Originally posted by: missFiesty_69
Sis, sorry for the non sequitur — but what does someone’s karma have to do with their surname? She chose to retain her surname, right? I mean, even if the makers didn’t show her as Abhira Poddar, what’s the big deal? A woman can keep her maiden name for a hundred reasons — and not one of them has to do with her or her parents’ karma.
Like, does that mean women who retain their maiden name don’t have successful marriages now? Iski toh stats leni padegi ab. 
By that logic, Abhir being a cheater and marrying a druggie is Abhimanyu and Akshara’s karma? Sure, they probably had a hundred faults, but at least they didn’t do drugs — lol, at least as far as I know.
@b: That’s a double-edged sword. She ruined her sasural, and her sasural ruined her. Toxicity probably had a group discount
Nope, I personally love my surname. My point is, DKP is making fl to retain her surname so that the audience can know why she is suffering
. Personally, I feel bad for Abhira. I do sympathize with her. I would have sympathized with her more if it had been non-legacy shows. I have always been taught that whatever karma you do, if you don't get it in your current life, your kids may get it on your behalf. My parents think 1000 times before doing something bad to others to avoid getting that in return.
But Sharmas were never punished for destroying Abhimanyu, Ruhi, Arohi, and Neil's lives . They were made to suffer because of the poor decision-making skills of Abhira's mom and dad. They never got karma for what they did. So based on whatever I have been taught, I don't feel bad for her as she is getting what her parents sowed.
I only said DKP is ensuring the audience knows that she is a Sharma, as many people like me who believe in karma will not feel bad for Abhira.
Abhir is anyways, i hardly care about him he is only akshara's son for me.
Her sasural never ruined her, giving divorce < A grown-up son and dil dying due to poor decision of fl. I have been saying this multiple times. Abhimanyu gave a divorce as he wanted to save his rest of his family members, as fl never tried to understand what her choti si galti is costing him and his family. But that doesn't give her a free pass to change the father of her son. She literally took revenge on Abhimanyu for giving her a divorce.
Because of her, Abhimanyu lost his son like brother, his child, the other child doesn't even recognize him as father, and his mother was hospitalized due to a stroke. What did Akshu lose? She found a new husbandji, she had abhir whom she risked in that incident when Neil died. Eventually, she had everything, and it was her decision to stay away from goenkas and raise Abhir in poor conditions, so nobody forced her, and I won't consider it as suffering.
I don't want to have a debate on Gen3, but I know that people here will understand my intention regarding the surname. My intention was only to highlight whatever you sow, eventually it will come to you. If not to you, then it can hit your kids, too.
Edited by firewings_diya - 2 days ago
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