What was sai thinking

Humne virat ke baare mein discuss kar liya ab hume sai ke baare mein bhi kuch discuss karna chahiye.

Why sai was forced to agree to Virat's condition ? Infact she can take it as an excuse to refuse marriage.

She would had thought something before marrying virat with condition that what will she do after 5 yrs or what if virat don't fulfill his promise.

Sai is person who don't agree to anyone easily specially virat she don't agree with him on anything why she agreed on this .

Yes Virat dint ran away but still sai should look after other ways as she was not looking for marriage.

Virat was actually no one to decide for her , she herself she has nothing to do with what happened with KJ & virat

Let discuss.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Humne virat ke baare mein discuss kar liya ab hume sai ke baare mein bhi kuch discuss karna chahiye.

Why sai was forced to agree to Virat's condition ? Infact she can take it as an excuse to refuse marriage.

She would had thought something before marrying virat with condition that what will she do after 5 yrs or what if virat don't fulfill his promise.

Sai is person who don't agree to anyone easily specially virat she don't agree with him on anything why she agreed on this .

Let discuss.

Hey,

Sai was at position where she had no one.
when villagers forced her she had to give in, but I think more than that she knew her aba has handed over her responsibility to someone whom her aba trusts. Without doubt she knows her aba knows what was best for her.
I know they got in to this marriage thinking for five years ones she is doc but honestly five year is that long time when u do come close to ppl

I rem when sai went to dig office she said viru was not only helping her to fulfil her dream but also have her home and family something that even sai wanted.
Sometimes it’s better to stay with the person whom I just know then staying alone. Her attempting suicide shows she couldn’t have stayed alone.

Sairat are emotionally attached, but I think sai too liked viru she could see the similarities, a girl alwz wants a husband who is similar to her father and viru had proved in so many ways that he takes care of sai just like her father.

First thing Sai is not in a position to refuse the marriage and that is why she requested Virat to say no. Even if some may think that she can make decisions and that too in such a state when she suffered the loss of her father and survived suicide attempt ,people in GC who are her caretakers still thought that she is a child and should be taken care of and they are right in my view.

When Virat put the unusual condition before her,she might have been disturbed at heart( anyone will for sure) she did not think of the consequences much. Her only motive left in life is to become a doctor and fulfill her father’s wish. What happens after five years,did not bother her much. She earnestly asked Virat to leave since that is the only way to stop the marriage .

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

First thing Sai is not in a position to refuse the marriage and that is why she requested Virat to say no. Even if some may think that she can make decisions and that too in such a state when she suffered the loss of her father and survived suicide attempt ,people in GC who are her caretakers still thought that she is a child and should be taken care of and they are right in my view.

When Virat put the unusual condition before her,she might have been disturbed at heart( anyone will for sure) she did not think of the consequences much. Her only motive left in life is to become a doctor and fulfill her father’s wish. What happens after five years,did not bother her much. She earnestly asked Virat to leave since that is the only way to stop the marriage .

Maine suicide ki baat hi nhi ki , I agree she took that step at weak moment thou later she apologized her parents .

Sai is state topper jisko logically to virat ki help ki koi need nhi . Infact marrying virat had increased her problems

Sai dint gave up at her worst time also when jagtap kidnapped her , she kept on fighting till jagtap blackmailed her about killing aaba.

Nobody wanted to take her responsibility.. it was clear to her when everybody including Maushi who she considers her family was ready to shove her off to a man who was mentee to his father.. shE felt she belonged to none..she felt she is a burden to everyone in GC..a burden that will also put them in danger .. it did appear to her that no one wants to take her responsibility or take care of her.. She had no other option than to go ahead with anything that was offering her some stability.. ..some leap of faith.. some hope.. which she wanted to have in GC with people she grew with..sadly for her they were not ready to become that...and in Virat she did see some hope..more than hope she believed that she would not be a burden to him like she was being to people in GC..also she did have faith in him semi consciously because of her abaa's belief in him..she had hearf about him from her abaa since she was a child........Like I said it was the feeling of no belonging..unwanted child in everyone's life that made her go ahead with whatever was offered to her.. however strong she tries to show ..being at that age and going through what she went through at that age.. she wants to be loved..she wants a family.. and from her point of view..GC people did not want to give her that.. it appeared to her that they want to get rid of her as soon as possible...and it's not in her nature to be with ones who considers her a burden..she is a self respecting girl..and so the step..

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Maine suicide ki baat hi nhi ki , I agree she took that step at weak moment thou later she apologized her parents .

Sai is state topper jisko logically to virat ki help ki koi need nhi . Infact marrying virat had increased her problems

Sai dint gave up at her worst time also when jagtap kidnapped her , she kept on fighting till jagtap blackmailed her about killing aaba.

i think at that point of time, she was not in a frame of mind to think anything logically. she has lost her entire world when she lost her aaba which resulted in her suicide attempt even though she knew she was wrong.

after that all the villagers and usha maushi who cares for sai to some extent emotionally blackmailed her to get married. she could not oppose them at that point due to fear of loosing those few people who seemed to care for her.

her last attempt was requesting virat to refuse. then she would not have to oppose them. she would have stayed with one of them for sometime and probably would have thought about her future. but she also implicitly trusted virat. when he said he wanted to go ahead she might have thought she would atleast find a family for sometime, the thing she yearns for the most. this is my take in why she went ahead with the marriage.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Maine suicide ki baat hi nhi ki , I agree she took that step at weak moment thou later she apologized her parents .

Sai is state topper jisko logically to virat ki help ki koi need nhi . Infact marrying virat had increased her problems

Sai dint gave up at her worst time also when jagtap kidnapped her , she kept on fighting till jagtap blackmailed her about killing aaba.

When Jagtap kidnapped her she has her father alive.

After his death and her suicide attempt she is bound to go with the decisions of her caretakers though she is reluctant. It is a village where people will come together and solve the issues when such mishap happens.

It has nothing to do with her being the state topper. For the villagers and caretakers,she is an 18 year old left without any support and roof over her head.

Sai can not take independent decisions at that point of time.

Interestingly, Sai had 2 options for the marriage proposal.

1. Yes I will marry you even after all your conditions and accept this with your commitment.

2. Yes I will marry you but I cannot accept you with your commitments or accept to any of your conditions.

No was never a choice for her

- Villagers (who are her well wishers) including Usha Maushi (who is her maa samaan) wanted her to marry Virat.

- she tried telling no to them but Usha Maushi objected to it and got upset with Sai.

Usha Maushi as we all know is not Sai's mom, she was someone who took care of her and Kamal sir was helping her by letting her stay with them taking help from her to take care of his house and his daughter in his presence or in his absence.

They are obligated to her and Sai also respects her.

If it was her own Mom or Dad, she would have taken the liberty to decline Virat's marriage proposal.

Not accepting to Usha Maushi or not listening to her would mean disrespecting her or also convey Maushi that you are no one to me and you do not have rights to inferfere in my personal matter.

Sai didn't want Usha Maushi to think that

: she didn't listen to Maushi only because she is no one to her,

: she didn't want her Maushi to think that she has no rights in taking decisions about Sai's life.

"Unki baat ki maan rakhne ke liye" Sai ke paas haan bolne ke alava ek aur ek rastha tha aur woh tha Virat ka 'na'.

- so her next no, is not a 'no' not from her but from Virat which she tried by asking him to backoff but he had refused.

- she also knew and understood that her Dad gave Virat her responsibility and she also understood that the villagers weren't in a position to take care of her and they also didn't want to let her live alone. The only option they gave her was to get married.

- if she didn't have to listen to or respect her well wishers, she would have preferred to stay alone and accept whatever challenges life threw on her.

She once spoke to her Aaba's photo that she was planning to do some chota mota course in GC which clearly shows that she didn't care whether she could become a doctor or not.

She didn't want anyone's mercy on her or for anyone to take her responsibility.

She wasn't looking for a support or a person who will help her achieving her dreams or her Dad's dreams.

Also, if she had not tried to commit suicide, as per the original plan Virat would have left GC and Sai would have lived her life on her own.

Also even if she had tried to commit suicide and Virat had not come to save her and someone else saved her and if Virat didn't come to know of it and didn't return to GC, even then Sai would have lived on her own.

Let's talk about the only two options she had

Yes I will marry you but I cannot accept you with your commitments or accept to any of your conditions.

Virat refused to backoff from the marriage.

Sai's question

"Aap toh mujhse pyar nahi karte na?"

To know what he thinks and why does he want to get married.

"Nafrat bhi kahan karta hoon"

Next question

"Pakhi ka kya"

Virat then realised that he has to clarify that it is not an actual marriage and that he was only taking her responsibility and that he has promised someone else that he cannot give that someone else's position to anyone in his life and will not be able to love or act as a husband.

Virat conveyed the same to Sai.

Sai's thoughts

If Sai had said she was okay to marry but cannot agree to those conditions, what would have Virat thought

1. that Sai is actually okay to marry

- did she want to marry me?

- was she interested to marry me?

- does she have any feelings for me?

- if she is okay to marry, why did she in first place say that she doesn't want to marry me and why did she ask me to backoff?

2 Sai wants it to be a legitimate marriage?

Which means

- Sai wants me to be my wife and all rights as that of a wife?

- Sai wants me to be her husband, act her husband?

Sai is a person who values her self respect. When she had no choice to say 'no', she had a choice of saying

Yes with all conditions or

Yes but I don't accept your conditions

Sai's self respect was in question. The guy was setting conditions and her challenging him about the conditions or his commitment would be like compromising her self respect which at any cost she wouldn't.

Hence the below choice was chosen by her.

"Yes I will marry you even after all your conditions and accept this with your commitment."

The talk about leaving after 5 years or after she becomes a doctor came only in their car journey and that Virat offered not because he wanted to set an expiry date for his marital life.

Virat felt Sai wasn't happy, it wouldn't be fair on Sai if he had made her stick to this kind of marriage where she would only be his responsibility, where she can never be his wife and where he would never act like her husband.

To reduce his guilt, that he had set such conditions for a marriage, to make up for the forced marriage that she was obliging to, he offered to her to walk out of this marriage anytime she wants and said that he will not bind her to this marriage.

Sai didn't think of anything and her ego/self respect was already hurt multiple times by this guy by constantly reminding her that she would only be his responsibility and he would never be his wife.

As a retort, she told him that she doesn't expect anything from him, infact asked him, what made him think she would expect anything from him and also told him that she too can never become his wife.

Sai at that moment, just went with the flow, accepted life as it came to her, accepted all the challengers that were thrown at her and accepted and was willing to face all the troubles/struggles that would come as part of these.

If we can all understand that Virat (an IPs officer) promised in a spur of a moment to Pakhi, we can also understand that Sai (a state topper) also just accepted without foreseeing how her life was going to be 5 years from then.

She took it all with a face value just like how she trusted Kaku in the recent episode.

A girl did not think or never got to think who was he living with, where was she going to stay, if she will be made to stay in the same room as his, if she will be made to share bed with him in this kind of a marriage, how are we expecting her to think what she would do after 5 years or within 5 years or anything?

This girl lost her father just a few days back and didn't even have a will to live. When a person is emotional and overpowered by emotions, it doesn't matter whether they are a topper or doctor or a successful businessman, all are the same.

Hope it has answered some, if not all your questions.

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I feel laksh answered all that needed to say on behalf of Sai.

Awesome answer as usual.

Originally posted by: laksh

Interestingly, Sai had 2 options for the marriage proposal.

1. Yes I will marry you even after all your conditions and accept this with your commitment.

2. Yes I will marry you but I cannot accept you with your commitments or accept to any of your conditions.

No was never a choice for her

- Villagers (who are her well wishers) including Usha Maushi (who is her maa samaan) wanted her to marry Virat.

- she tried telling no to them but Usha Maushi objected to it and got upset with Sai.

Usha Maushi as we all know is not Sai's mom, she was someone who took care of her and Kamal sir was helping her by letting her stay with them taking help from her to take care of his house and his daughter in his presence or in his absence.

They are obligated to her and Sai also respects her.

If it was her own Mom or Dad, she would have taken the liberty to decline Virat's marriage proposal.

Not accepting to Usha Maushi or not listening to her would mean disrespecting her or also convey Maushi that you are no one to me and you do not have rights to inferfere in my personal matter.

Sai didn't want Usha Maushi to think that

: she didn't listen to Maushi only because she is no one to her,

: she didn't want her Maushi to think that she has no rights in taking decisions about Sai's life.

"Unki baat ki maan rakhne ke liye" Sai ke paas haan bolne ke alava ek aur ek rastha tha aur woh tha Virat ka 'na'.

- so her next no, is not a 'no' not from her but from Virat which she tried by asking him to backoff but he had refused.

- she also knew and understood that her Dad gave Virat her responsibility and she also understood that the villagers weren't in a position to take care of her and they also didn't want to let her live alone. The only option they gave her was to get married.

- if she didn't have to listen to or respect her well wishers, she would have preferred to stay alone and accept whatever challenges life threw on her.

She once spoke to her Aaba's photo that she was planning to do some chota mota course in GC which clearly shows that she didn't care whether she could become a doctor or not.

She didn't want anyone's mercy on her or for anyone to take her responsibility.

She wasn't looking for a support or a person who will help her achieving her dreams or her Dad's dreams.

Also, if she had not tried to commit suicide, as per the original plan Virat would have left GC and Sai would have lived her life on her own.

Also even if she had tried to commit suicide and Virat had not come to save her and someone else saved her and if Virat didn't come to know of it and didn't return to GC, even then Sai would have lived on her own.

Let's talk about the only two options she had

Yes I will marry you but I cannot accept you with your commitments or accept to any of your conditions.

Virat refused to backoff from the marriage.

Sai's question

"Aap toh mujhse pyar nahi karte na?"

To know what he thinks and why does he want to get married.

"Nafrat bhi kahan karta hoon"

Next question

"Pakhi ka kya"

Virat then realised that he has to clarify that it is not an actual marriage and that he was only taking her responsibility and that he has promised someone else that he cannot give that someone else's position to anyone in his life and will not be able to love or act as a husband.

Virat conveyed the same to Sai.

Sai's thoughts

If Sai had said she was okay to marry but cannot agree to those conditions, what would have Virat thought

1. that Sai is actually okay to marry

- did she want to marry me?

- was she interested to marry me?

- does she have any feelings for me?

- if she is okay to marry, why did she in first place say that she doesn't want to marry me and why did she ask me to backoff?

2 Sai wants it to be a legitimate marriage?

Which means

- Sai wants me to be my wife and all rights as that of a wife?

- Sai wants me to be her husband, act her husband?

Sai is a person who values her self respect. When she had no choice to say 'no', she had a choice of saying

Yes with all conditions or

Yes but I don't accept your conditions

Sai's self respect was in question. The guy was setting conditions and her challenging him about the conditions or his commitment would be like compromising her self respect which at any cost she wouldn't.

Hence the below choice was chosen by her.

"Yes I will marry you even after all your conditions and accept this with your commitment."

The talk about leaving after 5 years or after she becomes a doctor came only in their car journey and that Virat offered not because he wanted to set an expiry date for his marital life.

Virat felt Sai wasn't happy, it wouldn't be fair on Sai if he had made her stick to this kind of marriage where she would only be his responsibility, where she can never be his wife and where he would never act like her husband.

To reduce his guilt, that he had set such conditions for a marriage, to make up for the forced marriage that she was obliging to, he offered to her to walk out of this marriage anytime she wants and said that he will not bind her to this marriage.

Sai didn't think of anything and her ego/self respect was already hurt multiple times by this guy by constantly reminding her that she would only be his responsibility and he would never be his wife.

As a retort, she told him that she doesn't expect anything from him, infact asked him, what made him think she would expect anything from him and also told him that she too can never become his wife.

Sai at that moment, just went with the flow, accepted life as it came to her, accepted all the challengers that were thrown at her and accepted and was willing to face all the troubles/struggles that would come as part of these.

If we can all understand that Virat (an IPs officer) promised in a spur of a moment to Pakhi, we can also understand that Sai (a state topper) also just accepted without foreseeing how her life was going to be 5 years from then.

She took it all with a face value just like how she trusted Kaku in the recent episode.

A girl did not think or never got to think who was he living with, where was she going to stay, if she will be made to stay in the same room as his, if she will be made to share bed with him in this kind of a marriage, how are we expecting her to think what she would do after 5 years or within 5 years or anything?

This girl lost her father just a few days back and didn't even have a will to live. When a person is emotional and overpowered by emotions, it doesn't matter whether they are a topper or doctor or a successful businessman, all are the same.

Hope it has answered some, if not all your questions.

Tagging a few friends who might be interested in this topic.

To iska bill bhi virat ke naam , whistle ka emoji nhi hai , so 👏👏

ek ladki ke Zindagi ka faisla ek ladke ki ha ya na nhi kar sakta, sai jaise character ki bilkul bhi nhi.

Bold : sai ne virat ji self respect ko kabhi hurt nhi kiya. Achcha usse hum 18 saal carpet ke neeche hide kar sakte hain

2013 jharkhand state a girl complained against her parents & specially step mother who forced her to marry & dint allowed to complete her studies ,she 2 was 18 yrs old.

Country India still follow d word law , luckily kuch cases mein woman ko favour karta hai