Who is the real victim in this story? - Page 5

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I don't agree Sai didn't have a choice. She did. Not once but thrice. First before the marriage. Second after being thrown out and she went to a hostel and again now after her accident. Why did she not walk out of the marriage. Virat may have begged but it still her choice that she either came back or decided to stay. Especially this last time I am still unable to digest the fact that she stayed back but she still thinks its a deal wali shaadi. This last time if she still thought it was a deal wali shaadi she shud not hv returned.. Virat had clearly told he wanted a normal shaadi with her this time. So how cud she return to cn and still expect on continuation of a deal marriage! But this is a separate discussion altogether. Let me not digress from the topic! But ya I don't agree that Sai didn't hv a choice.

Originally posted by: vimeo

I don't agree Sai didn't have a choice. She did. Not once but thrice. First before the marriage. Second after being thrown out and she went to a hostel and again now after her accident. Why did she not walk out of the marriage. Virat may have begged but it still her choice that she either came back or decided to stay. Especially this last time I am still unable to digest the fact that she stayed back but she still thinks its a deal wali shaadi. This last time if she still thought it was a deal wali shaadi she shud not hv returned.. Virat had clearly told he wanted a normal shaadi with her this time. So how cud she return to cn and still expect on continuation of a deal marriage! But this is a separate discussion altogether. Let me not digress from the topic! But ya I don't agree that Sai didn't hv a choice.

I was talking about before marriage. She didn't really have a choice then. Also she didn't have an idea that Virat's ex would be staying with them and would target her everyday out of spite. Sai and Samrat are both victims of other people's bad choices and lies (or partial truths).

But no one is sympathising with Virat. But everyone sympathize with Sai. That's the difference. I mean the audience and here in the forum! Sai crying deal marriage after returning from hospital and after Virat stating he wants a normal shaadi with her, is ridiculous. Cvs r just spinning jalebis! That too same to same jalebis!! Let them deliver some new jalebis yaar we can try!!😂

Originally posted by: janecastle

I was talking about before marriage. She didn't really have a choice then. Also she didn't have an idea that Virat's ex would be staying with them and would target her everyday out of spite. Sai and Samrat are both victims of other people's bad choices and lies (or partial truths).

@ bold: that I agree!!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Exactly!! What is his mother's fault in all this..She is left with a bahu who has no concern about her husband being alive or dead and who busy sniffing her devar's shirt!!

I agree Manasi bua is the real victim since her son left him with such a callous woman. She doesn’t care for anyone but herself. She doesn’t care about Samrat’s well being but can’t she act concerned just for the sake of her MIL??

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

For your kind information he only said it once as far as I can remember. But, Sai keeps on ranting everytime. And, anyway which guardian will go out of his / her way to make his / her responsibility happy and be so concerned about his / her well being?

See this is because instead of marriage vows , he took deal vows.. She harps about it because every time she tries to move forward , something or the other reminds her of that just like how it happened today..He allowed that woman for a long long time to interfere in their life.. Just like for instance today.. Pakhi leaves no stones unturned to remind her, that she had a past with her husband and she cant have rights on her husbands money or him.. She gives him all the credit for taking her responsibility. Even today she said how Virat takes care of all her needs and she should do something for him in return... She thinks coming to the trip as his wife when they are not husband-wife in real terms is she doing something for him...

We know Virat does not love Pakhi, we know the conversation he had with Pakhi..but does Sai know ??

1) Tells her while taking marriage vows that this shaadi is nothing but a deal while looking sadly at Pakhi.. Also do remember Sai says its a deal only when she sees him saying that while doing his saat pheras, the first time he said that she did not say anything or retaliate with her leaving him.

2He asked her to get trained by her .

3) Asked her to behave with her.

4) Called her his pyaari cheez.

5) Called her his pyaar then Dost.

6) Got back to call her Dost and then asking Sai to befriend her...just before holi and kidnapping.

7)And now Sai sees him sometimes getting angry and irritated with her.

8) Witnesses waada talk.

9) He tells her he is not committed to her. Nothing about the love and vaada.

10) She is always outside the door and still taunts Sai..sometimes questions Virat for breaking her heart.

What as per Sai has changed between them ??

WHy cant it be seen as a reverse psychology she plays with so that he just says, the marriage is simply not a deal and its real..

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

For your kind information he only said it once as far as I can remember. But, Sai keeps on ranting everytime. And, anyway which guardian will go out of his / her way to make his / her responsibility happy and be so concerned about his / her well being?

Shaanth! Shaanth!😃 its after all a show!

Sai claiming deal marriage after the accident conversation between Sairat is ridiculous for me. At the risk of repeating myself, I state again, She shudnt hv returned to CN this time if she thot the marriage was still a deal!

Originally posted by: vimeo

But no one is sympathising with Virat. But everyone sympathize with Sai. That's the difference. I mean the audience and here in the forum! Sai crying deal marriage after returning from hospital and after Virat stating he wants a normal shaadi with her, is ridiculous. Cvs r just spinning jalebis! That too same to same jalebis!! Let them deliver some new jalebis yaar we can try!!😂

Sai's love is underrated because of the fact that we hardly get her monologue and how she hides it under the garb of casualness and brashness...She is brash and she is rude and even yesterday the way she behaved in the car, I personally did not like it.. Long back when Lakshmi was in the forum we had discussed how Aaba gave her a tad bit much leverage when it comes to other people. But then thats that and she is learning.. I hardly see her getting rude to Pakhi or anyone else in the family. With Virat, well this needs to be addressed. In normal days Virat does not address these issues and pampers her a lot. He needs to get angry with her, he needs to let her know in ways that he did not like it. I liked how he did yesterday and did not let it pass..It made her realise immediately and she wanted to talk then. So that and all is necessary in this relationship. Just because he is in love and he wants that back he cannot just let go things that makes him feel bad.. Sai certainly things what she does and what she feels about him does not matter to him.. She got married into a dysfunctional family way too early, even before she could gather life or face the real problems in life... BUt honestly I do see growth in her..

About her love well I have said it too many times, she loves Virat and its visible how she melts too easily when it comes to his mistakes...All he needs to do is breakdown and show some self loathing and she is a goner.. Just other day when she forgave him for accusing her , I said how she can see him angry, she can see him controlling , she can see him even loving Pakhi, taking her sides but she cannot see her Virat Sir the way he was standing in front of her.. She is the same person who every time Virat says us baare mei baat mat karo mujhe acha nahi lagta , she agrees and never brings up again..

She is also someone who cannot deny Virat anything, it was beyond her self respect to apologise to Pakhi, she did..He wanted her to get back to the room , she came in..He wanted her try adjusting in the family doing ghar ka kaam , she did that.. He wanted her to come to Ladakh, she agreed.. He wanted her to forgive her for manhandling her, she forgave him... He wanted her to let go the mistakes of elders ..she did.. He wanted her celebrate Harini's birthday grandly she agreed.. .He wanted her to not leave the house, she stayed back, even after having confusions about the vaada he made to Pakhi.. Mind it she believes Virat Chavhan never goes back on his words... He wanted her to accompany him at Pakhi's place she agreed, she also was insulted beyond measures, she took it all in and behaved with Pakhi's parents.For whom? For herself ? or For Pakhi? or For her parents? He wanted her to try to adjust in the family again, she is trying it again..He wanted her forgive him for what happened , she did.. Why would anyone do all this, if the person is selfish, brash and rude.. Whatever she does for him is so subtle, so mircroscopic that it gets hidden..Like for instance the way she said today, that she wants the gifts from him to his family because last time they felt bad... It yet again got hidden under the garb of her not respecting Veeru..

We know Virat does not love Pakhi, we know the conversation he had with Pakhi..but does Sai know ??

1) He asked her to get trained by her .

2) Asked her to behave with her.

3) Called her his pyaari cheez.

4) Called her his pyaar then Dost.

5) Got back to call her Dost and then asking Sai to befriend her...just before holi and kidnapping.

6)And now Sai sees him sometimes getting angry and irritated with her.

7) Witnesses waada talk.

8) He tells her he is not committed to her. Nothing about the love and vaada.

9) She is always outside the door and still taunts Sai..sometimes questions Virat for breaking her heart.

What as per Sai has changed between them ??

But still in all this when she is overwhelmed by emotions, she forgets the deal , the love Virat has for Pakhi as per her.. and she gives in, that's what she also said during the whole Harini birthday confrontation, when we were all confused about the laddoo kiss and all.. She said, She had started dreaming, temproraily forgotten things and then she is snapped back to reality hearing that vaada talk...

It has happened all the time and will again happen when she wanted to go to Ladakh and was all excited, she was not just rudely awakened by Palhi but also whole family and now when Samrat is back..She will see the pain in someone else's eye yet again that she has felt all this year.. The empathy would get her back to the reality that she believes is real for her also... I always see she cannot and does not deny Virat anything when they are being good to each other...and ALONE...when didi comes into picture.. she would deny him a finger touch also ...like we saw during the Harini birthday incident when she questioned his touch on her shoulder also..She did say, he cannot have feelings for other woman and haq jatao on her.. Its just that, Virat is expressive, we keep hearing his monologues, his discussions with both Sunny and Pakhi so we understand him...With Sai, we hardly have anything to see, we have to interpret and its takes a lot to interpret