How's Sai an icon of feminism? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Is feminism sahi mauke ka fayda uthna , utna hi sach bolna jitne se khud ko fayda ho .

Is pakhi not woman ,how she can question on her character publically .

Feminism ye kehta ki insult other when u r not happy with them , question on their character s

Pakhi ABUSED Sai cuz of her & Virat's fling (while Virat stood by), but she always hid her real motives by gaslighting, using the excuse of disciplining an "immature", "badtameez", "ungrateful" Girl.

Today Sai exposed the true intentions of her abuser

Now EVERYTIME Pakhi abuses Sai, & Virat's lack of reaction to that, the world will atleast know the real intentions & not the narrative Pakhi (AND Virat) spin.

A victim deserves to expose her abusers.

Originally posted by: Magnifique

We should take into consideration the show context before making such blanket statement. Firstly, sai didn't accuse him of ema - she just said the truth : pakhi keeps searching for moments to speak and stay close with virat. It was just plain truth. Secondly, about her returning to the same home , it hasn't happened yet, I'd like to see how it plays out before commenting on it. I know nothing about what made her return.

Now coming to why sai is being lauded for standing up for herself. She did the best she could given the situation. Police station is out of context because she is indebted to virat. Virat has looked after her at her lowest point, how can she replay him by going to the police and making him lose his job? It would have been a point on no return for this show. I can bet you the same people crying about sai not going to the police station would have made 10000 posts about how virat has lost his job because of ungrateful sai and victimise him even more.

She is grateful to virat but not at the cost of her self respect. The tamasha was just the way she could stand for herself and taking it as fiction, it makes sense. The chavans love their fake izzat more than anything. Attacking them where it hurts was the best she could do.

We have x number of shows where heroine gets kicked out and walks aimlessly in street after begging forgiveness before her in laws. Sai character is a refreshing change in this case and it pleased me to see a female lead valuing her self respect.

I don't question plot points, I know she'll be back to the same house and Kaku won't go to jail for kidnapping, we keep these nuts for sake of drama, this is a completely different thing

Sai is grateful to Virat is a lame excuse to hide a crime of Kaku and family, If she is grateful then tell him the truth 🤪

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I don't question plot points, I know she'll be back to the same house and Kaku won't go to jail for kidnapping, we keep these nuts for sake of drama, this is a completely different thing

Sai is grateful to Virat is a lame excuse to hide a crime

It's fiction that's why it makes sense. Not in real life. I'm judging it by itv standards not by real life.

Edited because I saw you added the last point. she started by being apologetic in the first confrontation but virat didn't even let her speak or even come in the house. I'm glad she walked away after hitting them where it hurts. It satisfied me as an audience.

Originally posted by: Magnifique

It's fiction that's why it makes sense. Not in real life. I'm judging it by itv standards not by real life.

Edited because I saw you added the last point. she started by being apologetic in the first confrontation but virat didn't even let her speak or even come in the house. I'm glad she walked away after hitting them where it hurts. It satisfied me as an audience.

No

They cleared presented a scene where Virat asks her and listens to her but she doesn't tell him as she recalls the promise she made to Pulkit, the scene was added for a reason

Everything is okay for me on TV, the post is about people saying she is icon of feminism for real women

I don't think her actions are correct and I do believe they are misleading and no woman should take lessons from ITV

More drama = More TRP

I wouldn't mind Pakhi and Sai's fist fight in front of neighbors

That's okay with me

She won't go against Virat because she knows he did a lot for her. From saving her life to taking her responsibility and paying the fees for her medical college. He also supported her may times in front of the family. He made sure her little happiness are fulfilled like candy floss, chaat, seeing the naadi. She knows he is not a bad guy. He is just blinded by the love of his family.

About the Chavans, she probably knows one day the truth will come in front of Virat and he will decide what action to take. There is no point for her to go to the police. She reminded him a few times today that he has no proof to arrest Pulkit and see the guy already started to collect more proof but that led him to find out the truth.

I won't say is an icon of feminism but a strong woman who fights for herself and for what she thinks is right. She doesn't want to do things for herself but for the people she loves and for the right things and her self respect. Everything is not about feminism. It's also about being strong as a woman, as a human.

Guys

This is not Sai vs Virat

I mean the fact that I am saying Virat should be in jail and Sai should send him, doesn't leave a room for discussion on Virat

I am ending the discussion from my side with Laksh's post

"Real life people are always the best source of inspiration."

Originally posted by: NoraSM

No

They cleared presented a scene where Virat asks her and listens to her but she doesn't tell him as she recalls the promise she made to Pulkit, the scene was added for a reason

Everything is okay for me on TV, the post is about people saying she is icon of feminism

More drama = More TRP

That's okay with me

Oh , you meant about the pulkit kidnapping. That one she is binded by pulkit promise and she was a bit stupid in heeding him. She got deluded by pulkit into thinking that she can't repay virat ehsaan by telling him this.

@bold, exactly , she is by itv standards.

Originally posted by: Magnifique

We should take into consideration the show context before making such blanket statement. Firstly, sai didn't accuse him of ema - she just said the truth : pakhi keeps searching for moments to speak and stay close with virat. It was just plain truth. Secondly, about her returning to the same home , it hasn't happened yet, I'd like to see how it plays out before commenting on it. I know nothing about what made her return.

Now coming to why sai is being lauded for standing up for herself. She did the best she could given the situation. Police station is out of context because she is indebted to virat. Virat has looked after her at her lowest point, how can she replay him by going to the police and making him lose his job? It would have been a point on no return for this show. I can bet you the same people crying about sai not going to the police station would have made 10000 posts about how virat has lost his job because of ungrateful sai and victimise him even more.

She is grateful to virat but not at the cost of her self respect. The tamasha was just the way she could stand for herself and taking it as fiction, it makes sense. The chavans love their fake izzat more than anything. Attacking them where it hurts was the best she could do.

We have x number of shows where heroine gets kicked out and walks aimlessly in street after begging forgiveness before her in laws. Sai character is a refreshing change in this case and it pleased me to see a female lead valuing her self respect.

Agreed! As much as we hate how virat treats her when he gets angry etc, we know sai could never forget the things virat has done for her outside of when he has hurt her in anger, so is she gonna make him lose his job by complaining against him despite knowing everything he has done for her? Nope! Like you said, if she files a complaint against him like some are suggesting she should have, those same people would then also later bring up everything virat did for her and how wrong she is to complain against him and make him lose his job despite all he did for her.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Agreed! As much as we hate how virat treats her when he gets angry etc, we know sai could never forget the things virat has done for her outside of when he has hurt her in anger, so is she gonna make him lose his job by complaining against him despite knowing everything he has done for her? Nope! Like you said, if she files a complaint against him like some are suggesting she should have, those same people would then also later bring up everything virat did for her and how wrong she is to complain against him and make him lose his job despite all he did for her.

I will never complain coz I want to see virat loosing his job.

Originally posted by: sammy17

Agreed! As much as we hate how virat treats her when he gets angry etc, we know sai could never forget the things virat has done for her outside of when he has hurt her in anger, so is she gonna make him lose his job by complaining against him despite knowing everything he has done for her? Nope! Like you said, if she files a complaint against him like some are suggesting she should have, those same people would then also later bring up everything virat did for her and how wrong she is to complain against him and make him lose his job despite all he did for her.

Exactly. The same people against the tamasha because it hurts virat are advocating for sai to go to the police. Kuch bhi.🤪

Since it is a show, we should take it as it comes along. Today , we feel sai is right, tomorrow if she falters we can criticise her too. I can't be against her already just because we know she'll come back. The situation she'll come back and why also matters.

Bottomline is we should treat fiction as fiction and compare like with like. By ITV standards, she is a bold lead who values her self respect and dealt with the situation the best she could.