Analysis of Virat's behavior (episode 200) - Page 5

Originally posted by: KJSairat

Wow thank you for such a nice discussion! Really enjoyed it and I must appreciate the efforts and time you put in analysing/responding!

I too enjoyed the discussion. Thanks for commenting 😊.

Thanks, I try to write whenever I can. I usually join afternoon or evening my time. I responded to some comments when I found time and then replied to the other comments later. Couldn't reply to all at once 🙈.

Bold: totally agree!! We are 'mature' persons 😉

Oh god, the word maturity 🤣🤣

Some of the stuff would have been excusable if Virat wasn't an IPS officer.

My first and most important problem has been with him not being intuitive. As a police officer, shouldn't he be more alert about his surroundings? If he was, then I am sure he would have doubted his family atleast during the Pulkit issue and could have also doubted Pakhi's motives. I am surprised as how he has never sensed it. One can't have such a blind trust on a person. They could have shown him regretting to have trusted her.

I would have been more understanding of his not-interfering-taking-actions attitude. See he keeps mum when someone does Sai's beizzatti (love that word now lol) as he doesn't likes any confrontation, but why is he ready to take that confrontation when Sai does someone elses beizzatti, doesn't makes sense.

During some situations, I think it is okay, but not all the time. If he ensures that she doesn't get humiliated or abused, it would be good. He can't do all the time and anyway, Sai is not a weak person who is dependent on him and he knows that very well, it suits his nature and becomes convenient too I guess 🤣🤣.

He stops Sai because he doesn't want her to go wrong, I have also had a feeling that he is elder than her and so thinks that it should be him who should correct her. In a way it is right because by marrying her and taking her responsibilities, he has the rights to correct her. I would appreciate if he guides her and has always been waiting to see things like that, but we are only blessed with copy paste, so no use expecting anything.

And indeed, as an IPS officer (and also being much older than Sai) wouldn't it be more sensible that he takes the responsibility, totaly agreed!

Yes indeed, I really expected a dialogue from Virat such as 'Even if you weren't right, I would still have been wrong', I expected Sai being right to be more of a catalyst into realising that, than just forgiving her because she's right.

Aah, what are we even expecting 😣. How I wish they had shown us something like that. The focus should not have been her turning to be right, it should have been on his action. They couldn't omit this track, could have atleast handled the redemption part in a good way 😒.

Yeah, sometimes I get too attached to characters. Initially I was having a huge crush on Virat 😳, but somewhere the character was really ruined for me.

Oh ok 😆

I started to watch it for Sairat based on the promo. Could never get detached from both. I did get disappointed with Virat, just waiting to see how he is going to act in the future before I start trusting him again. If at any point, I get upset with both the characters, I will quit watching the show. It is better to leave with a good feeling about the character than getting upset about their behavior.

But then I think, aren't we just searching too much logic on a place where logic is ghum? I'm a tad disappointed, the writers had really all the elements to make it something really beautiful, but all they're concerned about is TRP and copy-pasting. I'm not asking them to make a path-breaking, innovative story, but consistent writing and nicely balanced episodes would be the least we could ask right? There have been some really nice ITV shows, extremely typical but still enjoyable because they had exactly the right amount of everything.

I know, they are hell bent on just copy paste. They are capable of giving us some balanced episodes but as you have said, they are more concerned about TRP.

Have replied in green 😊.

Originally posted by: laksh

Have replied in green 😊.

Really, nothing more to add!!

Well the first promo put me off, I thought it was about someone already being married (with Pakhi) and then marrying again (Sai) for a 'vadaa' which sounded really odd to me. I started watching Ghum after seeing some clips on yt (their reception ones, head message one... ). I loved their chemistry (the nok jhok during that reception made me really curious about Sai's character/temper), and I loved Virat's character and was curious how Pakhi, Sai and Virat were related because I was genuinely confused about Sai being so 'arrogant', 'badtameez' and 'hak jamaung' despite being 2nd wife how wrong I was 🤣. Now am really logging off, I try to stay away from IF (exams ser pe hai🤓) , but I fail miserably 😕.

PS. Just remembered, about Virat only caring about his own feelings. When Pakhi broke down in Virat's room and Virat told her to be quiet warna koi sun lega, we may enjoy that scene as an audience because we don't like Pakhi (I don't atleast), but man that was really nasty. Not saying that Pakhi was right or that Virat shouldn't be firm with her, but not by disrespecting someone like that (I don't understand Pakhi non plus, he clearly told her that he loves Sai, but she's still soo desperate for him 🤦‍♂️). For once I actually felt bad for her.

Originally posted by: laksh

Thank you 😊

Yeah, Pakhi just doesn't want to accept the reality. Thankfully Virat did a few good things like stopping her from leaving, correcting Pakhi when she said that it is a choti baat saying that it wasn't a choti baat and that it only makes sense if Sai makes him a nominee, also by making Sai feel better saying he is willing to listen to her sorrows.

Yeah, he needs to do be more stern and vocal with Pakhi 😣. He needs to confront her if needed too asking her why she is behaving this way even after he has told her what the truth is or where he stands. He needs to address this or else this will keep happening.

I don't understand what kind of a person Pakhi is. I mean Virat has started to ignore her advances but still she keeps on pestering him.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I don't understand what kind of a person Pakhi is. I mean Virat has started to ignore her advances but still she keeps on pestering him.

She doesn't seem to giving up on him at all. She has so much confidence in herself that at the end, he would realise that he only likes her and not Sai? She just cannot accept that Virat can move on with Sai rejecting her 🤦‍♀️. She doesn't understand that even if there was no Sai, he would never be able to extend any kind of emotional intimacy that she might want from him. She is failing to see that he can see her as only his brother's wife irrespective of whether his brother is missing or not. We can only wake people up who are sleeping, not people who are pretending to be asleep. She just doesn't want to accept the reality 🤦‍♀️. As much self respect as she lacks, she also thinks too high of herself and that is the reason she is not able to believe that Virat could move on from her. Also, she trusted that he will hold to his end of the promise. She thinks that the reason that she is Samrat's wife is because he had promised that he wouldn't give her place to anyone else and she is not able to accept that he doesn't think that he needs to fulfil his promise. It is like he has cheated her and she is not able to take it. She anyway didn't even keep her end of the promise, though she married Samrat, she has only been harbouring feelings for Virat and even married Samrat so that she can stay close to Virat. Virat couldn't think anything at that time and gave the promise in a hurry, such promises doesn't make sense to anyone. She shouldn't have even accepted it in first place even if he made a promise 🤦‍♀️. She is highly self centred, didn't even think once about his happiness, didn't think that he would need a partner in his life who can be with him during his good and bad.

Originally posted by: laksh

She doesn't seem to giving up on him at all. She has so much confidence in herself that at the end, he would realise that he only likes her and not Sai? She just cannot accept that Virat can move on with Sai rejecting her 🤦‍♀️. She doesn't understand that even if there was no Sai, he would never be able to extend any kind of emotional intimacy that she might want from him. She is failing to see that he can see her as only his brother's wife irrespective of whether his brother is missing or not. We can only wake people up who are sleeping, not people who are pretending to be asleep. She just doesn't want to accept the reality 🤦‍♀️. As much self respect as she lacks, she also thinks too high of herself and that is the reason she is not able to believe that Virat could move on from her. Also, she trusted that he will hold to his end of the promise. She thinks that the reason that she is Samrat's wife is because he had promised that he wouldn't give her place to anyone else and she is not able to accept that he doesn't think that he needs to fulfil his promise. It is like he has cheated her and she is not able to take it. She anyway didn't even keep her end of the promise, though she married Samrat, she has only been harbouring feelings for Virat and even married Samrat so that she can stay close to Virat. Virat couldn't think anything at that time and gave the promise in a hurry, such promises doesn't make sense to anyone. She shouldn't have even accepted it in first place even if he made a promise 🤦‍♀️. She is highly self centred, didn't even think once about his happiness, didn't think that he would need a partner in his life who can be with him during his good and bad.

You are absolutely correct. And, yes I agree we can wake up someone who is asleep but we can't wake someone who is pretending to be asleep. So true. She thinks noone can go above her. She should always be given the top priority. She herself didn't adhere to her promise then why is she expecting Virat to hold on to his promise? She's a sour loser who can't take NO for an answer. If she loved Virat she would have never let him make the promise at all, but she's so self centered that she let him make the promise.