Is it even fair to pakhi, what virat is doing? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

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she will try her best to get virat but end mein samrat se adjust kerleti hai, bechara samrat😆

she will be like virat na sahi tho uska bhai hi sai😆

seriously that crying scene was soo funny i don't know why. most funny part was the way her father said it very casually that ' woh iski patni hai so uska vrat ke saat jaana swaabavik hai'. 🤣

Chandu aap agree na kare shayad but unfortunately samrat ki zindagi barbaad honi he thi coz if virat had not taken any vaada from her still she would had married samrat to be close to virat , iska koi bharosa nhi hain coz she knew virat will not marry her now at all. She would had not turned up in sangeet & called off d wedding if she was so uninterested in this wedding .

Samrat ko bhi guilt thi ki his brother dint shared it with him as he did said ek baar bata kar to dekhta , yes he was angry on virat but he was more angry in pakhi coz she is d one who kept fooling him from day , samrat said I did ask u why u dint told me anything when I kept asking u.

He listened pakhi's confessions that she can't love anyone else other than virat which broke samrat most , he lost all d hopes from this woman.

I don't want this woman for samrat at all coz samrat deserve better & dis woman can never love samrat or anyone , as she only love herself.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Chandu aap agree na kare shayad but unfortunately samrat ki zindagi barbaad honi he thi coz if virat had not taken any vaada from her still she would had married samrat to be close to virat , iska koi bharosa nhi hain coz she knew virat will not marry her now at all. She would had not turned up in sangeet & called off d wedding if she was so uninterested in this wedding .

yep that's why i say that pakhi ne kudh apni zindagi barbaad ki hai so she cant sit and cry now saying mere saat ayisa hua, meri zzindagi barbaad hogai and all, she made that decision even before virat made her promise to marry samrat.

like u said if he hadn't returned on time to the venue and saw pakhi then it would have been purely her fault. but even after seeing pakhi and knowing that she is marrying samrat he didnt stop it, he in fact made her promise to marry samrat knowing that she doesn't love samrat and he himself hid the fact from samrat and thought of keeping it as a secret which is a dhoka to his brother who trusts him completely as marriage is not a joke.

in short virat fault here is to keep samrat in andhera about the truth as he has full rights to know that the girl he is marrying is in love with someone else woh bhi uska kudh ka bhai. he didn't know, and even after virat knowing this he didnt do any good to his brother. let the marriage happen knowing that the girl that his brother is marrying is not inserted in his brother but is interested in him. neither he thought ki future mein pata chalega tho kya hoga.

Samrat ko bhi guilt thi ki his brother dint shared it with him as he did said ek baar bata kar to dekhta , yes he was angry on virat but he was more angry in pakhi coz she is d one who kept fooling him from day , samrat said I did ask u why u dint told me anything when I kept asking u.

yeah, isiliye usse bata dena chahiye tha, ayisa bhi tho nay tha na ki samrat ko kabhi koyi aur ladki nay milegi or pakhi ko koyi aur ladka nay milega. if am not wrong all this happened before virat married sai i guess. so if he shared all this with his brother whom he always trusted and was sure would understand him then maybe samrat would have convinced his family and get pakhi married to virat as waise bhi kaku and gang loves pakhi and so kisiko koyi problem bhi nay hoti. but no jaan booch ke rishte uljaadiye.

He listened pakhi's confessions that she can't love anyone else other than virat which broke samrat most , he lost all d hopes from this woman.

exatcly it is more painful to know that your wife loves someone else than knowing it before marriage as tabhi tak dono ke beech koyi rishta nay tha. this situation could have been avoided if virat shared his feelings and thoughts with his brother.

I don't want this woman for samrat at all coz samrat deserve better & dis woman can never love samrat or anyone , as she only love herself.

pakhi has become very toxic, she don't deserve pure soul samrat. but unfortunately to drag the drama she will be set up with smart bechara.

actually, all these situations could have been avoided easily but as it is ITV show they need more drama so they do such illogical and unrealistic things.

like virat didnt share his feelings and thoughts with samrat which complicated the relations further now he is doing the same. he is expecting sai to show care and affection towards him, wants her to spend time with him but without telling anything she wont understand what he wants.

same with pakhi, without clearly telling his feeling to her that he doesn't want to carry on with this 'vaada' that he did to pakhi anymore, he is just indirectly telling her to move on is doing no good to pakhi also.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

actually, all these situations could have been avoided easily but as it is ITV show they need more drama so they do such illogical and unrealistic things.

like virat didnt share his feelings and thoughts with samrat which complicated the relations further now he is doing the same. he is expecting sai to show care and affection towards him, wants her to spend time with him but without telling anything she wont understand what he wants.

same with pakhi, without clearly telling his feeling to her that he doesn't want to carry on with this 'vaada' that he did to pakhi anymore, he is just indirectly telling her to move on is doing no good to pakhi also.

Virat is 100 % culprit of samrat as he has no right to decide for samrat without telling him but he felt they samrat pakhi had met each other they might be ok with each other there fore agreed for d marriage & samrat was all happy n excited for d wedding , so he chose to step back , usko kya pata vaha bhi ghapla kiya hain pakhi ne .

U r not telling d truth to d person whom u r marrying & sitting lost in all d function , repeatedly being asked by groom & family that is bride fine with d wedding still not telling.

Virakhi would never had married coz Virat learn there was no trust b/w them , why should virat give chance to pakhi when she never gave him a chance.

Kaku would had made pakhi'life hell coz she betrayed kaku 2 . Kaku herself asked for her consent twice .

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Virat is 100 % culprit of samrat as he has no right to decide for samrat without telling him but he felt they samrat pakhi had met each other they might be ok with each other there fore agreed for d marriage & samrat was all happy n excited for d wedding , so he chose to step back , usko kya pata vaha bhi ghapla kiya hain pakhi ne .

U r not telling d truth to d person whom u r marrying & sitting lost in all d function , repeatedly being asked by groom & family that is bride fine with d wedding still not telling.

yep, virat and pakhi both wronged samrat.

but pakhi ki zindagi uski kudh ki wajah se barbaad huyi hai as the decision was her's to marry Samrat knowing that she don't love him.

i get soo pissed off when people sympathise pakhi in the show, ghar ka beta is not at home cuz of her, but they love pakhi as she gets samrat's money every month i guess.🤪

pakhi ke maamle mein virat ki galti yeh hai ki he fueld her feelings by giving her more than required or more than needed importance in his life.

abhi woh agar directly bhi bolega na pakhi ko that he loves sai or he cant continue to fulfil the promise he gave her anymore, jo woh abhi aage karne waala hai, it is too late now. pakhi entered that psycho lover stage. virat's feelings doesn't matter to her anymore. she just wants him no matter how.

You said nothing here I disagree with. IMO virat can't be held accountable for pakhi marrying samrat, because that was her own doing as it was even before she got to know virat is samrat's brother and that she misunderstood virat. If she has not come face to face with virat before the wedding day and got to know the truth she was already going to marry samrat as it is, so that is not virat's fault, plus pakhi had a choice ti break marriage with samrat because her own dad was in her camp and telling her that if she decides she does not want to go through with this marriage then he is completely with her on the decision, in fact he was pleading with pakhi not to go through with the marriage and not to ruin her life. He even questioned pakhi how on earth could she accept the idea of virat living alone for the rest of his life just for her. But pakhi did not care as she just wanted any way to remain in virat's life, even if it meant marrying his brother. It is mostly pakhi's ego and stubbornness and lack of maturity (lol) that got her into this situation on her own accord. Virat's promise is just a good way for pakhi to absolve herself of any blame for putting herself in this situation with her stupid decisions.

On top of it pakhi's annoying habit that she formed of constantly calling up virat like a nagging wife whilst he was in GC which lead to samrat hearing the truth and leaving the house was what made things worse for pakhi due to her own mistakes, because if samrat was around and remained in the dark about virat-pakhi relationship, then samrat would have been there to act as a husband for pakhi and keep her busy and her life would have been far more occupied looking after samrat and his mother and she might have actually slowly started accepting her life as samrat's wife. But due to her own follies, samrat got to know truth and left her so now she has too much free time to think about virat and his promises.

Virat on the other hand, as we have all said was wrong to make that promise, because he was cheating his brother by making such a promise by getting his brother married to a girl who doesn't love him but then also unintentionally holding the girl back from fully accepting her brother by making such a promise of life-long loyalty and love for her only. He should have only promised her friendship and that's all... the celibacy promise is what rubbed pakhi's ego and why she accepted to continue with her marriage to samrat.

Now moving past those initial mistakes of virat-pakhi and we only focus on current mistakes that only virat is making, then for one him seemingly behaving as if he doesn't even remember that pakhi only married into the house because she loves him and wants to be in his life, so when pakhi acts out against sai he not once thinks that the reason is jealousy and possessiveness of pakhi for him. Because he acts like he no longer remembers pakhi's feelings for him he is not drawing any lines between him and pakhi in regards to his marriage with sai or her interfering in his life too much and trying to exercise rights over him. The fact he acts like pakhi has moved on like him and thinks that pakhi too has accepted his friendship and behaves as if he hasn't got a clue why pakhi is so against sai is really infuriating, because he is a police officer. Actually you don't need to be a police officer to be able to remember all these facts and understand the reason of pakhi's behaviour.

Until and unless he remembers why pakhi married samrat and that her feelings for him are still in place and those feelings are the reasons she is against sai and keeps taunting him about sai, until then he will continue to encourage pakhi's interference in his and sai's life and also stop pakhi from moving on.

Originally posted by: sammy17

You said nothing here I disagree with. IMO virat can't be held accountable for pakhi marrying samrat, because that was her own doing as it was even before she got to know virat is samrat's brother and that she misunderstood virat. If she has not come face to face with virat before the wedding day and got to know the truth she was already going to marry samrat as it is, so that is not virat's fault, plus pakhi had a choice ti break marriage with samrat because her own dad was in her camp and telling her that if she decides she does not want to go through with this marriage then he is completely with her on the decision, in fact he was pleading with pakhi not to go through with the marriage and not to ruin her life. He even questioned pakhi how on earth could she accept the idea of virat living alone for the rest of his life just for her. But pakhi did not care as she just wanted any way to remain in virat's life, even if it meant marrying his brother. It is mostly pakhi's ego and stubbornness and lack of maturity (lol) that got her into this situation on her own accord. Virat's promise is just a good way for pakhi to absolve herself of any blame for putting herself in this situation with her stupid decisions.

On top of it pakhi's annoying habit that she formed of constantly calling up virat like a nagging wife whilst he was in GC which lead to samrat hearing the truth and leaving the house was what made things worse for pakhi due to her own mistakes, because if samrat was around and remained in the dark about virat-pakhi relationship, then samrat would have been there to act as a husband for pakhi and keep her busy and her life would have been far more occupied looking after samrat and his mother and she might have actually slowly started accepting her life as samrat's wife. But due to her own follies, samrat got to know truth and left her so now she has too much free time to think about virat and his promises.

Virat on the other hand, as we have all said was wrong to make that promise, because he was cheating his brother by making such a promise by getting his brother married to a girl who doesn't love him but then also unintentionally holding the girl back from fully accepting her brother by making such a promise of life-long loyalty and love for her only. He should have only promised her friendship and that's all... the celibacy promise is what rubbed pakhi's ego and why she accepted to continue with her marriage to samrat.

Now moving past those initial mistakes of virat-pakhi and we only focus on current mistakes that only virat is making, then for one him seemingly behaving as if he doesn't even remember that pakhi only married into the house because she loves him and wants to be in his life, so when pakhi acts out against sai he not once thinks that the reason is jealousy and possessiveness of pakhi for him. Because he acts like he no longer remembers pakhi's feelings for him he is not drawing any lines between him and pakhi in regards to his marriage with sai or her interfering in his life too much and trying to exercise rights over him. The fact he acts like pakhi has moved on like him and thinks that pakhi too has accepted his friendship and behaves as if he hasn't got a clue why pakhi is so against sai is really infuriating, because he is a police officer. Actually you don't need to be a police officer to be able to remember all these facts and understand the reason of pakhi's behaviour.

Until and unless he remembers why pakhi married samrat and that her feelings for him are still in place and those feelings are the reasons she is against sai and keeps taunting him about sai, until then he will continue to encourage pakhi's interference in his and sai's life and also stop pakhi from moving on.

i completely agree with everything u mentioned here. 👍🏼

the thing is koyi insaan ayise cheeze kaise bhoolsakta hai? ayisa bhi tho nay hai na ki he is going through a memory loss or anything😆

makers are just blindly copy-pasting from the original show and repeating the same mistakes here that they did, without justifying characters actions and make them seem dumb to audiences.

even though it was like this in KD, here they should have made some developments and should have given more valid and strong reasons for characters to justify their actions like on virat being quite or majboor to get pakhi married to samrat. and some stong reason for him to not notice pakhi's true intentions like by showing her behaving and acting differently in front of virat and differently in front of sai and others.

but jo bhi hai saamne hai and everyone can see it including the family members and only virat being blind towards all this is very illogical and unrealistic.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Yes, I totally agree with you. I'm not saying Virat is not at fault. But, when Virat made the promise he was prepared to move on and forget her. He never even once called Pakhi. It was only Pakhi who used to call him for slightest thing. Who's responsible for Samrat leaving Chavan Niwas and then going missing? Who asked her to call Virat on the wedding night? Did Virat ask her to call? No. He didn't. Then, why was she still yearning for him? She had a choice to back off from the marriage. Her Father was ready to stand. But, she chose to marry Samrat. What did she think? I feel she planned to marry Samrat and have an illicit relationship with her Brother in law, but things went haywire and Virat ended up marrying Sai. And, her plan flopped. And, even after that she doesn't want to move on. There is a saying 'Where there's a will, there's a way '. But, our dear so called sanskari bahu doesn't wish to move on.

i agree! I mean I understand your first love is hard to forget, but Pakhi’s reasoning just doesn’t make sense. Like anything Virat does for Sai is not acceptable like what?! Whatever their relationship might be, but they are still married, they share the same bedroom. They will have interactions which are very intimate and personal. The way in the last episode she said are you going for your honeymoon, I really wanted Virat to say “if we want to go for honeymoon we could go anytime for that we don’t need to accompany for this official trip”. I also actually wanted for Virat to ask Pakhi “you cancelled the trip because my wife Sai is going to with us” but he didn’t.

and I am not saying Virat is not at fault he definitely is. By behaving the way he does Pakhi is not getting a clear answer, however whatever little Virat is showing through actions Pakhi just takes it as he is hurting me? Like what?!

Originally posted by: Niroo

i agree! I mean I understand your first love is hard to forget, but Pakhi’s reasoning just doesn’t make sense. Like anything Virat does for Sai is not acceptable like what?! Whatever their relationship might be, but they are still married, they share the same bedroom. They will have interactions which are very intimate and personal. The way in the last episode she said are you going for your honeymoon, I really wanted Virat to say “if we want to go for honeymoon we could go anytime for that we don’t need to accompany for this official trip”. I also actually wanted for Virat to ask Pakhi “you cancelled the trip because my wife Sai is going to with us” but he didn’t.

and I am not saying Virat is not at fault he definitely is. By behaving the way he does Pakhi is not getting a clear answer, however whatever little Virat is showing through actions Pakhi just takes it as he is hurting me? Like what?!

Yes,true. I feel Pakhi is turning a blind eye. She's ignoring his actions deliberately. She has understood that Virat has no feelings for her whatsoever, but is still clinging on him. She's not a child who can't figure out what's going on in his mind. But, she's so obstinate that she doesn't want to accept the truth.

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

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she will try her best to get virat but end mein samrat se adjust kerleti hai, bechara samrat😆

she will be like virat na sahi tho uska bhai hi sai😆

seriously that crying scene was soo funny i don't know why. most funny part was the way her father said it very casually that ' woh iski patni hai so uska vrat ke saat jaana swaabavik hai'. 🤣

Lekin yeh gadhi samjhe tab na. Woh toh Virat ke naam ka Jaap karne se thakti nahi hai🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Chandu aap agree na kare shayad but unfortunately samrat ki zindagi barbaad honi he thi coz if virat had not taken any vaada from her still she would had married samrat to be close to virat , iska koi bharosa nhi hain coz she knew virat will not marry her now at all. She would had not turned up in sangeet & called off d wedding if she was so uninterested in this wedding .

Samrat ko bhi guilt thi ki his brother dint shared it with him as he did said ek baar bata kar to dekhta , yes he was angry on virat but he was more angry in pakhi coz she is d one who kept fooling him from day , samrat said I did ask u why u dint told me anything when I kept asking u.

He listened pakhi's confessions that she can't love anyone else other than virat which broke samrat most , he lost all d hopes from this woman.

I don't want this woman for samrat at all coz samrat deserve better & dis woman can never love samrat or anyone , as she only love herself.

In my opinion Pakhi deserves neither Virat nor Samrat.