I have said this earlier too saying again for me to start watching the show was Neil. I am not into triangles but I have seen his acting so started watching the show.
Virat is not worst but he is in the list of one of the worst male leads on ITV. There r very rare good male leads but I am actually very disappointed with the character Virat.
He hasn't physically harrased Sai only brownie points he gets otherwise the mental and emotional torture Sai gets everyday (I don't think this much harrasment has happened to any other female lead bcoz the whole show is happening in Living area) is wayy too much that too for a 18yr old who just commited suicide and lost her whole world.
I think the extra bashing Virat gets is bcoz of the characterization which was shown in intial episodes. He was shown as sweet, calm, sorted man, A breathe of a fresh male lead from typical angry young man. Most importantly he being IPS. I myself is very much angry with the way this show is degrading IPS and Army man. Bcoz agar Virat aur uske baba jese log hamari surakhsa kar rahe hain toh phir hum khatre mein hain. The family in ITVs r pretty toxic but this family is gross (can never forget the talk of Ninad and Pakhi in hospital, bcoz it is ITV and prime time if it would have been a 11pm show I am damn sure they would have clearly said I am fine with your ema bcoz I myself is involvedin it) Virat stays with them still doesn't know what is happening in his family.
Virat also looses his points when he doesn't even stand for his mother who is getting tortured from yrs. He knows his mother is getting abused but does nothing. Most of the male leads have one parent but whoever they have they love and respect them unconditionally which Virat doesn't do. We have seen him talking horribly with his mother in front of all abusers.
He always insults Sai in front of his family but says sorry in his room.
Writers and many fans have forgotten but I can never forget he called her mad and said she needs medical treatment.
I stopped shipping Sairat long back but I stopped defending the character of Virat after that. Sai never talked about it and just bcoz he got shot everything got back to normal.
Honestly I like Sai but I can't anymore after soo much insult I think most of the shows has redemtion tracks I have rarerly seen Virat doing that he just cries give another vaada and next episode breaks it and repeat the process.
Just bcoz trp is coming the show is going on. There is no story we make fun of Ekta shows about remarriage and repeatation of things. Here too is happening same Virat Sai ka 1 good scene, Pakhi and others ka tamsha Sai replies back, all insults specially Pakhi, Virat the mute spectator, Sai replies back, Virat gets back his voice calls out how she insulted his ex, He starts shitting, later realises says sorry, cries, gives another vaada and Pakhi enters and taunts if writer is in good mood makes Virat answer her back but repectfully with low voice, new day New taunt, breaking of vaada and repeat the process.
Most of the marriages on ITV r arranged and mostly forced. Nowadays I don't see much insult of Female leads in Sasural due to loving saas ka trend. Male leads r not great but after marrying one is there that we see rarely anyone insulting his wife in public or even in front of his family.
The biggest problem is that once male lead falls in love doesn't let anyone else insult his wife. But Virat let's them to insult Sai and also insults her more and let people talk in their relationship as we have seen Pakhi speaks the most. Problem is respecting a relationship is not only physical but also emotional and mentally which Virat does rarely.
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