Ghum Hain kisikey Pyaar Mein WU and Daily discussion thread no 16. - Page 116

It was a terrible episode today! I didn’t quite like neils acting as well.. it didn’t seem natural.. as for the writing and dialogues it was awful! I probably will quit the show, it’s just a waste of time.. I would sincerely suggest they replace vankar and the editing team first!!! It’s a total disgrace to the splendid cast except didi offcourse!

I just rewatched yesterday’s episode and the dialogue of the day was not Sai’s but Mohit’s dialogue which did not get due attention in the forum - “badon ki izzat karne ka yeh matlab nahin ke unki galatiyon pe parda dalna”.

This in a nutshell captures Virat’s main fault and this line should have triggered his self-realisation today, a momentous realisation about all that had been happening under his nose with Devi tai for 10 yrs & with Sai for last few months! It was an ‘aha’ moment that the writers conpletely missed. The moment Mohit said it, they shd have shown the understanding dawning in Virat’s eyes & becoming an inflexion point.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I agree with your point. What I believe is ‘love and self respect’ are 2 different things. A person can love you but can’t be with you because they would have to forgo self respect. Some people chose the latter. Sorry to bring mythology here (not intending to bring religion also) but an example is Devi Sita leaving Lord Ram forever when she was asked to prove her chastity again!! It doesn’t mean she didn’t love him but being with him means leaving her self respect! She chose him the first time but she chose the latter when asked again🙂

So sai not coming back to him now is totally understandable owing to her self respect. But when his life is under threat, her fear of losing him would melt her . Then I think she comes back because she loves him. She chooses love.

totally my opinion. Could be wrong 🙏

I don't mind her going to virat after learning about his injury of her own volition, but not because of being prodded by other people, namely spineless and Devi.

Originally posted by: Bana

I just rewatched yesterday’s episode and the dialogue of the day was not Sai’s but Mohit’s dialogue which did not get due attention in the forum - “badon ki izzat karne ka yeh matlab nahin ke unki galatiyon pe parda dalna”.

This in a nutshell captures Virat’s main fault and this line should have triggered his self-realisation today, a momentous realisation about all that had been happening under his nose with Devi tai for 10 yrs & with Sai for last few months! It was an ‘aha’ moment that the writers conpletely missed. The moment Mohit said it, they shd have shown the understanding dawning in Virat’s eyes & becoming an inflexion point.

I too thought that line was meant for Virat to rethink his attitude towards his family. How half heartedly he said he would arrest Omi, how easily he agreed to Sonali. Whereas he still does not stand up for his mom if she's insulted. This still is a sore point with me.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

I agree with your point. What I believe is ‘love and self respect’ are 2 different things. A person can love you but can’t be with you because they would have to forgo self respect. Some people chose the latter. Sorry to bring mythology here (not intending to bring religion also) but an example is Devi Sita leaving Lord Ram forever when she was asked to prove her chastity again!! It doesn’t mean she didn’t love him but being with him means leaving her self respect! She chose him the first time but she chose the latter when asked again🙂

So sai not coming back to him now is totally understandable owing to her self respect. But when his life is under threat, her fear of losing him would melt her . Then I think she comes back because she loves him. She chooses love.

totally my opinion. Could be wrong 🙏

very well put, couldnt agree more!! An individual has his or her own identity and then her identity with someone else like father, sister, husband and so on. So one's self respect should come into consideration, that too if its tampered again and again!

Because he doesn’t! Him smiling at the end of the episode, shows that he’s quite hopeful. He has hurt her many times before, but soon as he cries and apologises, she forgives him. He’s blissfully unaware of how Sai is going to react this time, that his mistake was so huge that she will not follow their usual pattern. Even in the precap, it seemed like Virat is almost sure she’s going to start chirping because he’s come to take her.
It is only after Sai makes him see the gravity of what he did to her, and hopefully makes him aware of the daily horror she goes through in Chavan Niwas, that his bubble’s going to burst. I hope he gives a bigger reality check to the Chavans then. Today’s confrontation was supposed to be about Devi-Pulkit, and the crimes committed by the family. The next confrontation is going to solely be about Sai.

I agree it’s the points you make that will burst Virat’s bubble.

I’d like Sai to express how lonely she is him and how he doesn’t help.

I hope there are dialogues between the Sairat and not all in front of the whole village 🤞

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Today's episode was a big Disappointment for me. The show right now is faltering in almost all the aspects.

The truth revelation episodes was so bland. The intensity in this track is nothing compared to what was present during Sai's ousting scenes from CN.

Why wasn't Virat harsh towards Omi after knowing the truth?? Mainly he was worried about how he wronged Devki and not Sai. It seems he has not even realized intensity of hurt he caused to Sai. He didn't realise that he literally threw her out of his house in the middle of the night. He should be throwing stuff right now in anger.

How can Virat not understand the severity of his actions. He was smilling in the last shot that he will say sorry and bring Sai back.🤪

I am okay with not revealing about the kidnapping. I am okay with not revealing that Pakhi and kuku were also involved, just for the sake of drama in future tracks but what I am not okay is with Virat showing 20% of his anger what he showed towards Sai.

Such a bland confrontation. I had so much expectations with this track. They are decreasing the quality of the show. Less said about Aishwarya Sharma as Pakhi the better.

What the hell are the CVs doing? Such lousy screenplay, direction, lighting and laugh worthy dialogues in intense scenses.

Before I start, let me tell you that I haven't watched the entire episode, but watched quite a few clippings and I can understand what you are saying.

About your question as why wasn't he harsh towards Omi after discovering the truth?

There are a few reasons for this and it is not a justification for the lack of severity in his response.

Let's look at it from Virat's pov. How as per him, Sai's mistake was different from Omi's mistake.

Virat's behavior towards Sai

As much as I am upset like you, I gave it a thought and what I understand is that, when Sai returned home after Devi's wedding, the situation or the issue was that Sai got Devi married to Pulkit, who as per Virat was a cheat. So it was like Devi's life was destroyed by Sai.

What does it mean if Devi was married to Pulkit? It means that Devi was in wrong hands, with someone who had married his sister to take revenge on the family. To add to all this, his sister had a medical history.

In addition to the above, Sai did this behind his back. He wasn't kept informed about her decision and of his own sister. She had betrayed his trust.

She had let him down. And at that point of time, he was responsible for Sai's action as much as Sai herself because Sai is his responsibility, he brought her to this house as his wife.

Him, being a police officer couldn't arrest Pulkit or stop the wedding because he didn't have enough evidence against Pulkit to do so. He was challenged by Sai and that also added to his anger. He had to let the wedding take place and he felt helpless. It was his failure.

He was answerable to everyone at home. Whether his Kaku holds him responsible or not for the destroyal of her daughter's life, he was actually responsible for it. He was the one who let Sai move with Devi, when his family especially when Devi Tai's mother was against it. He had indirectly encouraged Sai to take liberty on the matters of Devi Tai.

We all as audience know that Pulkit wasn't a cheat, but when we look at it from Virat's pov, Sai had destroyed his sister's life by taking such a big decision and that too on her own.

This is Virat's anger on Sai.

Now let's look at Virat's behavior towards Omi Kaka.

Virat comes to know that Omi Kaka had tampered the documents at the school to make Pulkit look like a cheat. In this situation, what are the consequences of Kaka's mistakes?

1. Pulkit was seemed to look like a fraud.

2. Sai was made to look like she had destroyed his sister's life.

3. Sai had to go through a punishment which she never deserved. Even otherwise, that punishment wasn't the right one, not at all, but the question of even punishing her wouldn't have arised if Omi Kaka had not done this.

But amidst all this, there is one thing and that Devi Tai's life was not destroyed as how he had thought. She wasn't in wrong hands. This also means that him responsible to have indirectly destroyed his sister's life is also not true now.

Comparing the consequences of Sai's mistake, which looked that way, at that moment with the consequences of Omi's mistake, there is only one main thing that has gone wrong and that is Sai was wronged. Sai had to face the brunt of Omi's mistakes.

Let's set aside all the other consequences of Omi's mistakes because the severity of those cannot be compared with what he think Sai had done and it also cannot be compared with what Sai had fo face at the end.

Now let us look at Sai's ousting.

Whose deed was it? The decision was taken by Virat himself and he has no one else to blame but himself. He was responsible for it. The only thing that could have been avoided was if Omi Kaka never changed fhe document in first place or if Omi Kaka had come clean with Virat when he was ousting Sai from the house or also if Virat never took such a rash decision.

So, if at all Virat has to blame anyone in what happened to Sai, it is he himself. Virat is the culprit. Omi Kaka should have stepped in to save Sai and he didn't. We as audience know that others in his family also knew it other than Omi, but Virat doesn't. At the end of the day, no one else is to be blamed, it is Virat himself and I believe that he knows it, has realised it.

"Mainly he was worried about how he wronged Devki and not Sai. "

I tried to understand the difference in behavior or reaction of Virat the other night and today.

Virat had ousted Sai in the middle of the night. Sai wasn't alone and was with Usha Maushi. None of what I am saying are as justification to his actions. His actions cannot be justified at all.

We all know that after Virat had ousted Sai from the house, he didn't care where she went or how she managed the whole night outside his house. So him not caring about two women holds true even now and hence I am not going into details of that again. It was an inhuman act. Period.

Virat's worry the other night for Devi

The worry for Devi as I have mentioned above is because Devi's mental condition is not that of a normal person. The day Sai had got Devi married, Devi who has a medical history was left alone with a guy whom he thought was a fraud. He felt his sister was not in safe hands.

Virat's worry for Sai after the truth was discovered

The information that Virat has about Sai after the truth was discovered was that she visited the college a while before he had been to college. Virat knows that Sai is with Usha Maushi, is not in Pulkit's house and has guessed that she has gone to Gadchirolli. It looks like Virat is pretty confident that Sai and Usha Maushi will be fine, is not in any danger. He is not thinking anything else at the moment.

You are right about the below. He has not understood the gravity of his mistakes.

"It seems he has not even realized intensity of hurt he caused to Sai. He didn't realise that he literally threw her out of his house in the middle of the night. He should be throwing stuff right now in anger.

How can Virat not understand the severity of his actions"

When a person does something like this, have wronged someone, they grow angry on themselves, would hit their fist, throw things or bang their hands on a wall or something. Those kind of reaction was missing.

I don't know if it was deliberately not added to show that though he is upset with himself, he is confident that he will be able to correct his actions. It is highly insensitive of him.

He is yet to realise what he has done.

He is actually supposed to realise that he had ousted two women in the night from his house. He is supposed to realise that he shouldn't have done that irrespective of whether Sai was right or wrong.

Have tried to reason the bland confrontation above. Yes, it is disappointing to see the difference in his reaction towards his family and Sai. But, in this case, the reason can be understood to some extent.

It doesn't make sense to let go of what his Kaka had done. But I am also not sure if it can be considered as a crime. Virat can arrest Omi only Pulkit files a complaint against Omi to have tried to accuse him as a fraud, a cheat and to have tried to tarnish his image.

We can only look at how Virat grows angry or upset with himself. If he had thought Sai had destroyed Devi's life, he has now destroyed Sai's life in a way. He had put the life of two women in danger by ousting them from the house in the night. Me and a few friends were already discussing yesterday that his priority should have been locating Sai and Maushi and not confronting his family. He should first ensure that Sai and Maushi are safe. He also knows that Sai's life is in danger in Gadchirolli. It looks like he hasn't thought through about any of these.

Tagging a few friends who would like to read this.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

I don't mind her going to virat after learning about his injury of her own volition, but not because of being prodded by other people, namely spineless and Devi.

She actually goes to him not because of other's insistence. You would have noticed that Emon herself would be too worried about Rono, she would get restless to not be able to reach him.

They might have shown that Rono's bua and her husband had tried to talk to Emon to visit Rono, but at the end, she only visited him because she wanted it. She wanted to meet him to ensure if he was fine, to know his condition.

Even if she had not realised her feelings for him, she genuinely cared for him. She would have let her emotions take over her decisions when Rono asks her to return home, considering his physical state. It is like how Virat had not realised his feelings for Sai, yet had stopped her from visiting Gadchirolli for a simple thing as taking out money from her Dad's account.

He didn't stop her because he loved her. The same way, a person would want to stay with someone and in this case, after separation, it was out of care, concern, a fear that anything could have happened to him. It is a natural feeling one might surrender to while taking decisions. It is also upto Virat to clarify things if Sai returns home.

Originally posted by: Sera-high123

Today's episode was a big Disappointment for me. The show right now is faltering in almost all the aspects.

The truth revelation episodes was so bland. The intensity in this track is nothing compared to what was present during Sai's ousting scenes from CN.

Why wasn't Virat harsh towards Omi after knowing the truth?? Mainly he was worried about how he wronged Devki and not Sai. It seems he has not even realized intensity of hurt he caused to Sai. He didn't realise that he literally threw her out of his house in the middle of the night. He should be throwing stuff right now in anger.

How can Virat not understand the severity of his actions. He was smilling in the last shot that he will say sorry and bring Sai back.🤪

I am okay with not revealing about the kidnapping. I am okay with not revealing that Pakhi and kuku were also involved, just for the sake of drama in future tracks but what I am not okay is with Virat showing 20% of his anger what he showed towards Sai.

Such a bland confrontation. I had so much expectations with this track. They are decreasing the quality of the show. Less said about Aishwarya Sharma as Pakhi the better.

What the hell are the CVs doing? Such lousy screenplay, direction, lighting and laugh worthy dialogues in intense scenses.

Only thing I loved in today's episode is sai crying remembering her father and pari bringing her sweets....worth watching within half hour...ayesha slayed that scene naturally and able to feel her pain..being left alone...

Rest aswini aai and mohit did well ...even sonali too...

I expected virat reaction more but its okay..may be in future..

Virat had better make up for this bland reaction after returning from GC and blast on his family 😓