Pakhi and manhandling

Ended up watching few scenes which I otherwise might have skipped. I was in the hunt of a scene where I heard Sai tells Ninad that your son is my husband 😂😂

The reason for this post is to point how Pakhi is subtly violent now. She uses physical force.

Like in today's episode :

I hated the way she stopped Sai, she just snatches the phone from her all of a sudden. Was it really necessary, she couldn't have stopped her any other way?

One consolation was it didn't go unnoticed by Virat. It definitely was not something he liked is what I gathered.

This behavior takes me back to the day when she holds Sai's hand to stop her on the day they first spoke about the Ladakh trip.

She stops Sai by holding her hands. Sai gets shocked and can see some fear too in her. She then asks what happened, why have you caught hold of my hand like that.

As soon as she says that Virat looks at Paakhi shocked. He will keep looking at her. It is not an usual way to stop someone and especially when they both do not share any kind of a friendly relationship, it is absolutely not an acceptable way to stop someone.

We do know how vile she is but it also an indication of how much she can stoop in her actions and how as Sai wisely pointed out that she has absolutely no control over her emotions.

She thinks herself to be full of tameez. We all know about her tameez anyway but not knocking the door while entering or overhearing others conversations is not the same as such manhandling.

On the contrary, Sai whom she keeps calling badtameez tried to stop this same person on the day they were about to go on a trip by first calling out her name and then keeping her hand on her shoulders gently.

Virat looks at that as well in that scene and he looks puzzled but her very next statement which was like a consolation to the lady made him realize what she was trying to do.

The girl just stops her and in an attempt to comfort her, to cool her down, places hand on her shoulder and says politely, I know you would have never liked me to join you both and also requests her to not cancel the trip and go ahead without her.

And it is this girl she taunts saying where do you request, you only know to order.

Aai rightly pointed out about Sai noticing all this "sirf usi ne samajhdaari dikhayi". Lovely Aai.

Anyway the post is not about Sai, it is to bring Pakhi's behavior to notice. It looks more like what can be expected from her in future. A person who has no control over herself in anyway.

The answer is vvvveeeeerrrrrryyyyyyy simple

Didi ghum hai. She has gone mad ,long agooo,in that stupid vaada. Didi ke according,woh romeo juliet ki juliet hai,titanic ki rose hai,bas ek amar premi hai jo mohabbat ke saagar mein doob chuki hai.

Sheesh,agar iske baad ,galti se bhi ,agar galti se bhi didi ke muh se yeh nikla ki "pakhi yeh hai,pakhi iss ped ki phool hai,uss plant ki phal hai,sab shantipurvak handle karna chahti hai" ,toh meri hil jaayegi.

I dont know how they justify this as love. Kaku aap mahaan ho.🙏

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

The answer is vvvveeeeerrrrrryyyyyyy simple

Didi ghum hai. She has gone mad ,long agooo,in that stupid vaada. Didi ke according,woh romeo juliet ki juliet hai,titanic ki rose hai,bas ek amar premi hai jo mohabbat ke saagar mein doob chuki hai.

Sheesh,agar iske baad ,galti se bhi ,agar galti se bhi didi ke muh se yeh nikla ki "pakhi yeh hai,pakhi iss ped ki phool hai,uss plant ki phal hai,sab shantipurvak handle karna chahti hai" ,toh meri hil jaayegi.

I dont know how they justify this as love. Kaku aap mahaan ho.🙏

Lol, truly hilarious 😂😂

Originally posted by: laksh

Lol, truly hilarious 😂😂

Lol,true.

Didi is amazing. I used to think I should be a bit more mature and stop behaving like a monkey ,but after seeing didi ,I am happy to be a monkey,hell ,I dont even mind if someone calls me an ape,I'll just recommend them to watch didi's maturity.🤣

She’s desperate for Virat and Virat is crazy for Sai so she manhandles Sai

She is alter ego of bhavani.

I am more angry at Virat for letting Pakhi to do this to someone who he calls his wife. He has let her do it again and again..and one day Pakhi at put her hand on his shoulders..the look that guy gave to his wife is nothing close to what he gives Pakhi.. If in the coming days he doesnt blast Pakhi as she should be and as she deserved.. instead of using Bas Pakhi.. I guess I would be done with this show... I have given enough chances to his chauvinist approach towards Sai because I love both the actors..their chemistry and and the emotional bond shared by Sairat..

For Pakhi it boils down to one thing.

Virat keeps going against his family keeps standing up-supporting Sai. The same guy who refused Pakhi saying he will not go against his family to marry her. He rejected her love!

So every time pakhi sees Sai she is reminded Virat choose Sai and not her ( even though sairat wedding circumstances were forced). And she has to live under the same roof. So this drives Pakhi crazy!

On another note, in Sai’s case she is not opening up to Virat or trying to get close to him because of Pakhi! For Sai Pakhi was Virat’s first choice (irrespective of 1.47 yoga love) and she is living with her under the same roof where she gets taunted by the same woman on regular basis. Lord! in initial days Virat wanted Pakhi to be a mentor to Sai!

it’s really one hell of a dysfunctional drama !!

It is said that hurt people hurt people. Those who are hurt also hurt others. I'm not justifying her actions and I'm not saying everyone who hurts others is already hurt. I'm not saying it is right. I'm not saying that she has a right to do so. But this is what it is. I have been a target of someone's anger and I came to know it was their inner pain that converted into anger and I became the target. Many people cannot deal with pain and helplessness. So they bring it out on others. Different people deal with pain differently. I saw a clip on insta where Virat says to Sai you are right but what Pakhi said is also not wrong. The expression on Patralekha's face spoke volume about her inner need. She was so satisfied that Virat took her side. It made me realise one thing about her character though I knew it before but it made me realise the extent to which she has become fixated on him. She doesn't care whatever happens to Devyani or anyone for that matter. Bhavani always takes her side, praises her, and prioritises her over others but Patralekha was never happy. I never saw that happy expression on her face whenever anyone insulted Sai or praised her. She always has a smirk, an ego boost. And I know I might get bashed for this 😆but she was happy from within when Virat took her side. It was like a few raindrops on a desert. For a few moments the real Patralekha was out who just needs his love. The look on her face was such. She is in pain and tries to give pain to Sai in a futile attempt to soothe her wounds. When she hurts Sai it's because she is frustrated from within and helpless as well. Because she knows she can't do anything. Anything that Virat does for her even if it is taking her side in an argument seems like a balm to her wounds. But little does she know that Virat taking her side is like painkiller. It curbs the pain but doesn't remove it completely. She has to accept her reality which she does not. She has to move on from heart to find herself again. Till then her pain will keep on hurting others too. So there are only two ways through which she can be stopped either she accepts the reality(whether she chooses to give her marriage a chance or Separates from the family and chooses to love Virat from a distance without interfering in his life or decides to keep on moving towards her future with a hope in her heart, whatever) or through force. Though using force against her is an option but it is always used in tv serials where no one wants to understand the third wheel and they are shown as completely irredeemable, so they are mocked, manipulated and jailed or even killed, I want something different from this serial. So I would like them to choose the first option. We have a different female lead. I want a different third wheel too. Not completely mahaan, not completely negative. I wish they show her stooping but to realise her mistakes and get back up. I want her to make a life for her where she is not so fixated on Virat that she cannot think of anything else.

Oops turned out rather long. Sorry.😆

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I am more angry at Virat for letting Pakhi to do this to someone who he calls his wife. He has let her do it again and again..and one day Pakhi at put her hand on his shoulders..the look that guy gave to his wife is nothing close to what he gives Pakhi.. If in the coming days he doesnt blast Pakhi as she should be and as she deserved.. instead of using Bas Pakhi.. I guess I would be done with this show... I have given enough chances to his chauvinist approach towards Sai because I love both the actors..their chemistry and and the emotional bond shared by Sairat..

He didn't grow angry at Sai while looking at her. He was surprised and puzzled.

Blasting Pakhi, have to watch the show. I wrote in one of the threads as why he shouts at Sai more than Pakhi.

I don't think it is chauvinism.