Who is the real victim in this story? - Page 6

Originally posted by: vimeo

Shaanth! Shaanth!😃 its after all a show!

Sai claiming deal marriage after the accident conversation between Sairat is ridiculous for me. At the risk of repeating myself, I state again, She shudnt hv returned to CN this time if she thot the marriage was still a deal!

See it that way, her lying in that condition and he telling her well this marriage is real , can it not be taken as his guilt for the mistake he did and compromise now that they have an equation and Pakhi is married!!

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

For your kind information he only said it once as far as I can remember. But, Sai keeps on ranting everytime. And, anyway which guardian will go out of his / her way to make his / her responsibility happy and be so concerned about his / her well being?

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Had the ex been not this overbearing and interfering, it would still have been less stressful but more of emotional pain.. here its both!! And ofcourse the family who joins in the ex to ridicule her on day to day basis!!

Was about to say this.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Sai's love is underrated because of the fact that we hardly get her monologue and how she hides it under the garb of casualness and brashness...She is brash and she is rude and even yesterday the way she behaved in the car, I personally did not like it.. Long back when Lakshmi was in the forum we had discussed how Aaba gave her a tad bit much leverage when it comes to other people. But then thats that and she is learning.. I hardly see her getting rude to Pakhi or anyone else in the family. With Virat, well this needs to be addressed. In normal days Virat does not address these issues and pampers her a lot. He needs to get angry with her, he needs to let her know in ways that he did not like it. I liked how he did yesterday and did not let it pass..It made her realise immediately and she wanted to talk then. So that and all is necessary in this relationship. Just because he is in love and he wants that back he cannot just let go things that makes him feel bad.. Sai certainly things what she does and what she feels about him does not matter to him.. She got married into a dysfunctional family way too early, even before she could gather life or face the real problems in life... BUt honestly I do see growth in her..

About her love well I have said it too many times, she loves Virat and its visible how she melts too easily when it comes to his mistakes...All he needs to do is breakdown and show some self loathing and she is a goner.. Just other day when she forgave him for accusing her , I said how she can see him angry, she can see him controlling , she can see him even loving Pakhi, taking her sides but she cannot see her Virat Sir the way he was standing in front of her.. She is the same person who every time Virat says us baare mei baat mat karo mujhe acha nahi lagta , she agrees and never brings up again..

She is also someone who cannot deny Virat anything, it was beyond her self respect to apologise to Pakhi, she did..He wanted her to get back to the room , she came in..He wanted her try adjusting in the family doing ghar ka kaam , she did that.. He wanted her to come to Ladakh, she agreed.. He wanted her to forgive her for manhandling her, she forgave him... He wanted her to let go the mistakes of elders ..she did.. He wanted her celebrate Harini's birthday grandly she agreed.. .He wanted her to not leave the house, she stayed back, even after having confusions about the vaada he made to Pakhi.. Mind it she believes Virat Chavhan never goes back on his words... He wanted her to accompany him at Pakhi's place she agreed, she also was insulted beyond measures, she took it all in and behaved with Pakhi's parents.For whom? For herself ? or For Pakhi? or For her parents? He wanted her to try to adjust in the family again, she is trying it again..He wanted her forgive him for what happened , she did.. Why would anyone do all this, if the person is selfish, brash and rude.. Whatever she does for him is so subtle, so mircroscopic that it gets hidden..Like for instance the way she said today, that she wants the gifts from him to his family because last time they felt bad... It yet again got hidden under the garb of her not respecting Veeru..

We know Virat does not love Pakhi, we know the conversation he had with Pakhi..but does Sai know ??

1) He asked her to get trained by her .

2) Asked her to behave with her.

3) Called her his pyaari cheez.

4) Called her his pyaar then Dost.

5) Got back to call her Dost and then asking Sai to befriend her...just before holi and kidnapping.

6)And now Sai sees him sometimes getting angry and irritated with her.

7) Witnesses waada talk.

8) He tells her he is not committed to her. Nothing about the love and vaada.

9) She is always outside the door and still taunts Sai..sometimes questions Virat for breaking her heart.

What as per Sai has changed between them ??

But still in all this when she is overwhelmed by emotions, she forgets the deal , the love Virat has for Pakhi as per her.. and she gives in, that's what she also said during the whole Harini birthday confrontation, when we were all confused about the laddoo kiss and all.. She said, She had started dreaming, temproraily forgotten things and then she is snapped back to reality hearing that vaada talk...

It has happened all the time and will again happen when she wanted to go to Ladakh and was all excited, she was not just rudely awakened by Palhi but also whole family and now when Samrat is back..She will see the pain in someone else's eye yet again that she has felt all this year.. The empathy would get her back to the reality that she believes is real for her also... I always see she cannot and does not deny Virat anything when they are being good to each other...and ALONE...when didi comes into picture.. she would deny him a finger touch also ...like we saw during the Harini birthday incident when she questioned his touch on her shoulder also..She did say, he cannot have feelings for other woman and haq jatao on her.. Its just that, Virat is expressive, we keep hearing his monologues, his discussions with both Sunny and Pakhi so we understand him...With Sai, we hardly have anything to see, we have to interpret and its takes a lot to interpret

See from my perspective if she still have doubts after their hospital convo, she should have explicitly got it clarified. Had she not received any clarification, she should have walked out. V hv given too much benefit out doubt to Sai so far. It was high time she sought clarity. Assuming its still a deal even after the convo, Virat's reactions, guilt etc and still deciding to stay and again blaming Virat is WRONG! She has to own up her mistakes. High time!

Originally posted by: Soanz.19

It just struck me, Virat ko Pakhi se 2 days mein forever and ever wala pyaar ho gaya due to which he gave that stupid vaada. Samrat ko Pakhi se 5 din mein itna pyaar ho gaya ki woh dukh bardaasht nahi kar paaya and ghar chodke chala gaya. Aur toh aur, armed forces ko bhi quit kar diya. There's some big time chemical locha in these Chavan boys brains🤣🤣

I know 🤣🤣

Originally posted by: vimeo

I am not saying what Samrat did was right at all! But he was the only one who got into this farce of a marriage with real hopes of marriage and hence was shattered.

But of course staying MIA isn't the best way to handle things! He shud hv confronted people and handed over a divorce!! Then at least Sai cud hv been at peace bcoz Pakhi wud hv moved out of the house.

Not just Sai’s, I feel even Pakhi’s life would have been better.

Originally posted by: vimeo

See from my perspective if she still have doubts after their hospital convo, she should have explicitly got it clarified. Had she not received any clarification, she should have walked out. V hv given too much benefit out doubt to Sai so far. It was high time she sought clarity. Assuming its still a deal even after the convo, Virat's reactions, guilt etc and still deciding to stay and again blaming Virat is WRONG! She has to own up her mistakes. High time!

BUt even that way Virat keeps switching between calling himself her guardian and calling himself her husband..The time he chose to inform her that marriage can be real was the time when she might still not register things the way they should..You see her bringing up deal marriage is her way of asking is it still? Reverse psychology.. The same that Virat did when he said he has no commitment towrads anybody and Sai had asked him you are saying that because it hurts me to see you talking to Pakhi Didi..Rather than denying that he said, jalan hoti hai kya tumhe, bura lagta hai?

Also she went back has to be understood from the point that she could not see him standing there at the hospital when she was leaving with Pulkit...She cant see him like that..These are the subtle things , when one knows that she is so much in love with him and cant see him that way, that she choses to yet gaian get back to him, because he is in self loath mode..She would always want things to end in a friendly way when they end with Virat...Because she would always want to have him in her life someway or the other.. She has accepted him her humsafar for life.. Humsafar could also be someone who is not her husband..

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

BUt even that way Virat keeps switching between calling himself her guardian and calling himself her husband..The time he chose to inform her that marriage can be real was the time when she might still not register things the way they should..You see her bringing up deal marriage is her way of asking is it still? Reverse psychology.. The same that Virat did when he said he has no commitment towrads anybody and Sai had asked him you are saying that because it hurts me to see you talking to Pakhi Didi..Rather than denying that he said, jalan hoti hai kya tumhe, bura lagta hai?

Also she went back has to be understood from the point that she could not see him standing there at the hospital when she was leaving with Pulkit...She cant see him like that..These are the subtle things , when one knows that she is so much in love with him and cant see him that way, that she choses to yet gaian get back to him, because he is in self loath mode..She would always want things to end in a friendly way when they end with Virat...Because she would always want to have him in her life someway or the other.. She has accepted him her humsafar for life.. Humsafar could also be someone who is not her husband..

Marriages ending and still being friends post divorce I think only happens among bollywood / hollywood couples. At the most i think u cud be civil but being friends / humsafars for life after divorce, its all illusionary to think that way.

And coming back to the point, its Sai who.claims deal wali shaadi always. So if she didn't want a deal wali shaadi she should get it clarified. How does she think she will end her marriage? All will be well hunky dory? Isn't that stupid?

Will reply to ur other post later.

Originally posted by: vimeo

Marriages ending and still being friends post divorce I think only happens among bollywood / hollywood couples. At the most i think u cud be civil but being friends / humsafars for life after divorce, its all illusionary to think that way.

And coming back to the point, its Sai who.claims deal wali shaadi always. So if she didn't want a deal wali shaadi she should get it clarified. How does she think she will end her marriage? All will be well hunky dory? Isn't that stupid?

Will reply to ur other post later.

But then again she does not think this marriage is a marriage no..with feelings from his side .

And that's why I said she can't say deal marriage nahi hai na ab..after every month..now that she has been told that it is... so she asks it another way.. If we can understand Virat's hesitancy in coming out it open about his waada with Pakhi and clarifying the deal..why can't we understand her mentioning deal deal is also a way to ask if it still is.. thats why I say reverse psychology there..