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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I did not get you..What is controversial these days?

Many things and whatever I have given below.

There are a few things about Pakhi, in which Virat also a role in it. It is not the waada that he gave her before the wedding.

Originally posted by: laksh

I might fall under minority. I love both Virat and Sai. Pakhi's actions or her behavior are not justified. I don't like her too.

Virat cannot be blamed for her to get married to Samrat but Virat also didnt fight for their love. He might have had his own reasons but that is one thing he didn't do.

He made a few mistakes after his marriage too.

I surely understand that Virat has made his mistakes though I disagree that he is responsible for her marriage to Samrat.. He is certainly not. It was completely her understanding or for the better word of misunderstanding of the vaada he gave her that might have played a little role as far as Virat's involvement is considered.. He denied to go against his family for her.. The depth of his feelings should have been cleared for her.. However even if it did not, she should have understood it the day he fought for Sai as his wife..But she is too delusional for her own good.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I surely understand that Virat has made his mistakes though I disagree that he is responsible for her marriage to Samrat.. He is certainly not. It was completely her understanding or for the better word of misunderstanding of the vaada he gave her that might have played a little role as far as Virat's involvement is considered.. He denied to go against his family for her.. The depth of his feelings should have been cleared for her.. However even if it did not, she should have understood it the day he fought for Sai as his wife..But she is too delusional for her own good.

I never said that he is responsible for her marriage to Samrat. Ultimately it is her decision.

I am saying that he didn't fight for their love after confessing his feelings to her.

We all know that he never had that strong feeling for Pakhi but had it for Sai. But she wouldn't have known it back then anyway. He also came to know only when Sai was about to lose her life.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I surely understand that Virat has made his mistakes though I disagree that he is responsible for her marriage to Samrat.. He is certainly not. It was completely her understanding or for the better word of misunderstanding of the vaada he gave her that might have played a little role as far as Virat's involvement is considered.. He denied to go against his family for her.. The depth of his feelings should have been cleared for her.. However even if it did not, she should have understood it the day he fought for Sai as his wife..But she is too delusional for her own good.

Her behavior or her state is her own doing. But Virat didn't draw lines as he should have.

He was about to confess his feelings for her, right after his marriage.

He sympathised with her after he got married for a long time.

The time in the car, didn't he know why she was crying? Why did he feel bad?

He let her know that he only took Sai's responsibility. He felt guilty and

After they reached home, during the rasams, he kept looking at Pakhi feeling sorry for her. During the photo session also he tried to avoid it because Pakhi might feel bad. Even after reception, when the room was decorated, he looked at Pakhi and could understand that she was hurt. He tried to comfort her but Sai called him in. Everytime he kept sympathising with her.

Didn't he tell that he lost his pyaari cheez looking at Pakhi? Didn't Pakhi understand it?

In the initial period, in his own guilt, while sympathising with Pakhi, he had made mistakes.

Originally posted by: itsTrueDeal

I think Kaku is also responsible in spoiling Pakhi. She always encouraged Pakhi's non sense. Kaku kinda used Pakhi to get back at Sai. Khud ka chakkar Ninad ke saath and Pakhi ka chakkar Viru ke saath.

Chavan's ki speciality hai devar ke saath affair karna 🤣

Yeah what did kaku say to ninad on that terrace scene? Something about if a beautiful thing stays in front of our eyes it makes us feel ugly or something like that, referring to wanting pakhi in the house around Sai 🤢 I can't remember the exact dialogue, but she did admit to ninad that she intentionally wanted to keep pakhi in the house just to use her against sai to make sai constantly feel inferior. And for that reason kaku always encouraged pakhi to interfere in sairat relationship too.

Originally posted by: itsTrueDeal

I think Kaku is also responsible in spoiling Pakhi. She always encouraged Pakhi's non sense. Kaku kinda used Pakhi to get back at Sai. Khud ka chakkar Ninad ke saath and Pakhi ka chakkar Viru ke saath.

Chavan's ki speciality hai devar ke saath affair karna 🤣

Sirf ashwini ka dimaag sahi hai ke ussne affair nahi chalaya apne devar omi ke saath, but I guess ashwini ke paas kaku ka ashirwaad nahi tha like Pakhi and neither is she dictator bhavani who allows herself to have chakkar with devar. 🤪

Originally posted by: laksh

Her behavior or her state is her own doing. But Virat didn't draw lines as he should have.

He was about to confess his feelings for her, right after his marriage.

He sympathised with her after he got married for a long time.

The time in the car, didn't he know why she was crying? Why did he feel bad?

He let her know that he only took Sai's responsibility. He felt guilty and

After they reached home, during the rasams, he kept looking at Pakhi feeling sorry for her. During the photo session also he tried to avoid it because Pakhi might feel bad. Even after reception, when the room was decorated, he looked at Pakhi and could understand that she was hurt. He tried to comfort her but Sai called him in. Everytime he kept sympathising with her.

Didn't he tell that he lost his pyaari cheez looking at Pakhi? Didn't Pakhi understand it?

In the initial period, in his own guilt, while sympathising with Pakhi, he had made mistakes.

Yes that was borderline two timing I agree .. No doubt about that.. I still hate him for being so rude to Sai unintentionally when Patralekha left CN after her brawl with the two of them..

Originally posted by: maahi11

that’s what even I said, n even after she had the opportunity to step back she dint, can’t blame Virat for that

For me I mostly ignore Sai vs Virat stuff. But about Pakhi and her character analysis, I am not able to stop commenting when I find views sympathising her 🙈 for the very reason that it was an informed decision as mentioned by the topics main post.

Nothing wrong in sympathising or analysing her character. I just should be more tolerable and open to new perspectives in regards to her character as I am with others in the show. For me it’s more close to home , her character ( not in the exact circumstances ) so it just triggers me sometimes I think 🙈

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Yes that was borderline two timing I agree .. No doubt about that.. I still hate him for being so rude to Sai unintentionally when Patralekha left CN after her brawl with the two of them..

I wouldn't say it exactly as two timing. He didn't even once think that him sympathizing with Palhi can be misunderstood by her or can become an encouragement for ger thoughts. She had already told him on the night of the marriage that she cannot love anyone else other than him. He also knows that she thinks Samrat had come to know about them. He also knows that Samrat went MIA. Shouldnt he have been careful stlrast then while feeling sorry for her or speaking all those?

He was loyal and didn't think of Pakhi at all after marriage is fine. But he should have been more careful.

Suddenly one day he started to tell her when he realised Pakhi questioning him talking to Sai, that she shouldnt be questioning him. The night he called Sai back from UM room.

Until then, Pakhi didn't even know that Virat would have issues with her interfering between him and Sai. And then he slowly started to see that she was expecting way too much on the day of results and after Naag nadi visit. He asked why cannot he take a day off. After returning from Naag nadi he made it more prominent by saying no one should have issues if husband and wife spend time together.

She had asked him if he forgot about his promise. Why not clearly tell that he is moving on? Why didn't he ever apologise to her saying that he won't be able to stick to the promise?

He could have told her about his changed feelings for Sai may be. I don't know. He is not obliged to. None of these means that Pakhi should cross her line or expect anything from Virat. Virat could have done what he could have from his end.

Originally posted by: notaquitter

For me I mostly ignore Sai vs Virat stuff. But about Pakhi and her character analysis, I am not able to stop commenting when I find views sympathising her 🙈 for the very reason that it was an informed decision as mentioned by the topics main post.

Nothing wrong in sympathising or analysing her character. I just should be more tolerable and open to new perspectives in regards to her character as I am with others in the show. For me it’s more close to home , her character ( not in the exact circumstances ) so it just triggers me sometimes I think 🙈

absolutely there is no harm to keep your opinion and it’s ur wish whom u wanna analysis and sympathize with
And I completely understand that side its something personal it’s really impossible atimes to forget, like nothing happened with talk about self respect self esteem, when the emotions are loud they seems to non exist, there so many times, when u keep that aside and wish that person belongs to u, in worst situation,

if I see Pakhi, the fight she is keeping up now if she would have fought in the beginning trust me I would be on Pakhis side, and cherry on the top that person stays with you under the same roof, that person is fighting for someone else, but denied fighting for you,

What Pakhi needs to understand that the tunnel is dark and there will be no light how ever far you walk, you will eventually have to stop. And that stopping also takes time, it really requires lot of emotions and depth of willingness to work towards it,

unlike sai if Samrat too was parent and dint had left May there were chances she could have moved on, but that dint happened, with time her emotions became stronger and seeing Virat with sai, she felt bad foe her, and that’s the reason she is against sai, coz she is getting which she has wanted and hoped in life,

You know something a very close friend of mine was in love, a month before marriage she told her family, they dint agreed, typical family typical drama, married her and she told her husband, her husband cried told things will be fine but she was adamant, got divorced, she did this for a person who eventually left her, till today her fam is searching a match,

that why it’ll I had mentioned earlier also she needed time to come out of it, and not marriage, and luck brought her in front of virat,