silent and move away from Sai. He should stop showing his concern,love or anything for that matter.

Sai needs to think and connect everything that happened in their lives on her own .. That may help her see things with clarity.

Virat will remain mute and Sai wont listen.great combination. But ultimately it is going to be Sai that will figure out everything herself. Virat seh koi ummeed nahi ab. .but i dont understand how some people are so blind in the Sai hate/virat bhakti that they only see flaws in one person. Isnt virat equally to blame for this situation. And isn't Virat failing at listening to and understanding Sai's insecurities. She cannot voice her insecurities any more clearly than this. if despite all her insecurities, she stays with him putting even her self respect at stake, doesn't that show him that she definitely reciprocates the same love. But she is just afraid n insecure. She wants reassurance n instead of giving her that he has just allowed her to walk away with her misunderstanding. So virat is also making the same mistake as Sai- not reflecting n seeing the truth.

I'm most annoyed at Sunny also remaining mute. When he should have spoken up, he stayed quiet.

And I'm so upset that mohit/sunny didn't understand Sai's anguish and didn't mediate and try harder to resolve the fight. Neither of them folllwed Sai to make sure shes safe. She was just in an accident. Unlike virat, these 2 were the objective third party observers, the well wishers....but their half assed attempts were of no help. Their presence added no value. Might as well have given us a Sairat only scene..

You touched my heart with this analysis, Neerja. Truly so beautifully written ❤️

The most painful thing about today's episode to me was how glaringly clear it was that Sai and Virat are on the same side... and yet they are so blinded by their own emotions that they cannot see what the other is feeling.

The fact that Sai assumed Virat's story was about Pakhi and Virat, but Virat did not even understand what Sai was saying spoke volumes. Virat does not realize, even a little bit, the extent to which Sai is insecure about his past. Why else would Sai be so impacted by the yoga teacher narrating what happened on the retreat? If Sai felt nothing towards him, none of this would be bothering her even a little bit. She left herself entirely vulnerable today, and yet, the harsh words that she used caused Virat to retract all of his own vulnerability and crawl back into his own shell. He, too, was trying to make her understand- asking her to question why he would bring her this far to celebrate something that was fake to him... but she was so overtaken by her own confusion, guilt, and pain that she was in no state to process his questions.

The most powerful dialogue of the entire episode was when Sai said that Virat says something, but does something different. This encompasses the crux of the problem. Virat wants Sai to understand his love for her through his actions, but Sai is someone who places emphasis on words... she takes everything Virat says to her heart... and hence, she is unable to understand what Virat is actually feeling... because while she sees his actions are full of love, he has never said in words that this relationship is real, he regrets making the vaada, Pakhi is no one to him, etc. etc. What he has said has never been enough....and had he been in a more rational state today, he would have realized that.

Another moment that gave us so much insight into Sai- she said that if Virat ended everything between him and Pakhi, then why is Pakhi still waiting for him? Sai knows that Virat has never been inappropriate with Pakhi. She even sees that he defends her in front of Pakhi... but, all of these things are overclouded by Pakhi's constant tamashas... she shamelessly declares that Virat has shattered her dreams and basically professes her love for him outside of their bedroom in the middle of the night. How is Sai supposed to look past all of this? The disconnect here is that Sai hides her emotions so well and Virat is so blinded in his own feelings of love, that Virat has never realized how much all of this bothers her... again, this could have been the perfect opportunity, but he was too broken...

For everyone saying that Virat lost another opportunity to confess today and tell the truth, I disagree. The man is destroyed. Sai didn't outright reject him, and no matter how true what she said was, her words hit him like daggers. He stopped Mohit from finishing his sentence, because in his mind, there was no way that Sai would accept anything he said. He did not want to push it and lose even more of her than he already had...

Today, Sai was completely alone. Mohit and Sunny both understand Virat and Sunny even helped him realize his feelings. But, Sai has no one... absolutely no one... who can understand the turmoil going on within her.

When Sai said that if Virat wants to see her happy, he needs to stop playing with her emotions, she once again placed all of her emotions on the table. The contradictions between Virat's words (or lack of words) and his actions are driving Sai mad. She does not understand what he is trying to do or what he is actually feeling. This is exactly what she meant when she told him to stop joking that he likes her during the ring gifting. She has let herself believe in the reality of this marriage and been shattered way too many times by now. She is so scared to let herself believe it at this point. And, what emotions was she talking about? Obviously love.... she is in love with Virat, but she will not let herself accept her own feelings because she is absolutely terrified that Virat doesn't reciprocate...so when he sends her signals that he does, she feels as if he is playing with her feelings.

Her monologue on the walk was much needed. She has never been present when Virat has put Pakhi in her place, so in her mind, Virat has always been soft with Pakhi... giving her false hope. This is her guilt pouring out of her. Sai is someone who cannot see even her enemies in pain...let alone Pakhi, who despite the abuse she spews at Sai, Sai considers her family. She thinks that she is the reason that Virat and Pakhi were not able to unite. Had she witnessed the post-GC fight confrontation or the post-accident confrontation, the story would be very different today.

Again, Sai thought to herself that Virat has never said anything to her to show that he might have feelings for her. Virat has in fact told her that he does not want her to leave him, he has no commitment towards Pakhi, and that he wants this marriage to be real (which to me does not count because Sai was in no state to understand him right after she had regained consciousness in the hospital). But, all of these words, Sai has been unable to label as his love for her as a husband. The fact is that Virat has tried very hard to express himself, but he has never been clear enough... due to his own fear of losing her, and today, in his mind, all of his worst fears came true...

Today, during the monologue, Sai was finally starting to try to understand Virat's perspective... she was questioning what his motives are... this seems to be the beginning of her own realization even if she is too immersed in her own pain right now...

The ending absolutely killed me. Virat thinks that Sai feels nothing for him and that she left him because of it... when in fact quite the opposite is true...

It is clear now that Virat will not say anything. After he witnesses Sai and Samrat's conversation, his heart is going to break 100000 times over. From this point on, it will be Sai who is going to have to figure things out on her own, and to me, today marked the start of that. In a weird way, Pakhi was a catalyst for Virat in realizing his feelings for Sai, and now Samrat will be the catalyst for Sai...

The whole situation reminded me of how Virat acted seeing Ajinkya in their room.. Nothing was true but it was all in his head..

What Sai spoke today it is all in her head nothing true.. I really couldn't understand Sai today she is pissed because she is virat's second choice or Pakhi's interference in their life...

She was having all the wrong questions in her minds.. Her mind is completely blocked to listen anything or she was not in the state of mind to think reasonably..

What pissed me off today Calling Pakhi BECHARI🤢🤢

SHOW steamer was Aai..She asked all right questions to Pakhi for her actual reason to be so restless. Alas all fell into deaf ears Samrat return won't change anything but it put things back to square one..

What I could conclude what a thirds person can do to you..Virat milked a snake now it's biting him..Sai clearly expressed in her discomfort when Pakhi used to come into their room but he brushed it off saying this marriage is a mere deal. Pakhi called so called wife but he chose to keep mum..But now Sai actually became so called wife..He didn't stop that Yoga instructor but let out all the details but expected to understand Sai "That's it's past "..

Both are wrong today..

Sai's mind is preoccupied with only in books and studies.. She is still in her Aaba's bubble that's why she doesn't want to UNDERSTAND rest of the world..

Virat has the habit of taking decisions for others life.. He still doesn't know the difference between infatuation and love.. Still doesn't understand the dynamics of friends.. How can he expects his wife to reciprocate his feelings..

I am kind of bored now that it's actually back to square one.. But I am really keen on knowing how Sai realises Virat's love.. After Samrat entry overdose of Pakhi will ruin my mood 🤢