Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 16. - Page 117

Originally posted by: Svt611

yep!!

virat think sai will lwt go of her self respect and one sher will help bring her back... he is highly mistaken! sai is not an easy cookie to crack.... bohot mehnat karni padegi raja babu ko if he wants her back in his life

let him sweat some yaar, after all he should remember what all insults he threw on her!!! Why is it that the society expects women to forgive men so easily????? Let him work for it which we know will not be even close to what we want in the show. She will come when he gets injured and frankly thats not what I want her reason for returning, even though by nature for humanity sake we will end up doing the same maybe

Originally posted by: RainFire125

let him sweat some yaar, after all he should remember what all insults he threw on her!!! Why is it that the society expects women to forgive men so easily????? Let him work for it which we know will not be even close to what we want in the show. She will come when he gets injured and frankly thats not what I want her reason for returning, even though by nature for humanity sake we will end up doing the same maybe

ofcourse i agree with you.... she should not forgive him easily... and thats what is exciting....

Originally posted by: Nutella03

Because he doesn’t! Him smiling at the end of the episode, shows that he’s quite hopeful. He has hurt her many times before, but soon as he cries and apologises, she forgives him. He’s blissfully unaware of how Sai is going to react this time, that his mistake was so huge that she will not follow their usual pattern. Even in the precap, it seemed like Virat is almost sure she’s going to start chirping because he’s come to take her.
It is only after Sai makes him see the gravity of what he did to her, and hopefully makes him aware of the daily horror she goes through in Chavan Niwas, that his bubble’s going to burst. I hope he gives a bigger reality check to the Chavans then. Today’s confrontation was supposed to be about Devi-Pulkit, and the crimes committed by the family. The next confrontation is going to solely be about Sai.

i sincerely hope so he realizes his blunder!!

Originally posted by: RainFire125

i sincerely hope so he realizes his blunder!!

I want Pari to kick him too along with Sai and UM.🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Saichintalli

He knows he did a grave mistake and his mind knows he won't be forgiven but his heart still have a hope, which might be thinking it's his sai who had big big heart where everyone is welcomed and every mistake is forgiven but still unknown to his knowledge he broke that golden heart into pieces, he will realize it after sai rejects him and then reality hits him....then pakka room Mei bamboo forest vugega or Goa Mei Naya ocean form hoga🤣🤣....

While coming to confrontation with family...... We have to remember according to story this track mainly about Devi's lost 10 years happiness and her future ... So when he is confronting Omi that's the thing in his mind even before sai which is fair enough but only thing I am disappointed is confrontation of Omi should have been more... Like making him say sorry to Devi and pulkit and sai....holding his collar...but chodo I don't want to give it serious though otherwise Mera BP badhjayega... But according to originals he is going to blast everyone after returning from GC... Let's wait and watch

i hope we see the same rage here too, after all she has lost 10 years of her life, not just one or two!! If his rage is less then i will say another negative point in his character. He is a very weak one when it comes to his biological family, but when it comes to his wifeee his rage is like equivalent to a volcano!!

Originally posted by: RainFire125

let him sweat some yaar, after all he should remember what all insults he threw on her!!! Why is it that the society expects women to forgive men so easily????? Let him work for it which we know will not be even close to what we want in the show. She will come when he gets injured and frankly thats not what I want her reason for returning, even though by nature for humanity sake we will end up doing the same maybe

Before I talk about Virat and Sai, let me tell that I am not sure that I am convinced about society expecting women to forgive men. We get to see more of men's atrocities on women in our coutnry and that is why we feel women are expected to. There is a part in the society where people expect men too to forgive women.

You are right, I do want Virat ro realise his mistakes. I want him to understand what he had actually done, why he shouldn't have and how he could have handled the issue. Let him put some efforts while trying to apologise to her. But that is not by making her food or buying her gifts or her favourite food. For the sake of audience, they might want to show him doing something. To be frank, even if he works hard to show that he is actually sorry, it isn't enough. It is not something one could forget, forgive and move on.

I agree that she had also done a mistake by doing things behind his back. For the mistake that he has committed, he is not going to think or worry if she plans to return as what else might Sai do in future. All he would think of is for her to return to his life. But that doesn't mean that it is not something to worry. Sai will also have to ensure that she doesn't break his trust, ever.

The problem for Sai with Virat would be as how will she be able to trust him? How will she know for sure that he wouldn't do this again or something even worse than this? She is going to live with him in his house, with his venomous family, who might again plot things against her.

As you have said, many would return if they meet their spouse at the hospital in that condition. It is in the hands of Virat to ensure he doesn't commit grave mistakes. People do make mistakes, but he should take care that he doesn't cross a line. He has to learn from his mistakes, has to learn to stay alert within his own house too, has to ensure that he doesn't give chance for others to come in between him and Sai.

They both have to learn to trust and value each other.

Before I talk about Virat and Sai, let me tell that I am not sure that I am convinced about society expecting women to forgive men. We get to see more of men's atrocities on women in our coutnry and that is why we feel women are expected to. There is a part in the society where people expect men too to forgive women.

You are right, I do want Virat ro realise his mistakes. I want him to understand what he had actually done, why he shouldn't have and how he could have handled the issue. Let him put some efforts while trying to apologise to her. But that is not by making her food or buying her gifts or her favourite food. For the sake of audience, they might want to show him doing something. To be frank, even if he works hard to show that he is actually sorry, it isn't enough. It is not something one could forget, forgive and move on.

I agree that she had also done a mistake by doing things behind his back. For the mistake that he has committed, he is not going to think or worry if she plans to return as what else might Sai do in future. All he would think of is for her to return to his life. But that doesn't mean that it is not something to worry. Sai will also have to ensure that she doesn't break his trust, ever.

The problem for Sai with Virat would be as how will she be able to trust him? How will she know for sure that he wouldn't do this again or something even worse than this? She is going to live with him in his house, with his venomous family, who might again plot things against her.

As you have said, many would return if they meet their spouse at the hospital in that condition. It is in the hands of Virat to ensure he doesn't commit grave mistakes. People do make mistakes, but he should take care that he doesn't cross a line. He has to learn from his mistakes, has to learn to stay alert within his own house too, has to ensure that he doesn't give chance for others to come in between him and Sai.

They both have to learn to trust and value each other.

That is so true....

I don’t want to see Virat feeding Sai or buying her gifts. I want to hear him say his thoughts...talk about his feelings when they changed from responsibility to love.

I want him to express what it means to him if he loses her...I was thinking back to when he left the Deans office after the rechecking the Pulkit official file. When he tried to call her and her phone was switched off...did he feel that she had disconnected with him. He certainly felt like that when she was in the safe house and at that point from Sai’s perspective there was none but Virat felt differently.

What those thoughts were during holi? Speak what he wanted to say during holi and connect with her..

Virat knows his family gate her...explain to her what are you going to do differently to protect her...

She has a right to be angry...don’t be a fool and expect immediate forgiveness work hard for it and spend the night outside her house.

Just a few of my random thoughts....

Originally posted by: laksh

Before I talk about Virat and Sai, let me tell that I am not sure that I am convinced about society expecting women to forgive men. We get to see more of men's atrocities on women in our coutnry and that is why we feel women are expected to. There is a part in the society where people expect men too to forgive women.

AGREED, i did not mean to generalize this, but i would say the % is tilted still towards women's expectations to forgive men easily.

You are right, I do want Virat ro realise his mistakes. I want him to understand what he had actually done, why he shouldn't have and how he could have handled the issue. Let him put some efforts while trying to apologise to her. But that is not by making her food or buying her gifts or her favourite food. For the sake of audience, they might want to show him doing something. To be frank, even if he works hard to show that he is actually sorry, it isn't enough. It is not something one could forget, forgive and move on.

Totally AGREED!!

I agree that she had also done a mistake by doing things behind his back. For the mistake that he has committed, he is not going to think or worry if she plans to return as what else might Sai do in future. All he would think of is for her to return to his life. But that doesn't mean that it is not something to worry. Sai will also have to ensure that she doesn't break his trust, ever.

True, as as you have said later on trust goes both ways! I will say that she can take a leap of faith and trust him and he must prove that is worthy of the trust. Am skepticle here as he has been a pendulum so far and she has had not enough reasons to trust him and sadly now she has been proven right.

The problem for Sai with Virat would be as how will she be able to trust him? How will she know for sure that he wouldn't do this again or something even worse than this? She is going to live with him in his house, with his venomous family, who might again plot things against her.

so damn right you are!!!!! I think we are super capable of writing a great story!! We just need a Production house to execute our story :)

As you have said, many would return if they meet their spouse at the hospital in that condition. It is in the hands of Virat to ensure he doesn't commit grave mistakes. People do make mistakes, but he should take care that he doesn't cross a line. He has to learn from his mistakes, has to learn to stay alert within his own house too, has to ensure that he doesn't give chance for others to come in between him and Sai.

They both have to learn to trust and value each other.

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Originally posted by: laksh

Before I talk about Virat and Sai, let me tell that I am not sure that I am convinced about society expecting women to forgive men. We get to see more of men's atrocities on women in our coutnry and that is why we feel women are expected to. There is a part in the society where people expect men too to forgive women.

You are right, I do want Virat ro realise his mistakes. I want him to understand what he had actually done, why he shouldn't have and how he could have handled the issue. Let him put some efforts while trying to apologise to her. But that is not by making her food or buying her gifts or her favourite food. For the sake of audience, they might want to show him doing something. To be frank, even if he works hard to show that he is actually sorry, it isn't enough. It is not something one could forget, forgive and move on.

I agree that she had also done a mistake by doing things behind his back. For the mistake that he has committed, he is not going to think or worry if she plans to return as what else might Sai do in future. All he would think of is for her to return to his life. But that doesn't mean that it is not something to worry. Sai will also have to ensure that she doesn't break his trust, ever.

The problem for Sai with Virat would be as how will she be able to trust him? How will she know for sure that he wouldn't do this again or something even worse than this? She is going to live with him in his house, with his venomous family, who might again plot things against her.

As you have said, many would return if they meet their spouse at the hospital in that condition. It is in the hands of Virat to ensure he doesn't commit grave mistakes. People do make mistakes, but he should take care that he doesn't cross a line. He has to learn from his mistakes, has to learn to stay alert within his own house too, has to ensure that he doesn't give chance for others to come in between him and Sai.

They both have to learn to trust and value each other.

Originally posted by: RainFire125

i sincerely hope so he realizes his blunder!!

I have to disagree a little, Laksh. Virat never realises his mistakes on his own. He needs proof, or needs someone to tell him he was wrong, only then he regrets. Hand holding incident, Ashwini popped sense into him. This time also he was sorry only after he got the proof.

What Sai did was wrong. But do you remember her inner monologue before she did what she did? She knew what she was doing was out of line. She was prepared to face the brunt of it. She was sorry, without anyone telling her that she is supposed to be feel that way. It was only after Virat shamelessly insulted her, and threw her out of the house, that she has not been feeling sorry, which imo is not wrong. How could she sympathise with Virat now, feel apologetic towards him now?

Originally posted by: Nutella03

I have to disagree a little, Laksh. Virat never realises his mistakes on his own. He needs proof, or needs someone to tell him he was wrong, only then he regrets. Hand holding incident, Ashwini popped sense into him. This time also he was sorry only after he got the proof.

What Sai did was wrong. But do you remember her inner monologue before she did what she did? She knew what she was doing was out of line. She was prepared to face the brunt of it. She was sorry, without anyone telling her that she is supposed to be feel that way. It was only after Virat shamelessly insulted her, and threw her out of the house, that she has not been feeling sorry, which imo is not wrong. How could she sympathise with Virat now, feel apologetic towards him now?

But last time also she dint apologise after apologzing abba's pic