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Posted: 4 years ago
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If you ask me about my opinion. I see the spark from both of them. They say Sai is not concerned or caring towards Virat. I am reminded of few incidents where I think we were shown her concern for him.

1) Virat was at hospital supposedly untraceable and Sai just reached there with a dabba at 2 in the night after getting his whereabouts from DIG.

2)Sai was extremely adamant on not putting the alta and the moment she heard that it would be for Virat's good, she agreed to put it on, even though her logical mind disagreed to the patriarchal norms.

3)Sai agreed to the trip the moment he said, he wants her to accompany him.

4) The moment Virat said he has not eaten, Sai forgetting that he was the same man who denied her food even after knowing how she get unwell if not fed on time, she was concerned about him not having his food. It was not his sorry that made her stay back, it was the concern that he did not eat his lunch made her let go (not forgive Virat.)

Honestly if you ask me Sai adores Virat. She does regard him highly and considers him his family. She mentioning I will leave this house is more of a reminder to herself than it is to Virat. Virat has distanced himself from Sai with those words of his. For Sai he is a forbidden territory and since he is also someone who has made a place in her heart , after her abba. Her comparing him with her abba certainly means that she does consider him extremely dear after abba. But then she neither wants to accept it in her heart or aloud , because she has guarded herself from the hurt of rejection.


Virat as we know was impulsive with both claiming the infatuation for Pakhi as love and also for promising his celibacy to Patralekha , while on the other hand she has given him nothing in return excluding the baggage of expectations. Now that he has started falling for Sai its difficult for him to accept the love considering he was in love with someone else and also Sai's age and her bachpana. Virat is extremely possessive and protective about Sai . The degree of possessiveness as we have seen both the times can be a bit self harming and also hurtful to Sai. It looks dangerous to me. And since there is so much of unsaid words/feelings between them , it makes the possessiveness grow. Reciprocation of love/feelings can actually keep a check on possessiveness but right now he is looking for acceptance in Sai's eyes. With his recent behaviour he has gone back to hearing aap mere kaun hai, rather than Pati hai aap mere. So he will be overwhelmed by the possessiveness he feels for Sai , which might not be curbed till he atleast hears that she is going to stay with him forever.That would be enough for him..for a while .He need not hear words of love, just the assurance that he is something to her would help him deal with these pent up emotions.


Coming to their love, I have not seen sexual attraction or tension between the two. Heck I did not even see it between Pakhi and Virat. Virat and Sai do look like a couple who have a deep emotional bond and a lot of attachment. Sexual attraction is something thats going to take a lot of time.


Acceptance of love to themselves is needed first for both of them to express it indirectly.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: idkwhattoput


Wait this is what Virat said in Tamil? Wow 😭

Ya, I think in KD Emon will openly tell him her love I think,thatz how I heard.



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Aarthi

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