Analysis of Virat's behavior (episode 200) - Page 4

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

As usual a wonderful analysis. You are one of those who understand both leads clearly and unbiasedly. 🤗(in my opinion)

I was not planning to be much active due to some work, but will drop a quick reply. I have no issues with Virat not coming out to Sai about Patralekha as of now, just as soon as they are still reeling in the whole ousting part and Sai staying here temporarily. Also he cannot come out and say oh this marriage is not a deal when he does not even know if Sai really wants it the other way. I did not like him clarifying it after the whole Ladakh issue fight, but right now I get him..

I am also fine with him not coming clear with his feelings for her.. I dont want him to.. Because I always was in the favour of him clarifying "his heart is with someone else" part first because any girl and every girl deserves it.. The whole issue cannot be kept open ended, with romantic gestures here and there for them to move forward in life.. Its not fair on both of them, since Sai would always feel guilty and in turn Virat will as well.

The first thing that they need to do as couples is communicate, communicate about how betrayed the husband in him felt when he was not told about the whole Devkit marriage, the hurt that he felt as a brother and how cheated he felt to see her getting his sister married , to the man whose status was not clear to him, the man, he assured he would be re-investing about. How cheated he felt when he thought every moment shared between them during Holi was a sham. The wife should tell me how she lost her trust on him after being thrown out and denied with food yet again , when he called her his family just a few days back. Yes she was wrong in going ahead with the secret marriage, and she deserved every bit of anger for him, but not the treatment. She deserved silent-treatment, she deserved screams but not that..That is like snatching away her respect from her.. She should tell him how hurtful the words like gold digger and mental are for her. How traumatic it is to stay in the same house and go through the same set of taunts yet again, even after they are wrong and she ultimately had her heart in the right place. I dont think romantic gestures are needed from any of the two without clarifying these things atm.

Coming to the episode, about Virat's behaviour. I have three issues there. Just the other day, someone mentioned why Virat did not say anything to Pakhi when she called him names, during the whole I have invited someone announcement and I have mentioned it there that Patralekha doesnt get things in her head and there is no point wasting your time in answering her back. Its like crashing your head on a wall and he stopped Sai as well. But then this logic in bold can work at some places and CANNOT work at all the places. Entering the room without knocking, when he knows its not right and Sai also hates it and since he is trying to make Sai comfortable is the situation where this logic in bold cannot work. IF someone you dont like and dont interact much because of his/her dumbness has a habit of entering your room announced at late night hours, that person needs to be told and told everytime he/she does it. DOnt bang your head on the wall need not be applied there.

Coming to the second issue, that woman is someone you love.You probably were about to confess your love to her. Another woman who you told off, in absence of your wife and had asked her to not compare herself with your wife, after barging in your room announced calls her Khudgarz , just after that same khudgarz wife lovingly explained to the ex of yours (who anyway is very bitter towards your wife all the time), the importance of parents and broke down for the absence of hers in life. And you stood there softly explaining her that , thats not the case. She looks at you and tells your wife , I know how to care of my "kareebi" log and gets away with it. If you stopped your wife/ corrected her from the 'bitter' statement she made on the lady who barges in your room anytime/every time unannounced, you need to stop the bitter word used on your wife as well. Or go with the theory of the two can handle each other.. You see Sai gets the abuses from Patralekha because of him and a smart and emotional man like him should know by now since Patralekha has been very vocal about her feelings for him and Sai both. So at times you need to stop her from abusing her.. I dislike when so many of us calls these cat fights two ladies have for a man, shameful to call it so.. No these are not cat fights .. These fights are a result of mistake this man made unintentionally and the least he could do is own it and stop his friend from abusing his wife. Sai saying main khudgarz nahi hun doesnt give the weightage, I mean I can say I am not selfish, but then when someone else says it for me that has some value some weightage right? That was not her fight to fight. DOnt bang your head on the wall need not be applied there as well.

Now coming to the third issue I had with him, "Tum ro kyu rahi ho". Sai understood it when she has not even seen Patralekha confessing her love to him and the man who witnessed it all, who pleaded her to stay away from him , is clueless to why Patralekha was crying . I am not saying Patralekha is right there, but he was insensitive tiny winy bit.. I believe he had let Sai fight her fights in the beginning and now he choses to evade any discussions on the abuse she faces at his house, because of his non confrontational attitude.. Can work now , but not always.

About his confession, well he cannot even assure her of his love, when he could not assure us. The first mistake from her after confessing it to himself that he loves her, he threw her out. He has to make amendments and he is doing it rightly, he is taking the right steps.. But confession does not work here for obvious reasons..atleast for me it doesnt. In love , you get angry, you scream , you give silent treatment but you dont turn inhuman.

Maybe I am expecting a lot out of ITV, but this is my expectation from a Virat who I fell in love with, who I started to watch this show for. I have not seen the original versions and when I got to know Virat would be throwing Sai out , late at night without giving her food and her essentials , I actually wanted the CVs to not tread that path. I remember discussing with you that , it would be great if Sai is asked to leave by others and he stays there mum not stopping her. That would have been digestible and I would still stand with Virat for the betrayal he faced in the hands of his wife and family.. He is an officer and he knows even a criminal gets to speak his side of the story in the court of law, but he was turned into an inhuman man. And that's where my anger towards him comes from. And in Ghum world its not been many days since that incident, to just forget it as something that is a part of ITV.. His redemption is still in process and is not complete and over. Baaki like I mentioned in Nja's post I liked the 200th episode and was upset that we turned the whole thing into Virat vs Sai thing.

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@laksh thanks for tagging me...

Well..virat is not MY ideal.hero. ..but nevertheless, he has a heart ❤ and that's why I am unable to hate him..I would like to erase the throwing out of the house drama.completely bec that was just bad and inconsistent writing....now they also don't bother with it , sai forgave him so easily..redemption also not shown properly.. they never had a good convo..so I will also erase it frm the narrative and focus on understanding virat.

While watching that scene , I also felt that Sai was extra rude..and why is she asking all that when she and virat were never husband wife in a true sense? From what I understood , everything she said was 100% truth . So probably Sai is pakaofied with this pretence of patralekha. She wants to be a good bahu but she can't be , if family knows she has feelings feelings virat ....but she expects virat to carry on the charade..Sai however is a no nonsense.person..she knows the truth and she keeps.on poking patralekha , none of them.back off. They keep on arguing endlessly and these scenes r sometimes.so long that I forget why thy r arguing and how much time they have 😆

Coming to.virat and pakhi, it's important to analyze what.pakhi actually wants from virat..the way events unfolded , from virats.pov , patralekha sacrificed her love for virat , married samrat , so that made patralekha mature . In lieu of her sacrifice he made a promise to her that he won't love anyone else , just to calm her nerves so that she feels.good about herself ....I don't think he ever suggested that they will be in a relationship now or ever. ..he cleared they are friends..... that's why pakhi can't tolerate Sai in his life..she is hoping that she will play the "sai badtameez hai" card and stay the family's favourite , but she is failing to make virat see how bad Sai is and how mature she is (hence worthy of this vaada ) 😆

The reason why she is still pursuing hum inspite of his clear instructions, requests and basically his confession , is that she thinks she can kick Sai out of his life ...or sai's behavior will lead to it one day n virat won't be able to live with sai...so even if they don't have a chance together, virat will be her soul friend/lover...it will make her happy..

Ur very right, he is treading very carefully with patralekha in order to preserve her respect in the family.

So what virat needs to do now 😆 with all the character flaws ,I am not sure how he can get rid of patralekha..unless patralekha has some jagriti and leaves him alone ..he deserves it too bec it's partly his doing . He deserves all this mess..

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With sai, he must he must first clear pakhi's position and then confess..although I am not sure if sai will ask him, if he can drop patralekha from his heart , what's the sureity he won't do it with sai? And with sai he has been far worse , sometimes abusive too, plus his family hates her . So he needs to be a man of action, not a man of words.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

Lovely post Laksh.

Thank you.

So many lovely posts actually .. thanks to all of you.

I love both Virat and Sai unconditionally. I'm always finding excuses for their behaviour in extreme situations😊

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For whatever reason, copy of KD, writers unimaginative thought process, we got that throwing out scene. I was hoping we wouldn't get it. I would've understood if he told her that he cannot handle her high handedness when it came to his sister, and asked her to leave with dignity in the morning. That would also have been dramatic. The same emotions could have been portrayed.

I know, I kept hoping that they would not show it at all or change the way she is ousted. Thought that she might leave on her own or something too due to the fight 😣

But anyway, for me, I am a little uncertain of his reactions in extreme situations. He is trying very hard to redeem himself because they're in a comfortable space at this point.

I understand what you are saying, I am not trusting him now.

The moment Sai takes a unilateral, impulsive decision which he doesn't agree with, I would like to see Virat's growth, if he actually stops to think before reacting. For eg: we may be moving towards Sai telling the family about Virat and Pakhi. I would like to see his reaction then.

True and then he will react differently. Let's hope that he changes or we get to see some growth ik him.

For me, this is the main issue he needs to sort out between him and Sai.

The softness he maintains towards Pakhi I feel is because he feels responsible for PP in Samrat's absence. He tells her off strongly when they're alone.

Definitely, his expressions could have been 'angrier' day before because she interuppted a very special moment for him.

We will have to wait and watch how he is going to react in the future.

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

This.Is.Gold❤️

What a beautiful analysis❤️

Wow, I am so dumbstruck that I am even afraid to write😆

Okay, I have this one point since many days, but couldn't make any post on it or so. But, I guess I will share here, correct me or help me if I am mistaken or wrong.

Okay, we both almost share the same characterization for Virat. So agree to all that. The one point which I guess is keeping him in this position is his personality itself. As in,one thing which Sai's Virat and logo ka Virat have in common is "Guilt" trips. I guess, somewhere or the other, Virat (as in the first episode) decides to bend ,as you said for peace, as he desires it. So, Virat becomes flexible himself, but without giving a second thought that whether he can flex this much, whether his body and mind won't give up one day. As in, if we see the vaada itself, he didn't contemplate, let alone Kamal sir and Sai, as we all have discussed, what if it was kaku who had asked him to marry? Then what?. He takes decision which he thinks, would lead to peace and calm around. Not necessarily the mantra of shaanti be same to all, but he doesn't go over that zone.

And ,the actual point here is, Virat ,considering the situation which were pretty tangled then even more than now, as in the night of confrontation which led to Didi leaving to maayka the next day. Then, Virat had first time spoke up, it was also not de dhamki ,le dhamki types, but for then, it was pretty strong. As Sai and Virat spoke together . But, the result was ,didi chali gayi. And he went in guilt, with all other things which revolved around didi within him, guilt was added to that list. So, he gave the promise that none will insult her again. So, I feel, his strong nature of not be able to letting go of guilt, is also somewhere causing this. Maybe, maybe mentally he has this thing, that either it's him, who should make her understand, not speak back to her. So that all gets into track. Neither he gets disheartened, nor the other two woman. But, as I have said, Virat follows his shaanti mantra, but he forgets that not necessarily all accept it.

Hope I am making sense🤣

😊 got your point dear. Yeah, he thinks that is the best possible solution but it is not like others accept it or not, it is also that, that is actually not the best possible solution during all the situations. Yes, he should consider what others think or would expect too. He did promise Pakhi, he might be guilty too but he fails to understand that at times it can turn harmful to Sai. He should realise that Sai is getting abused and that he needs to put a stop to it. He could tell her that just like how you don't want to be insulted and you are the bahu of the house, Sai also should not be insulted and that she is also a bahu of the house. Something has to be said that will send across a strong message to her that he will not tolerate a word against Sai. I doubt if he gave her any such threat. See, he can tell that just like how I have promised that no one will insult you, I have also promised to protect Sai and that no one will insult her. He can actually tell her that whether elders follow it or not, she should follow it since she has such expectations and that it is only right to behave in the same with Sai as how she expects others to behave with her. Pakhi listens or not is a second thing but when he can assure Pakhi that she will not be insulted, he should ensure that Sai is also not abused by her every now and then. He has not thought of it. All he does is moves on with Sai, thinks about his life with Sai, and also acts conscious that he or Sai don't do anything that will result in Pakhi leaving the house again.

He has to sit back and think a lot of things Shristhi which he isn't. I was very upset on the very first day when Sai spoke about how he had not thrown the things, he had asked her not to bring it up. He has wronged her and he can't have such expectations, he should face situations, not try to move away. Had he spoken to her right then, he could have told her why he grew mad and could have also let her express her hurt or pain. Why should he stop her? Is that not a step to make her stay back? That is one of the first steps that he should have taken, sit back, speak and also hear her out. Running away from issues thinking it is past is not right. If he thinks he is going to set things right by getting close to her, he is wrong. He should first let her speak how she felt when he did what he did and also try to understand her. Sai spoke to the elders after returning home that Pakhi's and Virat's relationship is not the same as hers and Mohit's. He looked taken aback with her statement and was also upset that she thinks that way even now. He also got a clue that she thinks that way, then why didn't he clarify as soon they returned to the room as who is Pakhi for him. Don't you think he should have addressed it then and there? Him stalling issues will only blow it up, will not help anyone in anyway 😣.

I don't know if you understood what I have said and if you agree or not, but I feel that he is making a mistake. We can try to understand his nature and actions but he does need to change or correct himself.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Excellent post. Lovely analysis. I loved the way Virat refused to become the nominee and told Pakhi that she should make either her Ayi/Baba or Mansi as the nominee and then very subtly added Samrat's name too. He showed her that he was least bit interested and tried to make her understand the reason but she's so stubborn that she's turning a blind eye to everything. And, there was one more scene which I loved was the way Virat said that even though he doesn't understand her pain of having lost her Ayi / Baba but he can very well share her pain. I just hope he becomes more vocal and stern with Pakhi in the future.

Thank you 😊

Yeah, Pakhi just doesn't want to accept the reality. Thankfully Virat did a few good things like stopping her from leaving, correcting Pakhi when she said that it is a choti baat saying that it wasn't a choti baat and that it only makes sense if Sai makes him a nominee, also by making Sai feel better saying he is willing to listen to her sorrows.

Yeah, he needs to do be more stern and vocal with Pakhi 😣. He needs to confront her if needed too asking her why she is behaving this way even after he has told her what the truth is or where he stands. He needs to address this or else this will keep happening.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Hmm.. We mostly agree here..

I am actually wanting to see his reactions to Sai opening out the truth infront of the family.. That would be wrong and triggering. If he choses to yet again give in to his anger.. Well then we know redemption is just a passing phase.

True, why just that? Have to see his reaction in general in future. He should have learnt something out of this, otherwise it wouldn't make sense.

Originally posted by: _charu_

@laksh thanks for tagging me...

Well..virat is not MY ideal.hero. ..but nevertheless, he has a heart ❤ and that's why I am unable to hate him..I would like to erase the throwing out of the house drama.completely bec that was just bad and inconsistent writing....now they also don't bother with it , sai forgave him so easily..redemption also not shown properly.. they never had a good convo..so I will also erase it frm the narrative and focus on understanding virat.

Oh 😲

While watching that scene , I also felt that Sai was extra rude..and why is she asking all that when she and virat were never husband wife in a true sense? From what I understood , everything she said was 100% truth . So probably Sai is pakaofied with this pretence of patralekha. She wants to be a good bahu but she can't be , if family knows she has feelings feelings virat ....but she expects virat to carry on the charade..Sai however is a no nonsense.person..she knows the truth and she keeps.on poking patralekha , none of them.back off. They keep on arguing endlessly and these scenes r sometimes.so long that I forget why thy r arguing and how much time they have 😆

I don't know, I felt that Sai shouldn't have asked whether she was his wife or not. It was like demeaning, it can be demeaning but Pakhi living alone was not by choice, atleast Sai doesn't know that Samrat left because he came to know of the truth. That statement was insensitive as such. She knows that Samrat is MIA, yes Pakhi holds feelings for Virat, in that case, it could have been anything else. The way she said that how will you know, was like Pakhi never experienced a marital life. Now that I am typing this, I probably can feel what would have made her tell, because they are getting disturbed by Pakhi because she is not even thinking that they are a married couple. Hmm, makes a little sense now. Probably if the same was spoken to someone else, it would have been wrong but not to Pakhi .

Sometimes I realise a few things while replying to people 🤣🤣. Thanks for making me think this way about this.

Coming to.virat and pakhi, it's important to analyze what.pakhi actually wants from virat..the way events unfolded , from virats.pov , patralekha sacrificed her love for virat , married samrat , so that made patralekha mature . In lieu of her sacrifice he made a promise to her that he won't love anyone else , just to calm her nerves so that she feels.good about herself ....I don't think he ever suggested that they will be in a relationship now or ever. ..he cleared they are friends..... that's why pakhi can't tolerate Sai in his life..she is hoping that she will play the "sai badtameez hai" card and stay the family's favourite , but she is failing to make virat see how bad Sai is and how mature she is (hence worthy of this vaada ) 😆

@bold You are very right in highlighting this. I thought Pakhi's nature, her behavior and whatever he would have observed about her made him think of her as a matured person. But this makes so much sense now. Wow 👏, a very good point.

I like how your last line 🤣, it is so true. She wants to make herself look worthy of his vaada 🤔.

The reason why she is still pursuing hum inspite of his clear instructions, requests and basically his confession , is that she thinks she can kick Sai out of his life ...or sai's behavior will lead to it one day n virat won't be able to live with sai...so even if they don't have a chance together, virat will be her soul friend/lover...it will make her happy..

True

Ur very right, he is treading very carefully with patralekha in order to preserve her respect in the family.

Hmm

So what virat needs to do now 😆 with all the character flaws ,I am not sure how he can get rid of patralekha..unless patralekha has some jagriti and leaves him alone ..he deserves it too bec it's partly his doing . He deserves all this mess..

Surprisingly he has still not taken it too seriously and has not understood the seriousness of the situation.

With sai, he must he must first clear pakhi's position and then confess..although I am not sure if sai will ask him, if he can drop patralekha from his heart , what's the sureity he won't do it with sai? And with sai he has been far worse , sometimes abusive too, plus his family hates her . So he needs to be a man of action, not a man of words.

True, he first needs to reveal about his past and what Pakhi spoke to him after he returned from GC before he confesses. I think that he is worried if Sai might ask him, that is why, the last time after the Ladakh trip got cancelled, he remained silent, not knowing how will he answer and what else will she ask him if he answers. Even now, he has that fear as what he would reply to her. But, he has to face it pne day or the other and cannot wait for it to get resolved on its own.

Yeah, it won't be easy for her to trust him now, he should work on earning her trust especially after the latest issue.

Thanks for replying 😊, have replied in green.

Originally posted by: laksh

Warning : A lengthy post

Can I request not to bash any character please. The intent is to just share my understanding. I can understand if some do not agree with me, obviously, our views can vary.

Before you read the below, I think quite a lot pf people know that I support and also criticise the actions of both the characters. I usually try to look into any situation from both the character's point of view.

I was unhappy with the way Virat's tone had changed with Pakhi and I didn't know how to react to it. Have a mixed feeling about it though, after I had tried to understand his position.

I have shared whatever I have felt or analysed , some me might be true and some need not.

I agree with most of your points! I' ve earlier also said this, Sai is not an easy person to live with. Don't understand me wrong, I adore her character and her traits, but as Virat said during that Amay fiasco, the line between muhfat and badtameez is very thin and Sai does cross that sometimes. She is somewhat overconfident and as Virat said earlier use har kam apne kando par uthana hota hai. It's enjoyable to watch it onscreen but it's not easy to live with someone like that. I didn't like her saying that stuff to Pakhi, but I also didn't like the way Virat stopped her. He definitely could have said something else.

I don't understand why Virat is only capable of being firm with Sai and Aai but not with someone else in his family. Moreover, why does he forget always what he says, I know he hates confrontations but he himself told Sai ke koi uski beizzati nahi karega but still he doesn't stop them from calling her Jungli Mulgi. Why is he always so quick to defend other's, but never his wife? The instants she's been called selfish etc, he kept mum. Oke he doesn't wants any confrontations, but why does he interfere when Sai says something hurtful? and he also agreed to not arrest Omi Kaka only if they'd respect Devi Tai and Pulkit's relation, so why didn't he use that card during the dinner??? And how did he even throw Sai out at night. I really don't understand. I would have supported him if he for example would have told Sai to pack her stuff and leave the house the next morning, if he'd just have shouted at her or given a cold treatment. And during all that drama, there was no concern whatsoever for Devi Tai. Like he should have been afraid 'kahi Pulkit Devi Tai ko kuch kar na de, pata ni kis haal mein hogi Devi Tai, mein subah uthke hi pehle Pulkit ke ghar jaunga, dekhne ke Devi Tai theek to hai'.

Somewhere I feel the reason of him not confronting anyone is because Sai already does it. He lets her handle the confrontations mostly and doesn't feel the need to interfere himself. He's capable of doing it, but when Sai is away. He doesn't understand however that it really does give a wrong signal to the rest of the family. And if he wants to Sai handle the confrontations, he atleast should give clear signals that he doesn't like what they're doing instead of saying stuff such as 'aap is ghar ki neev hai etc'. He really should start being firm with his ghar ke baade.

I hate Pakhi (not gonna divulge in her character analysis right now) , but somewhere I feel Virat is being selfish. He did promise her. Yes it was infatuation, but he did promise her and now he's behaving as if it was nothing. I expected somewhat more understanding, a bit of remorse, a bit more empathy from his side, but now that he has started loving Sai, all he can think of is his own feelings (don't understand me wrong am a big Sairat shipper). I know for him she's his bade bhai ki biwi since a long time, but it was he who gave Pakhi initially 'my best friend' freepass. Pakhi was bit reluctant about interfering in SaiRat's relation, somewhere it was him giving her 'badhava'. How doesn't he understand 'yeh kyu roh rehi hai', it's really beyond my understanding.

Originally posted by: KJSairat

I agree with most of your points! I' ve earlier also said this, Sai is not an easy person to live with. Don't understand me wrong, I adore her character and her traits, but as Virat said during that Amay fiasco, the line between muhfat and badtameez is very thin and Sai does cross that sometimes. She is somewhat overconfident and as Virat said earlier use har kam apne kando par uthana hota hai. It's enjoyable to watch it onscreen but it's not easy to live with someone like that. I didn't like her saying that stuff to Pakhi, but I also didn't like the way Virat stopped her. He definitely could have said something else.

I know and agree that she crosses a line and doesn't think sometimes before what she does. I agree that she always likes to take up tasks..

I don't understand why Virat is only capable of being firm with Sai and Aai but not with someone else in his family. Moreover, why does he forget always what he says, I know he hates confrontations but he himself told Sai ke koi uski beizzati nahi karega but still he doesn't stop them from calling her Jungli Mulgi and he also agreed to not arrest Omi Kaka only if they'd respect Devi Tai and Pulkit's relation, so why didn't he use that card during the dinner??? And how did he even throw Sai out at night. I really don't understand. I would have supported him if he for example would have told Sai to pack her stuff and leave the house the next morning, if he'd just have shouted at her or given a cold treatment. And during all that drama, there was no concern whatsoever for Devi Tai. Like he should have been afraid 'kahi Pulkit Devi Tai ko kuch kar na de, pata ni kis haal mein hogi Devi Tai, mein subah uthke hi pehle Pulkit ke ghar jaunga, dekhne ke Devi Tai theek to hai'.

I completely agree. I don't understand why he let them call her names, how let Omi Kaka go free for what he did. This is disturbing because when he calls Sai as his family, why such strict action against her and just a warning to Omi Kaka.

@bold It didn't make sense. He is letting Sai handle the confrontations and also letting her deal with Kaku too? He was telling with so much confidence on Sai that she can handle Kaku. I am reminded of the day when he said the same about how Sai would have found about Pulkit to Pakhi. His faith falters and what is the assurance that if things didn't go as planned that he wouldn't hold Sai responsible for it? At the moment, his guilt is stopping him or making him behave this way, would he always be this understanding especially when things fails?

Also, be it while telling Pakhi that Sai would have found out about Pulkit or this time to Mohit, why couldn't he do? Why didn't he take the responsibility of finding details about Pulkit before he planned to get his sister married? Why didn't he use remind the family during dinner pn what condition he let Omi go free? He doesn't think that now all the responsibilities are falling on her chota chota kandha?

I sometimes don't understand if it is the flaw with the character or it is do with the writing. Because he didn't even ask about Harini until the conversation between Sai and Pulkit 🤦‍♀️. He is so drowned in his own feelings for Sai that he has not given a thought about of a lot of important things.

I understand that she betrayed his trust, but that is not that big of a crime that he oust her from the house along with even UM at the middle of the night. I also wanted him to act cold with her, maintain distance with her and show his anger or hurt. He didn't even check on her in the night, I kept expecting if he would do anything but none. Why that, he didn't even realise that he was wrong until he found an evidence that proved that Pulkit was a good guy. I won't even go to the investigation part. I am sure it is the makers who are not showing us anything logical.

@bold that didn't make sense to me too. I was hoping he would think about Devi but no, he was only thinking about Sai and it didnt make any sense to me. He took this big step only because his sister's life was put jn danger or she was left with a guy whom he didn't trust, then how was he sleeping in his house and not checking on his sister or thinking of her too.

Somewhere I feel the reason of him not confronting anyone is because Sai already does it. He lets her handle the confrontations mostly and doesn't feel the need to interfere himself. He's capable of doing it, but when Sai is away. He doesn't understand however that it really does give a wrong signal to the rest of the family. And if he wants to Sai handle the confrontations, he atleast should give clear signals that he doesn't like what they're doing instead of saying stuff such as 'aap is ghar ki neev hai etc'. He really should start being firm with his ghar ke baade.

Very true, I agree.

@bold exactly 👏

I hate Pakhi (not gonna divulge in her character analysis right now) , but somewhere I feel Virat is being selfish. He did promise her. Yes it was infatuation, but he did promise her and now he's behaving as if it was nothing. I expected somewhat more understanding, a bit of remorse, a bit more empathy from his side, but now that he has started loving Sai, all he can think of is his own feelings (don't understand me wrong am a big Sairat shipper). I know for him she's his bade bhai ki biwi since a long time, but it was he who gave Pakhi initially 'my best friend' freepass. Pakhi was bit reluctant about interfering in SaiRat's relation, somewhere it was him giving her 'badhava'. How doesn't he understand 'yeh kyu roh rehi hai', it's really beyond my understanding.

@bold you are not the only one who thinks that way. I myself feel these. yes, he seems to be thinking of only his feelings now which I am not happy about. It comes out as him acting selfish which I don't even want to think 🙈, he refuses to understand or is not willing to see why Pakhi is behaving that way and he is also not understanding that it is not going to be easy for Sai to trust him again this easily after he had ousted her from the house. He can't tell Sai that he doesn't want to talk about that incident.

I wrote it in one of my replies too. He gave her the waada, she could have married for her own reasons but that waada also played a big role in her accepting to marry, not that he should not break it, but he could have handled it better.

I too like his character or for that reason even Sai but when we feel they are wrong, they are wrong and that doesn't mean that we don't like them. We also get upset or annoyed because we get disappointed with their actions.

@italics exactly, I wrote these in another thread actually. His reaction towards Pakhi's anger or tears doesn't make any sense to me. I had said that by closing his eyes, reality isn't going to change. He cannot try to avoid every single issue. He is acting confused as though they both had a confrontation months or years back 🤷‍♀️.

Have replied in green. I am not going to get you wrong. I know that you are a neutral person from the discussions that we have had and point out flaws of both the characters 😊. When I don't notice something, I only get to learn from other's perspectives.

Originally posted by: laksh

Have replied in green. I am not going to get you wrong. I know that you are a neutral person from the discussions that we have had and point out flaws of both the characters 😊. When I don't notice something, I only get to learn from other's perspectives.

Wow thank you for such a nice discussion! Really enjoyed it and I must appreciate the efforts and time you put in analysing/responding!

Bold: totally agree!! We are 'mature' persons 😉

Some of the stuff would have been excusable if Virat wasn't an IPS officer. I would have been more understanding of his not-interfering-taking-actions attitude. See he keeps mum when someone does Sai's beizzatti (love that word now lol) as he doesn't likes any confrontation, but why is he ready to take that confrontation when Sai does someone elses beizzatti, doesn't makes sense. And indeed, as an IPS officer (and also being much older than Sai) wouldn't it be more sensible that he takes the responsibility, totaly agreed!

Yes indeed, I really expected a dialogue from Virat such as 'Even if you weren't right, I would still have been wrong', I expected Sai being right to be more of a catalyst into realising that, than just forgiving her because she's right.

Yeah, sometimes I get too attached to characters. Initially I was having a huge crush on Virat 😳, but somewhere the character was really ruined for me.

But then I think, aren't we just searching too much logic on a place where logic is ghum? I'm a tad disappointed, the writers had really all the elements to make it something really beautiful, but all they're concerned about is TRP and copy-pasting. I'm not asking them to make a path-breaking, innovative story, but consistent writing and nicely balanced episodes would be the least we could ask right? There have been some really nice ITV shows, extremely typical but still enjoyable because they had exactly the right amount of everything.