Is it even fair to pakhi, what virat is doing?

This may turn out to be a controversial question and I’m sure a lot of people may bring guns blazing too in support of virat. Yet I will go ahead and ask this question - how is virat even helping pakhi in anyway in all this mess? How does he even expect a woman who believes herself betrayed to be mature? Why is he failing so badly to see how his own actions have caused so much damage to both Sai and pakhi. Sai will still manage to come out of all this on her own, she is a very strong girl, but what happens to pakhi? Today slowly but steadily he is able to see his stand in this marriage and that he has moved on from his promise. Sai and virat may be fighting today, but he is slowly realizing Sai’s place in his life and one fine day they may live happily ever after. In all this mess how is virat not able to realize how much damage he is doing to pakhi. It’s obvious pakhi has her own fair share of doings in all this mess and she needs to be held accountable too. My question is how virat (if not as an ACP who is trained to identify human traits) at least as a person not able to see how damaged pakhi is? She has already been living in her delusion for so long that even the presence of Sai in virat’s life is unbearable to her. She trusted virat’s promise so much so that she was willing to get married to a guy she barely knew, only so that she can still live a life with virat however imaginary or delusional it is. It won’t be long before she gets completely undone by her own beliefs of betrayal by virat. She is slowly losing her mind and the only person who may pay the ultimate price to this madness is Sai. Then what happens?

If I try to justify maybe it’s virat’s unawareness or ignorance, it seems invalid. Proof of that was his own contradictory statement about pakhi today. He expected pakhi to be mature about the trip as he believed she is. Yet, he also clearly stated he knew pakhi would react exactly the way she did if she was informed of Sai’s involvement in this trip. So somewhere even virat is facing the unpleasant truth of how his promise has hindered pakhi from moving forward and also her obsession is slowly getting out of control in front of everyone. Today he may have stopped Sai and Ashwini from questioning pakhi’s intentions for the trip, but how long before the whole family comes to know of it. The same family will treat pakhi worse than Sai. They will never acknowledge their own hand in encouraging pakhi’s delusions. Then what? Where does that leave pakhi as a woman in this society, as a bahu in this family, and as a wife to his brother who became the collateral damage in all this...

I definitely don’t expect virat to be held responsible for pakhi’s doings. I don’t even want him to reason with her, because she clearly has crossed that stage of reasoning, least of all from virat. What I expect is for virat to at least acknowledge his own mistakes in all this, at least lose the pretense of ignorance, and at least acknowledge how his actions have made an innocent 18yo and his own brother’s life a living hell in all this...

Honestly I agree ..

Virat has to cut ties cleanly and start addressing her as Bhabhi and make it clear that he wants her to move on from their relationship

Or he has to clear with sai what he really wants from her ..why should she put up with such toxic behaviour ? What is she getting out of mad house. She is better off in hostel

First mistake was to make that silly promise

That way he spoilt his pp and Sam's life

To be honest to all these questions there is only one question I want to ask Pakhi. She says or it’s believe that she got married to complete stranger due to a promise Virat made to her. So my question is, if Samrat had not left to join the duty and was present would she still act like this? Where she tries to show her right on Virat? You don’t think Samrat would have an issue for his wife to claim a right on his cousin.

Honestly, Pakhi is character is one of those people who after break up wish that their partner only miss them and suffer while missing them. She can’t see Virat has moved on. It has nothing to do with Sai, it is all Virat. She just does not Virat to be happy without her.

Like the last episode, she kept claiming that Virat betrayed her. When even her father told her that it is very common sense that wife accompanies him on this trip. Like her father is more logical than Chavan members.

Originally posted by: Niroo

To be honest to all these questions there is only one question I want to ask Pakhi. She says or it’s believe that she got married to complete stranger due to a promise Virat made to her. So my question is, if Samrat had not left to join the duty and was present would she still act like this? Where she tries to show her right on Virat? You don’t think Samrat would have an issue for his wife to claim a right on his cousin.

Honestly, Pakhi is character is one of those people who after break up wish that their partner only miss them and suffer while missing them. She can’t see Virat has moved on. It has nothing to do with Sai, it is all Virat. She just does not Virat to be happy without her.

Like the last episode, she kept claiming that Virat betrayed her. When even her father told her that it is very common sense that wife accompanies him on this trip. Like her father is more logical than Chavan members.

Also Virat has never shown his true self to her so she is still in her delusional world.

actually sai and pakhi se bhi zyaada bura samrat ke saath hua hai.

what was she even thinking before marrying samrat? would she have consummated the marriage with samrat and have kids with him just to stay around virat??

marrying samrat was pakhi's fault which was not even logical according to me. i don't know why virat made her promise to marry samrat knowing she doesn't have any feelings for samrat. both pakhi and virat are responsible for samrat's MIA situation but not even 1% both are feeling guilty about what they did to him.

they are searching for samrat, virat's care for samrat is shown sometimes but did he ever thought about why he left his family all of sudden and what made him go MIA.

talking about pakhi she went back to her house and decided to continue her job, virat taunted sai saying 'tum tho kush hogi na ki pakhi chaligai' made her feel guilty when she did nothing, mooh latkaake ghoomna, he went to pakhi's house requesting her to come back, made calls and requested her to come back, without even thinking twice he made promise that no one not even sai will do her bezthi and made her come back. which was not at all needed, that was a good decision by pakhi to stay at her parents house and live life on her terms till samrat return back.

not only that even though pakhi said 100 time that he doesn't love samrat and even if he returns back she will not be happy as a wife and all he was forcing her to accept samrat and think of this as her destity not even thinking if samrat would accept her as his wife as he already knows that pakhi loves virat. and even virat knows this. he is still forcing her to be in this marriage which is not even a piece of healthy advice from so called 'bestfriend' a god friend would advice her to move on in life by divorcing samrat as she said she doesn't like him.

and unintentionally giving her wrong signals by letting her cross 'friendship' limits is another mistake.

even though what they did initially was wrong they got many opportunities to rectify those mistakes which they did make use of. so abhi 4 zindagiya insab mein ulajgayi. ab kiya hai tho bukto.

Originally posted by: Niroo

To be honest to all these questions there is only one question I want to ask Pakhi. She says or it’s believe that she got married to complete stranger due to a promise Virat made to her. So my question is, if Samrat had not left to join the duty and was present would she still act like this? Where she tries to show her right on Virat? You don’t think Samrat would have an issue for his wife to claim a right on his cousin.

Honestly, Pakhi is character is one of those people who after break up wish that their partner only miss them and suffer while missing them. She can’t see Virat has moved on. It has nothing to do with Sai, it is all Virat. She just does not Virat to be happy without her.

Like the last episode, she kept claiming that Virat betrayed her. When even her father told her that it is very common sense that wife accompanies him on this trip. Like her father is more logical than Chavan members.

Yes, I totally agree with you. I'm not saying Virat is not at fault. But, when Virat made the promise he was prepared to move on and forget her. He never even once called Pakhi. It was only Pakhi who used to call him for slightest thing. Who's responsible for Samrat leaving Chavan Niwas and then going missing? Who asked her to call Virat on the wedding night? Did Virat ask her to call? No. He didn't. Then, why was she still yearning for him? She had a choice to back off from the marriage. Her Father was ready to stand. But, she chose to marry Samrat. What did she think? I feel she planned to marry Samrat and have an illicit relationship with her Brother in law, but things went haywire and Virat ended up marrying Sai. And, her plan flopped. And, even after that she doesn't want to move on. There is a saying 'Where there's a will, there's a way '. But, our dear so called sanskari bahu doesn't wish to move on.

I agree with the fact that he is not clear with Pakhi. Pakhi still thinks she has a chance with him or as promised he will keep her in his heart forever. He needs to be firm and tell her that she has no place in his heart. If she can accept the friendship then they will stay friends. Apart that, Pakhi is responsible of her own misery. She was the one who agreed to marry Samrat even though she knew Samrat is Virat's brother. How can she think she can be married to someone and expect to be loved by someone else. Even her father knows she is living delusionallly.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

I agree with the fact that he is not clear with Pakhi. Pakhi still thinks she has a chance with him or as promised he will keep her in his heart forever. He needs to be firm and tell her that she has no place in his heart. If she can accept the friendship then they will stay friends. Apart that, Pakhi is responsible of her own misery. She was the one who agreed to marry Samrat even though she knew Samrat is Virat's brother. How can she think she can be married to someone and expect to be loved by someone else. Even her father knows she is living delusionallly.

i agree that pakhi is responsible for her own misery, so i never ever felt bad for her when she cried😆

and it is very unrealistic on how she thought by marring samrat she will stay like 'deewani' of devar without letting her husband know🤣

i mean hadh hoti hai, pakhi ke chahe koyi bhi reasons ho, samrat married her with an intention of spending his life with her, having kids and all. if he didnt here about his wife and devar's pyaar bhari baatein or if he decided to ruin her reputation by telling all this in front of all guests and family and breaking ties with her tho kya izzat reh jaati uski?

aaj ithne lambe lambe baatein kar rai hai, sanskaar, maturity and all if samrat didnt decide to sacrifice all this and leave tho virat and pakhi dono ki waat lagjaati.

aaj dono are not even guilty about what they did to samrat. and as they showed 2 episodes where virat cares for samrat everyone forgot the fact that aaj woh uss haalat mein virat and pakhi ke wajah se hi hai. lol, kuch bhi..

Originally posted by: Chandu_500

i agree that pakhi is responsible for her own misery, so i never ever felt bad for her when she cried😆

and it is very unrealistic on how she thought by marring samrat she will stay like 'deewani' of devar without letting her husband know🤣

i mean hadh hoti hai, pakhi ke chahe koyi bhi reasons ho, samrat married her with an intention of spending his life with her, having kids and all. if he didnt here about his wife and devar's pyaar bhari baatein or if he decided to ruin her reputation by telling all this in front of all guests and family and breaking ties with her tho kya izzat reh jaati uski?

aaj ithne lambe lambe baatein kar rai hai, sanskaar, maturity and all if samrat didnt decide to sacrifice all this and leave tho virat and pakhi dono ki waat lagjaati.

aaj dono are not even guilty about what they did to samrat. and as they showed 2 episodes where virat cares for samrat everyone forgot the fact that aaj woh uss haalat mein virat and pakhi ke wajah se hi hai. lol, kuch bhi..

Exactly. Virat knows that Samrat left because of him. A few times we saw him being sad as a brother but never saw his guilt for his disappearance. As someone who immensely loved his brother he should be feeling so guilty that he ruined his brother's life, consciously or unconsciously. It's not like Pakhi faked to feel bad for Samrat, she openly said he can die and it won't make any diffference then how can he still accept all the nonsense she says.

Originally posted by: MuguetDScorpion

Exactly. Virat knows that Samrat left because of him. A few times we saw him being sad as a brother but never saw his guilt for his disappearance. As someone who immensely loved his brother he should be feeling so guilty that he ruined his brother's life, consciously or unconsciously. It's not like Pakhi faked to feel bad for Samrat, she openly said he can die and it won't make any diffference then how can he still accept all the nonsense she says.

samrat hi na, even the person he claimed to love so much jiskeliye poori zindagi kawara rehne ka vaada kiya the 'great 2 days waala yoga love pakhi didi' ko he forgot her soooooooo easily.

like aaise chutki mein bhool gaya, he was all smiling and all even during his marriage reception and after marriage when people called pakhi as wife od samrat or anything he never felt bad. he was always smiling, only when she left home he felt bad and taunted sai, that was also not needed but dikhaya as its a serial and pakhi had to come back to show more drama in the show. uske alawa nothing from his side.

and when sai flirted with amey woh bhi fake waala wich he already knew, he did soo much Hungama, huge fight with biwi saying 'badon se ayise baat nay karte' but at last he only accepted that he did all that cuz he didnt like her flirting with amey🤣

all i can say is he is a confused soul at the same time to show more drama and to give more importance to pakhi they are showing as a dumb person also. as uske saamne hi pakhi did a lot that showed that she still feels for him but virat ignored all that and let her cross her limits and talk shit about his wife.